First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jayden & Trish - A Sloppy First Date and a Scratched Rim
Episode Date: August 15, 2025When Jayden called The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up about being ghosted by Trish, he thought it might be over an unpaid dinner bill. But as the truth unraveled, the real reason turned out t...o be far messier—literally. Between too many shots, unexpected valet duties, and a mysterious scratch on a luxury car, this date had all the makings of a disaster. Yet somehow, it still ended with an unexpected twist. Listen to find out how a boozy night and a dented rim led to one of the most awkward—and hilarious—second date setups ever. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Jaden is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Trish.
So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
but first, Jaden, how long has it been since you heard from Trish?
Oh, man, it's been over four days now, so.
Oh, are you sure she's ghosting you?
Yeah, you know, I can kind of give you the whole rundown, but like, for sure,
because we were talking a lot.
I mean, doing a lot of texting, voice recording, and now it just went from every, you know,
hour or so to nothing, four days.
So, change.
And we went on a date, and that's kind of where, after that date, that's where I have not heard anything from her.
Well, what happened on the date?
Well, you know, so I went to this place called, you know, that place that's kind of like a boozy bar.
It's got a ton of TVs, and it's kind of, it's slick, you know, it's got those, like, wagoos sliders.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, I mean, it's super fun.
It's loud.
And, you know, it's kind of one of those places where you could hang and, you know, kind of,
kind of vibe and um i think we were really vibe in there i mean she was
flashing of my jokes i mean my corny you know kind of daddy jokes and i'm really locked in
not dad jokes daddy jokes i love that jaded yeah i mean i was like feeding her drinks and i was
giving her like proper whiskey chews and you know we were like definitely like making eye
contact and she was impressed i could tell and there was definitely sparks there it's just
i just didn't feel like a job interview you know i've been in so many dates that just feel like
here's my resume this is who i am but this looks like we were viking so i had a good time but i
got to admit that i i kind of overindulged a little i mean uh i think i forgot to pay the bill
but I mean I checked my card statement and there was nothing there
oh yeah so I feel bad
I feel like I maybe she thinks I'm a cheap skate or something
but um because it was so good and cool before that
and I don't know I even asked her to come you know
in for a little bit afterwards for a nightcap and a little back scratches
like not in a creepy way
okay what did she say to that
I mean, I don't know.
I think me, I thought we were vibing.
Did she go in for back scratches or no?
I mean, it was really quick.
She came and said good night and she left real fast.
And I've texted her a couple times since, and then there was nothing.
I mean, I know I had a few drinks and I was kind of maybe a little bit looser than I normally am,
but we had a good time.
And so I don't know, maybe there was just something about that bill that maybe I still haven't.
figured it all out yet.
Okay.
Okay.
Well, we'll try to figure it out for you then.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting you and maybe get you a second date if you still want one, okay?
Yeah, please.
I really want to know.
Okay.
We'll get your first date follow up right after this.
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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up,
Jaden is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Trish,
so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date.
But first, Jaden, why don't you recap your date for us real quick?
Yes, I've been talking to Trish for a couple weeks,
and, you know, we went out to get some drinks and some food at a nice, swanky place.
We had a great time, but I had maybe a little bit too much to drink,
and I didn't know exactly who paid the bill, because I looked on my account,
I don't know where it is, I don't see that bill, and I did ask her to come in for a little
bit, and she kind of bailed.
I'm just totally getting ghosted.
I haven't heard a thing in four days.
Well, you ready for us to call her?
Please do.
Here we go.
Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Trish, please?
Yeah, this is Trish.
Hey, Trish, how are you?
This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubel Show.
Hi, I'm Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
And my name's Jubel.
What's up?
Hi. Hi.
Hi.
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Yeah, no.
Oh.
Okay, all right.
Hey, well, check it out sometime, Trish.
We'd love to have you to see what you think of it.
But we're calling you today because one of our listeners,
somebody who does know the show,
actually sent us an email about you and wanted us to call you.
They did. Why?
Well, we do a segment on our show.
It's called the first date follow-up.
That is, if you go out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them,
the person you're ghosting can email us and ask us to get you on the phone
and ask why you're ghosting.
So we're calling you about someone that you are,
currently not talking to.
So who are you ghost in?
Okay.
Oh my God.
All right.
I already know.
Like,
this has to be about Jaden.
Yes.
It is, Trish.
We talked to Jaden.
He told us all about your date.
He said he really likes you,
but he can't figure out why you're not getting back to him.
And wondering if you have a moment to tell us.
Uh, okay.
Um, yeah.
I mean,
that's fine.
I just,
uh,
sorry this is awkward um i mean i guess okay he was really like plastered on our date did he mention
that at all he said he overindulged a little bit he just didn't think he was that yeah was he that drunk
oh guys he was like white girl wasted like i had to drive his car home i had to drive him home
that night.
Oh, wow.
How'd you get home?
Oh, I had to call for a ride at his place waiting while he's just like so sloppy.
And actually, he had the nerve to like invite me in for, what did he say?
He was like a nightcap and like back scratches, which I mean, that's like he told us that.
He told us about the back scratches.
He thought that might be a little weird.
We were wondering if you got the back scratches.
No, I did not partake.
