First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Kristen and Cruz - The Mini Golf Makeout

Episode Date: July 24, 2025

On today’s First Date Follow-Up, Kristin is left wondering why Cruz ghosted her after what she thought was a fun, romantic second date. From late-night mini golf to an unexpected kiss in the parking lot, everything seemed to go right—until he vanished. But when we call Cruse to find out the real reason, the truth takes a jaw-dropping turn that no one saw coming. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Kristen is on the phone today for a first date follow-up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocates law.com Kristen is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Cruz So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if his house why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date But first Kristen, how long has it been since you talked to Cruz? Who? Okay, that's a while. I know I should have just forgot about it But I don't know this date was really good And that he's a cat so he's got a cool name. Yeah, you know

We didn't cruise along together. So hopefully That was cute, I guess you have to have a sense of humor about the idea of being ghosted anyway, yeah Did you reach out to cruise though in that time at all to try to get ahold of him? Oh, definitely. I was not about to let him go. I was like, hey, how are you? Nothing. Didn't do anything, didn't call me.

I even then called him and left a voicemail. I don't do that a lot, but I left a voicemail letting him know like, hey, what's going on? I thought you were gonna call me when like like you want to hang out again and then nothing. Okay. Tell us a little bit about your date. Well, I first actually met him at my friend's boyfriend's is a tongue twister.

My friend's boyfriend's softball game. He was a player. Okay. And after we all went out to eat, so technically that was the first thing, you know, it went so good. We had a second date. Okay, and after we all went out to eat the technically that was the first thing, you know We had a second date and I don't know. I had a great time. He was such a gentleman open the door for me was polite really good-looking

call the plus and I really liked him and then all of a sudden just he gave me a kiss, you know, we had a little makeout session and then he just said, I'll call you later. And nothing. What did you guys do on your date though? So the first unofficial date was when you guys met at the, with food. And then when you went out together, what did you guys do? Well, we got pizza and beer after the game.

And then when we went out the second time, we went mini golfing, like glow in the dark ones, you know, at least I think, but, um, my teeth are really bright, you know, so I thought I was going great. I might've used a little too much time. I was trying to hold back, but like what it is, it's like, did you do this wrong? Did you do that wrong? Did I do this? Did I do that? You start thinking it's you, and then I'm like, did I use too much time? Do you not use too much time on a first date?

What is the rule? I like to use the left side, because that's my dominant side, but I will not use the right side on a first date. So I just, you know, I don't get a lot of calls back, though. What? So you only like stick your tongue on one side of the mouth? Yeah. Yeah. Jubel.

What? Can you think of anything awkward? I mean, is it only the tongue? So funny. I can't get over what you just said. I'm like, well, do you do a dog move? Yeah. I'm just trying to figure it out.

It's a very intricate maneuver. And yeah, not a lot of people can handle it. It's like a teeth roll on the left side. Like, no, I can't think of anything, I don't know I just felt like we had a great time and then all of a sudden I don't know if like someone I don't know that's why I'm calling you guys I have no idea because I thought we had a great time we had a great session you know make out session like I said but there was one thing that I guess did happen is I saw someone that came in and I kind of just like started kissing him really quick to hide my face.

What do you mean by that? Well like I don't know I just don't want them to see me I'm a private person I just don't want them to see me out with people. Oh like somebody you recognize? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I just like quickly tried to like you know kiss them and I told him like jokingly like huh I'm just trying to hide away from someone and I don't know if that was weird to him. There's something that happened Okay

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Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of today's first date follow up and if you're just joining us, Kristin is on the phone. She's getting ghosted by a guy named Cruz. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Kristen, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Yeah.

So I pretty much went on a first date with a guy that I met at my friend's softball game. And then we had a great time with mini golfing. At the end of it, we had a good makeout session. But before that, I did see someone kind of come in that I knew and I tried to hide by making out with him. I don't know if that threw him off. I just didn't want them to like see my face. So I don't know.

I don't know if that's the reason why he's ghosting me, but I thought we had a great time. He's a gentleman. He checked all my boxes. So I kind of want to see what's going on. All right. You ready for us to call him? I guess so.

Yeah, let's do see what's going on. Alright, you ready for us to call in? I guess, yeah. Let's do it, here we go. (*phone ringing*) Hello? Hi, may I speak to Cruz please? This is him. Hey, Cruz, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show.

