First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Jubal Fresh found the first person with abs to get ghosted in First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: March 15, 2021

The Jubal Show talks to a man who for the first time was ghosted he can't figure out why especially since he is really good-looking! Jubal Fresh calls his date and gets some insight! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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he's just, it just said he's weird because he's not, he's never been ghosted before, is what he said. So I'm assuming it's that he thinks he's super hot and doesn't know how he's not getting a call back. Yeah. Well, let's find he thinks he's super hot and doesn't know how he's not getting a call back. Yeah. Well, let's find out. He's never been ghosted ever before. What's up, Jackson? How are you?

Hey, how's it going? Good. So is the reason that you say you've never been ghosted before because you're super hot? Just a hottie. You know, it's not that I'm super hot, but I do take care of myself. All right. So every woman you've talked to has always been a success? Yeah. No, it's not that I'm super hot, but I do take care of myself.

So every woman you've talked to has always been a success? Yeah. Well, have you ghosted girls before? Oh, yeah. And guys. Okay. All right. So you probably are an attractive dude then, if you've never had to deal with getting ghosted before.

What's her name or his name? The person that's not calling you back. It's a her and her name is Therese. Therese. All right. Well, tell us a little bit about Therese and then tell us why you think that she's the first person in your life to ever ghost you. You know, we met online just through one of the apps and we went out for dinner. And, you know, honestly, when we started out, it was kind of boring. She wasn't really good at conversation. Um, but I, I didn't bail and, uh, she loosened

up after about a half an hour and, um, and it turned into a really good date. She was really engaging and yeah, it was, we were making each other laugh and uh after the date it ended with a kiss nice and you know like i said i've never been ghosted and i don't really know what's going on now because the day after the date we talked a little bit and now she's not responding to texts and she's full-on ghosting i'm interested to see, you know, as I'm sure everyone in this room, have we all been ghosted before? I've been ghosted before. Alex? I can't think of a time.

I knew it. She looked at her face and was like, oh, great. They're going to ask me and I have to be like, well, no. I actually was thinking about like, have I been ghosted? I'm like, I can't think of anybody that I've been ghosted by. It doesn't happen to good looking people. It usually doesn't happen to girls. Okay.

I was going to say, though, obviously obviously this is your first time being ghosted. How are you feeling? It doesn't feel great. I'm a little sad, a little confused because I don't understand why. I'm kind of understanding why people don't like when this happens to them. Now you can relate to the normal person. Yeah, if this is being normal, I don't like when this happens to them. Now you can relate to the normal person. Yeah, this is being normal. I don't want to be normal.

So this is actually a true first date follow up. Yeah. I mean, usually we have people that have been on several or like, I don't know. So this is interesting. Yeah, very. What would you rate yourself on a scale of one to ten? I mean, I don't want to sound cockyy but i would say i'm a 9.5 and i have a six pack so oh well you can still be ugly with a six pack automatic 9.5

i mean yeah that is kind of our standards really in society like a dude just doesn't have a dad bod and they're like that guy's almost a 10 yeah how long has it been since your date no it's been a little over a week. A little over a week. Okay. So you said that you guys kissed and so how was the kiss? Was it like a French kiss or was it a pecker or was it just like a, I feel bad. I'm sorry. Here you go. No, there was, there was passion and she was touching me and you know she said she'll call me oh look i can tell when someone's into it and she was into it and she said we'll go out again and and i'm just it's a total 180 so i'm very confused and you can't think of any reason why she's not

talking to you now no no reason at all i i really have been thinking about it and there's no reason we it was a great date. Okay. All right, cool. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if we can figure it out for you. Okay. This is just shocking. What?

Absolutely shocking. What? How does a guy with a six pack have someone stop talking to him? Oh my God. I mean, he's got a six pack. It goes against everything I've been taught. Seriously. I mean, he didn't judge what he was before the six packs, but he says he's a 9.5.

Yes. Jackson is on the phone for a first date follow up. He says he's probably a 9.5. With the six pack. Because he's got a six pack. He's never been ghosted before. We didn't ask you, Jackson. What were you before the six pack?

I mean, I would say I was probably an 8.5. I mean, I have a good good face I have a good jawline There you go you got it going on Alright cool alright so You're just a good looking dude it sounds like And at least you have some hey you know what though Honestly if you're good looking Jackson you don't strike me as like a

Cocky arrogant dude You don't sound like it you sound like you are confident Enough to go I'm good looking If you're good looking be okay saying that It's weird it's sound like you are confident enough to go i i'm good looking if you're good looking be okay saying that it's weird it's weird how people are not okay saying that by the way i don't consider myself to be classically good looking i kind of look like what in the pug world oh my god i'd be hot you're top tier top ten yeah i'm a ten in the pug world because i got a little pug i got buggy eyes like a pug but uh a is gorgeous. English Evan, what would you rate yourself?

