First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Katherine & Kevin - Wonderwall

Episode Date: November 22, 2023

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You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Kevin is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Catherine. And I really hope that when we call her and find out why she's ghosting him, it's cool. And they go on another date because Catherine and Kevin should date. It sounds very good together. It is cute. Kevin, what's up, man? Hey, not much. How are you,

man? Great. Before we get into your date, how long has it been since you heard from Catherine? It's been like five or six days now. Were you the last one to contact her? Or was the last time you saw each other the last time you talked? Yeah, well, she, you know, she texted me that she got home safe and enjoyed herself. And then I've been texting her the past few days and nothing. So I just don't know. Well, let's go back to the beginning and hear about how you guys met, what your date like and see if we can figure it out i was here with a couple of friends i just got promoted so

we were just celebrating my promotion like nothing real big just something small and i you know i had been seeing her she was with some girlfriends and you know i finally got the courage i said hello to her uh you know she was cordial she spoke back and we was cordial. She spoke back, and we just, you know, I ordered a drink, and we just started chatting it up. And as the evening went, she just felt more comfortable, I can tell. And, I mean, we just clicked. Were you at a bar? Yeah, we were at a nice little spot.

Yeah, we were just at a bar. I was just celebrating my promotion with some friends. I mean, so, like, you know, it was was cool when I was like, Hey, you know what? Here's my number. Let's exchange numbers. I would like to take you out to dinner, you know, just a proper date. Cause I wasn't, I wasn't going there for date mode. I was just going with my buddies.

Yeah. You know, so like we met a couple of days later, you know, and I, I took her out, you know, which was cool, man. We had a great time. I mean, went out on the town, just hanging out and just chatting it up. You know, it was crazy because our conversation was good. You know, like we've been knowing each other for years. So I don't know. It was just weird, man. I mean, dude, I'm so puzzled. You know, that's why I called you guys. Cause like, I was like, Hey, you know, you want to see my place? She was like, sure. So we went back to

my place. I don't want to say I was a slob because of college, but, you know, I got a promotion, man. My money's a little good now. So I got a nice little spot. You know, I got me a little guitar, even though I'm learning to play it more and more. You know, I got a nice little spot, man. I love my guitar. Okay, I see where this is going. Yeah, yeah.

So, like, you know, she comes in. It's cool, man. She enjoyed it. She's like, you know, we're chatting it up. She's like, hey, you know, play me a song. And I'm like, oh, Lord. I played a couple of songs and I nailed them, man. I mean, we just had a great time.

Did you kiss? Oh, man, we kissed. We had a good time. We even, you know we we did adult things okay we went full adult she had told me hey i gotta wake up early you know i gotta go to work and i was like cool just text me when you get home say and dude she's like oh she texts me when she gets home hey i had a great time thank you for a great night you know i'll i'll see you tomorrow uh that was five days ago dude and so you don't have any idea why she may not be hitting you back

i don't know i'm just i'm at a loss that's why i need help you sound like a very nice person so please don't take this the wrong way but i just wonder if there's a little bit of like overconfidence that maybe was a little bit i don't know much yeah you know from the i'll play the guitar and i have a really nice spot i just got my raise like that's a lot of showy things so i don't know if it was something that just maybe got too much yeah you know i it could be i didn't think about it that way but it could be i was just i mean i was there celebrating my promotion and you should and i understand you get excited i'm just saying maybe it came off that way, but it could be, I was just, I mean, I was there celebrating my promotion. And you should, and I understand you get excited. I'm just saying maybe it came off that way.

Yeah, you know what I've wondered that about, that's a good point, Nina. I've wondered that about myself sometimes, if I start talking to somebody new, right? I am interested in a lot of things. I also get excited about them. And then I've wondered sometimes if it seems like I'm trying to like show off or something

or I'm trying to be like look at all this when I'm literally just excited about it you know but they don't know me well enough yet to know I'm excited it's an easy thing to come off wrong but I understand the intention so I don't know maybe she was a little bit thrown now I'm getting more insight on maybe the times I've been ghosted that was probably why

alright Kevin I'm here for you we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and hopefully get you another date, okay? Alright, thanks. Alright, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date, follow up next. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election

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If you're just joining us for today's first day of follow-up, Kevin is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Catherine, and we're about to call her and ask her why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date. If he still wants one after here's the reason. But before we call her, Kevin, why don't you refresh everybody's memory?

What tell us about your day with Catherine? Dude, we just, you know, like I said, we met when I was out celebrating my promotion. Then we went out for a date couple of days later, just her and I,

we had a good time, went back to my place and you know just spent the night together and i thought it was all good after that but i hadn't heard anything from her so it's been like a week now five days so i'm just trying to figure out what's going on you know and i don't know now that i think about it maybe it's because of you know everything i have going on and i made her wear my stuff and you know i didn't think i over and I made her wear my stuff and, you know, I didn't think I overkill, but who knows now that you guys got me thinking. Kevin has a bunch of stuff going on. He's excited about a promotion. He's learned to

play the guitar, all that kind of stuff. So he thinks maybe possibly it came off like the wrong way when he was just trying to, you know, tell her about what's going on in his life. All right, man. Well, I'm about to call her and get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why. You ready? Yeah, let's do it. All right, man. Well, I'm about to call her and get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why. You ready? Yeah, let's do it. All right, let's go.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Catherine, please? Yep, this is Catherine. Who's this? Hi, Catherine. How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Catherine. We're keeping it so formal. My name is Nina. I'm also here. Hi,. How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Hi Catherine. We're keeping it so formal. My name is Nina. I'm also here. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hey,

we're calling you because we do a segment on the show. It's called the first date followup. What that is, is if you go on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask you why. So you are ghosting someone and they really liked you and they want to know why you're not calling them back. Kevin, right?

