First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jason & Alisha - Chat Queen

Episode Date: December 10, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Alicia is on the phone today for our first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason. So in a little bit, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Alicia, how long has it been since you heard from Jason? Hi, guys. It's been like

two weeks. Have you tried to reach out to him? I've tried like once or twice. I don't want to seem crazy or anything. But yeah, I've tried a little and just nothing in response. Well, why don't you tell us about the date and how you guys met? Yeah. So we met on Hinge, you know, as most people do these days.

We chatted for a good minute. Like, it was back and forth for like a couple of weeks, actually. He suggested we do like a traditional date, just dinner, which he paid for. It was very nice. We didn't get drinks afterwards. We just sort of went our separate ways. So, I don't know. I felt like it was really positive.

We did kiss, just a little bit. Very small, very nice um and he texted to make sure i got home which felt like a positive sign um and yeah that was the last thing i heard from him so what was going on during like the dinner like what were you guys talking about did you feel like you guys were flirtatious because i mean to be honest it sounds a little bit dry from you know just that was that I mean maybe I mean for both of you even not just him you know I mean I thought in the conversation like I don't want to be again I don't want to sound crazy but I thought this guy was really perfect he really checked all of my boxes um and he was so he was so flirty over like the hinge

messages and everything and when we were texting he was so flirty over like the hinge messages and everything. And when we were texting, he was super flirty and I was really excited. So maybe that's why I'm sort of downplaying it now because my ego is a little bit hurt. He was just so sweet and I felt like the conversation was good. I mean, obviously now I'm replaying it and I have like a million like, oh my God, what did I do wrong? But yeah, I'm just kind of shocked that he hasn't, I wonder if he felt the same way. How did the kiss happen? Oh, it was sweet.

He like walked me to my car and we were just having a nice little conversation about something completely unrelated. And then he was like, can I kiss you? Which also we love consent. Love that he asked. Yes, we do. Yes, we do.

Also like a really, like a green flag. Like I thought that was a really like mature, like grown man kind of thing we do. Also, like, a really, like, a green flag. Like, I thought that was a really, like, mature, like, grown man kind of thing to do. So, yeah, another positive little moment from the date. Okay. Is there anything you can think of that, like, an awkward moment or something like that that could have happened? I mean, I don't, like I said, my ego is just probably a little bit bruised by this. So, I'm automatically looking at myself in the mirror being like, am I not cute enough for this guy? Or honestly, I'm like, did my breath stink a little?

Did I eat something stinky at dinner? Because it was like, it wasn't a quick kiss. It wasn't like prolonged and drawn out. So I thought, oh, God, what if my mouth is stinky for some reason? She could have been more passionate, probably. I don't know or like we talked about work that was a good thing he's got like a really great stable job in finance and i'm a server right now i mean i do a lot of things but i'm a server is sort of my main source of income

um and i wonder if maybe that was off-putting to him i'm not sure did he say anything when you told him that no he, he wasn't, like, overtly, like, judgmental or anything. I mean, I mostly consider myself a creative. Like, I have a multi-hyphenate. Like, I have a lot of things that I do, so it's, you know, I think I sell myself pretty well in that regard, and hopefully he wasn't,

like, off-put by it. He seemed, like, supportive of it. He was like, oh, that's great. Like, he seemed like that was admirable for me to be, you know, juggling so many things at once and then being a server, he was off but he didn't he didn't really let on you know maybe it was more like intimidation than a negative thing you know maybe it's just like wow she's creative and can do so many things i don't i'm so linear and whatever i don't know if he is i don't really know what he does but i don't know yeah i mean i i definitely asked him a lot of questions about it like i think think, you know, whatever,

everybody's job is interesting. I like people are passionate about, but then I'm also like, did I ask too many questions? You know what I mean? Like, was I, you know,

like police interrogation. Well, let's see if we can figure it out for you so you can get out of your head on the whole thing. I get it though. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if it tells why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date.

Okay. Okay guys. Thanks. All right. We'll play a song. Come back. Get your first and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, OK? OK, guys. Thanks. All right. We'll play a song. Come back. Get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr. and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of your first day of follow-up, if you're just joining us, Alicia is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.

So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and hopefully get her another date if she wants one. But first, Alicia, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Yeah, so I went out with this guy, Jason. We met on Hinge. We talked for a little bit before. I haven't heard from him in two weeks, and I am totally spiraling about it. We did kiss on the date, but it was brief, and I wonder if my breath was stinky or if I was annoying on the date. That's a recap.

Okay. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yes, please. All right. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jason, please? Yeah, this is me.

Hey, Jason, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Jason. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Yeah.

No, no, I know you guys. Oh, you do? Why are you calling me? Sweet. We're calling you because somebody emailed us about you. Okay. So I don't know if you know the segment we do, the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Okay. So is there anybody that you can think of that you're ghosting? I mean, not really. I don't know. I mean, like, you know, online dating, it's like you have, like, seven conversations going, you know, and it's, like, kind of hard to remember sometimes, like, who. Is it somebody you actually went on a date with? Yeah, I mean, you know, it's so rare that, like, you actually meet somebody on the apps that, like,

is actually worth going out with. So I don't always, like, get out on a date with somebody. So, like, yeah, I haven't really been on a lot of dates through him. There's probably, like, one, like, lately that I can remember. Okay. What was her name? Yeah, no, it was Alicia. Yes.

Yeah. You got it correct. That is it. That's who emailed us. She wants to know why you're ghosting her. She says she tried to reach out to you a few times. Yeah. I mean, I don't know. You know,

sometimes people are like really really good at like communicating in one style and then not so good in another one. You know, like, alright. She's kind of a chat queen. You know what I mean? A chat queen? She's great at chatting on the app right and like the conversation was super flirty and like you know it was like we were both like you know never like leaving each other on red like there was a lot of just quick quick back and forth and it was going really good and um

i don't know like i mean i feel like the maybe that set things up a little, like the bar a little bit too high. Cause then like when we got in person, it wasn't as fun. But I mean, and that was okay. But like the real deal breaker was like, she said she wanted a baby and I am like, so not ready for that. On a first date? Yeah. No.

So we're sitting across from each other in the booth in the restaurant and she, points over my shoulder, and she goes, I want one of those so bad. And I turn over my shoulder, and there is this mom with a toddler. She's like, you know, kind of chewing in its face, and I'm just like, ah, dude. I mean, I feel like that's a little bit much on a first date. I think it's actually like, I want one of those so bad. Put one in me right now. Whoa. I mean, not saying put one in me right now,

but I think it is important to have that conversation early on a date because that way you save each other time. If you're a hard no and she's a hard yes, like why even bother having a second date? This ghosting makes sense then. Yeah. I mean, so like I was totally going to take her back to my place, but like after like that happened, like I don't want to take her back to my place, but after that

happened, I don't want to risk becoming a father right now. Sorry. Hi, Jason. Hi, it's Alicia. Can I butt in and say something? I think you just did. I need to clarify something. Alicia is on the phone listening

and wants to talk to you if you haven't figured that out yet. Yeah, of course she is. Okay. Okay. Hi. Hello. Hope you're doing well. Good to talk to you if you haven't figured that out yet. Yeah. Of course she did. Okay. Okay, hi, hello. Hope you're doing well. Good to hear from you. Oh my gosh. What are you talking about?

I definitely do not want a baby. I did not mention that I wanted a baby on this date. I'm like crazy. You pointed over my shoulder and said, I want one of those so bad. And there was like a mom with her toddler sitting right behind us. Um, no, I was pointing at the drink on somebody's table. I definitely don't want a baby.

Wouldn't be weird if you did, but okay. Are you serious? It wasn't, it wasn't the mom and the coming baby behind us no it was the drink that was at the table from your ass i'm so embarrassed that you thought i was talking about that on a first date i mean i i turned around and all i saw was mom and baby and like my like my stomach dropped. You're kidding me, right? It was a cocktail. Are you sure you don't want a baby? Because, you know, you see what you want to see and say what you want to say.

Oh, man. I definitely maybe was a little quiet on the first date. Sometimes I get nervous on first dates, but I definitely would not have pointed at a child and said, I want a baby. Okay. Well, good. Now that we got that figured out,

Jason, would you like another date with Alicia? We'll pay for it. Yeah. I mean, everything was pretty solid until that moment. And now that I know that I completely missed that one. Yeah. Yeah yeah that sounds great

at least I am so sorry I didn't ask what you were talking about yeah if you're down I would love to take you out again that is completely okay and I would love

to go out with you again. Thanks for the second chance. And to be fair, I think you also mentioned something about taking me home that night because I was listening to everything you said. So maybe we can make that happen too. Oh, great.

Now that I know where you stand on babies. Oh my gosh. Jubal's First date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,

to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast.

Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, you guys. I'm Katherine Legg. I'm a racing driver who's literally driven everything with four wheels across the planet. And I've got a new podcast. It's called Throttle Therapy. This season, I'm competing in some of the world's most notorious racing events. Tune into my new podcast, Throttle Therapy, with Catherine Legg,

an iHeart women's sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, and to welcome the new year, my podcast, The Happiness Lab, is releasing a series of happiness how-to guides to help you in 2025. I'll distill the wisdom of world-class experts into easy-to-digest, actionable tips. Struggling with tough emotions? We have a how-to guide. Worried that you're not enough? We got you. Self-obsessed and want to get over yourself? There's a guide for that, too. The Happiness Labs How-To Season starts January 1st. Listen on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your

pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How To Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.