First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Kellan & Jen - Christian Mingle

Episode Date: July 11, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating,

sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect

Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Kellan is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's not getting a call back from a date he went on with a girl named Jen that he really likes. So we're going to see if we can find out why she's ghosting him in a second. But first, let's hear about the date. Kellen, what's up? How long has it been since you heard from Jen?

It's been a couple of weeks, almost a month now. But yeah, so I texted her and just no response back. And I just, I don't know, I thought we kind of hit it off. Why don't we go backwards? Why don't you tell us about, you know, how you guys met and what happened? Well, we kind of met on Christian Mingle. And, you know, we chatted back and forth and whatnot. And I found out what church you went to.

And I showed up i showed up to surprise her and and uh i thought she thought it was cute and we went to coffee afterwards and you know we talked and and just kind of i think we kind of hit it off and so it's so fun we plan another you know date because she at her church there was like a dance sort of event type of thing going on for couples and i made reservations at the sushi place that was next door to the church and and so we did that and uh yeah i did i thought it was a nice uh cool little thing that we did. Yeah, it does seem nice.

So you guys were really getting along? Was there any touchiness or any sparks flying? I just really dig her. She's so dedicated to her church and her community and her kindness. She is beautiful. I don't know, she's just like nobody like I've ever dated before, you know? It makes me want to be better. Why do you think she's ghosting you?

Well, I guess I get a little jealous, and so we were at the dance, and it was one of her friends male friends that asked her to dance with with her and i i agreed but i just i don't know i i think i was i think i was too butthurt about it and she saw that and i don't know i i don't know why i do that i mean we won't put on two dates so it's like i don't know it just i guess it's just, we've been on two dates, so it's like, I don't know, it's just deep inside because I care about her. I mean, you're also, you're on a date with her, so you kind of would hope that your date would dance with you.

But, you know, friends dance together, too. Were you, like, outwardly angry, or was it just kind of like... I don't know, I guess I was... I guess I was pouty, you know? Okay, so you didn't try to, like, fight the guy or something? I was being I don't know, I guess I was, I guess I was pouty, you know, I was just. Okay. So you didn't try to like fight the guy or something?

I was being an idiot. I was being an idiot. All right. Well, man, we'll see if we can figure it out then. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and hopefully get you another date. Okay. Awesome.

I appreciate that. All right, man. So we'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted, but turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and

politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, y'all, this is Reed from the God's Country Podcast. We had the one and only Bobby Bones in the studio this week, and we cover everything

from his upbringing to his outdoor experiences with his stepdad arkansas keith to the state of country music we may even end the episode with a little jam session led by bobby himself y'all be sure and listen to this episode of god's country with bobby bones on the iheart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcast. 2025 is bound to be a fascinating year. It's going to be filled with money challenges and opportunities. I'm Joel. Oh, and I am Matt. And we're the hosts of How to Money. We want to be with you every step of the way in your financial journey this year,

offering the information and insights you need to thrive financially. Yeah, whether you find yourself up to your eyeballs in student loan debt, or you've got a sky-high credit card balance because you went a little overboard with the holiday spending, or maybe you're looking to optimize your retirement accounts so you can retire early, well, How to Money will help you

to change your relationship with money so you can stress less and grow your net worth. That's right. How to Money comes out three times a week, Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays for money advice without the judgment and jargon listen to how to money on the iheart radio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts right in the middle of our first day follow-up if you're just joining us kellen is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named jen that he really likes so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

us why she's ghosting him but first ke, Kellen, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Well, we met on Christian Mingle, went to her church, we hit it off, and we went to a dance social there at her church, and she was dancing with another guy, and I was a little jealous, you know, and then so I thought I'd text her again, and like, see if we can't get a little jealous, you know, and then, and then, so I thought I'd

text her again and like, see if we can't get a third date, you know, and, and just no response. Two days later, no response. I tried again, again, no response. I'm like, maybe I was too jealous. I don't know. But you weren't angry, jealous, right? You were pouty jealous. Yeah, I was just, yeah. Like a baby. Yeah, I was crying. Self-awareness. That's cool. All right, man.

Are you ready for us to call her? I am. Let's do this. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jen, please? Yes, this is she. Hey, Jen, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Jen. The whole show's here. My name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. Hi, how are you? I'm good.

How are you guys? Great. We do a segment on the show. It, how are you? I'm good. How are you guys? Great. We do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and find out why you're ghosting them. So is there anybody that you can think of that would want us to call you because you're not calling them back? I mean, probably, I guess.

