First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Landon & Kate - Stuffed & Confused

Episode Date: July 9, 2024

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heard from Kate? Hey, it's been like a week. I don't know what's going on. How many times have you tried to reach out to her in that week? Like once a day, honestly. Okay. So you're thinking she's somebody special. Why don't we go back a little bit and talk about her? So how was your date with her? Oh, it was amazing. So my cousin owns a wine restaurant.

And we went there and we just got wine flights and meals and we slow dance in the middle of the restaurant everyone was watching everyone clapped for us it was really something else i knew she was a bit shy and honestly you know that's kind of my type i love the shy girls um and i was excited to like get her out of the show get her out of her shell that's love doing that. I love to just bring the shy girls out. Bring the shy girls out. Who loves the shy girls out? That didn't work. Show them the world.

Show them what they're missing. We had so much food and since it was my cousin, he even gave us a dessert sampler afterward. It was like a four-hour meal. It was amazing. Okay, this sounds like a dream. Four afterward. It was like a four hour meal. It was amazing. Okay. This sounds like a dream.

Four hours. I love to eat like that. But then we haven't spoken for a week since. I really don't know what's going on. What happened at the end of y'all's date? Like how did it end? Yeah. So it ended with a kiss, which I'm pretty proud of.

But we haven't spoken since. No texting, no calls nothing do you think it's because she's shy I mean you did say she was a shy girl that's my leading theory maybe she's just better in person than texting did anything else happen

on the date besides the dancing and the kiss she seemed really into me. Uh, she laughed at all my jokes as she ate. Uh, I mean, she's petite, but she can really eat. That sounded like a lyric in a song. She's petite, but she can really eat.

I like it. Um, do you think maybe it was your kiss? She still hasn't recovered? Well, I mean, speaking of too good, I mean, the way that we danced together, I mean, it felt like it could translate to the bedroom, if you know what I mean. Okay. Yeah, like you could dance in a bedroom, too. You could put on music. Totally.

Know what I mean? Yeah. Yeah. I know what you mean um but then like i can't figure out why i'm being ghosted you know just maybe i can't figure out how i messed up maybe she felt pressure to eat so much because i'm a big foodie you know yeah. She wouldn't say anything. Yeah. Maybe. Because you know how people feel like they want to keep up with drinking?

Oh. So maybe it's the same idea with food, if there's four hours worth of food. Yeah. She just didn't want to say anything about, maybe I don't want to eat, but he's a foodie. So yeah, she just quietly just went along with it. Maybe. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you, man. We'll play a song, come back, and then call

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joining us, Landon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Kate. It's been about a week. He hasn't heard anything from her and we're about to call her, get her on the phone, and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date but first landon why don't you refresh everybody's memory before we call her tell us about your date yeah so we went to my cousin's wine restaurant uh drank a lot ate a lot uh danced in front of everyone they applauded for us it was really fun uh ended with a kiss, and I haven't heard from her since.

And she's petite and can eat. Mm-hmm. Oh, yeah. All right, well, you ready to go? You ready to call her? Yeah, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Kate, please this is she who's this kate hi how are you my name is jubal and i'm on a radio show called the jubal show what's up kate whole show's here i'm nina

hi and i'm victoria hi i know so how are you i'm good. I'm sorry. You guys are on the radio? Yes. And we're calling you because we got an email about you. About me? Mm-hmm. Okay. We do a segment on the show.

It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out with someone and then end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Oh. Okay. It means we got an email about you because you're ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Oh, okay. It means we got an email about you because you're ghosting someone. Yeah. His name is Landon. And Landon really liked you and wants to know why you're ghosting him.

