First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jenna is getting ghosted by Pete or Steve? Which is it?

Episode Date: October 4, 2023

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Pete. And we're going to help her find out why in just a second. But first, Jenna, how long has it been since you heard from Pete? It's been a week or so, I'd say. And how many times have you reached out to him? I reached out a few times. I haven't heard anything. You know, we had a great first date. We met at a sports bar. I met him on Hinge.

And then we found out that we have some mutual friends. And, you know, they were like, yeah, you guys definitely need to hang out. So, so you met him on hinge and then you found out you had mutual friends and then you told your friends and they were like, yeah, you guys would be a good fit.

Yeah. Okay. So tell us about the date. So we went to a sports bar. Um, you know, our mutual friends both said that we're laid back. So we both decided to just go to a sports bar, get some wings and some beers.

And, you know, he was such a gentleman the whole time. He opened the door for me and he even let out my chair. That's never happened before and i just don't know he's super hot he's like a 10 out of 10 a gentleman and super good looking so i'm really into him how was the personality great personality i mean his mannerisms were a one you know the thing is I noticed he was using a napkin when eating the wings and the only thing I can think about why he ghosted me was maybe I was like licking my fingers when I was eating my wings that might have grossed him rather than using a

napkin or like washing them yeah he was like using a napkin he was really like prim and proper I don't want him to think like I'm this gross girl he's the weird one in my opinion you're supposed to lick your fingers after you eat wings right right yeah he's just down nabby right I mean

give me some tea with that wing that's the only thing you can think of is maybe he thought that you were a barbarian because you were licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a classy lad that's the only thing i can think about so what was your last interaction like i texted him to let him know like what a great date and he just never responded i, the end of the day, it was great, you know. Did you, like, kiss or anything? We did.

We had a little small. It wasn't, like, you know, tonguing down. Sure. But the conversation was really well. I mean, he talked about his grandparents and how he admired their relationship. And we talked about music. We have a lot of um artists that we like some of the same artists and music compatibility is really important on a date right i mean it was pretty

light laid back i mean what really got me is that he was just such a gentleman i've never had that before okay never and he completely ghosted me okay we'll see if we can figure it out that he was just such a gentleman. I've never had that before. Okay. Never. And he completely ghosted me. Okay, well, let's see if we can figure it out. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and then ask him why he's ghosting you and see if he tells us and then maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay? Okay.

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Before we do that though, Jenna, why don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete? My time with Pete was incredible. He's an awesome guy. He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's really good looking and I just don't know what happened. I text him and never heard anything back from him. We just have so much in common. Common friends, common music. I mean... Except for he's a napkin user, you know. Yeah.

Except for he's a napkin user, right? So I think that that was the issue. If I had to assume I was licking my fingers when I was eating my chicken wing, he was using the napkin. I mean, the only weird thing about that would have been if you would have grabbed his napkin and then licked the napkin clean as well. That would have been weird. But the fingers I don't see, that is a weird thing.

All right, we're about to call him. You ready? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Pete, please? Yeah, yeah, this is Pete. Hey, Pete, how are you?

My name is Jubal. I host a radio show, and it's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, hi, Pete. The show is here as well. My name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. How's it going? Yeah, I mean, it's going okay.

What's going on? Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, no, I've listened to the show and I mean, did I win something? I mean, that would be great. Maybe you could have won something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay. I'm not sure if you've heard a first date follow up before, but that's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you get ghosted, you can email us to get that person on the phone and ask why you're getting ghosted. So you are currently ghosting somebody and they want to know why. Oh, okay. Who am I ghosting? You don't know who you're ghosting?