Is it Kellen? Yes, it's Kellen.llen yeah he wants to know why you're ghosting him like listen he was a great guy and he was you know it was a nice like couple of dates like a coffee and a date or whatever but like i found out that he was on tinder and like i just don't really think like our values and stuff like match up after like hearing about that so i just don't think we're gonna work you know did he tell you that he was on tinder are you on tinder no no no no no i'm not on tinder like i'm like you know everybody live your life i'm just i'm not about that like with a culture type thing you know like i very specifically like this is my first online stuff going through Christian Mingle. You know, it's just different.

I'm looking for something different. And like, you know, again, the dates, they were great. And I was showing my coworker a picture of him and like telling her all about like how wonderful it was. And immediately she was like, oh, I've seen him on Tinder. Then we like, you know, got onto like one of the Tinder apps like with people and like they found him and it was like oh that's that's him cool um so i guess like you know he just what is it like a wolf in sheep's clothing clothing type of thing like i just he's different than i guess how he presented well because yeah you met on christian mingle so yeah tinder and christian mingle i think are very different places yeah so i just need a little bit. So just to be clear,

Jen, is it because he was on a dating app or is it because it was specifically Tinder? Specifically Tinder. Got it. I'm a big, big part of my church and that's how I was raised. It's just different than I know how a lot of people live.

That's totally fine. Live your life, but it just doesn't match up with like the life I'm leading so like okay yeah you know like I just I'm sure there are a lot of things that are very different and like expectations I'm sure are very different between us okay well thank you for being honest with us I don't know if Kellen's a freak like you think he is but we can find out Kellen are you a freak like you think he is, but we can find out. You're not a freak. Kellen, are you a freak? No. I mean, you don't have to lie, Kellen. No, I'm not that kind of guy anymore.

I should have deleted the app, the profile and everything because the girls on there, they're not for me anymore. Jen, if you couldn't tell, Kellen's on the phone and he's been listening and wants to talk to you. And he's not a freak anymore. Jen, if you couldn't tell, Kellen's on the phone and he's been listening and wants to talk to you. And he's not a freak anymore. Yeah. Yeah.

I'm sorry, but yes, I should have deleted the Tinder. I don't know why I still have it up. I have many apps on my phone,

you know, and like, those girls are, I left that to Christian Mingle because I want somebody with values and Christian. I'm sorry, I will try to prove myself over and over and over if I have to. You're not really on Tinder, you just didn't close your account.

Correct, yeah. Like, I left Tinder a long time ago. I forgot to delete the app and the profile and everything like that. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know why I did it. Are you even Christian? Like, you know, I've heard about people, like some guys, like get onto this Christian Mingle app to like find the innocent girls and they're trying to corrupt them and whatever. And like it's a competition.

And I just. It's terrible. Yeah. Dating is hard. Dating is very hard. I just, you know, i'm tired of those girls on tinder they're like you're tired of them because you probably went out with a lot of them right i don't know like again we had a good time i just don't think our values match up you know

i get it i understand but i'm not i'm still. I'm still going to prove myself to you. I truly believe that. I don't know. I like you. How are you going to prove it? I deleted the app today. That's what I did. And then how are you going to prove to her that you're there for the Christian thing and not the mingling on Christian mingle, not just the mingling. I mean, right. I will go to her church every Sunday.

I will prove myself. I swear, you're the one. Whoa, the one. That's kind of a lot. Jen, what do you think? Would you like to go out with Kellen on another date? We'll pay for it. I just don't know.

Again, I don't know if we're both sharing the same Christian values. Sorry. I just don't know. I just, again, I don't know if we're both sharing the same Christian values and sorry. Um, maybe it's, it's not a no, you know, I, I, I get it. I get why you're, you know, uh, I'm just, I'm just bummed. I, again, I, uh, but I'll be there for you when, when you're ready to go on another date. I really enjoyed your church. It's one of the better ones in town. Would it be awkward if I still went there? I don't want to make it awkward for you, but I do like your church and the people there. The doors are open for everyone.

It's weird. It's like talking about who gets a lord in a breakup i'm sorry sorry kellen but it sounds like you're not giving up hope and jen you know you said maybe so maybe you guys run into each other at church and you know see how it goes but just pursue respectfully okay just gonna that. Yeah. And I'll be praying for you. Well, I will be praying for you too. And I hope you have a blessed day. All right, they're off the phone. She like patted him on the head big time as he was leaving.

You just have a blessed day there. I'll be praying for you too. That's like the nicest F you ever. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's to help me out like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean,

isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more.

Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF,

and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections.

Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.