First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Josh & Taryn - Mansplain & Chill

Episode Date: April 24, 2025

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Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Josh is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Taryn. So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date. But first, Josh, how long has it been since you heard from Taryn?

Oh man, I think it's been like six days. I love when they're at the exact number. You know you're feeling that person if you're saying it was six days. Did you try to reach out to her in that time? I did, I tried sending text messages. I've only called her one time, because I don't want to seem like a creep.

Sure. But nothing, no response, no like on the text messages. You know, we have iPhones, so. She used to have the red settings on, but I don't know, she just took them off. I don't really know what's going on. Well, what happened? I mean, tell us about the day first.

All right. So long story short, you know, we're on the same softball team and, you know, after practice last week, I offered to give her a ride home. And just so you know, guys, there's always been some sort of flirty tension. Like she literally winked at me during like batting practice. So I see her looking at me. We always lock eyes. We kind of laughed to each other and you know, always talking everything is going good And so I told her we can hang out my place have a beer maybe chill a bit and she said yes very quickly So I took that as like a green light, you know, let's hang out at my place. Yeah but here's the thing so

My apartment isn't great right now and I pretty much told her that I gave her a full disclaimer I let I literally told her I said hey, it's gonna look like one of those post apocalyptic episodes of orders Okay, yeah, so she said she said she didn't care and quote unquote I'm not precious she said Okay, and so, you know, it just I don't it just was weird. Like, you know, she came over, we were hanging out and all that good stuff. And I just don't get it. You know, I just, we were having a good time and then she leaves. And now I had getting no response from her. And we were laughing. It was like one of those random dates at my place. You know, it wasn't planned. It was like one of those random dates at my place. You know, it wasn't planned. It wasn't spontaneous. We just went over.

I had a movie playing, you know, I had chips and stuff. So everything seemed to be going really good. I just like, I don't know. I don't know what it is. You don't know. You don't know at all why she might be ghosting you. I mean, I hope it's not like, you know, my house, by the way, was a huge mess.

I mean, that would suck, but yeah. I mean, it's not like, you know, my house, by the way, was a huge mess. I mean, that would suck. But yeah, I mean, it's just, yeah, it just sucks because I really like her and I haven't told her that I like her yet. I just, I know that she likes me as well, you know? So how do you know? Uh, I mean, she came over my place, you know, usually we always go, you know, with the team, you know, to get some, you know, sports bar or something like that. I usually we see each other like in a group setting.

But when I kind of just casually asked her, hey, go want to go to my place? And she said, yes, right away. I kind of thought at that moment, okay, I think this is going to maybe the next level wherever this may be. How messy was your place though? You say that you warned her and you said post apocalyptic, but like, are we talking about like mold on things? Whoa, like kitty litter on the floor? Well you guys I warned her like I mean that's not okay Josh.

That's when you don't invite somebody to your house. I mean I don't know I just it wasn't like I told her hey come see my pristine loft you know I didn't I didn't make it seem like it was all something else. But yeah, total frat house. You know, I'm going to be honest with you. And she even by the way, when she came in, she kind of like looked around and I said, I'm so sorry, you know, I know it's a mess. And she said, no, don't worry.

I appreciate your honesty. And she even joked about it. And she even told me how messy her car was. OK, so now that I think about it and she even told me how messy her car was. Okay So now that I think about it, I did have a box of pizza out from last week I feel like this whole conversation started with the big red flag and you keep making it sound so sweet by saying but I told her though like I mean like if it's the if it's my hideous apartment,

everything pretty much messy everywhere, the pizza boxes and I had gatorade bottles. If it's that- That's pretty gross, Josh. Then that's gonna be horrible. That's gonna be the worst of the worst. Why would she ghost me? All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it out. We'll play a song, come back and then call her

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First date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at AdvocatesLaw.com. We're in the middle of your first date follow-up. If you're just joining us, Josh is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Taryn. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get him a second date Before we do that though Josh. Why don't you catch us up on your situation again real quick? Yeah, I think we're going great You went back to my place after practice, you know, we had some some lunch there We're watching TV and she just ghosted me she left and I think that I mean, I don't know I think it's the pizza boxes guys. I mean, I don't know maybe the Gatorade bottles. I don't know I think it's the pizza boxes guys I mean I don't know maybe the Gatorade bottles I don't know it was messy I told

her that my place was a little messy she said she liked my honesty so that's where we're at okay well we'll see if that is it are you ready for us to call her are you guys gonna tell him on the phone or not or just do I say quiet well you can stay quiet at first eventually we'll tell her all right all Are you ready for us to call her? Are you guys gonna tell him on the phone or not or just do I say quiet? Well, you can stay quiet at first eventually we'll tell her. Alright, alright, alright. Alright, here we go. Alright, let's go.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Taryn, please? This is she. Taryn, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Taryn. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

And my name is Jubal. How are you? Wait, what, what is this? It's a radio show called The Jubal Show. I like I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me?

