First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jessica & Chase - He Thought She Was a Party Animal… Until the Truth Came Out

Episode Date: December 15, 2025

A wild first night, instant chemistry, and then—total silence. In this unforgettable First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show, one incredible connection turns into a confusing ghosting that leaves everyone wondering what really went wrong. After meeting in the most unexpected way, assumptions are made, signals get crossed, and one wrong impression almost shuts the door on something real. When the truth finally comes out, it flips the entire story on its head and proves that you can’t always judge a date by how the night began. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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we suffer through it? Listen to decoding women's help with Dr. Elizabeth Pointer on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the 12 first-day follow-ups of Christmas as voted on by you. Yeah! We count down all the way to the number one first date follow-up that you voted on. Jessica is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Chase. So we're going to call him in a little while and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

and maybe get her another date. But first, Jessica, how long has it been since you heard from Chase? Hey, so, yeah, it's been about a week since I texted him. He responded the first time, but since his first response, I haven't heard anything back. Okay. How did you guys meet? And then what was that date like? So we actually met at a club

And honestly it was like more of a rave than a club And I don't even go out that much So I was just like letting loose after a long week And I was dancing next to him And we were both just having a good time Not really talking And then I bumped right into him But he caught me before I fell

Hallmark movie Very romantic I looked up at him and I smiled And I was just like immediately smitten And he was so gorgeous. So we danced for a little bit. And then I asked if he wanted to go to the bar for a drink. And I know it sounds like a rom-com, but it actually literally did happen that way.

And then we just went to the bar and sat there getting to know each other. Well, we tried to because it was extremely loud in the club. So I think he was there with his friends celebrating something, but I couldn't really tell what he was saying half the time. And also, we were both. pretty drunk and there were some extra party favors that we had as well so we were definitely feeling a little handsy and he didn't live that far from the club so he asked if I wanted to go to his place for a little quiet time that's what he called it and I agreed and so we both just walked a couple blocks to his place we sobered up a bit we were still feeling kind of risky

so we kind of like briskly walked to his place. And once we got there, I definitely made the first move. And he was okay with that. So, you know, clothes were flying off. Wow. That doesn't sound like quiet time to me. Compared to a rave. I can't say everything that happened that night because this is a morning show.

But afterwards, we laid in bed and in like a backward date kind of way, we actually got to know each other a lot better. After all that, like so the next morning you guys talked and really got to know each other? Yeah, we just kind of spent the whole night talking and we mostly talked about our shared music taste because we were both hard ravers in our younger days. We didn't really talk about work or relationships or anything boring. We just wanted to have fun with the night. And we laid there until the early hours of the morning and then I had to get up early the next day and I just went. home playing the whole night in my head over and over again. And I texted him the next day.

And he told me, he texted me back and he said he talked to me tomorrow. But that was over a week ago. And I texted a couple more times. I tried calling, but it went straight to voicemail. What do you think could have happened? Honestly, I, I feel like maybe I was just too enthusiastic and I came on too strong. And I kind of, and I just sort of like hooked up with him without really knowing him at all. And so I think maybe, I feel guilty about the order of our date. And, um, and I think maybe he just thought of it as like a one night stand. And I don't blame him if he thinks that, but I just feel like it would suck to lose this opportunity.

Yeah. But if you're calling him, then he would be like, well, maybe it's not a one night stand then. But then like also a one night stand, do you sit there and talk the next day? Because usually it's like, thank you. I know. Yeah. Yeah, that's true too. Does he have a girlfriend?

That's the thing that always makes me nervous is when I don't hear after you have a great connection and usually when they ghost is because they're hiding from somebody else. Oh, God. I mean, we didn't talk about past relationships or anything like that, but I didn't even consider that.

Did you notice any pictures on his wall or like anything around the house that looked like a girlfriend was there? Did he have throat pillows? It was a bit of a blur. It was a bit of a blur. Okay. All right, well, yeah, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

We're about to call him and see if we can figure out why he's ghostinger, But first, Jessica, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Chase? Yeah, so I bumped into Chase at the club. We had a very immediate romantic connection. We hung out at the bar for a little bit before going back to his place. We were both pretty drunk. And then I stayed over.

We did things. And then we spent the early hours of the morning talking. And then we had a great connection. I left. I texted him and I haven't heard back from him in a week. Okay. Well, we're going to call him right now and see if he'll tell us and then maybe get you another date.

Are you ready? I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Chase, please? Yeah, this is Chase. Chase, how are you, man? My name is Jubal, and this is a radio show called The Jubal Show.

Hi, Chase. I'm Nina, also on the Jubal Show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. What's up, guys? How are you? Good. Have you heard of the show before? In passing, I was out once, and someone was talking about you guys' show.

I had never listened to it, but I've heard of you guys. That's good. Sweet. Well, we do a segment on the show. It's called The First Date Follow-up. What that is is, is if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay.

All right. And we got an email about you from somebody named Jessica. Wow. Okay. Yeah. I know her. Okay. And Jessica told us a little bit about your date and said that you haven't gotten back to

her and she's curious if she did something wrong or why you're ghosting her. This is funny. I'm actually, I'm flattered by this entire thing, to be honest with you. I didn't think she would go to do this on the radio. But, you know, here we are. So I didn't call her back because it just seemed like, you know, she just seemed too much of a party girl for me. I'm someone who doesn't really go out much.