Would you mind telling us? Yeah. I mean, Landon is a great guy. I had a great time on our date. You know, I really liked him and, you know, it was a really fun night, uh, different than most states I've gone on and it was just really great. But, um, you know, I just think we, I don't know. I think we just want different things and I just have to protect myself from that, I think. Okay. What does that mean? You know and I just have to protect myself from that I think okay what does that mean you know I just want to protect my heart I think that Landon you know he was kind of talking about

how he's not really ready for a relationship and he's looking more for like a romantic sensual experience not really like a full-blown commitment and you know I that's fine you know but I I really want romance and experiences but I I want to build something with someone you know I'm not in a huge rush to be in a relationship but I don't really feel comfortable with like the non-committal mentality personally. Did you guys have that conversation? Like he said that to you? I mean, he had said, you know, that he just wants like romantic experiences, but he had

said he wasn't really looking for like a, like a full blown commitment, which is, you know, I get it. I had a great time on our date. I didn't think that's what our date was for until we met. I thought we were looking for the same thing. So I was like taken off guard. But, you know, everyone's looking for what they're looking for. And even though we had a fun time, it's just we're both looking for different things.

It's not the right time and place. Well, good for you. Knowing exactly what you want. Thank you. Kate, Landon is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. What? Hey, Kate. Hi.

Hi, Landon. Yeah. I didn't realize we were on such different paths. We had such a good time. I thought it was going well. Yeah, no, we had a a good time I thought it was going well yeah no we had a great time and I really I mean it's definitely a date I'll never forget it was really fun I really enjoyed myself I enjoyed getting to know you it's just I think you know our path in life is just different right now oh well that's a shame i kind of wish you would have answered my text and we could talk about this

i mean i'm open to discussion well then is that true landon are you not open to relationship well yeah i mean honestly i am just looking for something casual right now but i thought she was on the same page we never discussed it but yeah maybe I mean if the timing is right in the future we can hopefully get back together and make this work what do you think I mean I really enjoyed meeting with you um I think you're very attractive and you know we laughed a lot maybe in the future you know if if I'm available, we could definitely try again. You know, it's just timing right now. It doesn't seem like it's on our side.

That's all. Okay. Well, like, what do I have to do to make you say yes? Like, what do you need? You know what? That's funny. I just, honestly, you're wonderful. I had a great time with you. It's just that I am looking for something a little more, you know, not so much a commitment, you know, commitment with the right person, but not something as loose as I guess what you're looking for. Just like, you know, experiences, life experiences. I've had a lot of life experience and, you know, I'm ready to put that life experience to use.

So there's I mean, I had a great time. I I loved your cousin's restaurant. The wine was great. The food was amazing. I mean, I had the best time. It's just I just don't want something super casual right now. Landon, do you think that you're wanting something casual is kind of like your defense mechanism, too? Because it sounds like you really like Kate.

You keep trying to get her to go out. I mean, I know. It's something to ask yourself. You know, if you just say whoever you hang out with is casual, then you're protecting your heart, too, and not really putting yourself out there. I didn't realize I was signing up for a therapy session here. Therapy is a bill. Yeah. You know what? I think it may have something to do

with my previous relationship now that I think about it. Things just went too quickly and I think the year I just wanted to take things more casual this time, not really look for a commitment yet. What if you replace the word casual with slow yeah that's that's a good observation there i'm sorry but we say this all the time we are

therapist adjacent i definitely would prefer someone who's more sure on themselves like if you need to experience things to you know feel like you'll be a better partner in the future. I mean, that's your path. That's your choice. Um, like I said, I've, I've had these experiences and I have a pretty clear idea of what I want and what I'm looking for and how I want to be treated. And, you know, I just, I want to be a little bit more, you know, important than just something casual that's, you know, not going anywhere. Cause, cause I'm looking for something that's going to go somewhere. Kate, would you like to go on another date with Landon? We'll pay for it.

No, I don't think so right now. Nothing against Landon. Landon, you're wonderful. Again, I had the best time, honestly, probably one of my top, like, top dates ever. It was really, like, dancing in the restaurant, and restaurant and the people like it's stuff out of movies. I was incredible. It's just, again, I just want something a little bit more serious. It's going to go somewhere or ideally go somewhere.

Like I felt a deep connection with you. So I would not want something casual. But if in the future you figure out what you're looking for and if I happen to still be available, you know, you have my number. Great. Yeah. Let's just keep in touch. We'll text back and forth and stay on each other's radar. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends

like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.

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