First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Lauren is getting ghosted by Jackson cause she's a...

Episode Date: October 3, 2023

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of one to ten, how hot is Jackson? Because I've never seen a not hot Jackson. Oh, yeah, that's the thing. He is hot, and that's why I'm also disappointed. Okay, I probably should have brought that part up. My bad. Let's hear about it, Lauren. How did you meet Jackson?

What was the date like? Yeah, I mean, the date was nice. It was nice. We went to a restaurant. We had an appetizer, then our meal, and I thought we had a really good time. I mean, we both have, like, similar hobbies and, like, are very healthy and fitness-oriented and, like, have a passion for that so that's always nice you know like if one person is like only eats steak and fries and the other person eats salad

making dinner can be challenging so it's just nice to have similar passions and things to do together I just really can't figure out what's happening and like why i'm being ghosted um is there anything that happened on the date that you can think of i'm thinking maybe there's something that i said um because like i mentioned that i was a nurse and he said his sister is a nurse and like maybe he was worried that we'd be connected or um he wants someone that like doesn't have like a connection to his sister and his family i don't i'm not really sure how did your date end like did you guys kiss was there tension i mean yeah i mean we kissed there was no tension like the conversation flowed and we haven't we had a lot of fun and from what i thought um

and again i guess i'm here and so i guess i was talking more about like that physical attraction tension you know what i mean like you just you like wanted each other and like could tell yeah i mean i definitely think it was there i maybe he was being polite or but you know we just kissed there wasn't anything more so did he say he was gonna call you he's yeah he said he would call he said he was just yeah that was a nice date like that's it so i assumed there would be a call she just said yeah that was a nice date yeah it doesn't sound super romantic-y if i'm being honest lauren but that is mixed messaging yeah that wasn't a good date and then let me make out with you real quick yeah i mean still he did yeah you guys did kiss and stuff right oh yeah okay and now it's been two weeks

oh i mean i would want to know what happened wouldn't you yeah i would too i mean i'd probably forget but okay i wouldn't it just really seemed like he he was just like the conversation flowed he asked questions i asked questions he was like yeah i'm gonna book like even she was sharing like vulnerable things about challenges he's faced this year with his job and like how he overcame them and it was really like honest and a nice conversation so so yeah we both um love to hike and both um really enjoy like working out in the mornings like he was like yeah i'm an early bird and i love working out in the morning and i was like me too because like you know you don't want somebody who's also uh who's a night owl and

you're an early bird that's's just like not going to work. So, yeah, it was just like those little things that I was like, oh, okay, okay. Like all the signs were lined up. It's pretty compatible. Yeah. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back, call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you.

And then maybe get you another date if you still want it. Okay. That would be great. Thank you. All right, we'll get your first day follow-up right after this. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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and maybe get her another date if she's still interested after she hears the reason. And before we call him, Lauren, why don't you refresh everybody's memory and tell them about your time with Jackson? Yeah, we had a lovely time. We had a lot in common. Like both really love fitness. Like both work out in the morning, keep an early bird, eat healthy. You know, we just had a really nice date.

And he said that he had a nice time. So, I figured I'd hear back. And it's been two weeks, and I haven't heard back. All right. Cool. Well, we're about to call him right now and see if we can figure it out for you and maybe get you another date. Here we go hello hi man speak to jackson please uh this is him hey man what's up how are you my name is jubel from a radio show called the

jubel show the jubel show has a few people on it by the way um i'm nina and i'm one of those people hi hi and i'm victoria i'm another one of those what's up nothing much i'm just a little um a little starstruck i love the show oh all right well thank you man have you ever heard a first date follow-up before i have yeah what do you think of them I'm assuming I'm in one now. Yes, you are, Jackson. Jackson, we got an email about you, man. Is it from Lauren? What'd you do, Jackson? Yes, it's from Lauren. I figure.

It was the last date I was on. So what did Lauren have to say? Well, she had a great time, Jackson. She said you guys even had a nice little kiss at the end you guys like to work out and stuff but she's kind of confused why haven't you hit her up yeah she was right the the date was great very conversational she's easy to talk to um she's beautiful uh on both inside and out, which is important. She's a really good person. She's a nurse.

I got a sister who's a nurse, so that was kind of cool. We got to talk a little bit about that. So here's where things kind of broke down for me. We went to a nice restaurant, not a super nice restaurant, and we go to order, and she orders off the kids' meal. And she's ordered chicken fingers and fries, and she had talked about how health conscious she was and how important it was to her and for her to get chicken fingers and fries it kind of just went maybe maybe she's not as health conscious and i kind of need someone who's health

conscious how'd you heard of a cheat meal i'm just saying you're gonna chicken finger shame this girl sometimes a girl just needs her chicken fingers and fries i've never heard of chicken finger shaming before but but I like it. Yeah, no, it's not. I mean, I'm not trying to shame anyone for it. I'm really not. Part of me is like, if you're going to cheat, cheat with something good.

