First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Keisha's the only woman we with this problem in this First Date Follow Up!
Episode Date: November 11, 2021First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Keisha isn't g...etting a call back from a guy that she's lucky to go on a date with and the reason he's not calling back!? Let just she's probably the only women in the world with this problem! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Transcript
Discussion (0)
Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time
for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,
to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have
some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're
going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,
on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show,
which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's
biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all
get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Welcome.
My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones.
It's about learning through them and their new perspective.
I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world.
And most of all, I help people every single day.
Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
First date follow-up.
Keisha is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.
And when you hear about her date and the guy she went out with,
you'll understand why she wants our help
in getting a hold of this guy.
She's been ghosted by a guy named Eric and
before we get into the reason why I say that
you'll understand why she's
really upset about getting ghosted. First of
all, Keisha, thank you for your email. Appreciate it.
No problem.
And how long has it been since you heard from Eric?
It's been
like a week.
How many times have you hit him up after your date?
Oh, like three.
I almost hit a fourth, but that just felt like too much.
Eric has a Lamborghini.
What?
Sorry.
Yeah.
Why'd you yell that? Oh, yeah.
He does?
Yeah, that's why I couldn't wait.
Your email said that he picked you up in a Lamborghini for your date.
Before we get into all that, we'll get the rest of the story, but I just couldn't
hold it in any longer.
I understand why you're upset.
You're a rock date.
How did you meet him?
I met him at the mall,
actually.
Of course.
Shopping.
Was he buying his Lamborghini?
He was not.
I was, like,
you know,
like, doing my thing,
like, just, you know.
Was he by himself?
He was, actually.
And it was so, like, cool and, like, weird, I guess.
How did you meet him at the mall?
Well, he was, like, going on a spree, and, like, he was there, and, like,
he's, like, older, but he's, like, super hot.
Oh.
And then, like, oh, yeah, like, really hot.
And then, like, he, like, came over and, like, offered to, like, help pay, which was, like, yum and like offered to like help pay which was
like yum but also like okay.
Okay. You were like were you
getting clothes?
Yeah. So he was in a store that you were in
saw you buying stuff and just offered to buy you
clothes? Yeah.
Wow. And I was like delish.
What does that even happen to? Right?
I know but then he was like actually really
cool so he asked for my number and I gave it to him.
Of course you did.
And he like, yeah.
Wow.
He's obviously got a lot of money if he picked you up for your date in a Lambo and just offering to buy random people's clothes.
And you must be really, really hot.
Yeah.
For a dude to just come up and be like, uh, throw it in the bag.
I'll pay for it.
It's kind of crazy.
Obviously though,
that's probably how he initiates conversations.
If he's that rich with people that he's interested in,
that's good.
This money.
Obviously you guys talked and exchanged numbers and stuff and went out.
What did you guys do for your date?
Well,
first of all,
he picks me up into jet black Lambo,
which was cute.
And then we go to this like super fancy seafood restaurant.
He ordered the most expensive bottle of wine. But then
he gives me his coat. He drops me off at my house.
We have a little snooch. And then I just
don't hear from him. Oh, okay. Have you ever been treated like that
on a date before? I mean, not like that. He was just
such a gentleman, honestly.
And like...
And rich.
Super kind.
Very rich.
Yeah.
I mean, yes.
But like the thing that was
like kind of wild
was that I liked
talking to him the most.
And like,
he was just super easy
to talk to.
He was so kind.
He was really funny.
And like,
I don't know.
This guy's like legit,
you know?
So what do you think happened? What is the reason why he's ghosting you? I don't know. This guy's like legit, you know? So what do you think happened?
What is the reason why he's ghosting you?
I don't know.
I mean, the thing I can think of just like based on circumstances, I guess, would just
be like he thinks I'm a gold digger or whatever, but he's legit cool.
And honestly, like J-Lo, my love doesn't cost a thing.
No, it just doesn't.
Okay.
Like J-Lo, your love don't cost a thing?
Did you really like him though? Or is it just clouded by the money?
No, I think the money was the intro.
Also, his like hot face.
But he's like legit.
He's super nice and he's super cool.
He was the one forking out all the money.
Yeah, he initiated it.
Maybe he was testing you.
He paid for her clothes and he didn't even know her.
Yeah, that's like a weird trap too. Did you offer to pay for half the bill? initiated it. Yeah. Maybe he was testing with that. He paid for her clothes and she didn't even know her. Yeah.
That's like a weird
trap too.
Did you offer to pay
for half the bill?
He picked you up in a
Lambo.
Obviously has a bunch
of money.
Did you at least
offer?
Cause maybe that's
his thing.
Like I don't care if
I had a billion dollars
if I took someone on
a date and they
didn't even offer,
I'd be like,
I don't know if I can
see you.
Do you have a Lambo?
No.
And that's the problem. I know. Yeah. I can see you. Do you have a jet black Lambo? Do you have a Lambo? No. And that's the problem.
I know.
Yeah.
Shut up, pool guy.
So you didn't have to pay.
But maybe, though, for him, that's a thing.
Other than that, are there any other things you can think of?
No.
Huh.
Okay.
Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if we can figure it out for
you, right?
Thank you.
Yep.
We'll do it right after this.
It's the Jubal Show.
Just joining us for today's
first date follow-up. Keisha is on the phone
and Keisha met a dude
named Eric and Eric is
filthy rich.
Or filthy in debt.
We're not sure. But they met
because she was at the mall and
he walked up to her and she was
buying something and he walked up to her and said, hey, I'll pay
for it for you if you go out with me.
And she agreed.
They went out on a date.
He picked her up in his Lambo, wine and dined her and then dropped her off, had a few kisses
and that was it.
