First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jordan & Krista - Meathead

Episode Date: January 17, 2025

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Jordan is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Krista. So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date but first Jordan how long has it been since you heard from Krista? I mean it's been it's been a few days um I left a voicemail I mean it just felt right

I mean the date was fire. It's only been a few days though are you sure you're getting ghosted? I mean look it's just a vibe and it's just I was just after a few days I'm kind of like what's up okay so you expected her to be like right on it oh yeah yeah no doubt locked in I mean I knew the second the second we matched like matched online I knew that day was gonna be fire what did you say in the voicemail she said there's a vibe there's fires you know they I was just saying stuff that I there's fires, you know, they

I was just saying stuff that I was making her laugh. You know, she was listening and, you know, I was just throwing down some some motivational things about like, you know, how my life all figured out and, you know, how I started from the bottom. Now I'm up there, you know, and I just got that vibe that kind of responded me a little sarcastic But but she was with it and I'm all about a girl and keep up with me, you know Okay, so when was all this going down? Was this part of the date? Yeah, no, I mean it started off in the DMs. Okay, and then afterward after I said, you know, she can keep up

You know, she's got it. I decided to take her over to Okay, those you know, those fancy joints that shows that I got class, you know? OK, all right. Was she impressed? Oh, yeah. I mean, she was attractive. I can tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I sat down all class. She could not keep her eyes off me. I can feel my magnetism just pulling that all in.

OK, so you get the same feeling when you look in the mirror. Oh, of course, I'm drawn to it, you know, uh-huh. All right Dinner starts off perfect right and like I'm just vibing now. I'm just killing it with my stories. Okay, I mean especially Yeah, my gym routine. I mean like this is it's something special. You know, it's something that's built from inspiration. Is she into working out and stuff? Like, would she be interested in that? Cause you know, sometimes people staring into it. They don't want to hear about the gym stuff. No, I knew she was into it. Like, but she was making jokes about it, but that's just, she's a sarcastic, you know? Okay.

She knew my moves were bold and she was liking it. She was with it. Okay. You're talking about how much she was with, like, what did you like about her? Like, was she engaging other than being sarcastic other than your gym routine? Was anything else going on? Oh, she was just a good listener, but she, she could keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked. So what could have gone wrong then? Maybe, you know, maybe I just got a little too motivational because that's my

future, like I'm'm gonna be a motivational speaker Okay, I don't like you paid like six figures to say a few things, you know, and the kids believe in themselves, you know so I Went from my gym routine straight into my motivational speech because like the mood was there right? like I was like hey, you know talking about like what we're doing with our lives. And, uh, and I just stood up and I hit the restaurant with some high energy. Like I'm talking, like I was like Tony Robbins, you know? And I told her, I looked her in the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire people to change lives, you know?

So you didn't just address her you address the entire restaurant oh yeah they were looking at me they uh they knew you know and she was smiling I mean she was shaking her head in a few things I know that kind of head shake you know you know you're so lucky like like you won the lottery or embarrassed you just to see this guy with great change and great gains. You know I said good night you know I said good night I'm a classy dude you know I wanted I was you know wanting to get to know her more I sent a text later telling her I had a blast and I just let the voice note the next day you know

I'm just because I'm just being thoughtful you know well why do you think she's ghosting you I think I just think I've gone maybe I went a little too big it's in five days and I mean but we had chemistry and and I mean I know she wants a confident guy outgoing take it't get more outgoing than that. And I just think maybe I'm being a little misunderstood, but I'm definitely her type, bro, definitely her type. All right, well we'll try to figure it out for you. Play a song, come back, and then call her

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Yeah. So we went out to a fancy place. We hit it off the spot. Definitely had chemistry. She couldn't keep her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know, just showing off my outgoing nature. I told her some stories. We hit it off confident, you know, just showing off my outgoing nature. I told her some stories. We hit it off and, you know, I went into my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation and, uh, and we hit it off. I had a, I had a blast and I've been texting her about, Hey, let's, let's keep this going.

