First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Layla & Jay - Smarty Pants

Episode Date: December 22, 2023

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So let's see if we can help her out. Layla, before we talk about your dating stuff, how long has it been since you heard from Jay? I think at this point it's been about two weeks, like a maybe, I think we're past the time of like somebody getting back with you after a first date. You know what I mean? Obvious ghosting yes 100 what was the last interaction you guys had just like the end of the date so we went to top golf um had nachos and then i invited him over because i live really close to the top golf and we kind of hooked up and then he left in the morning

and no you're regular like oh my he left in the morning and no, you're regular like, oh my God, yeah, we'll text and I can't wait to see you again. And then he has not spoken to me since. Okay. So you obviously liked him cause you hooked up with him, but tell us a little bit more about the date to see if we can see if there's something there that pops that gives us an idea about why. Definitely.

I mean, the date was i think pretty great and like pretty seamless i mean i feel like i've been on a bunch of first dates that haven't gone anywhere so i'm just like really excited to go out with someone i could actually talk to um and i feel like we had such a good time and so much chemistry you guys jay is very very hot and i it's so exciting i honestly like couldn't believe that someone that like looks that good is also so smart the date was great i mean i feel like you know he helped me with my swing a little bit and and we talked a lot about traveling he's been to all these different places he was just telling me about his recent trip to spain and i haven't had as much of

an opportunity to travel just because i you know i've been working and myself through school and all of that so yeah it was it was really awesome i i actually think it's pretty unbelievable that he didn't call me that unbelievable i mean that's a fair stance to take i mean how was the hookup it was great i mean like you know first times are always like a little weird like it's so rare that if you like hook up with somebody for the first time it's like mind-blowing but it was so good like i just felt like we were in sync and honestly when he left I was like he's obsessed with me but obviously

that might have not been the case so is there any reason why you think he may not be hitting you back I don't know maybe he just doesn't want anything serious just kind of an f-boy like maybe he just your proverbial hit it and quit it kind of thing maybe the way you

described to me doesn't sound like that type of dude right because that would be a lot of work just to get that we talked about each other's families and he kind of like gave me a i don't know i i feel like we talked about stuff that you don't usually talk about on um a first date i guess okay and you have no idea why? I would be grasping at Charles. I don't know. Maybe like, I guess my apartment was pretty messy.

I don't know if that, I mean, it wasn't like extraordinarily messy. I'm certainly not like the cleanest person ever, but. We have had first date follow-ups where that was a problem. So maybe that is it. I mean,

some people are just a little bit more, you know, uptight about that. All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted. And then also see if we can get you another date if you still want one when we find out why. Okay? Okay. Thank you. All right.

We'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next. It's The Jubal Show. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

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ghosted and maybe get her another date but first Layla before we call Jay refresh everybody's memory about your date Jay and I went to Topgolf and we had nachos and then uh drinks had an amazing time and then we went over to my place and hooked up. And then, yeah, I mean, I thought it was really amazing. He helped me with my swing. It was very cute. And then I heard all about his travels everywhere he went and talked a little bit about my life too. So I genuinely think we had an amazing connection and I guess I'm confused. And the only reason I can think that he maybe is not interested is because my apartment was messy and there was like clothes

all over the place but I just like I want him to know that I'm not actually like really messy all right well we'll see if we can figure it out for you we're going to call him right now and then see if he'll tell us and maybe get you another date if you still want one okay you ready okay I'm ready all right here we go and then see if he'll tell us and maybe get you another date if you still want one. Okay, you ready? Okay, I'm ready. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jay, please?

Yeah, this is Jay. Who's this? Jay, what's up, man? How are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Jay. My name's Nina. I also do that.

Hi, and I'm Victoria. Jay, you recently went out on a date with somebody and they emailed us because they want to know why you're ghosting them. Oh, okay. I think I have a pretty good idea who that might be. You want to take a guess? Go for it. I'm guessing it's the lovely Layla. Okay, okay well that was a compliment the lovely leila yeah what's the deal oh my god all right i guess we're doing this huh yep can you tell us why you're ghosting her all right um what's the best way to say this um she's great. She's hot. She's funny. I just don't know that she's cultured enough for me, for what I'm looking for in a partner.