I think I'm about a 7.5. I'm pretty hot. That's higher than... For a ginger as well. I like the confidence. Thank you. Be confident. It's okay if you think you're good looking to say you're good looking.

Okay? Because I don't know why that gets such a bad rep. Anyway... It's okay to be perfect if you think you're perfect. Yes, it is. So do you think you're perfect, Jackson? I mean, I would just say, look, being attractive can get you to maybe being an eight, but I have a good personality. I can hold a conversation. I'm not cocky, so I'm not going to say I'm perfect, but I don't see many guys better than me.

Boom. There you go. I want to find out why she's not calling you back, bro. Me too. You sound amazing. Again, this is the first time he's find out why she's not calling you back, bro. Me too. Sound amazing. Again, this is the first time he's ever been ghosted and they

went out for dinner. They made out. Even at the end of the date, he thought things were going great and now she isn't talking to him anymore and her name is

Therese. I'm going to call her right now and see if we can figure it out. Anything you want to say before we dial her phone number, Jackson?

No. Let's do it. All right. Let's go. Here we go. I'm going to dial her number right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Therese, please?

Yeah, this is she. This is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. I'm not sure if you've ever heard of it or not. Uh, I've kind of tuned in a little bit. Okay. Yeah, I just don't really listen to the radio. Okay, well, don't tell our bosses that.

Yeah. Well, we do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-ups, where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up not calling them back, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened so have you gone on any dates recently yeah uh yeah actually you have did they have a six-pack were they gorge were they hot like a 9.5 like almost a 10 like with a good personality too oh that guy Well, who are you talking about? It depends. Was it Jackson?

Yes, it was. Unless you've been out with a bunch of other dudes with six packs that would be about a 10. Wow. So he told us that he was like so gorgeous. And like he rated himself a 9.5. And he had a six pack. Is this true? Yo, I'm going to have to give him a 7.2.

She's precise. Why? Why? Okay. I mean, everything was good. I'm, I'm, I'm, he, he was, he was a nice, charming guy for a while. Um, and then I, when we left the date, I was just going to skip all the way to the end. I decided to do some research.

So I get on his social media, and I find out that he has an OnlyFans account. OnlyFans account. Oh, wow. Do you know what he does on it? I mean, the previews, the comment, like they give you a little preview on there, and the comments are kind of wild. And it was just a no for me, dog. Oh.

Really? Yeah. Maybe we should just ask him. Yeah, maybe we should. Do you want to ask him? Wait, wait. He's on the phone right now? He can hear me?

Yep. Jackson? Yeah, what's up? What's up, babe? Hi. Are you, I don't get why you're so upset about this. Also, ghosting is not very nice. I just want you to know that.

The first time this ever happened to him. Oh, yeah. I mean, look, you have an OnlyFans, and that to me says that you, like, I don't know, it sends off, like, I don't know, what's the word? Like, vibe. It's bad vibes for me. Red flags.

You want too much attention. Oh, so it's attention. It's attention-seeking for me, and i i just that's not how i roll yeah well therese i think you should really look inwards and realize you're kind of being judgmental um i don't do anything weird on only fans and i'm just diversifying my income so what do you do on there i just work out and you know shirtless workouts okay do anything how many followers do you have uh i'm almost at like 600 oh damn that's pretty good that is making a bag yeah but it's you know it's a good way to make money terese what do you think paid for our dinner

at least you know he's an entrepreneur yeah yes he is his six-pack paid for your dinner literally um i mean that that's that's that's great and all and i do appreciate the gesture it's just like that's not my lifestyle like i mean you're gonna be if i'm dating you like you're gonna be on only fans all the time like it's just it's kind of embarrassing you don't want to talk to him or go out with him again, only because of OnlyFans? Other than that, you liked him? I mean, he was cool.

But some things are deal breakers for me. And so I don't really have anything to, like, offer that type of guy, to be honest. I mean, it seems like he's attention seeking and he's all about himself. I mean, I'd like somebody a little bit more humble. Look, I get it. A lot of guys that do what I do, they're cocky, but I'm really not. I'm very in tune with emotions and look, I don't, I don't mess around. I don't hook up with a bunch of people. If I'm dating you, it's just all about you.

I'm a solo guy. I'm exclusive. And Therese, if you want to be judgmental and just throw this away, I guess you can do that. But I honestly feel bad for you because you're really just missing out on a great experience.

Wow. Aw. Well, let's see if she really wants to miss out on it. Therese, would you like to go out with Jackson again? We'll pay for it. You know, Jackson, you're a great guy, but I think you'll find a much more suitable woman out there in the streets.

I'm not going to want to see you. Whatever. Therese, look, I honestly, I thought I agree with you. I think you're like a nine, but your personality and your closed mindedness really drops you down to. I don't even want to say how low the number is now. Oh, wow. And by the way, she said you were a seven point something. Yeah.

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