Like let's, when I'm, when am I going to see you again? Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt. Let's do it. Here we go hello hi may I speak to Krista please hey Krista how are you my name is Jubal I'm calling from a radio show it's called the Jubal show hi Krista we're all here my name is Nina hi and I'm Victoria. Oh you do sweet well thank you very much

for knowing us appreciate that. We do a segment on the show it's called the first date follow-up it's where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them that person can email us to call you and find out why you're ghosting so any idea who would email us about you? Jordan, obviously. Yes, it is Jordan. So you are blatantly ghosting Jordan. Oh yeah, definitely. Okay. Would you mind telling us why?

Yeah, I mean like the whole day it just felt like I was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show. It was an absurd human. I don't know. I don't know, any highlights of the reality show that you felt like you were on. Yeah, so many. Let's see. Um, yeah, so well, okay. First off, he's he's really not my type, like is not normally the type of guy I would go

out with. But you know, he's cute. He picked a fancy restaurant. So I figured, you know, why not? And so I walked in and there he is in this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve, white, almost see through shirt with like, you know, his biceps are like screaming to please give me a break from bicep curls. He just was a total meathead. You know what I mean? Like you could just tell. And so dinner started fine until like Jordan started talking

and he noticed the waiter who was like kind of a skinny, young, you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts calling him scrawny to his face. And then out of nowhere, he got worse though. So like that was embarrassing enough. But then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's arm and is like, and looks at me I go babe check this out

Yeah challenge him to an arm wrestling match luckily Ronnie declined We got away with not dealing with that So we got away with not dealing with that but yeah and then he just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and like every ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings and Like all of this crap and then the worst part was um, it's towards the end

I mean, I'm just kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human and uh towards the end He starts talking about how he wants to be like a Tony Robbins like motivational speaker guy. And he stands up and does like a motivational speech to the back corner of the restaurant. We talked to him. He told us about that. He was really proud of it. Yeah.

Of course he was. Yeah, no, it was mortifying. It was mortifying. And then when the date was, so he made the check, sat back down, and he was like, oh, I'm going to do this. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do this. Of course he was. Yeah, no, it was mortifying. It was mortifying. And then when the date was, so he made the check, sat back down, you know, whatever. And then he wanted to go, like he wasn't ready for the night to be over and wanted to take

me to some bar so that he could arm wrestle more guys. Like he wanted to show that off a little more. Yeah. Yeah. He just kept wanting to like show off a little more. Yeah. Yeah Like show off that he could like arm wrestle or bench press anybody. I don't know Third so you didn't go You know who might be surprised to hear that you felt that way Jordan yes, and guess what Jordan is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, God. OK.

Yeah. Hey, Krista. Good to hear from you. How are you doing? Yeah. I'm good. I just want to say, I think you're misunderstanding the whole thing. Like I get that, that maybe the arm wrestling was a bit, it was a bit much, but you know,

I was trying to keep things fun, you know, we were having fun and, and it wasn't about, it wasn't about showing off. I mean, look, I, I'm not, it's natural, maybe a little because that's who I am. But it's because I wanted you to see, I'm not, I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not that kind of guy, but I, I didn't realize it comes off or I came off in any way as obnoxious and I'll admit, I probably went overboard, overboard but but that's me being me That's Jordan being Jordan, you know

But but for real, I think there's still chemistry there with us and I promise I'll tone it down cuz I'm not so mean I try and improve myself. I'm proven I Just wanted to make a good impression Okay, so I really appreciate how confident and outgoing you are. And I think that's super great. And you're not afraid to be yourself. And I think that's great. I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably looking for different things.

You know, you've got this like big bold personality thing going. And I don't really mesh with that kind of energy. Like that's not my my jam kind of. Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big and bold presence. And you appreciate my confidence. And that's great. And I just want to know if I can see you again. Chris, would you like to go with Jordan again? We'll pay for it. Yeah, no, no, I'm I can see you again. Crystal, would you like to go with Jordan again? We'll pay for it.

Yeah, no, no, I'm I'm good. Thanks. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I mean, I can hear right there. You started off with a yes and change. So you just you're changing your mind there. I see you're still working it out. I don't know. I know there's no time.

You just need some time, you know, and hey, I'm keeping touch, you know. Yeah, Jordan, Jordan, delete my number. I think that would be for the best. If you need me to... I mean, look, if you don't like fitness or something, that's okay. Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm, I'm, I'm good. Well, if I delete your number, how will I know when you decide to call me? Um... Jubal's First date follow up. What if you asked two different people

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