First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jessica & Chase - Shhh, We’re Partying

Episode Date: October 10, 2024

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You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at advocateslaw.com. Jessica is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Chase. So we're going to call him in a little while and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Jessica, how long has it been since you heard from Chase? Hey, so yeah, it's been about a week since I texted him.

He responded the first time, but since his first response, I haven't heard anything back. Okay, how did you guys meet and then what was that date like? So we actually met at a club and honestly it was like more of a rave than a club and I don't even go out that much so I was just like letting loose after a long week and

I was dancing next to him and we were both just having a good time not really talking and then I bumped right into him but he caught me before i fell hallmark movie very romantic i looked up at him and i smiled and i was just like immediately smitten he was so gorgeous so we danced for a little bit um and then i asked if he wants to he wanted to go to the bar for a drink. And I know it sounds like a rom-com, but it actually literally did happen that way. And then we just went to the bar and sat there getting to know each other.

Well, we tried to because it was extremely loud in the club. So I think he was there with his friends celebrating something, but I couldn't really tell what he was saying half the time. And also, we were both pretty drunk and there were some extra party favors that we had as well. So we were definitely feeling a little handsy and he didn't live that far from the club. So he asked if I wanted to go to his place for a little quiet time.

That's what he called it. And I agreed. And so we both just walked a couple blocks to his place. We sobered up a bit. We were still feeling kind of brisky. So we kind of like briskly walked to his place. And once we got there, I definitely made the first move. And he was okay with that.

So, you know, clothes were flying off. Wow. That doesn't sound like quiet time to me compared to a rave i can't say everything that happened that night this is a morning show but um afterwards we just laid in bed and in like a backward day kind of way we we actually got to know each other a lot better after all that like so the next morning you guys talked and really got to know each other yeah we just kind of spent the whole night talking and we mostly talked about our shared music taste because we were both hard ravers in our younger days we didn't really talk about work or relationships or anything boring we just wanted to have fun with the night um

and we laid there until the early hours of the morning, and then I had to get up early the next day. And I just went home playing the whole night in my head over and over again. And I texted him the next day, and he told me, he texted me back, and he said he'd talk to me tomorrow. But that was over a week ago, and I texted a couple more times. I tried calling, but it went straight to voicemail. What do you think could have happened?

Honestly, I feel like maybe I was just too enthusiastic, and I came on too strong, and I just sort of hooked up with him without really knowing him at all and so I think maybe I feel guilty about the order of our date and I think maybe he just thought of it as like a one night stand and I don't blame him

if he thinks that but I just feel like it would suck to lose this opportunity but if you're calling him then he would be like well maybe it's not a one night stand then but then like also a one night stand you sit there and talk the next day because usually it's like thank you nice to meet you in your house yeah yeah that's true too does he have a girlfriend that's the thing that always makes me nervous is when i don't hear after you have a great connection and usually when they ghost it's because they're hiding from somebody else oh god i mean we didn't talk about past

relationships or anything like that but i didn't even consider that. Did you notice any pictures on his wall or like anything around the house that looked like a girlfriend was there? Did he have throw pillows? It was a bit of a blur. It was a bit of a blur. Okay. All right. Well, yeah, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay?

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can figure out why he's ghosting her. But first, Jessica, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Chase? Yeah, so I bumped into Chase at the club. We had a very immediate romantic connection. We hung out at the bar for a little bit before going back to his place. We were both pretty drunk. And then I stayed over. We did things.

And then we spent the early hours of the morning talking. And then we had a great connection i left i texted him uh and i haven't heard back from him in a week okay well we're gonna call him right now and see if he'll tell us and then maybe get you chase how are you man my name is jubel and this is a radio show called the jubel show hi chase i'm nina also on the jubel show hi i'm victoria what's up, guys? How are you? Good. Have you heard of the show before?

In passing, I was out once and someone was talking about you guys' show. I had never listened to it, but I've heard of you guys. That's good. Sweet.

Well, we do a segment on the show. It's called The First Date Follow-Up. What that is, is if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

Okay. All right. And we got an email about you from somebody named Jessica. Wow. Okay. Yeah, I know her. Okay. And Jessica told us a little bit about your date and said that you haven't gotten back to her

and she's curious if she did something wrong or why you're ghosting her. This is funny. I'm actually, I'm flattered by this entire thing, to be honest with you. I didn't think she would go to do this on the radio. But, you know, here we are. So I didn't call her back because it just seemed like, you know, she just seemed too much of a party girl for me. I'm someone who doesn't really go out much and when we had

met, that was really the first time I'd gone out and did anything in about a month or so. And look, Jessica is great. She's gorgeous. It definitely felt like I was in some sort of romantic comedy situation like a movie. She bumped into me and like, oh, look who it is type thing.

And it's like a Matthew McConaughey movie or something. She like fell and you like picked her up and then the music stopped. Yeah, she fell into my arms and she was falling and I grabbed her arm, was able to kind of catch her from hitting the floor. But, you know, her defense, she was drunk. I think to say she was trashed was pretty fair. But she seemed like it was an everyday situation as far as that. And I'm not judging her at all.

You know, we've all kind of been through these situations at clubs and I get it. But I'm usually not that fun. I think I came off of like a super fun guy and I'm pretty boring and low key. We did go back to my place. I was kind of barely hanging on there. We had a few drinks, obviously. She, on the other hand, incredible energy. Like, wow, she was really hanging on to my arm,

just kind of being all over me, which I kind of liked. Obviously, we kind of, you know, did some things. I didn't text her back. Saying it, you know, I feel bad, you know, now that I'm saying it out loud, to be honest with you. So you're quite literally ignoring the signs from the universe to talk to Jessica, who fell into your lap. Yeah. Is what it sounds like to me, because you feel like you can't you can't keep up with her.

She's got incredible energy and I'm and I'm sort of an introvert and I was having a few drinks that night. So, you know, I was very eased andvert and I was having a few drinks that night so you know I was very eased and just kind of feeling myself a little bit. I'm not that guy usually and I don't go out much and the drinks are flowing and then she kind of comes into the world and we just had a good night that night.

So that's all you know about her right? Yeah pretty much. We didn't get too deep in the conversation. In your head you just picture someone who's just like bouncing around and always on the go and has to be out places and doesn't ever want to be home. Like, what do you, I don't know why you think that wouldn't work. I just think that she's someone who kind of bounces around, goes out a lot, parties, probably has a high end job, you know, probably goes out four or five times a week, probably drinks a lot, which is totally cool. And I understand that probably goes to a ton of concerts and raves and whatever. I'm just not that guy.

Okay. You're making assumptions, but you might as well ask her yourself. Good point. Chase, you can ask her yourself because she's actually on the phone and has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. Hi. Oh, boy. Dude. Hey, Jess.

You are not going to believe this. I am literally a f***ing librarian. What? What? I swear, I never go out. I never go out at all. No, no, I understand. Jess, there's no way you're a librarian.

I don't think those even exist anymore. I appreciate what you're doing, of course. But, you know, I just... No. I'm super low-key. So it's just... No, I understand. You don't have to lie about it.

What? We still exist. I'm literally a librarian. I'm not kidding. Come on. So you actually... I'm just genuinely curious. You actually work at a library?

In a library? That's what it is. Yes. I went to school for this. I am not making this up. I've never met a librarian before. You guys didn't hang out at libraries? Well, I mean, yeah, when you're in the library, but like outside of their natural habitat.

Oh, okay. That's cool, Jessica. Yeah, okay. That's cool, Jessica. Yeah, thanks. Jess, I guess, because usually librarians are boring and introverted, too. So what are you doing? How did we meet at a club? Like, how did that even happen? Well, I honestly never go out at all. But my friends kind of, like, coaxed me into it that night.

And so I just decided to say, I just happened to be out that night that's like not even my lifestyle either oh that's why when we first talked to you jessica you said that you used to go to stuff like that all the time yeah oh okay that makes sense in high school so the universe quite literally had you fall into his arms i feel like i can't let you guys walk away from this. Yeah, I was just really into him and I feel like we were both just letting go. We both happened to be here. Be there that night. Honestly, I feel

like a moron. Jess, I'm so sorry. I really I apologize. I feel like an idiot literally judging a book by its cover here and that sounds so stupid. Wow. I totally was jumping the gun and had no idea. And I'm obviously, frankly, I'm just jealous of how much energy you have,

you know, that night and the next morning and seemingly the tolerance of a 20-year-old. So never in a million years would I think you're a librarian, to be truthful. Chase, would you like to go out on another date with Jessica? We'll pay for it. Hell yeah, yeah. I definitely need to make it up to her, for sure. Jess, I feel like an idiot, and to take you out on an actual

low-key night, I'm done. I'm down. I think that'd be great. And the chapter to their book continues. Yeah, exactly. Jubal's first day follow-up. Experiencing the news each day can feel like a journey. With Up First from NPR, though, it doesn't have to be. Welcome to 15 easy minutes of breaking news,

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If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general.

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