I don't really like I don't know how to say this like nicely, but I need somebody that will challenge me cerebrally. And I'm just not sure that she's there, that we're at that same level mentally. I just I want a certain level. Are you calling her dumb? I'm not calling her dumb. I just don't know that her and I have had the same deep thinking. It just didn't seem like her and I were mentally compatible, certainly physically compatible.

She just, what's the best way to say you want somebody a little more intelligent as a partner without making it sound mean? I guess that's what I'm getting at. I don't know if there's any way to not make that sound mean. No, no. When you say it sounds terrible, doesn't it? Telling her that would be me. Yeah, that wouldn't have been a move. But ghosting also, you know, is not the easiest way to go about this either.

But so that was it. But ghosting also, you know, is not the easiest way to go about this either. So that was it. That was the reason why, you know, the date was fun. Certainly the hookup was fun. We hooked up at her place. But I just, through our conversations that we had, it just didn't seem like there was going to be that sort of mental cerebral connection that I'm looking for. You can tell after one date? Usually. mental cerebral connection that i'm looking for you can tell after one day usually i mean when you spend an entire night and the night literally with somebody you get a pretty good vibe of how

they kick did she say anything that was not intelligent like that made you think she was dumb like what you're basically saying sorry um most of the conversation was just very surface level like you know do you have any siblings do you have any siblings oh what did your family you know what do your parents do growing up where did you just all that simple stuff it didn't get any deeper than that i started talking about my travels and experiences she didn't really have anything to add to that and so i thought that was just kind of where it was going to be conversationally. Well, you know what? That might not be a smarts thing.

That might be a financial thing. I guess you got a point there. I didn't think about that at the time. It just didn't seem like we were on the same wavelength as far as challenging ourselves mentally. Hey, Jay, I have a question for you. You're a smart guy. Do you remember one

i guess glaring thing about these first eight follow-ups that you might be not thinking about right now yeah now that you say that usually you have the other person listening on the other line yes you are smart you are good job layla's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you hi not awkward at all. How are you? I'm good. I'm doing good. Just as a

disclaimer, I literally have a master's degree in business. That never came up. Just as a little throwing in here. Just to throw that out there and i well that didn't come up at uh top golf well because we were flirting insanely and talking about whatever else was occurring to us like i thought i you know talked about my family and we were just kind of like first dating stuff like we were just talking about day one the basics and then sleeping together whatever we can forget about that but

um I don't think we ever even got a chance to like honestly this is totally fine but he did talk a lot about himself you know and that is I didn't really get that many opportunities to actually speak about myself very much so there's that maybe just something to consider for future dates but yeah I mean like we just talked about service stuff and I thought you were kind of intrigued but I kind of now think you're a snob like the reason I haven't traveled is because I had to put myself through school and had to work full-time in order to pay for my own tuition. So, yeah. Well, that was a mic drop.

Yeah. Well, I feel about this tall right now. So, yes, having heard you say that, I can absolutely see how I came off as a snob. And I do apologize if I didn't give you enough time to talk about yourself. And it is very impressive that you have your master's. That's really awesome, actually. Jay's on that back pedal real quick. Yeah, I'm on the spot here.

And, man, I feel bad now. I really do. Who talks about their full education? I'm not going to sit there and brag about my master's degree on a first date. I feel like that's not necessarily something I would say unless somebody asks me point blank. Yeah, and that probably should

be a question of yours when you date, Jay. If you put a lot of stock in that stuff, where'd you go to college? What kind of degree do you have? Where have you traveled? A master's degree is a hell of a turn on for me so you know i would have known that we might have made it out of top golf even quicker okay well let me just ask the question then um jay would you like another date with leila we'll pay for it i would love the opportunity to reconcile myself with Layla, absolutely.

Yeah, I think I'm going to go ahead and say no to that. I feel like, first of all, you kind of are a little bit of a snob. And then second of all, like, who ghosts people like that after sleeping with them? It's just not a very, like, gentleman thing to do. Like, you could have let me down. You could have lied to me if you thought i was stupid you could have just been like you know what i'm not interested in anything long term but instead you just kind of like didn't answer yeah so no thank you well that was very polite there's a lot of other words i wanted to say jubile's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki,

Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends, like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team

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