First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Leesha & James - Krispy Kreme - Win a Free Trip to Jamaica

Episode Date: September 12, 2024

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Leisha is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So in a second, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Leisha, how long has it been since you heard from James? Yeah, it's been about a week. And then how many times have you reached out to him in that time? Yeah, like kind of a bunch. I was, you know, I was texting a bunch. You know, we had a great connection and, you know, you know, I was trying to get together and, you know, I texted a few times and, you know, we had a plan.

He canceled. He felt like he needed the weekend to recover. I offered to make him soup, which he declined. And I, you know, and then after that, I texted him a couple of times. You know, he's feeling like nothing. So did your date happen or this was after the date? No. Well, we had a first date.

Okay. But then after that, nothing happened. Okay. Well, tell had a first date. Okay, okay. But then after that, nothing happened. Okay, well, tell us about the date. Well, we met on Hinge, first of all. And, like, we talked a little bit and we wanted to go out because we both, like, really like food and travel and stuff. And he's in a band and I used to sing in a band. So we had, like, a lot of great connections.

And so we met for cocktails and we like bounced around and got tacos and ended up at this like karaoke place, which was really fun. After karaoke, we went back to his place and we were hanging out and like cuddling and stuff. But we didn't hook up. But there was like a lot of like affection, I felt. And in the morning we kissed and like we planned on seeing each other again, like, the next weekend. So, that was the date. Is there anything that happened on the date that could have been awkward or something that would cause him to not want to talk to you again? So, I talked this over, like, a bit, and I think there might have been, which I, like, want to apologize for.

And, like, I've been feeling bad about it so like when we were like hanging out and cuddling he like pulled out his phone to play me like a rough edit of his band's new song and I was excited to hear it I was glad he wanted to share it with me and you know because I was on the music background I didn't feel like I needed to hold back what I thought you know so I mean I told him I was like I think this is like a great idea for a song i said like some of the lyrics were a little cheesy and you know which is a little pitty in certain points and like one of the lyrics in particular was like about her love being like a sugar rush eating a box of krispy kreme or something okay i like laughed at that and then i kept like asking him if i made him feel like he

was eating a box of krispy kreme and i thought it was being funny like i was joking and like i think i may have crushed him i don't know maybe i took it too far so i think he apologized like maybe he thought you were making fun of his music yeah but i mean it sounds like you were being more playful yeah no i was just saying like, that's how I felt. Like, that's what the intention was. Jubal, you are doing music now too. So like, think about this scenario. Wouldn't it be just kind of cute?

Like, you're not, are you going to be offended? No, I wouldn't be. I'm also a super harsh critic on myself. So I'd be like, you're right. The whole thing's crap. I'll throw it out. You're my Krispy Kreme. Start over.

I'll start all over. I quit it all. So I would just totally be like, yeah, thanks for the honest feedback. I suck. That would also be a major turnoff and problem also. Okay, so maybe, maybe he was a little butthurt. Maybe. I mean, it might be.

So I feel like, I don't know, I feel like we need to get him on the phone. He needs to get a third party in to get him on the phone because he's ghosting me. So, like, and I just want to apologize. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song and we'll come back and then we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date with Krispy Kreme boy. Okay. All right. Should we not call him Krispy Kreme boy?

No. Probably not. He disappeared. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight.

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We're in the middle of our first date follow-up. If you're just joining us, Alicia is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Alicia, why don't you catch us up on your situation?

Yeah. So I went on a date with this guy, James. It like went really well. We had cocktails and tacos and we did karaoke and all this stuff. And, you know, we bonded because he's in a band and I used to sing in a band. And, you know, we have a lot of common interests. And I feel like and he hasn't texted me back in a week.

So and I feel like something might have gone wrong the night we were on the date i feel like i might have kind of hurt his feelings making fun of one of his lyrics which involves krispy kreme which i kept bringing up so i don't know i feel like i might have upset him and i need to apologize and also he's ghosting me so that's where we are all right are you ready for us to call him? Sure. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, man. Speak to James, please. Yeah, speaking.

James, how are you, man? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, James. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? Oh, cool. Wonderful.

I'm doing good, man. I don't get many calls from the radio, but what's up? Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, yeah, I have. Okay. Oh, thank you. Yeah. Have you ever heard a first date follow-up before? Oh, yeah. Yeah, I have. Is this one of these things? First date follow-up, you know, that's a segment where if you're ghosting

somebody, they can email us and then ask us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them. Somebody emailed us about you, James. Oh, boy. Any idea who it would be? Yeah, maybe someone. I met someone online like a little more than a week ago. Is that someone's name, Leisha? Yeah.

Yeah, Leisha. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Well, Leisha. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Well, Leisha emailed us and told us about your date. She said she really liked you, but she's confused. Can you tell us why you're ghosting her? I really liked her, but, man, she's too much. She texted me on Saturday to ask about, well, first of all, I got sick, right?

