First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jenna & Tank - No Pushovers

Episode Date: December 13, 2023

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Tank is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. He's not getting a call back from a date he went on with Jenna. I love the fact that his name is Tank. Tank, is that your real name or is that a nickname? Yeah, no, Tank is my real name. My parents were in the military. That's cool. That is cool.

It also could be a little intimidating, just saying. It's been a weird day, but it's fine. All right. Well, we're about to see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted by Jenna and maybe get you another date if you still want one. First, before we get into everything, how long has it been since you heard from her? I feel like it's been about a week. A week and a couple of days. Not that I'm counting the days, but I feel like it's been about nine days.

Okay. Not that I'm counting, but exactly nine days. Not that I'm counting the days, but I feel like it's been about nine days. Not that I'm counting, but exactly nine days. Yeah. And in that time, how many times have you tried to reach out to her? I did the thing where you wait a couple days at first, and then I it was like about three days, and then

I tried the day after that, then I wanted to give it another day, and then I waited another day, and I still just haven't heard anything. I don't know what's going on. Tell about your date then well first it was great you know we um we met on tinder and we uh took it to the next step so we've been chatting on snapchat for a while like about a week and uh you know we just wanted to make sure that neither of us were crazy and um we decided to meet up and you, you know, we exchanged pics of each other so we could, you know, not be catfished, I guess. And it was great.

It was really, really nice. We decided to meet up and we went to a coffee shop. You know, first of all, when I saw her, it was so great because she's more beautiful than the pictures were. She's really, really beautiful. She's really nice and talkative. And she just, she kind of had everything. So I was really, really excited. Our plan was to, you know, have a cup of coffee, take a long walk throughout the city and then have dinner. And we did, we did the coffee, but then all of a sudden she was like, she said she had to be back.

She had to go somewhere and come right back. And I was like, oh, okay. It'll probably be about like 10, 15 minutes or something like that. But I ended up waiting there for about an hour and a half. What? Yeah. It was like the length of a movie. So it was weird. But then she came back after the hour and a half.

For an hour and a half? You didn't question that? I kind of did. But then I was like, I thought maybe something may have happened. Maybe she got hurt or something. So I just wanted to, you know, who knows, you know. So I waited and then she came back and then we went to dinner. And the date kind of continued. But that's the thing.

The date continued and the dinner was good. You know, we even kissed at the end. It was great. So now I'm like, well, I don't really know what happened. When she came back, did she say anything of why she was gone for an hour and a half? Yeah. Did she tell you where she was? I asked her, and she said she just had a bunch of stuff to handle,

and things kind of got on top of each other. Okay. She's kind of apologetic about it, but she seemed earnest, and I was just like, well, I guess it must have been something really personal, so she would tell me if she really needed to tell me. She straight up.

I was a little concerned. She took a recess. It's a long one. Oh, Tank, bless you. That's really nice of you to be patient like that i'm sure she appreciated it but also what i'm surprised you were there he's still there isn't that kind of flaggy to you tank yeah i mean it is i didn't feel great about it but i mean then she came back and like i said the date went really good after that with the kiss and everything okay i mean the absence in the middle was weird, but

I mean, I still want to see her. I mean, the date was great. Okay. So you want to at least give it another shot? I'd like to. I'd like to. I mean, yeah, it was weird that she took off. Maybe she wanted you to leave. Maybe it was like a game. She wanted to see if you would leave. Yeah, I don't know. You sound really sweet, so

I don't know that you did anything, but I guess we'll find out. Yeah. I don't know. We sound really sweet, so I don't know that you did anything, but I guess we'll find out. Yeah. Okay. I don't know. We'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Cool. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next.

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We upgraded to Snapchat and kind of got to know each other a little bit better. And then we went out and had a coffee date where we were going to have a nice little walk afterwards and then go to dinner. And then right after the coffee, Jenna disappeared for about an hour and a half. And then she came back and then we resumed the date. And it was great. Like, we had a really nice time and I really want to go out with her again. But it was kind of weird that she took off for like the length of a movie.

And I don't know what happened. And I asked her and she didn't really divulge anything. So I was like, what's going on? Well, you ready for us to call her? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jenna, please?