Chicken fingers and fries, I'm like, you're a nice restaurant. I'm sure they have some really good chicken fingers and fries. It's all fried food, and if this is what she eats all the time, then i can't do that i i can't it has taken way too long for me to to get into shape uh i grew up a really big kid um i was a really big adult for a long time and my heaviest i was at 362 pounds i'm five foot six so that's that's huge. And now I've had to really cut out everything for health. You know, I got to the point where the doctors are like, we can't even prescribe you medicine.

Your liver and everything is so bad. It's so fatty. We got to get you to lose weight. So I really can't be around it. It's kind of like an alcoholic. Right. Or a former smoker and all that kind of stuff. Yeah. around it it's kind of like an alcoholic right or a former smoker and all that kind of stuff yeah i can't be around that because then i will eat it and i will get back into those habits and i

i just can't you liked her though i did she's a really cool person i'm like one time with the chicken fingers you don't want to say if maybe you know you go out another time and then she makes another questionable food choice in your opinion if this was was a one-time thing, you know, she's like, no, this is just cheap. No, I normally am really, really great. Then yeah, that's great. And that's my bad for not conveying or, you know, communicating my issues. I just kind of panicked. Well, let's talk to her about it because she's actually on the phone listening and wants

to talk to you. Oh, yeah. Hi. Oh, yeah. Hi. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Of course she is. Hi. Yeah.

So seriously, you're ghosting me because I have like one cheat meal. I don't have a cheat meal often and maybe I should have qualified it. But like, yeah, chicken fingers is something that I crave when I have my cheat meal. And this is like the first time in two weeks I get it you have your background and your history and you're careful and you don't want to go down a slippery slope but like wow you didn't even give me a chance to explain myself you just like nixed me no and and you're absolutely right now to be fair I didn't know it was a cheat meal I'm you know at the date I don't I don't know I just thought and you're absolutely right to be fair I didn't know it was a cheat meal you know it's a date I don't know

I just thought and you're right you're right I should have asked I should have kept talking I shouldn't have to explain myself like on what I'm ordering I'm not asking I have my own autonomy you're absolutely right but I don't have to explain to you

why I don't want to be with somebody who's going to eat that kind of food I won't ask you to eat i'm not i'm not trying no but you should like clarify at least sure but if somebody okay so i don't and let's just say i'm not a hunter i don't like guns i don't like that and somebody is i find somebody who dates they don't have to justify why they hunt i just know i don't want to be a part of that. So you're right. You're absolutely right. You don't have to justify.

You don't have to say anything. Explain to why you eat those chicken fingers. You just compared a hunter to a chicken finger eater. It's the same point. But why don't you at least text her back then? At least say, hey, man, I'm not in the chicken finger style. I can't. Honestly, I just... Or clarify like this you mentioned that

you're into health and fitness is this how you but like i'm a little confused you had quarter chicken fingers like i really do like maybe clarify uh like i noticed you ordered is that normally how you eat or is that where you like having a little cheat meal um i guess i would have gotten a little more luxurious. You're right. I should have. I'm admitting I messed up on how I handled it, but I didn't. I feel very tossed to the curb for something so small.

This was a one date. This wasn't like we're dating for six months, and I'm like, you know what, you had chicken fingers, so we're out. You had chicken fingers, and he's out. I know. So, yeah, that one time on a first date is pretty quick. I mean, you're allowed to choose however you need to, I guess. It's just, it does feel a little silly, especially since you said she was so wonderful and beautiful

and all of those things that feel like they would outweigh chicken fingers and fries. And see, you guys are making it about the chicken fingers and fries. It's not about the chicken fingers and fries. For me, you guys are making it about the chicken fingers and fries. It's not about the chicken fingers and fries. For me, it's about the one time. If you've ever had... That was a one time thing. I mean, he's right. We're being a little bit hard on him,

especially since that is a big hard no for him. That's fine. I don't know. Lauren, are you willing not to eat chicken fingers around this guy or do you want to live your life how you want to? No, I absolutely can respect that. It's just I wish I would have known. And so, like, maybe moving forward, we have more conversations.

Jackson, would you like to go on another date with Lauren? We'll pay for it. I would love it. I would love it. If you want to give me a second opportunity to communicate better, that'd be great. Yeah. I would love it. If you want to give me a second opportunity to communicate better, that'd be great. I, uh, yeah. Well, and I will keep my salad with you and my chicken fingers on my own. All right.

Congratulations. We're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Consider this is a daily news podcast, and lately, the news is about a big question. How much can one guy change? They want change. What will change look like for energy? Drill, baby, drill. Schools?

Take the Department of Education closer. Health care? Better and less expensive. Follow coverage of a changing country. Promises Department of Education closer. Healthcare. Better and less expensive. Follow coverage of a changing country. Promises made, promises kept. We're going to keep our promises. On Consider This from NPR. Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts.

This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job i love the outlet i love how y'all treat the artists that come on here i love how y'all speak to the realization of r&b music and r&b money snoop dog on r&b money listen to this episode on the iheart radio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts