First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Kyle & Lindsay - Car Snacks

Episode Date: January 31, 2025

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So in a few minutes we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Kyle, how long has it been since you heard from Lindsay? Uh, it's been about, it's been about 10 days. Okay. Oh, okay. Been a, it's been a little bit of time. Yeah. So I'm getting a little nervous about it,

but I'm really hoping I can get some kind of answer because it was great. It felt like such a great first start. And I really had like a great feeling about her. I think, I just think Linda is awesome. I get nervous on some dates and I feel like this was very low key, kind of hang out. I think a lot of people get nervous on first dates sometimes. So, you know, we took it really just chill.

That was kind of the vibe we agreed on and that's what I prefer for initial, you know, when you meet someone. Sure. You know, there's no, like, you don't have to feel obligated to do anything or say anything, et cetera. Just kind of like go as you come. And it was good. We basically, we actually went to some food trucks and got food and we're just getting to know each other.

And as the afternoon went on, we actually ended up kind of like stargazing a little bit in the park because we just kept talking and like the sun was setting and I realize I'm like, oh crap, like three hours have gone by. So it was nice. Yeah, yeah. And she just she just made me feel very, what's the word, very, very grounded, I would say. OK, and I just felt like she's just like someone I could see myself

like spending a lot of time with where I'm like, oh yeah You just you know, like a good like partner kind of in crime kind of thing. So That was awesome. And I honestly I'm a little worried that I said something dumb because I Tend to just kind of talk on and on and on when I get nervous or I don't know really what to say or do but the good thing is We eventually went back to my car and I was going to, you know, drive her home before we did, you know, there was a bit of a, uh, vibe, you know, and in a good way, um, there kind of was this chemistry and, um,

we ended up making out for a good, like five, 10 minutes. And it was, it was really, really nice. Yeah. It was, it was hot. It was really, really fun. But since then I have not heard from her. I've only sent her like a couple messages, like maybe three messages. I think maybe like a, like a thanks so much. I had such a great time. And then like a day or two later,

I sent her like a, hey, how's it going? And then still nothing. And then the most recent message was like yesterday. So it's been a little while, but the last message I sent her was just like a, like a real on Instagram. But yeah, I sent it to her and still no answer. And if she's not feeling it, that's, that's fine, I guess. But I was, I'd be a little let down, especially because I don't, she doesn't seem like the kind of person that would just like totally drop off.

Like she's active on Instagram still like we follow each other. And so you are seeing her interact and do things socially, but she hasn't texted. Yeah, she's like posted on her story, you know, but I'm like, I get the people who get busy. Like I understand, like if my, if I open up my phone after like a long day at work and like I have like 20 text messages from different people, it's overwhelming and I don't want to answer them initially you know because it feels daunting. Let's go back to what you said Kyle because it sounds like you know you were having a good time but what do you think you said that could potentially be what threw her off? Oh my god. And did it happen before or after the make out?

I mean I guess I didn't I think I said I didn't, I think I said anything, honestly. I don't think I said anything inappropriate. I just think that, or like offensive. I just think that to be honest, I think I, I could imagine myself like kind of rambling onto a point where she's like, all right, this guy's a little annoying. You know? So, um, did you let her get any words in? I tried to, I tried to, I, I know it's not something I'm great at, but I mean, I, it's not for

any lack of liking her. I really like her. Honestly. Um, I, I, I'm, she might've felt a little like steamrolled by, by me in conversation, maybe. Okay. We'll find out if you steamrolled her in just a second. Like not in a good way. Um, play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date and your first date follow up, okay? Okay, thanks so much guys. Yeah, play a song, come back, get your first date follow up, next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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If you're just joining us for today's first day in follow up, Kyle is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lindsay. So we're about to call her and ask her why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first Kyle, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Oh, geez. I went on a really, really great first date with Lindsay, really low key. We just got food and just really talked

and got to know each other. And it was so easy and nice. And we went stargazing basically and I had a great time. We made out for like five minutes straight. It was awesome. And I have not heard from her since. So I'm a little worried. And you think it might be because you maybe talked too much? Steamrolled her. Yeah. I think, I think it's the technical term is diarrhea of the mouth. I think I just I, I, I ramble.

So I, I, I'm afraid about that, but I don't know. Who knows? Okay. Well, are you ready for us to call her? All right. Yeah. Let's, let's see. Let's see this.

Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lindsay, please? Yes, speaking. Hey, Lindsay. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Lindsay.

Whole show is here. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. Have you ever listened to the show before? It's familiar. Yeah. I mean, I think off and on.

OK, sweet. Well, we do a segment on our show. It's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with somebody, you know, you're going to be able to get a little bit of a sense of what's going on. So you're going to be able to get a little bit of a sense of what's going on. So you're going to be able to get a little bit of a sense of what's going on. So you're going to be able to get a little bit of a sense of what's going on. So you're going to be able to get a little bit I mean, I think off and on. OK, sweet. Well, we do a segment on our show. It's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go on a date with

somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody. Oh, OK. Are you ghosting somebody? Well, is this about Kyle?

