First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jenna & Pete - Who’s Steve?
Episode Date: March 12, 2024➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get... roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/ Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/ Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/ Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Jenna is on the phone today, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Pete.
And we're going to help her find out why in just a second.
But first, Jenna, how long has it been since you heard from Pete?
It's been a week or so, I'd say.
And how many times have you reached out to him?
I reached out a few times.
I haven't heard anything.
You know, we had a great first date.
We met at a sports bar.
I met him on Hinge.
And then we found out that we have like some mutual friends
and you know they were like yeah you guys definitely need to hang out so so you met him
on hinge and then you found out you had mutual friends and then you told your friends and they
were like yeah you guys would be a good fit yeah okay so tell us about the date. So we went to a sports bar.
You know, our mutual friends both said that we're laid back.
So we both decided to just go to a sports bar, get some wings and some beers.
And, you know, he was such a gentleman the whole time.
He opened the door for me and he even let out my chair that's never
happened before and i just don't know he's super hot he's like a 10 out of 10 a gentleman and super
good looking so i'm really into him how was the personality great personality i mean his mannerisms were a one you know the
thing is i noticed he was using a napkin when eating the wings and the only thing i can think
about why he goes to me was maybe i was like licking my fingers when i was eating my wings
that might have grossed him rather. Rather than using a napkin
or like washing them? Yeah,
he was like using a napkin. He was really
like prim and proper. I don't want him to think
like I'm this gross girl.
He's the weird one in my opinion.
You're supposed to lick your fingers after you eat
wings. Right? Right?
Yeah. Is this Downton Abbey? Right?
I mean.
Give me some tea with that wing.'m looking at my lips and everything.
They were good.
That's the only thing you can think of is maybe he thought that you were a barbarian
because you were licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a classy lad.
That's the only thing I can think about.
So what was your last interaction like?
I texted him to let him know, like, what a great date.
And he just never responded.
I mean, the end of the day, it was great.
You know, did you like kiss or anything?
We did.
We had a little small.
It wasn't like, you know, tonguing down.
But the conversation was really well.
I mean, he talked about his grandparents and how he admired their relationship.
And we talked about music. We have a lot of artists that we like, some of the same artists.
Music compatibility is really important on a date.
Right. I mean, it was pretty light laid back. I mean, what really got me is that he was just such a gentleman.
I've never had that before.
Okay.
Never.
And he completely ghosted me.
Okay, well, let's see if we can figure it out.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and then ask him why he's ghosting you
and see if he tells us and then maybe get you another date if you still want one.
Okay?
Okay.
All right.
We'll play a song, come back, and get your first day follow-up next.
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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Jenna is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Pete.
So we're about to call him and see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get her another date if she's still into it after she hears the reason. Before we do that though,
Jenna, why don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete? My time with Pete was incredible.
He's an awesome guy. He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's really good looking
and I just don't know what happened. i text him and never heard anything back from him
we just have so much in common common friends common music i mean except for he's a napkin user
you know yeah that's okay except for he's a napkin user right so i think that that was the issue if i
had to assume i was licking my fingers when I was eating my chicken wing,
he was using the napkin.
So, yeah, I mean, the only weird thing about that would have been if you would have grabbed his napkin
and then licked the napkin clean as well.
That would have been weird.
But the fingers I don't see has a weird thing.
All right, we're about to call him.
You ready?
Yeah, I'm ready.
Okay, here we go.
Hello?
Hi, man. Speak to Pete, please.
Yeah, this is Pete.
Hey, Pete. How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show, and it's called The Jubal Show.
Yeah, hi, Pete. The show is here as well. My name is Nina.
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi, how's it going? Uh, yeah, I mean, it's, it's going okay. What's,
what's going on? Have you ever listened to the show before? Uh, yeah, no, I've listened to the show and, um, I mean, did I, did I win something? I mean, that'd be great. Maybe you could have won
something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay. Um'm not sure if you've heard a first date follow-up before,
but that's where if you go out on a date with somebody
and then you get ghosted,
you can email us to get that person on the phone
and ask why you're getting ghosted.
So you are currently ghosting somebody
and they want to know why.
Oh, okay.
Who am I ghosting?
You don't know who you're ghosting?
Have you gone on any dates and just stopped talking to somebody recently?
Oh, you guys are talking about Jenna, aren't you?
Yes.
So, yeah, no, Jenna, I mean, don't get me wrong.
I had a lot of fun on the date.
You know, I thought we, you know, shared a bunch of mutual interests,
and she seemed very engaged in everything.
But I don't know what happened.
But a couple drinks in and she starts calling me Steve.
And I understand that, you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same.
Definitely have, you know,
certain consonants at play here.
So I don't know why.
And I kind of,
I was trying to like write it off,
you know, but yeah, no,
she kept calling me Steve.
And it was a turnoff.
It kind of, it seemed disrespectful.
I don't know if she has a thing
for a guy named Steve
or still hung up on somebody.
I don't know. Did you say anything to her guy named Steve. She's still hung up on somebody. I don't know.
Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve?
Did you correct her?
Did you ask who Steve was?
At first, she was like slurring her words a little bit.
And don't get me wrong.
Like, I, you know, I can hold my own when it comes to alcohol.
And I've dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day.
So I didn't think much of it.
But then I realized, you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake. She was, she was definitely saying Steve over
and over again. So I just, it really started to wear on me. I didn't want to say anything
and I didn't want to also like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want to be disrespectful to her
because she was, you know, getting more and more intoxicated and whatnot. So I just decided to call
it there.
One time I was trying to get things back on track and I was like telling her a story about,
you know, trying to throw my name in there.
I was like, you know, a friend was like, hey, Pete.
And I was like, yeah.
And they were like, Pete, can you do this for me?
You know, I was trying to like reiterate and she wasn't getting the hint.
I don't know.
So that's why I haven't followed up. That's why I'm like returned any texts or anything just cause I,
I felt a bit disrespected,
a bit dejected cause you know,
I don't want her to stay made for some other dude,
you know?
That's fair.
All right.
Well,
thanks for telling us,
Steve.
Appreciate that.
Pete,
we know you're on the record.
Thank you.
Thanks for that.
That's great.
Now your entire listenership,
I appreciate that. My name is Pete. Pete. On the record. That's great. Now your entire listenership. I appreciate that.
My name is Pete on the record.
Gotcha.
Pete.
Well,
I guess what?
I'm on the record.
Jenna is actually on the phone too,
and she's listening and wants to talk to you.
She's been listening.
Oh,
goodness.
Oh,
brilliant.
Yeah.
Hi.
And I,
Jenna,
it's Pete.
Hi,
Pete.
I'm so sorry.
I was super nervous on our date and I apologize completely. Steve so great boss but yeah I I
work a lot and I'm I try to do my job as best as I can so I'm I'm a little bit of a workaholic so
please forgive me I know your name is Pete and I just asked for a second chance to get it right
I'm sorry I can't get over this boss thing. Victoria, can you imagine going on a date
and calling somebody Jubal? Absolutely
not.
If you text me and ask me a question, I purposely
would put later.
I know, Jenna, when you're nervous, things happen,
but that's so funny. I know.
I would have never imagined
that was the reason.
I'm so sorry. How many times did I
call you Steve? i mean i lost count
after the first 11 you went oh my god in on the steve oh my god you probably called him steve
more times than you called the beat admittedly no i i can appreciate I can appreciate the work ethic and everything.
I can appreciate having a hard boss.
So I'm glad it's not next.
That's understandable.
Yeah, I'm not into anybody.
I have no one in my life.
I'm totally interested in seeing where things go with you and I.
So just to make that clear.
Pete, would you like to go out with
Jenna again on another date? We'll pay for it.
You know, that sounds
like a lot of fun. I did
have fun on the day with Jenna and
just as long as
there are no other names tossed around
besides Pete and Jenna, then
I'm okay. That's fine.
We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags.
Just be safe.
Just bring your own.
Hello, my name is.
Yeah, please.
Let's go.
Jubal's first day follow up.
Hey, everyone.
It's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing
in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But
we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne
the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all
about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app,
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Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
Tune in and join the conversation.
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