First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - James is getting ghosted by the woman of his dreams

Episode Date: September 6, 2023

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James is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's being ghosted by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. James is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's being ghosted by Jessica. So we're going to see if we can help him out, figure out why, and maybe get him another date in a second. But first, James, before we get into your dating stuff, how long has it been since you heard from Jessica? Oh, man, let's see. It's been like, geez, it's been like a week.

It's been maybe like a week and a half, two weeks. Two weeks, a week. There's a difference for sure. I think we're in ghosting territory. When was the last time you guys talked? Was it on your last date? Yeah. Last time we talked was actually after that date.

And she even said, she was like, oh, I might, she was going to like reach out to me and maybe plan the next date. But I'm not going to lie, you guys. I'm super disappointed because the date was awesome. What was so awesome about it? So we went out to dinner and I wanted to impress her. So I took her to this real swanky spot.

And I'm not going to lie, she was just as pretty as her pictures were. And I'm a classy to lie, she was like just as pretty as her pictures were. And I'm a classy fella. So, of course, I didn't like say nothing about that to her. But I think my favorite thing might be that she's like really career driven. And I love that. It turns me on when a woman is into her work.

Stop the dirty talk, James. I love that, too. You and me all worked up. I love that, too, because I do that. Okay, yeah, I feel you on that. So she's career-driven. You thought she was beautiful. And how was the interaction between you guys?

Date was really good. You know, we had dinner. We got to talk about our lives. You know, I let her know that I actually have three kids, which she didn't seem like she was too put off by and that's like a huge surprise normally like once i bring kids up people are like oh they're out you know but she actually did mention that she actually like wanted kids but she's you know because of her job and being so focused on her career she

hasn't been able to so kids weren't really an issue maybe she's excited you know, because of her job and being so focused on her career, she hasn't been able to. So kids weren't really an issue. Maybe she's excited about the idea that you had them. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah. She said that she wants to be able and she wants to have kids. So, you know, we both were like, the good thing, too, the more we talked, I realized she and I both were looking for something serious. I'm sick of fishing.

There's so many fish in the sea. I'm tired of it. I'll be honest. You know, I'm looking for someone that my kids can eventually call mom. Because as much as I want to find somebody, yeah, as much as I want to find somebody, my kids are the biggest factor when it comes to finding somebody good. Did you express that, that you're looking for somebody to call mom because that's also quite intense for a first date even if you are open to the idea of having children and you know the other question is did you mention if you

were willing to have any more if she wanted to have any of her own okay we didn't talk about having more but i'll be honest but somebody that's great hey there's always room you know what i mean yeah she said too she said that really one thing she wants is a sense of normalcy she's like her job is a lot of fly by the seat of her pants so she's really looking for someone to come home to and after that i was like oh i'm in deal You know, sign me up. I'm in. So she pretty much seemed to have everything you're looking for, but now she's ghosting you. Yeah. And here's the thing that killed me.

I walked into her car, end of the night, and she lightly kissed me on the cheek. And that's when she told me, she's like, oh, she texted me and, you know, maybe set up another date. And like I said, that was like, yeah, that was. It was a week and a half ago. And I only called once. I texted twice. I try my best to not do too much, but, you know, my heart is breaking over here. I'll be honest.

I think it was the kids' thing. Really? You know, because, yeah, I've been on a lot of dates, and that's normally what shuts people off. I mean, because people, you know, they skip town when you say you've got one, but I mean, I got three. And I hope that's not it. I hate it. You know, it sucks when, you know, great people get spooked by the fact that you got, you know, kids.

And we were sharing, like, war stories of past relationships but it seems it seems like gosh she's right where i would want her to be she's like she's amazing so i hope the kids thing didn't run off because i can't do nothing about that yeah all right well we'll see if we can figure it out we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you right after this, okay? Okay, thanks so much. All right, play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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Listen to the How to Do Everything podcast on iHeartRadio. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. We're in the middle of your first date follow-up. If you're just joining us, James is on the phone, and he's getting ghosted by the woman of his dreams. That sounded really insensitive the way I said it.

I didn't mean it like that, James. It was a sad story. Yeah. Wow. You know, I'm not going to lie. I'm tough enough. I'm tough enough they didn't bother me, but I'm a little bit. I didn't mean it like that, James. It was a sad story. Yeah. Wow. You know, I'm not going to lie. I'm tough enough. I'm tough enough that it didn't bother me, but I'm a little bit. I didn't mean it that way.

After I said it, I was like, man, that sounds really insensitive. But I hope that, you know, we're about to call her and ask her why she's ghosting you. And I hope she'll tell us. And I hope you still want another date after or can get another date. Okay, yeah. I hope so, too, man. She was incredible. Yeah. All right. Well, why don't you recap too, man. She was incredible. Yeah, all right.