Yeah, this is Jenna. Hey, Jenna, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show that's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Jenna, the show's here, too. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi, everyone, I'm good. How are you guys?

Good. Do you listen to the show at all? Yeah, a little bit, yeah. Sweet. Oh, cool. I don't know if you listen to the first eight follow-ups at all, but that's a segment we do where if you're ghosting somebody, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

Yeah. Yeah. Well, we got an email from somebody about you saying that you're ghosting them. Oh, my God. Do you know who that would be? Um, maybe. Want to take a shot? Is it Tank?

Yes, it is Tank. Oh boy. And he told us about your date and he says he cannot figure out why you're not calling him back. Would you mind telling us? Yeah. Um, when we were on a date, I kind of like left the table for a while and I just didn't really love how he handled it when I got back. Like, to be honest, me leaving and coming back was a bit of a test. And I even I like took that time to quickly go like grab a little something to eat.

I wouldn't eat too much on the date itself. But like the whole point of it was to really see, you know, if he would stick around or if he kind of correct the behavior when I came back and like, you know, could speak up and he didn't. He really just acted like it was no big deal. And I was kind of disappointed. I was really hoping he would kind of, you know, man up and tell me that he didn't appreciate it wait whoa is this something that you do regularly I mean I don't know if I would say regularly but you know I liked him and I just I feel like I don't have

time to waste so I just want to see from the very beginning if like these are people when I'm on dates, if there are people that I could actually build something with, you know? So if you like somebody and you think there's a potential long-term thing, it's a red flag for you if they don't call you out on leaving them somewhere for a long time? Yeah. I mean, I don't want to push over. Okay. I was, you know, we talked to him about the date and he told us that you left for a while and i said he was very patient and then i also was joking about i was like maybe she was testing you but you actually were interesting yeah i don't know what to say to that i mean i do have a lot of questions but i'll just leave that yeah there for right now thank you for being honest with us i appreciate that yeah of. Also, I don't know if you remember or not, but the first eight follow-ups,

the person that wanted us to call you is on the phone. So Tank is on the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. Oh, my God. Hi. Hi, Dylan. I mean, it's interesting. Interesting point of view.

I don't know. I guess if you wanted me to man up, I understand that. But I mean, I don't know. My parents are like really aggressive and stuff. So I'm kind of like if someone wants to do something, I think they have the right to do it. But I mean, I don't know. I didn't want to get in your face about it. Jenna, what exactly did you want me to do?

I guess I just, I really would have liked you to just say something and be like, even, I mean, you are such a great guy and, you know, like, wanting to give me that time. But even if you just had been like, hey, is everything cool? Like, you were gone a while. You just didn't even like bring up the elephant in the room you just kind of act like acted like nothing really you know out of the ordinary happened and we just kind of kept going about the date and I don't know that was just a little odd to me he's trying to be nice you guys just met yeah I mean and I did I remember being

like is everything was everything okay is everything all right? And you were like, yeah, it's fine. You kind of brush off. So I was like, oh, well, something important must have happened. Let me not press because, yeah, I was trying to make a good first impression on you. I appreciate that. But he didn't pass the test? Not entirely. I don't know.

I guess it did come off a little bit as like pushovery and i mean your name's tank like you shouldn't be movable i shouldn't be able to push you over uh the lodge is a gentle tank you know i guess so yeah it's like a like a toy. All right, well, I mean, I can show you that I can be like a tank. I am. Why don't we just do a second date? I'll show you what you want. I totally can. No, wait, wait, wait.

Jenna, you're going on a second date with me. That's it. Whoa. Whoa. Hello, tank. Effort there. Jenna, would you like to go to the efforts there would you like to go on another date with tank we'll pay for it yeah i would after that i would definitely go on

another date good this makes me so sad i'm just confused i'm really sad yeah i mean i listen i like that energy if you could you could keep that Tank, that would be good. You'll see. I will. Oh, what? Okay. Have fun. Well, hey, Tank, you got another date. Congratulations.

And Jenna. I can't. Maybe, you know, you guys talked about an issue you had with Tank, and he's going to fix that for you and become the big, firm Tank that you need him to be. Thanks, guys. Yeah, thanks, guys. Appreciate it. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season

of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. John Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. You can find us on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports.