First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jordan & Drew: He Ghosted Her Over ONE Thing… Was It Too Petty? 😬📱

Episode Date: March 17, 2026

In this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Jordan thought her date with Drew was going great—good conversation, drinks, even meeting his friends 🍻 But then… he suddenly left 😳 and completely ghosted her. When we finally get Drew on the phone, his reason for disappearing is something no one saw coming—and it sparks a hilarious (and slightly heated) debate 🤯 Was this a valid dealbreaker or just plain petty? 👀 Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jordan is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Drew, so in a few minutes we'll call him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Jordan, how long has it been since you heard from Drew? It's been about two weeks now. Okay. How many times have you tried to hit him up in that time?

Just twice. Once, like really soon after. our date and then once again I want to say like three days ago okay and nothing he just left you on red yeah just nothing okay well let's talk about the date let's go back

and try to figure it out I know I'm sorry this is the worst no thank you for doing this so we met on hinge right and he messaged me first which is already a win in my book he suggested the sports bar because there was a vibe there which

honestly wasn't my favorite, but I went with it because he's really cute and, you know, fun. And so, yeah, we were just, we had a great talk and he's really ambitious. He told me about how he wants to launch his own streetwear brand and he and he had a couple of friends. Yeah. And then someone sent shots over, which honestly, I don't, I don't usually do shots, but like, again, he's really cute. I'm having fun. Wait, back up really quick. He introduced you to some of his friends?

Yeah, I guess this is a bar that they kind of frequent, so a couple of them just happened. But I thought that was, you know, like, it's not like he was like, oh, my friends, we have to go. You know, he introduced me. So that was nice. Okay. And then after a while, they were like,

okay, we're going to go do our thing over at the bar and then just left us on our own. Okay, good. I was like, these friends do crash a party, try to get you guys wasted, and then sit back and watch what happens. That's actually kind of funny. Yeah, no, they were like apropos.

They were good. Okay, good. All right. Well, how did the date end with him? Um, I think it was okay. Like, okay, it got a little weird. So like, he's laughing, having fun. We're all cool.

And then, like, out of nowhere, he had to leave. And he made up some excuse. He paid the tab. And then he did. What was the excuse that he gave you? Um, just that he had. to, I think he said something about like having to get up early the next day and do something for building his business.

It was just the way that it happened. Like, it was so sudden. To abruptly leave. Yeah. It seems like something they said might be the reason that he left. Exactly. And I don't know what it was. And I just, like, I would really like to know what happened.

Okay. Jordan is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Drew. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. And get her a second date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Jordan, break down your date for us again real quick one time. Yeah. So we met on Hinge and we ended up going to a sports bar and a couple of his friends were there. And so I got to meet them.

And then we were having a great time. And then all of a sudden he decided like he needed to leave very quickly and he made up this excuse. And I haven't heard from him since. And I'd like to know what happened. That's so weird. Well, are you ready for us to give Drew a call? Yes. All right.

Here we go. Hello. Hi, man. Speak to Drew, please. This is him. Who's this? Drew, how are you? This is a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? I'm good. I'm familiar with you guys. Oh, nice. Just to see how you're doing.

Just checking in. You know, we know you listen. We listen to you too and you don't know it. Checking in on all the fans. No. Drew, we're calling you because this is a first date follow-up. You know, if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to call you and find out why.

So we got an email about you. It's Jordan, isn't it? Yes, it is, Drew. You don't even have to think about that. She told us about your date, and she's really confused. Says that you guys were hanging out at the bar. Your friends ended up being there, too. And at one point, you went over to your friends,

and then it looked like they were pointing towards her. and then after that you said you had to get up for work or something and bounced. Mm-hmm. Well, okay. So, first off, thrilled to be talking to you guys. I've been listening for a while. But when Jordan, she was nice, fun, even, but I ghosted her because I cannot be out here dating someone who just confidently

uses words absolutely and completely wrong. What do you mean? Like, I tried to let it go. I really did, but she kept using, like, juxtaposition. as if it meant like compromise. You like wine. I like sports bars, but I think we can find a juxtaposition, you know?

Oh, okay. Is that not cute? I mean, if it's one word, sure, I get it. Like, you know, it's like a little quirky, cute moment, and then you can correct it. But it kept happening over and over again with different words. And then, like, my friends ended up being at the bar and she was like talking

and they were joking about something and she just went, this is such an ambiguous situation and it wasn't. It was like super clear. I think she meant to say like ridiculous or wild. But she was like so sure. She's like, this is so ambiguous.

Okay. She seemed well spoken when we talked to her. Like it didn't seem like that was going on when we talked to her. I don't know. I don't know. That wasn't my experience. You know,

like I said, She was nice. She was even fun. But I'm big on words, man. Like, you got no basic English language, you know? All right. Okay. Well, thank you for telling us, Drew.

And also, if you listen to the show. Yeah. You know what happens now? Hi, Jordan. Hi, Jordan. Hi. Wow. Um, I'm so sorry that I didn't live up to your English-speaking expectation.

I, you knew what I meant though, right? Like that's all that matters. Communication is about intent, right? Like reading people. Totally. For the most part. But like just basic first grade understanding of the language is important. Like words mean things, Jordan.

And the worst part is like my friends caught it too. One of them even repeated it back to you like, yeah, you're all super ambiguous. And they were all laughing and you just nodded like they weren't roasting you. I was like, you got to have a little bit of like. off awareness about this. Roasting me? Wow. Okay.

I don't even know what to say to that. I'm pretty sure I have better than a first grade understanding of the English language. Well, you did say you don't drink shots a lot. So maybe that just kind of threw off your basic understanding of certain words, you know? I don't know. Maybe. Because you do sound well spoken now. Thank you. I'd like to think that I am, at least most of the time. I don't know what you expected as me, but your friends were all of a sudden there and I guess I was trying to impress and just be, you know, conversational with everybody. And, you know, I was drunk and like, bemused.

I don't know. Like, you're, you're acting like I did something wrong to you. You were what? Well, you got that one right. You were bemused. What does bemused mean? It means confused. I don't know.

I'm bemused right now. See, I know how to use words. Totally. I mean, we're all a little bemused right now, you know. Oh, my. I was just saying, look, you didn't do anything to me. You were nice. You were fun.

It's just not for me. Like words mean things and I can't, for me, I can't be explaining basic vocabulary every time we hang out, you know? I'm sure we can find some sort of like explanation, juxtaposition about this. Jordan, you're doing it again. There, you just get it. That's not what that word means. I mean like a compromise.

Yeah, go on. It's just that's what that is what that means. It's that's what juxtapose means. No, that's not what it means, Jordan. No, when two people disagree, they come to a juxtaposition. That's that is what that means. Oh my goodness. Do you guys see what I'm talking about?

It's like, and you're just getting a little sneak peek. We were out there for like two hours. I think she's right. I think she's right. I wish you guys could come to a juxtaposition. I mean, I understand it. Don't encourage her. This can be safe.

She needs to know. Would you like to go on another date with Jordan? We'll pay for it and then you guys can see if you can juxtapose in person. No. No, words mean things, man. I can't be doing that. Yeah, I also don't want another date because you clearly don't know words like you think you do. Why don't you go look up juxtapose, juxtaposition in a dictionary and you can figure it out from there?

Girl, I speak four languages. This is crazy. I hate this so much right now. Jubil's first date follow-up. In the middle of the night, Sosquia awoke in a haze. Her husband, Mike, was on his laptop. What was on his screen would change Saskia's life forever. I said, I need you to tell me exactly what you're doing.

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