First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jesse & Danica - She Did It!

Episode Date: November 27, 2024

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day to follow up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com Jesse is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Danica. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date.

But first, Jesse, how long has it been since you heard from her? It's been about a week now. What was your last interaction with her? We went on a date to a baseball game and at the end we hugged for a pretty long period of time

and did the French thing, kissed on each cheek. And she said that she was going to call me a little bit later that night. And when I messaged her the next day, because I just assumed, you know, she got comfortable with her friends, had a good time. And if she was okay, I just didn't even hear back and tried again. I'm a bit confused because I really dig spending time with her. I'm a bit shy and I didn't feel that way around her specifically, so that's always nice. Well, why don't you tell us about the date then? How did you guys meet and what happened? Originally, we met on the app.

I've been trying to find the right person and uh what app was it it was tinder okay so we had like a good banter for a couple of weeks we both really liked baseball so we thought hey how about a low pressure day we'll catch a game we get there hot dogs beer uh we ran into some of our co- coworkers, which was a little bit of a bummer, but I didn't say anything because, you know, this is our first time hanging out. We don't really know each other that well. We spent a decent amount of time with them at the game down by the bar. I was really just interested in getting to know her, not really her friends, just because, you know, it's a first date and I don't want to, you know, be her friend.

I want to be something a little bit more than that. I kind of ended up getting shy, and I watched a bit more of this game on the screen than interacting with her friends, and I hope that she didn't take it that, like, I don't like her friends or I feel entitled to her time. It's just I get nervous in nervous in my group settings like that, where everybody knows each other. And I'm a guy that's on a date with your friends.

So that's the only thing that I'm thinking that might've gone wrong because we went back to our seats. We had a good time. At the end, she invited me to go hang out with her friends again, but I said, I'd rather you spend some more time with her. We had an extra drink and then she said, Hey, I really should get going to my friends because it's good for work. And I find that remarkably attractive in a woman that

like cares about her goals and what she's working on because that just makes a great partner in life. I was all for that. I even stuck around that area for a bit longer, hoping I'd see her after she got a chance to meet up with her work colleagues. That's when she was supposed to call you again? Was after that? She said she was going to call me after she hung out

with her friends if I was still in the area. I felt a pretty good connection. I wanted to stick around the area. I just didn't want to become a friend in that circle of friends. I mean, it's a lot of pressure on a first time meeting anybody to have friends around. Yeah. No, you're being judged.

So why do you think you're getting ghosted? I think it might have just been the fact that I was a bit shy around her friends and that might have came off as I didn't like them. It's obviously not a attractive thing to say when you're trying to go out with someone. Hey, I get a bit shy and sometimes I'm socially anxious. I mean, I can see not wanting to share that right away. All right, well, we'll see

if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and then get you another date if you still want one, okay? All right. All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get your first date if you still want one. Okay. All right. All right. We'll play a song. Come back and get your first day. Follow up next.

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why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Danica? I met Danica on Tinder and we ended up meeting up at a baseball game. We hung out with her and some of her friends for a little bit and then we had some great quality time

by ourselves. I was supposed to hear from her later that day, but it's been about a week and I still haven't heard from her. All right. You ready to call her? Yeah. I'm hoping you guys can help me out because she's really someone special. Me too. All right, here we go.

You ready? I'm going to call her right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Danica, please? Yes, this is her speaking. Hi, Danica. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. The whole show is here, Danica. Hi, my name's Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, hi. How are you? What's going on, guys?

Not much, just chilling. Checking in. Do you listen to the show ever? I have, actually, yeah. Cool. Thank you very much for that. I appreciate it. Yeah, wow. What can I do for you guys? We actually have a question for you because I don't know if you've heard a first date follow up before. Have you? Oh, yeah, I have actually.

OK, so that's the segment where if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Got it. OK. Right. OK. So we got an email about you from somebody. Huh. Um, okay. Who? Do you know who you're ghosting?

