First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Justin & Laurie - The Ex in the Drawer

Episode Date: October 23, 2023

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Justin is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. He's getting ghosted by

Lori. Find out what they did on their date in just a second. But first, Justin, how long has it been since you heard from Lori? Yeah, it's been probably like three weeks. So what was your last interaction with Lori like? So we went on a date and ended up having a nice night and went back to my house and had a nice night, we hooked up. But then that was the last time I saw her. So it was after that date that we had. So you guys actually hooked up and she's ghosting you?

Yeah, so there was a weird moment earlier on in the night that I had made reservations at a nice restaurant for us to go to, but I messed up the times. And so our reservation for the restaurant was much later in the evening than I had originally planned. So we got there, realized the reservation was wrong, and so we just had a lot of time to kill before our dinner. So we ended up just walking down. We ended up walking down the street. There was a bowling alley and we decided to go bowling.

And it felt like we had a really great time. We had dinner. And then, you know, like I said, we went back to my place afterwards. And everything felt really great to me. I feel like the only reason that she'd be ghosting me at this point would be because of the mix up with the restaurant. Maybe she just didn't like waiting. I don't know.

I mean, she ended up hooking up with you anyway. I don't know that that really was a deal breaker for her. Yeah. Cause she didn't even text you like, thank you for the hookup or for the anything. Thank you for the day. There was nothing.

There was nothing afterwards. I ate. She left. I had got up in the morning to take a shower, and then I came back, and she was gone. Not even a goodbye? Justin, what did you do? That's what I want to try to find out. So you don't have any idea?

My only thought would have been the weird mix-up with the reservation. I can't think of anything else that happened well what happened in bed was there anything weird that happened there that might have scared her away like i don't know if you baby talk or something like that might have made her want to leave i i don't think i did it not you know not to my knowledge okay okay good so have you actually tried to reach out to her though were you like it was did you say thank you and it was nice to meet you or anything along those lines i mean i definitely have texted i mentioned you know like hey sorry for the mix up at the restaurant um i sent that in a text but you know oh like i said i got nothing back so i'd really

love a chance to apologize if that's a real problem. Well, because I was also just thinking, if you didn't reach out to her, then maybe she thinks you're ghosting her. Oh, you know what I mean? Yeah, that's true. Because communication can be a little tricky, you know? Somebody's got to start it. Yeah, she left without really saying anything. It felt very sudden, and I have no idea what I did. Okay.

Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and try to get you another date if you still want one, okay? Sounds good. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

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Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First Date Follow-Up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. If you're just joining us for today's First Date Follow-Up, Justin is on the phone, and it's been three weeks since he's heard from Lori. And he really liked her, too. They actually had what sounds like a lot of fun on their date.

Before we give her a call to try to find out why she's ghosting Justin, Justin, refresh everybody's memory about your date with Lori. Yeah, so we went on a date three weeks ago. I made a reservation at a nice restaurant. We ended up getting there and the reservation was wrong and it was for a lot later. So we ended up finding a and the reservation was wrong and it was for a lot later so we ended up finding a bowling alley going bowling and then going to our place having dinner and then we ended up having a great night she came back to my place we hooked up and uh in the morning she left before i got out of the shower and i haven't heard from her since man fed bowling and a good night all well, we're about to call her

and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. You ready? Yeah, let's do it. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lori, please? Yeah, hi, this is Lori. Hey, Lori, how are you?

My name is Jubal, and I host a show called The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. The whole show is here, Lori. Hi. Oh, what? Uh, hi, everybody. I'm Nina. That's Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria. That's Victoria. And I probably shouldn't host this show. It was really terrible, that description. That's Jubal. Yeah. Took you a shouldn't host this show. It was really terrible, that description. That's Jubal. Yeah. Took you a minute.

What's up? How are you? Oh my God, it's a party. Okay, hi. What's up? Not much. Any idea why we're calling you? I mean, I've heard of radio stations calling people for second date update kind of things before, but I'm hoping that's not what this is. Well, it's not. It's a first date follow up. It's the same, but different.

That is actually what it is though. Yeah. Wait. Oh my God. No way. Are you kidding me? No. You went on a date recently and you've been ghosting him for like three weeks and they want to know why you're not calling him back. You want to take a guess at who it is? I mean, there's only one person I can think of that I've been avoiding. Oh. I mean, not like anything wrong with him exactly, but just the situation. Did he call you guys to find out where I went or something?

