First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jason & Michelle - A French Ghosting

Episode Date: March 22, 2024

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And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Jason is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. He's not getting a call back from Michelle. Jason, thanks for agreeing to do the first

date follow-up. Before we ask you about your date and stuff, how long has it been since you heard from Michelle? It has been about two weeks. And how many times have you tried to get a hold of her in that two weeks? Maybe three times a week. So you must really like her or really be interested in her. I do, and I am. Yeah, yeah, she was cool. We had the best date, man. I just really dug her. I thought we had a great time.

A lot of smiles and laughs and a little kissing. It was great. I don't know. I understand what happened. Tell us about the date, though. Okay, well, first of all, we met on Hinge, which is, so far, I think, the best one of these things. We both realized we really love food, and we love traveling, and so I thought it might

be kind of fun to do a French cooking class. Oh, I love that. That's a cool idea. Right? Isn't that great? Yeah. I thought that was a really cool idea. That's a good idea. Right? Isn't that great? Yeah. I thought that was a really cool idea. That's a good idea.

And it was kind of, you know, a little romantic for the first date, but just fun, really fun. Yeah. As I said, food and travel, and I thought that encompassed both. So we just had the best time, man. I mean, she's always dreamed of going to Paris, and, you know, I didn't get far enough to say I'll take you there. But, you know, maybe if things work out, I would love to take her there. You know, we were hitting it off all night long. We were feeding each other, you know, practicing our French.

We, you know, there was a lot of flirting, I thought. And, you know, we even, like, snuck a few kisses in there during the class. You know, she did keep getting stuff on the side of her mouth. And I kept wiping it off. So I don't know if that bothered her. Was that a little too pushy? I mean, maybe that was kept wiping it off so I don't know that bothers a little too pretty I mean I maybe that was a little too much I don't know I walked her home and we kissed a bit as I mentioned and you know I could kind of tell I don't want to jump to make which kind of wanted me to come

come up to her place but yeah I really I really like her man and I just don't want her to think I was some dog and just said, well, I'm going to be a gentleman. And maybe we waited a day or two before we went that far. That's cool. Maybe I was an idiot. I don't know. Maybe I was a little too pushy with the wiping the face thing.

That's the only thing I could think of. My thought of anything else was really cool. The wiping the face thing sounds like with what was going on, it was okay, right? Well, you know, I'm just searching for something that went wrong because, you know, she's not getting back to me and that's like the only thing I can think of. Otherwise, it was a perfect

date and I was a perfect gentleman, of course. Was it the kissing? I mean, you said there was a lot of kissing, so if you're not good at kissing, was it French kissing? Well, to stay in the theme of the evening, there was a lot of kissing. So if you're not good at kissing, was it French kissing? It was, well, to stay in the theme of the evening, there was a little French kissing.

I don't want to, I'm an excellent kisser. What are you talking about? I'm just, I don't know. I don't know. I mean, maybe,

I don't know. I mean, you know, if he teaches, oh, maybe that was it. What was the last thing she said to you? It was just like,

it was so really fun. And she like, she said, au revoir. We kind of did some fake French talking at the very end. I mean, I said, let's do this again. And she was like, yeah, that'd be great. Not that I didn't mean the French cooking class, but just, you know, she seemed like she wanted to get together again.

And I said, I'd let her, you know, I'll definitely be in touch. I really enjoyed our time together. And then, so I followed up on that and crickets on the other end. You said you were French kissing. Were you all French kissing during the class? Like while the class was going on? No, no. I'm sorry. I had to ask. Just getting a visual.

No, yeah. That'd be a little much I think. At the end of the evening it became a little you know. But no, the other one was just kind of the end of the evening it became a little you know but no the other one just kind of pecks on the cheek maybe a little quick ones on the lips but nothing it sounds like you had a great it sounds like a great date maybe you're doing all that maybe she really lost her phone or something i thought oh maybe maybe that's what happened i don't know

maybe all right because you know what you know what to be honest is one of the best dates i've had in a long long time and she's one of the one of the best dates I've had in a long, long time. She's one of the coolest gals I've hung out with in a long time. I really dig her. Sweet. Well, let's see if we can get you another date then.

What do you think? That'd be great. Thanks. Let's do it. Oui, oui. Oui, oui. All right. We'll play a song,

come back, and then call her and see if we can figure out why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. All right. Please do that. It's the Judo Show.

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Jason, before we make our phone call to her to try to find out why you're getting ghosted why don't you give everybody a real quick refresher on your date uh well we went to a french cooking class had a great time made some delicious food just a little bit just had a wonderful time um and uh walked her home we kissed a little bit there and uh i didn't go up because i just thought it'd be uh i'd be a gentleman so i don't know that, like, maybe she felt rejected from that. I just thought of that. Oh, maybe you guys are making out a bunch, right? And I'm afraid maybe I have a terrible kisser. I don't know.

I'm going to call her right now, okay? And then we'll see if we can find out why she's ghosting and then maybe get you another date. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Michelle, please? Speaking. Hello, Michelle. How are you?

This is Jubal from the radio show, The Jubal Show. Yeah, hi, Michelle. My name's Nina. I'm here, too. Hi, I'm Victoria. I'm also here. Hi, what's up? You ever listen to this show at all?

Yeah, I do, actually. Oh, sweet. Oh, cool. Thank you. Thank you very much. So, why are you calling? Michelle, we're calling because I'm guessing you might have heard of this segment the first day it followed up then. Yes. Yes.

Okay, so we got an email about you from somebody that you went on a date with and now you're ghosting them. Oh, my gosh. Who was it? You don't know who it was? Yeah, you want to throw out a guess well i mean i did just go out with this guy named jason i hope it's not him well sometimes hope doesn't come through for you does it oh my god it's jason yes jason emailed us told us about your date said he really liked you and is wondering why you're not calling him back oh oh my god well the reason why i'm not calling him back is because um you know like the date was great and all uh we had a really good time uh the french food was amazing and you know it was

good chemistry everything was good but i ended up like going to work the next day and I told one of my coworkers that I'm really close with about my date and I was showing her pictures and stuff and taking pictures of the food, took some pictures with him. And she was like, oh, I went on a date with him last week. Oh. Oh. Yeah. I didn't see that one coming. so what happened does he still talk to your

co-worker i don't know like after she told me i kind of felt uncomfortable about talking about it with her so i kind of just like was like okay let's just not talk about this i don't know i feel weird about going on another date with him because he went out with my good friend and my coworker and we see each other every day. I just feel weird. And I also feel weird about talking about it with her because she really liked him too. So I don't want to turn into like a competition thing. I totally get girl code. I mean, you know, friends before all of that stuff. But in a case like this, I feel like if they only went on, I mean, I don't even know if they're dating still. If that's the case, we would need to know.

But if not, and you do like each other, why would you not at least go for it? I'm sure your friend would understand that. Yeah, I know. But I just feel kind of weird. Like, I kind of feel like I was like a second choice. So was he continuing to date your friend or? Well, they went on a date like a week before our date. Okay.

And that was their first date? That was their second date. Okay. Okay. It's just weird because we see each other every day. We work together. It seems a little too close to home.

So, yeah. I feel like I need to hear from him, though. We should hear from him. Oh, shoot. Yes. He's on the other line. He's been listening this whole time. Jason? Hi, Michelle.

Sorry, first of all, sorry for doing this. It's too weird with the radio thing, but I was just really bummed. You weren't getting back to me. And, uh, I was desperate, I guess. So I called the email and, uh, so, but listen, I hear what you're saying and actually we didn't go on two dates. I don't know what she's telling you. I mean, the first date, if you want to call it that we just had a coffee and it was very very you know very short moment then we decided to go out but and that was it i mean she's nice and everything but i i'm not into her like i mean i just i just loved hanging out with you. So you guys are not seeing each other at all?

Oh, no, no. I mean, that was the last time I saw her. And you're right, we did go bowling. And I was really bad. It was kind of embarrassing. But yeah, no, that was it. I haven't seen her again. She hasn't had the chance to ghost me

because I haven't texted her back or written back, called back yet. Michelle, I feel like this should make you feel better that, you know, it's not like he's out here playing the field and juggling two people. I think the decision really comes down to you, though. It's like, what's your relationship like with this co-worker friend? Like, do you want to rock the boat if she's really going to make a big deal about it? I just feel like as adults at this point in our lives, we have to understand that, you know, some things don't work out, but if it works out for somebody you care about,

you should support that. It's not like you were second choice. If there was no co-worker, nothing else was going on, would you go on a second date with Jason? Well, yeah, of course. I mean, the date was great. That was pretty much the only thing holding me back from going on a second date with him.

Jubal, how did you handle it when one of the girls found out you went out with her friends before? Because you know it happens. Yeah, it has happened. Well, there's been times where that's been a problem because I was like still dating one of them. Okay, maybe this was the wrong person to ask. So that was technically what would be called, I guess, cheating. But anyway, they didn't like that. The other times I just kind of laughed at it.

Right. I was just like, yeah, that's weird. But did any of them end up going out with you anyway? Is the question. No. OK. Like for a short time. I'm sorry.

For a short time. Really bad example. Yeah. I don't have really good examples. Thanks for that. The times that that happened. There was one time where she did go out with me for good examples of that. Thanks for that. The times that that happened, there was one time where she did go out with me for a little while after.

Oh. And... Is she still friends with the friend? Yeah, they stayed friends. Okay. And they would joke about stuff. And Michelle, yours never really went that far for either of you, so it's not like there's too much that she knows that you won't know. Yeah, you guys aren't like full-fledged Eskimo sisters. Right, thank you.

Michelle, would you like to go out with Jason again on another date? We'll pay for it. Oh, yes. I'll go on another date. Oh, sweet. Can we go to Paris on the next date? Oh, good. Are you guys paying for it?

No, we will not pay for that. Oh, right, I'm sorry. If we do, you'll be on Spirit Airlines, and nobody wants to fly to Paris on Spirit Airlines. I will fly Spirit Airlines. That's great, Michelle. I'm happy to hear that. Oh, yay.

I'm looking forward to it. Oh, I'm so glad. Me too. Okay. Well, we're looking forward to it too. We'll see you guys on the date. Oh, wait. We're not coming with you.

We're not? No. Good. Can we come with you guys? No. No. Okay. No. Good. Can we come with you guys? No. No. Okay. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. John Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend John Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast,

where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.