Um, I mean, no one intentionally. Really? Have you gone on a lot of dates, Danica? Uh, I mean, I've gone on a few here in the past couple months but um who is who is

this regarding he says it's been a week since your date and you haven't talked to him at all got it okay uh we're talking about jesse yes we are okay are you not ghosting him okay um i feel like i didn't want to follow up with him uh because jesse actually got one of my co-workers numbers what and like while on your date uh yeah and my co-worker told me that they had exchanged numbers or something when she, and she told me that when I met back up with her. So were you there or did you go somewhere like to the bathroom or something? And then he got her number? I guess I like, you know, went to the bathroom. Yeah. I went to the bathroom. I got a Coke, you know, and I, I mean mean I had no idea obviously that it happened until afterwards

and I just found it like really funny because I mean he is so sweet he's so great and and I really love the date actually but he didn't strike me I was like oh boy Oh, that's so disappointing. Yeah, I know. Uh, I was, I was sad about it and disappointed. I liked him. Did he talk to your coworker?

Like, is he trying to get a date with her? I don't know. I kind of, I kind of like just let it lie. Like since then. So that's all I know is that like a number was exchanged. I guess I could ask her.

I just kind of wanted to move on from it. You know, you could ask. What? Him. Because he's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. Hi, Jesse. Hey, Danica.

Oh, my God. So you heard all of that. This is what happened. Your coworker, when I was just watching the game, came up to me and put her number on a napkin and put it in my pocket. I threw it away before we even got back to our seats because I had no intention on calling her or even getting to know her because that's just disrespectful and that's not how I was raised. I was into you and the reason I didn't bring it up is I don't really know your relationship with her. You just seem like a catty thing for me to say or something that it's supposed to be like, oh, I'm so cool that your

friend tried to hit on me and I didn't do it and I didn't want to virtue signal because I just think that's like an unattractive quality, which is why I didn't bring it up. It just wasn't part of my thought process because that's just not the type of person I am. Huh. Okay. So wait, let me get this straight. You're saying that she gave her number to you in the first place did you like do anything at all like

to give her the idea that there was a chance no i was just like even casually friendly i'm i'm a i don't know if you picked up on this but uh i'm a bit shy around doing people and Yeah, I noticed. A general smile and a friendly greeting is about the exchange of our conversation. I was going to say, you didn't sound like when we were talking to you earlier like somebody who would be hitting on everybody. No.

You barely hit on your date. I feel like I have a lot of questions for your co-worker. Wow. Yeah. Uh, wow. That's not the story that I got at all. That's really crazy. Um, wow.

I'm actually like, I, I'm sorry that like happened to you and not like put us in such a weird situation. How close of a friend is your coworker Danica? I mean, you know, I, we're not like best friends, but I mean, you know, I know that she does have a flirty personality and everything. So I just figured that she's getting hit on all the time. So I didn't think that like she was hitting on someone else's like date. That's just so weird. It is weird.

I mean, you want to talk about girl code, but... Yeah, exactly. Honestly, she put her number on a paper, put it in my pocket, and it scared me a little bit. I jumped, you know? Get your hand out of my pocket.

Oh, my gosh. I checked if I still had my wallet. I was nervous. Danica, would you like to go on another date with Jesse? We'll pay for it. Oh, I somehow find you very, like, endearing. I believe you. You sound genuine. And, yeah, I'll give it another shot.

And I'm definitely going to confront my coworkers. But thank you for telling me what happened. Danica, if you need backup, Victoria and I are here. Thanks, y'all. Well, Danica, I'm excited to see you, because I really did have a great time with you. And this time, let's avoid both of our coworkers and get to know more about each other. Yeah, no coworkers this time. Promise.

Yay. about each other. Yeah, no co-workers this time. Promise. Yay! Oh my God. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne

the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors, it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now. Plus, you'll get special content just for podcast listeners, like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines.

Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What if you asked two different people the same set of questions? Even if the questions are the same, our experiences can lead us to drastically different answers. I'm Minnie Driver, and I set out to explore this idea in my podcast. And now, Minnie Questions is returning for another season. We've asked an entirely new set of guests our seven questions, including Jane Lynch, Delaney Rowe, and Cord Jefferson. Listen to Minnie Questions on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Seven questions, limitless answers.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.