I, like, honestly, he wasn't a good guy, though.
Like, I really liked him at first.
Like, I just thought we had some good banter.
Like, he was really cute and confident, and he took me to a really nice place.
We were having a really good time.
And, like, he was funny.
Like, he even asked the waiter for a tequila pairing to, like, go with our, like, loaded pots,
which was pretty funny.
But, like, honestly, he just kept going, like, somewhere around shot four.
like he just started to spiral like I mean sloppy loud like he gave winking at me
like not a good wink like a drunk wink oh no okay I know and I was like not getting drunk like that
so really he like was doing laughs by me and I mean I told him like get some more food or maybe
some water or just something and he was just like nah I'm good let's do you
one more and then he like forgot he even said that so I mean honestly he he had like a really fancy
car I felt uncomfortable driving it but I just tried to take him home park it and I like
went inside just quickly just waiting for my ride but like he never took water or anything
so I mean honestly the night just was a bus like I've had better nights with my weighted blanket
Well, thank you for telling us why, Trish.
I will also let you know that Jaden is on the phone and just heard all of that and wants to talk to you.
Oh, Trish.
I mean, that's why you ghosted me because I had a couple too many shots.
I really thought this was about the bill.
The bell?
No, like nothing's wrong with the bell.
I mean, you paid the bell and thank you.
I mean, you took out that metal card.
You just wouldn't, like, not stop showing off and talking about.
And you even actually, you bought a round for the table next to us.
Oh, wow.
And remember you came out like, put it on the miles.
I did.
Oh, man.
Okay.
Yeah.
That's on me.
Maybe I was a little bit too drunk.
But, I mean, I kind of
You got to admit it was kind of like charming drunk, right?
It wasn't like embarrassing.
Oh, dude, you like slurred the words, wag you sliders?
You kept saying wag you sliders.
You tried to high-fite the server when she brought the ketchup.
Like, it was a lot.
Oh, man, Dayton, you sound hilarious.
Trish, I mean, we did have a thing, right?
Like, can we just start over?
Like, a new night, a new vibe.
I promise, like two drinks, that's it.
No shots.
Honestly, no shots.
And maybe this time we'll just get dessert.
Trish, would you like to go out with Jane again?
We'll pay for it.
I mean, Stephen, like, it was messy.
What if I told you that you scratched my rims when you parked my car,
and I didn't even say anything because I don't like you that much?
Wait, did I?
Seriously?
You did. I mean, there's only one side, the left side, like near the curve that you were driving.
Right side's still pristine, so I'm not mad about it.
Oh, I mean, I really, like, I apologize for that.
Like, I was, like, honestly trying to get out of there.
I never drove a car like that, so, like, I didn't, like, really know at the time.
Okay, well, I mean, can you make it up to me by giving you?
What do you think, Tray?
Make it up to them, you know, that way you don't have to pay for the rim at all, you know.
Yeah, start over.
Thousands of dollars could save you some money.
Go to dinner again, put on the miles.
I feel like I'm being, you know, like blackmailed into this space, but, like, honestly, he is funny.
And, I mean, I did really think that we did get along and have great chemistry before, like, the tequila got out of control.
But, like, I do feel really bad about scratching the rims.
but like I mean don't worry about it
does not make it about the rims
just kind of say yes because you know
that we might have something fun
he likes some trash
wow
I mean okay yeah let's do it
really yeah
yeah sure I mean but if you can wait to it again
like seriously I'm going to key the car
forget the rim
Jeeble's first date follow-up.
Have you ever looked at a piece of abstract art or music or poetry and thought,
that's just a bunch of pretentious nonsense?
That's exactly what two bored Australian soldiers set out to prove during World War II
when they tricked the literary world with their intentionally bad poetry,
setting off a major scandal.
We break down the truth, the lies, and the poetry in between on hoax,
a new podcast hosted by me, Lizzie Logan, and me, Dana Schwartz.
Every episode, Hoax explores an audacious fraud or ruse from history.
Listen to Hoax on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hey, guys, it's AZ Fudd.
You may know me as a gold medalist.
You may know me as an NCAA national champion.
You may even know me as the People's Princess.
Every week on my new podcast, Fud around and find out.
I'll be talking to some special guests about pop culture, basketball,
and what it's like to be a professional athlete on and off the court.
Listen to Fun Around and Find Out, a production of IHart women's sports
in partnership with unanimous media on the IHart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Hey everyone, it's me, Katie Couric.
Did you know that I recently joined Substack?
Very exciting.
It's where I'll be sharing my unfiltered conversations with the people everyone's talking about.
I'll also tell you what I'm reading, what I'm watching, what's making me crazy, and what's giving me hope.
If you like deep dives, hot takes, and real talk, you're in the right place.
Search Katie Couric on Substack and hit subscribe.
I'll be there reporting live, most likely, in my pajamas.
See you there.
Welcome to Pretty Private with Ebeney, the podcast where silence is broken and stories are set free.
I'm Ebeney, and every Tuesday I'll be sharing all new anonymous stories that would challenge your perceptions and give you new insight on the stories.
the people around you.
Every Tuesday, make sure you listen to Pretty Private from the Black Effect Podcast Network.
Tune in on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
This is an IHeart podcast.