Have you gone on any dates and just stopped talking to somebody recently? Oh, you guys are talking about Jenna, aren't you? Yes. So, yeah, no, Jenna, I mean, don't get me wrong. I had a lot of fun on the date. You know, I thought we, you know, shared a bunch of mutual interests, and she seemed very engaged and everything. But I don't know. Um, but I, I don't know what happened,

but a couple drinks in and she starts calling me Steve. And I understand that, you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same. Definitely have, you know, certain consonants at play here. So I, I don't know why. And I kind of, I was trying to like write it off, you know certain consonants at play here so i i don't know why and i kind of i was trying to like write it off you know but uh yeah no she she kept calling me steve uh and it

was it was a turnoff it kind of it seemed disrespectful i don't know if she has a thing for a guy named steve still hung up on somebody i don know. Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve? Did you correct her? Did you ask who Steve was? At first, she was like slurring her words a little bit. And don't get me wrong, like I, you know, I can hold my own when it comes to alcohol. And I've dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day, so I didn't think much of it. But then I realized, you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake. She was definitely saying Steve over and over again.

So I just, it really started to wear on me. I didn't want to say anything. And I didn't want to also like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want to be disrespectful to her because she was, you know, getting more and more intoxicated and whatnot. So I just decided to call it there. One time I was trying to get things back on track and I was like telling her a story about, you know, trying to throw my name in there. I was like, you know, a friend was like, hey, Pete. And I was like, yeah.

And they were like, Pete, can you do this for me? You know, I was trying to like reiterate and she wasn't getting the hint. I don't know. So that's why I haven't followed up. That's why I haven't returned any texts or anything, just because I felt a bit disrespected, a bit dejected, because I don't want her mistaking me for some other dude, you know? That's fair. All right, well, thanks for telling us, Steve. Appreciate that.

Pete, we know you're Pete. Thank you. Thanks for that. That's great. Now your entire listenership, I appreciate that. My name is Pete. Pete. On the record.

Got you, Pete. Well, hey, guess Pete. On the record. Got you, Pete. Boy, guess what? On the record, Jenna is actually on the phone too, and she's listening and wants to talk to you. She's been listening this whole time. Oh, goodness. Oh, brilliant. Yeah.

Hi. And hi, Jenna. It's Pete. Hi, Pete. I'm so sorry. I was super nervous on our date and I apologize completely. Steve is my boss and I'm with him all day and it's just kind of by default. I don't want to say anything because we're on the radio and he might be listening in. So great boss, but yeah, I work a lot and I try to do my job as best as I can. So I'm a little bit of a workaholic. So please forgive me.

I know your name is Pete and I just asked for a second chance to get it right. I'm sorry. I can't get over this boss thing. Victoria, can you imagine going on a date and calling somebody Jubal? Absolutely not. If he texts me and asks me a question, I purposely... I know, Jenna, when you're nervous, things happen, but that's so funny. I know.

I would have never imagined that was the reason. I'm so sorry. How many times did I call you, Steve? I mean, I lost count after the first 11. You went in on the Steve. Oh, my God. You probably called him Steve more times than you called him Pete. Admittedly, no.

I can appreciate, you know, the work ethic and everything. And I can appreciate having a hard boss. So, that is, I'm glad it's not next. That's understandable. Yeah, I'm not into anybody. I have no one in my life. I'm totally interested in seeing where things go with you and I. So just to make that clear.

Pete, would you like to go out with Jenna again on another date? We'll pay for it. You know, that sounds like a lot of fun. I did have fun on the date with Jenna. And, you know, just as long as there are no other names tossed around besides Pete and Jenna, then I'm okay. That's fine. We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags. Just be safe.

Just bring your own. Hello, my name is. Yeah, please. Let's go. that involves name tags, just to be safe. Just bring your own. Hello, my name is... Yeah, please. Let's go. Jubal's first day follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney. Online at advocateslaw.com.

Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what?

We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. a casual tone that you can take in with breakfast. Begin your day informed, ready, and refreshed. Begin your day with Up First. Subscribe to Up First from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job. I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here.

I love how y'all speak to the realization of R&B music and R&B money. Snoop Dogg on R&B money. Listen to this episode on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.