And when we had met, that was really the first time I'd gone out and did anything in about a month or so. And look, Jessica is great. She's gorgeous. It definitely felt like I was in some sort of romantic comment. situation like a movie she bumped into me and and like oh look who it is type thing and it's like like a like a Matthew McConaughey movie or something she like fell and you like picked her up and then then the music stopped and yeah she fell into my arms and she was

falling and I grabbed her arm was able to kind of catch her from hitting the floor but you know her defense she was drunk I think to say she was trashed was was pretty fair but she seemed like it was an everyday situation as far as that and I'm not judging her all. You know, we've all kind of been to these situations at clubs and I get it. But I'm usually not that fun. I think I came off of like a super fun guy and I'm pretty boring and low key. We did go back to my place. I was kind of barely hanging on there. Uh, we had a few drinks obviously. She, on the other hand, incredible energy. Like, wow, she was really hanging on to my arm, just kind of being all over me, which I kind of liked. Obviously, we kind of,

you know, did some things. I didn't text her back. saying it, you know, I feel bad, you know, now that I'm saying it out loud, to be honest with him. So you're quite literally ignoring the signs from the universe to talk to Jessica, who fell into your lap, is what it sounds like to me, because you feel like you can't, you can't keep up with her? She's got incredible energy, and I'm sort of an introvert, and I was having a few drinks at night, so, you know, I was very eased and just kind of feeling myself a little bit. I'm not that guy usually and I don't go out much and the drinks are flowing and then she kind of comes into the world and we just had a good night that night and so that's all you know about her right yeah pretty much we didn't get too deep in the conversation in your head you just picture someone who's just like bouncing around and always on the go and has to be out places

and doesn't ever want to be home like what do you I don't know why you think that wouldn't work I just think that she's someone who kind of bounces around goes out a lot parties probably has a high end job, you know, probably goes out four times a week, probably drinks a lot, which is totally cool and I understand it probably goes to a ton of concerts and raves and whatever. I'm just not that guy. Okay.

All right. You're making assumptions, but, I mean, you might as well ask her yourself. Good point. Chase, you can ask her yourself because she's actually on the phone and has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. Hi. Oh, boy.

Dude. Hey, Jess. You are not going to believe this. I am literally a librarian what what I swear I never go out I never go out at all

no no I I understand I just is no way you're a librarian I don't think those don't even exist anymore I appreciate what you're doing of course but you know I just I'm super low key so it's it's just

no I understand it you don't have to lie about it what We still exist. I'm literally a librarian. I'm not kidding. I'm not. So you actually, I'm just generally curious,

you actually work at a library and a library. That's what it is. Yes. I went to school for this. I am not making this up. I've never met a librarian before. You guys didn't hang out at libraries? Well,

I mean, yeah, when you're in the library, but like outside of their natural habitat. Oh, okay. That's cool, Jessica. Yeah. Thanks. Jess, I guess, because usually librarians are boring and introverted too.

So what are you doing? How did we meet at a club? Like, how did that even happen? Well, I honestly never go out at all, but my friends kind of like coaxed me into it that night. And so I just decided to say, I just happened to be out that night. That's like not even my lifestyle either. Oh, that's why when we first talked to you, Jessica, you said that you used to go to,

stuff like that all the time oh okay that makes sense in high school so the universe quite literally had you fall into his arms I feel like I can't let you guys walk away from this yeah I was just really into him and I feel like we were both

just letting go we both happen to be here be there that night honestly I feel like a moron Jess I'm so sorry I really I apologize I feel like an idiot literally judging a book by its cover here and that sounds so stupid.

Wow. I totally was jumping the gun and had no idea. And I'm obviously, frankly, I'm just jealous of how much energy you have, you know, that night and the next morning and seemingly the tolerance of a 20-year-old. So never in the million years when I think you're a librarian. To be truthful. Chase, would you like to go out on another date with Jessica? We'll pay for it.

Hell yeah, yeah. I definitely need to make it up to her for sure, Jess. I feel like an idiot. And to take you out on an actual loki night, I'm done. I'm down. I think that'd be great. From the chapter to their book continues. Yeah, exactly.

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I said, you're going to see my face to the day that you die. I got you. I got you. I got you. Listen to the girlfriends, untouchable, on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I got you. I know he has a reputation, but it's going to catch up to him. Gabe Ortiz is a cop. His brother, Larry, a mystery Gabe, didn't want to solve until it was too late. He was the head of this gang.

You're going to push that line for the cause. Took us under his wing and showed us the game, as they call it. When Larry's killed, Game must untangle the dangerous past, one that could destroy everything he thought he knew. Listen to the Brothers Ortiz on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, everyone, it's me, Katie Couric. Did you know that I recently joined Substack?

Very exciting. It's where I'll be sharing my unfiltered conversations with the people everyone's talking about. I'll also tell you what I'm reading, what I'm watching, what's making me crazy, and what's giving me hope. If you like deep dives, hot takes, and real talk, you're in the right place. Search Katie Couric on Substack and hit subscribe. I'll be there reporting live, most likely, in my pajamas. See you there.

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