First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Justin & Carly - Cosplay Hike

Episode Date: October 19, 2023

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So we're about to call her and see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date in a second. Before we do that though, Justin, how long has it been since you heard from Carly? Probably about a week, I'd say now. Have you tried to reach out to her

like multiple times in that week? No, I definitely reached out to her for sure. And then I reached out to her again and then that was it know that was it so waited a few days and I still haven't heard anything so it was like you know I reached out we had a date then I didn't talk to her the next day or anything I reached out to her the day after then I never heard from her then I texted her again several days later just to kind of check in, you know, and it's nothing.

I recognize your voice. Have we done a first date follow-up with you before? Well, yeah, you got me. So, this is first date follow-up number two for you then? I guess. I guess it's the wings and misses out of here, really. Listen, if you're even trying, then that's a win. Yeah, it's all good

man so you know the drill then why don't why don't you tell us about your date oh okay so um i don't know if this came into play before but i love the outdoors uh and i went on this date with this girl carly and carly also loves the outdoors. So we decided to go on a hike. I brought a backpack with a bunch of necessities for a picnic. I got a really nice bottle of rosé. It was still cold, keeping it chill.

You know how we like to do out here. So we set up a picnic at a top little overlook thing and it had a gorgeous view and it was really quaint and cool. Um, but, uh, so we're enjoying each other's company and we just, to be completely honest, we couldn't help but notice. So we just like kept seeing some movement and whatnot. And then, you know, when we started to kind of check into like well what is that

is that animals whatever it was people in costumes that looked like they were doing like cosplay or something like that we were like what the heck is going on you know and it was funny and we both decided we were like you know what

you know this is in the moment let's do this. Let's just go figure out what's going on. That's a fun part of the date. So we did. That's cool. You were hiking, and you ended up finding a bunch of cosplay people out in the woods. That is a recipe for either a really great time or a really weird time, which also could be great.

Right, right. Right. I like weird. You know, so we wanted to do a little investigating, we're like you know let's do it and we went down there and turns out lo and behold that they were in fact a cosplay group they got dressed up for a photo shoot and had speakers we couldn't hear the music from far away but then once we got up there we're like they had this like you know portable speaker that had like one of those like disco kind of like kind of things going on oh that's cool vibe yeah and they just welcomed us welcomed us right into their party and honestly

carly and i thought it was like you know we keep kept giving each other looks and stuff like at least in my impression we were like in our own little world and we were just like dancing and laughing with new friends it was really cool so why do you think you're getting ghosted i don't really know you know i mean i know that of when we were going back up at some point uh i allowed her to come to Carly to pick up some of our picnic stuff. And she offered, but I hesitated. I'm a gentleman. I really don't think like I just want to be like the brute force guy.

So I wanted to do all that stuff. But I hesitated and I let her do it. And like, maybe she thinks like I'm not, uh, early enough or, or I'm just not really sure. Cause I thought we had a great time. So I can't really make sense of why I would not be hearing from her, especially after an evening like that.

It was so fun. And, and, uh, one in a million. All right, man. Well,

you know how it works. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted and get you another date if you still want one. million. All right, man. Well, you know how it works. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted and get you another date if you still want one, okay? All right, cool. Thank you. All right, play a song, come back,

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that you never really lose, even if you kind of lose. That's how I feel. All right. So we're about to call Carly and see why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Justin, refresh everybody's memory about your day with Carly. We had this really cool, random, unique date where we went hiking and went to this lookout and then saw some people down below us. And we weren't really sure what was going on, but it looked intriguing,

and we decided to check them out. So when we got down there, we realized they were dressed up doing cosplay, and they had a party going on. They had a speaker with music and lights and stuff, and they were all dancing around. And it was really fun. We went down there. We had a good time. We danced around and laughed, met people, you know, exchanged some numbers, did all that kind of good stuff. It was great. Since that point,

I didn't contact her the next day, and I figured I'd reach out to her the day after, and I did. I never heard back from her. Then I waited several days, and I reached out again, did, and never heard back from her. So now I'm like, well, what the heck happened? You know? And ultimately I think maybe I did something during that time. And I think it was that maybe I wasn't served enough as I should have been. Um, and you're taking charge of lifting the things back up. Cause we brought picnic stuff for the lookout and then we packaged it up and then brought it back down to the people. And then we went back to our spot because we had left some things there.

