First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Landon & Kate - Stuffed and Confused

Episode Date: February 21, 2024

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and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Kate. So we're about to call Kate in a little while and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But first, Landon, thanks for coming on the show, man. How long has it been since you heard from Kate? Hey, it's been like uh a week um i don't know what's going on how many times have you tried to reach out to her in that week

uh like once a day honestly okay so you're thinking she's somebody special why don't we um go back a little bit and talk about her so how was your date with her oh it was amazing so my cousin owns a wine restaurant and we went there and i'll be just got wine flights and meals and we slow dance in the middle of the restaurant everyone was watching everyone clapped for us it was really something else i knew she was a bit shy and honestly you know that's kind of my type i love the shy girls. And I was excited to, like, get her out of her shell. I love doing that. I love to, like, just bring the shy girls out.

Bring the shy girls out. Who loves the shy girls? That didn't work. Show them the world. Show them what they're missing, you know? We had so much food. And since it was my cousin he even gave us like a dessert sampler afterward it was like a four-hour meal it was amazing okay this sounds like a dream

four hours i love to eat like that uh but then we haven't spoken for a week since i don't really know what's going on what happened at the end of y'all's date like how did it end yeah so it ended with a kiss uh which i'm pretty proud of but um we haven't spoken since no texting no calls nothing nothing do you think it's because she's shy i mean you did say she was a shy girl that's my leading theory um maybe she's just better in person than uh texting did anything else happen on the date? Beside the dancing and the kiss, she seemed really into me. She laughed at all my jokes as she ate. I mean, she's petite, but she can really eat.

And I just thought it was so sexy. That sounded like a lyric in a song. She's petite, but she can really eat. I like it. Do you think maybe it was your kiss? She still hasn't recovered? Well, I mean, speaking of too good,

I mean, the way that we danced together, I mean, it felt like it could translate to the bedroom, if you know what I mean. Yeah, like you could dance in a bedroom, too. You could put on music. Totally. Yeah. I know put on music. Totally. Know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah, I know what you mean.

But then like, I can't figure out why I'm being ghosted, you know? It's just, maybe I can't figure out how I messed up. Maybe she felt pressure to eat so much because I'm a big foodie, you know? Yeah, maybe she's in a food coma maybe she wouldn't say anything yeah maybe because you know how like people feel like they want to keep up with drinking oh so maybe it's the same idea with food if there's four hours worth of yeah she just didn't want to say anything about maybe i don't want to eat, but he's a foodie. So, yeah, she just quietly just went along with it. Maybe. All right.

Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you, man. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay. Thank you so much. All right. Play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

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Landon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Kate. It's been about a week, he hasn't heard anything from her and we're about to call her, get her on the phone, and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Landon, why don't you refresh everybody's memory before we call her? Tell us about your date.

Yeah, so we went to my cousin's wine restaurant, drank a lot, ate a lot, danced in front of everyone. They applauded for us. It was really fun. Ended with a kiss, and I haven't heard from her since. And she's petite and can eat. Mm-hmm. All right, well, you ready to go? You ready to call her? Yeah, let's do and can eat. Mm-hmm. Alright, well,

you ready to go? You ready to call her? Yeah, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Kate, please? This is she. Who's this? Kate, hi. How are you? My name is Jubal, and I'm on a radio show called The Jubal Show. What's up, Kate? Whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Hi. Hi. I know. It's a lot. How are you? I'm good. So, I'm sorry. You guys are on the radio? Yes, and we're calling you because we got an email about you. About me? Mm-hmm.

Okay. We do a segment on the show. It's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out with someone and then end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Oh, okay. It means we got an email about you because you're ghosting someone. Yeah.

His name is Landon. And Landon really liked you and wants to know why you're ghosting him. Would you mind telling us? Yeah. I mean, Landon is a great guy. I had a great time on our date. You know, I really liked him. And, you know, it was a really fun night.