Yeah. Oh, I wish he took the hint. Oh my God. Why? You wish he took the hint. Yes, it is Kevin, by the way. Sorry, but what hint? I mean, if you don't mind telling us what happened, because he said your guys' date

was excellent. I mean, he was great at dinner. You know, we hit it off then. But once we got back to his place, it was like stepping into that world. Uh-oh. Yeah, his place was very nice. Don't get me wrong. But he just kept bragging about everything.

And I get it. You got a promotion. It's okay to be, you know, happy about the things that you can have now. But he was just flat out bragging. Okay. And then the way he spoke about me was like I was an accessory and he was adding me to like a trophy. Like I was like a trophy to him. Like, I don't know.

It was weird. And then he just kept talking about money. And I feel like it was just so gauche, you know? So what? Gauche? There are things that you just, like, really don't talk about. And just the way he made me feel, it's like he was adding me to his trophy collection. And, you know, I'm a person.

I don't want to be treated like an object. You did stay there, though. You guys were intimate, though. Yeah. And then another thing, the guitar, he literally ruined the song. Do you know Wonderwall? Yeah, actually.

By Oasis. Oh, yeah. Iconic, iconic song, but he completely... I have nightmares. I don't even want to think about it. You are my wonderwall. No. Not even that.

It's my wonderwall. Oh, yeah, that's the one. Okay, that one. Gotcha. Yeah, yeah. Sorry, keep going. So he ruined it? He ruined it.

And it's not like he was just singing it to me. He was singing it while he was getting a tour of his place. Okay. That's a little... That's interesting. I just don't get why you didn't leave. I mean... I was just so stumped. Like, I don't know. Like I was being pranked or something.

I just had a... I don't know. He sang it during the tour. He sang it after we had sex and we were laying in bed. What? Wonderwall, Wonderwall, Wonderwall. Yes. Now you know why I'm traumatized. But you still didn't leave. I'm sorry, Catherine.

I'm so puzzled. But it's okay. I mean, these are all fair icks, if you will. Yeah. If I was intimate with someone and they started singing Wonderwall after, I'd be like, man, I must have done a great job. Maybe he was that good. Yeah.

And then by the third time he started singing it again, I was like, no, I have to leave. I have to go to work tomorrow. Okay. And I completely booked it. All right. Well, thank you for being honest. That's cool. I appreciate that. Yeah.

We'll make sure that we give the message to him. Okay. Okay. Well, actually, we don't even need to do that because Catherine, Kevin is on the phone. He's been listening this whole time and he wants to talk to you. So, I mean, it's not a a problem i'll learn more song i mean think about it wonder wonderwalls it's the perfect song i i just don't understand i wasn't trying to place like ownership on you like what i mean i think you're a trophy yeah you're hot

as hell but what the vibes just weren't there so yeah i don't i don't think i can continue this really i mean my my song choice or my singing was that bad i mean it wasn't really the song the song added not gonna lie but like i said the bragging just the overall vibes it just wasn't for me really but yet i was able to do whatever i was able to do with you but. It just wasn't for me. Really? But yet, I was able to do whatever I was able to do with you, but now it just wasn't for you. I mean, I can learn more songs. It's no big deal. I don't understand. Like, I'm not bragging.

Hell, I've been down and out. I mean, I'm just telling you the facts. That's what's going on. Hell, you should have seen where I was living before this. I hear you, but that's my perception. It was just giving bragginess, and I'm not okay with that. Really? That I'm stoked?

Yeah. Really? So I'm stoked that I got a promotion. I'm making the most money that I've ever made. I got a bad spot I live in. There you go. Bragging again. For me, it could be crappy to someone else, but for me, all right, whatever.

I mean, but listen, I have no problem learning more songs. Hey, Catherine, would you like to go on another date with Kevin? We'll pay for it. Sounds like it's going good. Yeah. No, thank you. No, thank you. Sure.

Positive. All right. I mean, you sure? I have no problem learning more songs i mean you're you're crazy i'm i'm okay thank you do you still want to go out with her after that kevin you sound upset i'm surprised no i would i would i would be willing to do that i mean she deserves more songs um i think i'm just gonna end it here here. Yeah, no, that's fine. I totally understand.

And I wish you the best. I know one thing. Somebody out there, somebody, somewhere, will love the way I sung Wonderwall, and they're going to love my singing. So, hey. Yes, they will. They sure will.

Yes, they will. You want to join us for other songs? Victoria is also available. Learn one and holler. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein,

Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app,

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