It's about Kyle, yes. Oh, oh my gosh. Kyle told us about your date. He said he really liked you, but he's confused. He said it's been like 10 days and you haven't talked to him. Well, it was. It was a really nice date. I mean, Kyle is a real sweetheart. Oh my gosh, I can't believe I'm talking about this on the radio. The date was really nice.

Kyle's a really, really sweet guy. He really is. So why are you ghosting him then? Well, I mean, it's not about him exactly. It's just, to be honest, it was about the car snacks, like the snacks he has in the car. Um. Not calling him back because of car snacks? No, no, no.

I mean, that sounds bad. It was just more of like, we made out because there was some chemistry there. And when we were making out, I kept tasting sour cream and onion chips. Oh. Couldn't get past it. It was like kissing the chips. It was,'t get past it. It was like kissing the chips.

It was just, it was a lot. It was a lot. It is kind of weird though, whenever you kiss somebody and you taste anything though. So, but you didn't think that, you know, if he had a mint or gum or like you kind of next time you went to kiss him, there's like some mouthwash or something like you can't get past sour cream and onion? Well, I mean, I said to him at the time, I said, hey, you know, do you want to, um, I have some gum in my purse. Do you want to have some of this? Yeah, yeah, I know. But, and I said, and he said, yeah, okay. And he had some, and it just didn't really help. And I could still taste the chips.

Did he just eat the chips? Like, or is that a lingering thing and he just happens to taste like sour cream and onion? Well, she would have known if he would have just ate the chips. I mean, I guess. I don't know. I mean, it's not the worst flavor, but you know, when you're kissing someone, you don't really wanna be tasting sour cream and onion.

Like, I can think of worse things to taste like, but it would be distracting because I would be thinking about snacks. Very distracting. The whole time I'm kissing you. Okay, and that's the reason you're not calling him back because of his sour cream and onion breath Honestly, yeah, that's really the reason why huh? Okay. Well. Thank you for being honest I have to let you know now Lindsay that Kyle is actually on the phone listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh my gosh

Okay Hi, Kyle. Hi listening and he wants to talk to you. Oh, my gosh. OK. Hi, Kyle. Hi. Well, this is this is worse than I could have even imagined. I'm sorry. I don't know if they told you, but I was I was really worried that I had just, you know, talked and talked and

talking to death and then you were, you know, annoyed with me or just were over the whole thing. And and I never in my life imagined that it would have been that my breath was bad. And I am so absolutely mortified. I am so sorry. She didn't say it was bad. Yeah.

She actually said it was pretty good, but just like, you know, you can't have too many chips like that. Then you do start getting tired of them. It's, it's, it's, it's, it's my Lay my lays, you know sour cream and onions. Those are like my go-to I always have like a little like mini bag like in the car. I you know when I go on long drives and stuff Travel to see my parents. So it's you know, okay, sometimes I gotta throw some snacks on the carpet. I'm sorry I really am I should have thought about that and I don't know what the hell I was doing But did you eat sour cream and onion chips before the date? I did eat those before the date

I also just you generally usually carry a little kind of bag in my pocket, you know Sour cream and onion chips more than anybody I've ever talked to you. It's like a binky Yeah, I mean look it's not always sour cream. Sometimes it's barbecue sometimes You know who's to say but um, I will, look, it's not always sour cream. Sometimes it's barbecue, sometimes it's ranch. You know, who's to say? But I will say, you know what? I know it's a little strange, but if you ever, you know, in need of a snack or your blood sugar is low or anything, I'm I'm your guy. I got you.

He's a literal walking snack. Snacks on him at all times. Lindsay, what do you think about that? I guess it's just sure, you know, it's nice to have someone around who always has snacks. I'll give you that. I'll give you that. Listen, I'm totally fine. Also being told my breath is bad, you know, it helps me fix it.

If my breath smells like sour cream or barbecue or cool ranch, you know, any of those really were one of the other flavors. Doesn't matter. Just tell me and I'll, I'll fix it. I I'm okay. You'll be in full black. Okay. Lindsay, what would you other flavors. Doesn't matter. Just tell me and I'll fix it. I'm OK being told that. OK, Lindsey, what would you like to go on another date with Kyle? We'll pay for it.

You have complete freedom to tell him if he's got flaming hot Cheeto breath. Well, I suppose. Yes. If I have that freedom and if you promise to avoid, you know, maybe the sour cream and onion next time, I think that'd be nice.

I just want you to know, I'll be, I'll be brushing. I'll be mouth washing. I'll be flossing. I got everything. I got mementos. I got dentine. I got all this stuff, everything. I'll be ready.

I think that would be very fun, Kyle. I think it'd be fun. And you know what? If you are going to bring a snack, my favorite is goldfish. Just so you know. You know what? You want gold going to bring a snack, my favorite is goldfish. Just so you know. You know what you want goldfish. You got goldfish. I'm doing it. Congratulations, Kyle. You got another day. Thank you guys so much.

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Listen to The Puzzler every day on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove. Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season, but, you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations We've had so far. I mean we talked to a Marie Johnny Marr John Billy Porter and so many more Look if you haven't heard these episodes yet. Hey now's your chance. You gotta check them out Listen to quest love supreme on the I heartartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your

podcast. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedroza, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

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