Well, why don't you recap the date real quick before we give her a call so we'll catch everybody up. Yeah, yeah. So we went out to a real nice restaurant, told her that I got kids and she didn't seem too bothered by it, but dinner was great. We talked about old relationship stuff,

talked about what we want from life. Seems like we kind of want the same thing. Because she wants somebody to come home to. And I'm looking for a home. I'm looking for a house. You know, I'm trying to make a family. So, you know, the date went well. Gave me a kiss on the cheek.

And she said she'd reach back out to plan another date. But that was, like, what feels like forever ago. All right, cool. Well, we're about to call her right now. See if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and hopefully get you another date. You ready? Okay, thank you.

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jessica, please? Yes, this is she. Hey, Jessica, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Jessica, the whole show is here. Hi. Oh, hi. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Do you listen to the show at all? I actually do. I really love you guys.

You guys are great. Sweet. Well, then we really love you. So if you listen to the show, have you heard a first date follow-up before? Oh, yes, I have. All right. How would it feel to star in one? I mean, I have a feeling that I'm looking like the bad guy right now, but sure, let's do it.

Why not? Well, he said star in one, so that's actually a positive spin. Yeah. You sound really awesome from the description we got of you. That's great. That's wonderful. That's accurate. His name is James.

Oh. Oh. All right. You went out on a date with James, and you've been ghosting him, and he wants to know why. So could you tell us? Um, yes. I'm just trying to think of how I can phrase this for the radio, because I know you guys have rules.

Um, I just, I honestly didn't think that cavemen, like, that existed anymore. Cavemen? Damn. Yes. It was every sort of cliche of, like, a dude that you could think of. You know what I mean? Like, every cliche, whatever you're thinking of right now is correct. Okay.

Well, what does that mean exactly for you? All right. I mean, like, first off, he didn't put on his profile that he had kids. And like, you know, that wasn't a big deal. It's just a little red flaggy, you know? Right. Again, not a big deal. And then he started talking about how they were from three different women, all of whom he had cheated on.

Yes. Yes, everyone. He admitted it. Uh-huh. Okay. everyone he admitted it uh-huh okay he just uh like kept telling me that like you know even though he's the one who cheated all of his baby mamas his smoking hot baby mamas that i didn't seem like the kind of girl that he'd cheat on what oh yeah it's a compliment but also i mean does he get credit for just being so honest? Because, wow. Yeah, I mean, he's honest for sure.

Yeah. And that honestly sold me right there. I was in love. And, you know, I know that James is on the phone right now. And like, hi, James, I'm going to keep going on all of these caveman things. You know, he started talking about how he loved that. I was a career girl girl not even a career woman but a career girl and he wants to know you know as a career girl would i ever consider being a

stay-at-home mom to take care of his three kids from his three smoking hot baby mamas wait he asked you if you consider being a stay-at-home okay wow okay off, I can't believe you're acting like this. Like, yo, you gave me all the signals to try and kiss you. I mean, and of course, you look great. You dress great. And no, I did not look at your boobs the entire time. That's crazy. He absolutely did.

I dressed to impress. I made sure, you know, that I was going on a first date. And, like, yes, he was looking at my, am I allowed to say my bazooms or whatever on the radio? He looked at them the entire time. The entire time. And he just kind of dressed like a schlub. Like, I'm glad. I think his shirt, you know, was washed.

And it looked like he pulled out his nicer zip-up hoodie. Like, there wasn't any, like, you know, designs on it or whatever. Solid colors, but still bro. Oh my God. I can't believe it. You know what? I see,

you know, no, I see what it is. You know what? It was the kid thing. And she just come up with excuses. She ain't ready to, she's not ready to commit to a real adult relationship.

That's, that's what it is. I'm not, this is so freaking commit to a real adult relationship. That's what it is. I'm not. This is so freaking goofy. A real adult. If you just pause for a second. This real adult over here who's throwing words. He asked if we could go have fun in the restroom on our first date.

Wait, what? Yeah. So this real adult over here. Oh, my God. Yo, I don't even know why you bring that up That's got nothing to do with any of this Yo man, f*** this, I'm out of here I mean, but it did though

Oh damn, hello I'm not surprised And like, the crazy thing is There's still so much more to this horrible date Damn, wow He just didn't even take it He actually suggested that you guys go to the bathroom and mess around. He did.

No wonder he's got three kids. And that was pretty early on. Somebody had to say yes. Three people did at least. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney. Online at advocateslaw.com. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric.

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