Oh, I don't know. You know, I just really don't know what it is. She made her do manual labor on a date, bro. Well, she asked me to do so. No, I know. I'm kidding. I'm i'm kidding it's okay we're about to find out all right here we go i'm about to call her okay hello i may speak to Carly, please. This is.

Hey, Carly, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show and the show is called The Jubal Show. And the whole show is here to Carly. Hi, my name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hey. How are you?

I'm good. I'm fine. What's going on? Have you ever heard of the show before? No. I mean, I feel like I'm familiar, but I haven't listened Have you ever heard of the show before? Um, not, I mean, I, I feel like I'm familiar,

but I haven't listened to you. Right. It sounds like a nice no. Hey, so we're calling you today because we do a segment on the show. It's called the first date followup. What that is, is if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting

them. So you are currently ghosting somebody. Oh, uh, okay. Do you know who you're ghosting them. So you are currently ghosting somebody. Oh, okay. Do you know who you're ghosting? I mean, my most recent, yeah, my most recent date. Justin, yeah. Okay. Yeah, Justin is the one who emailed us,

and he wants to know why you're ghosting him. Oh, I mean, he was actually really fun. We had a good time. We planned to go on a hike, and I'm sorry. Carly, I don't know what just happened. Justin is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you, and it sounds like he's having some problems. Dude, Justin, you had to do that before she even told us? Wait, what?

Yeah. Justin, just go ahead now, man. Find your answer out. Oh, um. What happened? What'd you drop? I mean, I just, I don't know. I just dropped like my pen or something.

I don't know. Anyways, hi Carly. That was a heavy pen. Good to hear from you again. Yeah, you know. You want to know why I didn't text you back, right? That's what this whole thing is. Well, yeah. to know you want to know why i didn't text you back right that's what this whole thing is well yeah i mean you know i thought we had a fun time to be completely honest we did we did have a fun time you are not wrong it was super fun it was super weird and like nothing like

that could ever happen in my life ever um right and yes it was it was a bizarre once in a lifetime like alternate reality sort of date um and it was it was fun but here's the deal and i think that you think i don't know this but i saw you with this is gonna sound so dumb but with one of the fairies and you were like, like one of the girls dressed up as a fairy. Right. And so I saw you guys exchange phone numbers. And in the moment I was like, Oh, whatever, you know, this is the first day. And now we're at this cosplay party in the woods. So it's not like I have like, you know, it was not a big, serious thing, but you know, I was just thinking about it and I have like, you know, it was not a big serious thing. But, you know, I was just thinking about it. And I was like, I don't I'm not up for like casual stuff right now.

I I liked you and we had a great time and I think we had good chemistry. And I just don't want to be like on a list of several girls. And so that's totally cool that that's where you're at right now. Right. Like you obviously can date multiple people, but that's just not where I'm at. Are you saying that I have like a roster? No, I don't know. I have no idea. You were on a date with me and then you were exchanging numbers with someone else. Absolutely not. I actually really liked you.

And Barry was looking for a web designer, which my brother is. So, like, it had nothing to do with anything other than me connecting two people. I'm not, like, a roster guy. I'm, like, a I-think-I-really-like-you guy. And I thought I had a real connection with you because I've never had that kind of like, what was that? That was so cool. Like, what? I don't know.

That never happened. Don't date with me. So like, I thought we were going to go like watch a movie or something like pretty casual or whatever. And then we're like dancing with fairies and cosplay and all this stuff. And I'm like, this is totally my person and like i feel like i really have a connection with you and i'd really like you to give me another shot and if you would you know that's awesome but then now i'm kind of thinking like okay first time like i totally get where you're coming from why you didn't want to call you back next time like, you definitely got to speak up on those kinds of things.

Because if you don't, like, that's kind of a red flag. Then maybe I might be good. So, it's like, you don't want a girl that you've been on one date with to be like, why are you talking to that other girl? That's fair. No, you don't, because that would be weird. That would be weird, so that's why I didn't say anything. By the way, come on, let's be real. Forget

the altered reality stuff. In reality, we're talking about a fairy here. A person, a cosplay fairy. I'm not trying to date fairies, honey, okay? I'm trying to date a princess that I can make my queen. Oh, wow. Whoa.

Carly, would you like to go on another date with Justin? We'll pay for it. Say yes, Carly. Oh, my gosh. I say yes, but I think I will. All right. It has to be like a renaissance fair or we have to level up, right? So you've got to wear a costume

yourself. All right. Yeah, that's how we're going to go with this one. All right. We're going to go. Congratulations, Justin. You got another date and Carly. All right. Jubal's first date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney.

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