It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Cruz. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey, I listen to you guys. Oh, sweet. Well, thank you. Now you're on the show.

Oh, wow. What's going on? Well, if you listen to us, have you heard of First Aid Follow-Up before? Yeah, I have. Oh, is that what this is? Yes, it is. Well, if you listen to us, have you heard a first date follow-up before? Yeah I have. Oh, is that what this is? Yes it is. So you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us to get a hold of you and find out why you're

ghosting them. Do you know who would email us? I got an idea. Is it Kristen? Yes, it is Kristen. You've answered the first question correctly. Now the other question is, do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her? Yeah I'll tell you. Listen first of all, she seemed like a great person. She was really,

really cool. The date was great. Like we hit it off and it just got a little shady. It got shady? Yeah, it was really suspicious. So we met up at softball, I play softball with a friend of mine who knows her. And so, you know, they were out and we kind of hung out afterwards and hit it off. Like we were talking and chatting. It was great. So we actually went out, went out. So I took her mini golfing, which I think is a good way to kind of get to know people.

And I, we walked on the beach, we walked to see sunset at the park, you know, like it was really nice and romantic and she was really cool. But then at the parking lot, when we're mini golf, like she just attacks me, like starts making out with me, like it forcefully. So it kind of threw me off. It wasn't that sweet, like, you know, kind of get nose to nose

and you're gonna get that first kiss. Like it was right there. And I was like, what was that? She goes, oh, I just saw somebody I knew. I just wanted to, I didn't want them to see me. And I'm like, are you embarrassed by me? Are you embarrassed to be out with me? No, I just don't want people in my business. That doesn't make sense to me that you would make out with me so that they wouldn't be in your business. Like now you're giving them something to talk about. It was a little odd. So I went and talked

to my friends and I was like, yeah, I went out and they're like how to go I was like, oh, it went great. It just she did this weird thing and they're like, yeah She's kind of she's kind of addicted to drama And I'm like what? Yeah, she kind of does that like like her baby daddy is Is pretty mean and kind of bad news But she keeps calling him over like they're always involved and all they do is fight in public and I'm like, I'm sorry Hold on. She didn't have kids and I know

no she's she's pregnant now oh yeah see that reaction that was my reaction I'm sorry what I know pregnant I'm allowed to? I'm pregnant? Oh s***, forgot that she'd be listening. Yes, that is. Kristin, she's on the phone and has been listening this whole time. Hey, well you know what? I'm not. Yeah, my side's the truth. You didn't tell me that you were pregnant.

So you're hating on a woman that's pregnant and saying she can't date? Is that what you're telling me right now? See, see that drama? That's the drama, that's the drama right there see you're you're putting no no you're putting words into my mouth i don't want to be part of that drama i don't want you need to tell me up front if you're pregnant that's not something that i should find out that should be right up front letter telling you that i'm pregnant right away like hi nice to meet you i'm christin and i'm pregnant how you doing what do you want to eat no well when do you think that is that

something you thought that you were gonna tell him at some point Kristen showing Wow okay listen listen hey you do you I'm not judging you for anything you do your thing I'm just saying it I'm not judging you for anything. You do your thing. I'm just saying that's not for me. I'm not. It's not your business until you, first off, it was a first date. It's not your business until maybe two months, okay? Oh, I'm sorry. So if I want to share with you after two months.

I'm sorry, you kept saying it was our second date. You corrected me on that, so I'm trying to go on the same page you're on, because you're like, that's not technically our first date. So I'm telling you right now, it's our second date, but you said before it was our first. So it's our first, because you want to count it as our first cause you don't count

the fear and hate. I mean, we can change. You can change the verbiage now. You can say our last date. That's, that's how it goes. I don't want to get up. I don't want to man up. Are you kidding me? Can't man up. You're not a man. Are you kidding me? Can't man up? Yeah, you're not a man. You're a little f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f***ing f*** out. And you f***ing cheated at mini golf. Okay, alright. You f***ing cheated at mini golf.

You can't even play. You don't even know how to hold your shit. Hey, well, I have to ask the question. Cruz, would you like another date with Kristen? We'll pay for it. No. Okay. Kristen, I'm sorry.

No second date. Congrats on your baby though. Yeah, thank you. I'm definitely not naming him Cruz. It's okay. Okay. Jubal's first date follow-up. connected fans with the heart of women's sports. In just one year, the network has launched 15 shows and built a community united by passion.

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