He emailed us and said that he was trying to get a hold of you. He really liked you and wants to go out with you again. His name is Justin. Yes, yes, I know. Yeah, we went on a date. We went bowling. It was pretty fun, actually. And I spent the night. And then he got up in the morning, like took a shower. That wasn't the weird part. So like, I really liked him a lot, actually. And I was gonna write this like cute little sweet note. And when I opened his desk drawer, I saw this picture of him and another girl. And it just kind of like threw me for a loop. I was like, wait, what? You know, like what's going on? And

also just felt really serious because like who just has a hard copy printed photo of you and another girl, unless it's not, you know what I mean? Like, unless it's like the love of your life, you know? Um, what if it's family?

Oh, I don't think so. Um, I mean, that's kind of maybe weird too. If it's like you and your sister and just like, I don't know. I just,

I mean, unless they're like really, really close, but I, I just, it seems like a romantic photo and it just kind of like hit me the wrong way, you know? And, um, I had to get out of there. I like bolted and left and, you know, it was just kind of, I didn't know what to say or like, I just felt like he was hiding something from me. Well, it wasn't a drawer. So it wasn't it wasn't out for, you know, anybody to see. And also, it probably should have been nice for you to know that it wasn't just out.

I mean, I guess I don't think that that would scare me away right away. I'd want to know like who it is. Yeah, the situation is, especially since it was a first date. I mean, can you be mad about him having a life before you i mean i just i didn't know like if it was current or um you know how previous this girl is you know what i mean like it just spooked me a little bit yeah um yeah because i i just yeah i don't want to like get close to someone and then find out that they have a girlfriend yeah that's completely understandable but there's no part of you that felt like you could ask him um well i didn't want him to think i was snooping either you know um like i wasn't trying to do like recon you know i wasn't like going through his drawers i was legitimately trying to just

write like a cute note yeah um and so then i just felt really weird and awkward and I just left like in a panic. Okay. Okay. All right. So, um, do you want to know what that picture was about? I mean,

yeah, sure. Yeah. That'd be great. Okay. Cause he's on the phone listening and I've been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. What?

Stop it. Are you kidding me stop it nope what's up lori oh my god oh my god see now i'm like doubly embarrassed like seriously oh my god um i'd love to explain it to you if if you wanted to hear it sure sure so I I totally get that I I know that that probably was weird so you know I kind of forgot that that was there and so I I apologize for that but so uh I was in a two-year relationship um and I had just gotten out of it like a month prior to our date. Um, and, uh, so that, that's a picture of me and my ex and, um, we had some really nice memories. Um, and that picture I just had in my drawer, cause I'm trying to debate whether it's right or not to throw it away or keep it. So, um, it's just been in my drawer. It was out, but I actually put it in there thinking I, you know, didn't want people to, to see it if, you know, if things went well, like, like they did

with you. So yeah, that's, that's all that is. It's no one, there's no one else in my life right now. It was just a very long relationship. And that picture was from that, that X. It's no one, there's no one else in my life right now. It was just a very long relationship. And that picture was from that, that ex. And I just, I just haven't done anything with it yet. Okay. I mean, do you still have feelings for her or is it over? I mean, we had, we had a great two years. I was very, you know, I was, we were very much, you know, together, two years worth of time together. But I think it's been long enough. I think we both realized that we're adults. We're moving on.

And yeah, I don't really have feelings for her anymore. Would you be willing to burn the picture in front of Lori? Oh, my God. Don't ask him to do that. That's just a memory. I mean, yes. He really loves me. No, I'm just kidding.

I mean, we went on, like, one date, so I can't really expect you to just, like, burn your entire history, like, in front of me. Or any. Any. No. Yeah. I mean, I appreciate you telling me. Thank you. You know, I really do like you. I think you telling me. Thank you. I really do like you.

I think you're really great. I would like to spend more time with you and get to know you better. Lori, would you like to go on another date with Justin? We'll pay for it. Yeah, I would do that. Yay! Congratulations, Justin.

Awesome. Justin, quick, clean your apartment out. Yeah, go get a story from it. Yeah, no more pictures. Three more days and I'll consider burning some pictures. Oh, nobody's got to burn pictures at all. Put them in a box. Jubal's first day follow-up.

Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney. Online at advocateslaw.com. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun,

thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend John Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that'll resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source

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