I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? I'm like, I'm confused. I haven't like, why are you calling me? Wait, what is this? It's a radio show called the Jubal Show. Like I'm confused. I haven't like, why are y'all calling me?

Well, we're calling you because we actually got an email about you. Okay. It's from somebody who listens to the show. And we do a segment on our show that's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to ask you why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody that you're not calling back. No. I'm sorry. Um, no, like this, this isn't real, right? Like this is a joke. Are you guys joking?

No, it's not a joke. Who are you ghosting? Oh my God. Is it Josh? Yes, it's not a joke. Who are you ghosting? Oh my god Is it Josh? Yes, it is Josh Josh emailed us. He told us a little bit about your date and he's confused He said he really liked you and he thought you were into me. He wasn't aware you're ghosting him Um

Honestly, I mean if he really wants to know I'm ghosting him because he's a manslayer, like an aggressive manslayer. Like on the date, like things would be like going fine. And he would literally pause what we're doing to explain something to me. And like not things that are like, I don't know what they are. Oh, that might be interesting, but like basic things like at one point we're making out and he literally paused to say, you know, physical chemistry is just the result of electrical signals in the brain.

And why, why are you interrupting us making out to tell me about this? Like read the room, dude. Maybe he thought it was endearing. Okay. Well, then he explained to me the rules of softball to me, me. I've played for 10 years and I'm literally our team shortstop. I'm sorry, but like there is no excuse for this. He told me why the glove is shaped the way it is.

Like I'm a fricking toddler. Oh, okay. Really? She's hot, like, like ridiculously hot, like extremely fricking hot. That's why I was like, you know, kind of intimate first. But, and I tried to ignore it because he's really good looking. But it's like once I spent time with him and everything was just mansplain this mansplain that I was just, I couldn't. Hold up, hold up, hold up.

Taryn? Taryn, that's Josh. He up, hold up, hold up, Taryn? Taryn, that's Josh, he's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Oh my God. So, so, so because I know things and I wanted to share them with you, that's why you're ghosting me because I explain stuff? That's, that's like nerdy charm.

I thought that was like a cute thing. I thought you were into that stuff. Nerdy charm? You literally stopped kissing me to break down why some people just click. Like who does that? That's kinda cute. I was nervous. I thought you were smart.

I thought you'd appreciate insight. Yeah, insight is when someone offers you something you didn't already know. Not when some dude explains how beer is carbonated like a plot twist. Maybe, maybe you could have just said something instead of just ignoring me like that. And then, you know, here I have calling radio. Like I thought you, I thought you were cool. Just, man, I just, you're just like all the rest. Well, you know what? You're just like every guy who thinks being condescending is a personality trait. Look, Josh, you're hot, but that's not enough to sit through a freaking TED talk every time I touch your arm.

Cool, okay, I understand you now and you know, I don't date people who lie and go, so you know, have fun being, you know, mediocre, Tarian, have fun with that, okay? I thought you were, I thought you were- Lied? I didn't lie to you? Yeah, you know, this is just, I'm embarrassed I'm embarrassed and just so what do we do now? We just watch say hi at practice like we ignore each other Taryn. Would you like another date with Josh? We'll pay for it I would know that they know I I'm I'm good on that

And also, I just like to say Gosh, I'm good on that. And also, I'd just like to say nobody's toilet should look like that. Like get it together, John. I had told you that my apartment was messy. Okay. You don't have to, you know, I was going to slide at first, but now I'm not. It's, it's, it's really nasty. Like you're a grown man.

You need to figure that out. Oh, you can't hold that against me. No, no, no, thank you. Nope. Yeah, what do you guys do now for your games? Pretend you don't know each other. Get on another team. I'm open to forgetting everything about it.

I'm open to forgetting this ever happened, and I'm sorry. It just sucks. That's all. Yeah, I mean, I think that we were fine at practice before, ever happened and I'm sorry. You know, just it just sucks. That's all. Yeah, I mean, I think that we are fine at practice before. So maybe things could just go back the way they were. Pretend like you never saw a

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