Different than most dates I've gone on. And it was just really great. But, you know, I just think we, I don't know, I think we just want different things and I just have to protect myself from that, I think. Okay. What does that mean? You know, I just want to protect my heart. I think that Landon, you know i just want to protect my heart i think that landon you know he was kind of talking about how he's not really ready for a relationship and he's looking more for like a romantic central experience not really like a full-blown commitment and you know i that's fine, you know, but I really want romance and experiences, but I want to build something with someone, you know, I'm not in a huge rush to be in a relationship, but I don't really feel comfortable with like the non-committal mentality personally. Did you guys have that conversation? Like he said that to you? I mean, he had said,

you know, that he just wants like romantic experiences, but he had said he wasn't really looking for like a, like a full blown commitment, which is, you know, I get it. I had a great time on our date. I, I didn't think that's what our date was for until we met. I thought we were looking for the same thing. So I was like taken off guard, but you know, everyone's looking for what they're looking for. And even though we had a fun time, it's just, we're both looking for different things.

It's not the right time and place. Well, good for you knowing exactly what you want. Thank you. Kate Landon is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. What? Hey, Kate. Hi. Hi, Landon. I didn't realize we were on such different paths. We had such a good time. I thought it was going well. Yeah, no, we had a great time. And I really I mean, it's definitely a date I'll never forget it was really fun I really enjoyed myself I enjoyed getting to know you it's just I think you know our path in life is just different right now oh well that's a shame I kind of wish you would have

answered my text and you could talk about this I I mean, I'm open to discussion. Well, then is that true, Landon? Are you not open to relationship? Well, yeah. I mean, honestly, I am just looking for something casual right now, but I thought she was on the same page. We never discussed it, but yeah, maybe, I mean, if the timing is right in the future, we can hopefully get back together and make this work. What do you think? I mean, I really enjoyed meeting with you. I think you're very attractive and, you know, we laughed a lot. Maybe in the future, you know, if I'm available, we could definitely try again. You know, it's just timing right now.

It doesn't seem like it's on our side. That's all. Okay. Well, like, what do I have to do to make you say yes? Like, what, what do you need? You know what? That's funny. I just, honestly, you're wonderful. I had a great time with you. It's just that I am looking for something a little more, you know, not, not so much a commitment, you know, commitment with the right person, but not something as loose as I guess what you're looking for. Just like, you know, experiences, life experiences. I've had a lot of life experience and, you know, I'm ready to put that life experience to use. So there's I mean, I had a great time. I loved your cousin's restaurant. The wine was

great. The food was amazing. I mean, I had the best time. It's just I just don't want something super casual right now. Landon, do you think that you're wanting something casual is kind of like your defense mechanism, too? Because it sounds like you really like Kate. You keep trying to get her to go out and she's telling I mean, know i'm just it's something to ask yourself you know if you just say whoever you hang out with is casual then you're protecting your heart too and not really putting yourself out there i didn't realize i was signing up for a therapy session here yeah you know what i think it may have something to do with my previous relationship now that I think about it.

Things just went too quickly, and I think the year I just wanted to take things more casual this time, not really look for a commitment yet. What if you replace the word casual with slow? Yeah. That's a good observation there. I'm sorry, but we say this all the time. We are therapist adjacent. I definitely would prefer someone who's more sure on themselves.

Like if you need to experience things to, you know, feel like you'll be a better partner in the future. I mean, that's your path. That's your choice. Um, like I like i said i've i've had these experiences and i i have a pretty clear idea of what i want and what i'm looking for and how i want to be treated and you know i just i want to be a little bit more you know important than just something casual that's you know not going anywhere because because i'm looking for something that's going to go somewhere kate would you like to go on another date with Landon? We'll pay for it. No, I don't think so right now. Nothing against Landon.

Landon, you're wonderful. Again, I had the best time, honestly, probably one of my top, like, top dates ever. It was really like dancing in the restaurant and the people, like, it's stuff out of movies. That was incredible. It's just, just again I just want something a little bit more serious it's gonna go somewhere or ideally go somewhere like I felt a deep connection with you so I would not want something

casual but if in the future you figure out what you're looking for and if I happen to still be available you know you, you have my number. Yeah, let's just keep in touch. We'll text back and forth and stay on each other's radar. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. For a new season of my podcast, Next Question, I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.

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