That's the last she served from him.
It's been a week and she doesn't know why she's getting ghosted.
So we're about to call him and see if we can figure it out.
Okay.
I can't wait.
All right.
Keisha, are you ready?
Oh yeah.
Right there.
Here we go.
I can't wait hello hi may i speak to eric please yes listen eric how are you my name is jubel from a radio
show called the jubel show and my name is alex fresh from the jubel show? My name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show.
And my name is Alex Fresh from The Jubal Show.
And my name is English Evan from The Jubal Show.
Okay.
Hello.
How are you?
I'm assuming you listen to us.
I don't, actually.
Yeah.
Well, I kind of figured that.
I'm sorry about that.
Well, turn us on in your Lambo sometime.
It'd be like, we're actually in one.
It'd be nice.
Wait a minute.
You know, I drive a Lamborghini.
You're definitely wondering why we're calling.
So I'll just get to the bottom of it before you hang up on us.
We do a segment on our show called the first date follow-up.
That's where if you go on a date with someone and then they ghost you, you can email, they
can email us to get,
to get you on the phone and ask what happened. And we got an email about you from someone who does listen to our show.
And her name is Keisha.
Okay.
Yes.
I know Keisha.
Okay.
Can you tell us why you are not calling her back?
Um,
I mean,
look,
she's,
she's a lovely girl
I had
a fine time
I just
personally don't think
we are a right match
why?
do you mind telling us that?
because she thinks the opposite
look I mean I
I
am going to speak very candidly
and disclose this
but
she
got
breast implants.
Okay.
Okay.
Which are great.
I'm certainly not opposed to them by any means.
It's hard to find a guy that doesn't like them.
However, she just constantly told me that she had them.
What?
It was just something that, yeah, she just endlessly talked about them.
Why?
So she wouldn't stop talking about her breast implants?
She just recently got them.
Oh.
It was just a little too much.
Was she trying to impress you with them?
Look, I mean, she would have if she didn't have to
talk about them.
I mean, it's
pretty impressive on their own, I imagine.
Yes.
I'm just trying to figure out why it bothered you so much
not to call her back. Was it
that you were even trying to have different
conversations and she would just not even
engage with you in talking about anything else
but her breast implants? Yes, she would just not even engage with you and talking about anything else but her breast implants?
Yeah, she's just telling me about how all these bras she's bought for herself
now that she has them and she wouldn't stop touching them.
And it was just she profusely let me know that she had gotten them.
And I was just a little fed up, honestly.
Okay, yeah.
If it's the only thing someone talks about in a day,
that's kind of weird.
Yeah, that is kind of interesting.
I mean, you would see probably being able
to have a different kind of conversation.
Like, you know, maybe mention the boob thing once
and then move on.
Yeah.
But also, maybe she really liked you
and wanted you to think of them
and maybe take her home that evening.
I would like to find out, though,
and I think the best way to find out
is to just ask her,
and she's listening to this conversation
and wants to talk to you.
Yeah.
Hey.
Hi, Keisha.
I did not realize you were
there
um
yikes
well
I am
no it's
okay
I guess
sorry
um
no I mean
look I'm
not denying
that it was
uh
a nice
time I
I really
had a nice
night out
it was just
uh
I mean you gotta understand to be on the receiving end of nice night out, but it was just, uh, I mean,
you got to understand to be on the receiving end of that. It was just, uh,
it was just kind of a loss.
Did you really talk about it that much?
I mean, I guess I didn't, I didn't really think so. I,
I know I like definitely mentioned it cause I like,
he's like so hot and rich and I just like wanted him to think I was like,
cool.
I mean, I thought that your love doesn't cost a thing.
No, but like, I just like wanted him to think was like cool I mean I thought that your love doesn't cost a thing no but like I just like wanted him to think that like I guess I was just like really nervous stupid I don't know
what I yeah I um look I mean I think that's really cool of you to apologize um yeah I just think it
was it was kind of a lot, especially when, you know,
when you're on a first date, when you're meeting someone, you, you're getting feel for each other,
you're trying to know more about the other person. I just, I don't know. I feel like I
didn't really get an opportunity to know you for you. It was just, uh, this thing that you've
acquired, you know what I'm saying? I just wanted to get into something a little bit deeper.
I feel like kind of just relentlessly talking about your implants,
like it was just surface level.
Yeah, no, I get it.
I'm just like, just trust me.
I'm like way more than just boobs.
I got to be honest, you're the first girl who's ever said that sentence to me.
I think that's the first sentence I've ever heard someone try to make a case for themselves getting another date.
I'm more than just boobs.
I'm more than just boobs.
I am, trust me.
I'm more than just boobs.
Well, like what?
Well, I didn't tell you, I guess,
but I like going bird watching.
Okay.
That's, uh...
Hey, that's something other than boobs.
You're right.
So, I'll ask you this question, Eric.
Would you like to go on another date with Keisha?
We will pay for it,
and you can talk about a couple other things. Birds. You know what? Yes, Keisha, we will pay for it and you can talk about a couple other things.
Buds.
You know what? Yes, Keisha.
Let's do it.
I would really enjoy going out
with you again. If you could just
promise me not to necessarily
talk about your breast implants because I like you
and I'd like to hear more about
you. Congratulations. So cute.
And don't get me wrong, the boobs are great.
I like those too.
Yeah.
Well, congratulations, you guys.
Thanks.
Thank you.
Jubal's First Date Follow-Up.
Hey, everyone.
It's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in the homestretch,
right in time for a new season of my podcast,
Next Question.
I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,
to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have
some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're
going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question
with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on
The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team
for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more.
Now this is a second term we can all get behind.
Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts.
Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast,
where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and
their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of
all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.