So, like, I got sick a little bit afterwards but not the rona or nothing but like you know she texted me on saturday to ask me about soup and then again tell me good night and then text me a list of vitamins i should be taking because you were sick yeah you know it was like it was like a trip or a doordash uh gnc you know the whole bag full and and then like not soon after asking if i i missed her oh this this whole thing about like if i wanted crispy creams like asking if i wanted crispy cream it's a it's a joke about some stupid lyric i made and and and i mean just more text on and on and on. I'm not even giving you all.

That was all in one day. That happened all in the same day. Yeah. And this is someone I just talked to online. They came over. We cuddled. I mean, the suite was great. You know, don't get me wrong.

But after all this, just pile it on and just happening so soon. I just stopped responding. I was like, i needed to rest and i wake up and it's like i mean i lose like 12 text messages from her i don't respond but i get even more the next day eventually i just i just block her because i feel like that kind of energy I felt it gives me a lot of anxiety like and I'm gonna go with the flow kind of guy and when it just gets raw raw raw it's like it first off it doesn't make me feel better but then it's like this is someone I just met sweet girl I mean she came over it was great the date was amazing uh karaoke was fun and and and yeah like we talked like it was going to turn

into something but then the the the text just the messaging well it was just nah nah it was just a no go i mean it sounds like she was just concerned because you were sick now granted 12 and maybe 24 text messages might be a lot in two days but the initial reach out probably was kind of nice though no i mean i get it she's very sweet but it's just someone i just started talking to online and it just started giving me the vibe that this is the kind of person that's going to give me a whole lot of anxiety i don't okay i just wanted peace okay well speaking of peace james i will let you know that lisa's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you yeah hi oh hi lisa do you have a problem getting close to

people like do you know how to ask when someone cares about you like i was just trying to show you that i cared and i'm like actually a good caretaker in like times like this i i get it but it's just we just had one date after a little bit of online conversation and i just feel like you're sweet wonderful but i just feel that we're nowhere close to the come over and make me soup stage of this relationship okay well you said on your hinge that you wanted to be intentional about the time we spend together and to prioritize the growth and i feel like i was doing that so i don't know what there is about this that you don't you wouldn't like can we go further than can we have a relationship first can we like have have some other? There's steps to this before.

Okay, wait, wait, wait. I'm not ready to be in a relationship with you. Oh, look, that's not what I said. Okay, that's not what I said. It's, I feel there's a little miscommunication here. Well, I mean, I'm not. Well, you just mentioned wanting to have a relationship first. You talk about me texting a lot, and you're already talking about a relationship.

So I don't know what the problem is with my texting when you're like, I want a relationship right now. What? No, I'm not saying right now. I just don't want to jump into things that just lead to anxiety and just like already we're checking each other's mental health. Like, I'm just trying to just go go with the vibe that we had. That was that was real good. It just felt like there was this was just in a different place. And I was just like, I don't want to grow with this. You are moving way too fast, James.

This is a good turn. Look, I just, I just, I'm all for like all those texts in the soup, but I just feel that there's, there's just a sequence to it that just, you know, rocks my boat a certain way. And, and like, I'm, I'm sorry for, for miscommunicating or, or like, you know, just going outside the vibe that we had. And I just feel, I just feel like we went the wrong direction with that. Well, James, would you like another date with Leisha? We'll pay for it.

James, just so you know, I will go on another date with you, but I just want to let you know, like, I'm not going to get together with you right now, just so you know. Yeah, so, like i said i'm not interested in rushing into getting together right now i i'm sorry about the miscommunication but i'm willing to give this another go just as long as we don't mention the krispy kremes okay but we're not going to be like dating yet like this is just a date not like a dating date look don't worry i'm not going to be like dating yet. Like this is just a date. Not like a dating date. Look,

don't worry. I'm not trying to wife you up just yet. Wait a minute. You want to wife me up? Like, hold on. Why are we jumping to marriage? I don't think James wants to marry you yet.

I think you guys should just go out on one more day and see how it goes. Okay. Okay. Yeah. I'm down. All right. Jubal's first date follow-up. It's the Jubal Show's free trip to Jamaica.

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But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears

with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What if you asked two different people

the same set of questions? Even if the questions are the same, our experiences can lead us to drastically different answers. I'm Minnie Driver, and I set out to explore this idea in my podcast, and now, Minnie Questions is returning for another season. We've asked an entirely new set of guests our seven questions, including Jane Lynch, Delaney Rowe, and Cord Jefferson.

Listen to Minnie Questions on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Seven questions, limitless answers. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world.

And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to the hottest party in professional sports. I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party, your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club. Welcome to the Party with Tisha Allen is an iHeart Woman sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Welcome to the Party, that's P-A-R-T-E-E,

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