First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Leila & Trent - He Ghosted After the “Perfect” First Date

Episode Date: September 10, 2025

Leila thought she’d found real chemistry after a fun trampoline dodgeball date — so why did Trent suddenly disappear? In this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, the truth behind his ghosting finally comes out… and let’s just say, it’s not the reason you’d expect. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And maybe get her a second date. But first, Layla, how long has it been since you heard from Trent? Hey, so it's been about a couple, like, months, I would say. Been a while. Yeah, he was just really nice. I thought we had a lot of chemistry. I've been out on other dates since. And, like, to me, I'm still thinking about him.

So I'd love to know what happened. Okay. I get that. So why don't you tell us about the date then? Okay, so, well, first of all, like, he is, like, super charming, of course. like that's why I'm still thinking about him um and he took me instead of like you know a boring dinner date or whatever he took me to a trampoline dodge ball night at like an indoor kind of jump park thing oh wait a minute they do that that is something we need to do okay yeah I didn't know they did that either and so I was like oh my god such a fun idea for a date and it just made me feel at ease like she was so goofy and confident and like He was really charming. He had, like, this curly hair.

I was like, oh, my God, he's just so cute, you know? And then, like, you know, it was, like, competitive, flirty. Like, I don't know. It just felt like the whole night was going so well. So I'm just not really sure, you know, why he just didn't call me back after all of that. So you feel like he was into you, too. You guys were, like, jump in and there was, like, a vibe. Yeah, like, like, he didn't mind, like, losing and, like, cracking jokes a whole

time and you know like at one point like we we were like joking around and staked like a dramatic death scene you know and like I tagged him with the ball and we couldn't stop laughing I was like oh my god this is like what I would picture like a movie first date to me you know what I mean yeah that's fun oh fine how did it end okay so like what I will say is like the thing that I keep thinking about on the date I'm like is this a reason he's not talking to me so like at one point at one point I like went to go for a big bounce

and I ended up flipping and like truly when I tell you I belly flopped onto the trampoline and that like it was loud and every single person stopped no it hurt like you think you can only belly flop in a pool and here I am at like you know

an indoor trampoline park just like flopping down and it was so loud and everybody stopped to look and then to top it all off my phone like, it was so embarrassing. My phone like flew out of my hand, okay?

And then my Siri started going off. And my Siri was like, don't forget bikini wax at 3 p.m. And I was like, oh, my God. It sounds like madness. And Siri's just like, hey, I know you fell down right now,

but you got to get the bikini wax at three. Don't forget. Priorities. Sherry couldn't just let me live for like a second. Like, come on. Do you think he heard it? And like, I mean,

he obviously saw you belly flop. Well, he definitely heard. heard it too because like you know the whole thing was so embarrassing and then he just looked at me he laughed like he carried my phone back to me he hugged me and I'm like right and he was like this is the most fun I've had in a while and I was like wait me too you know so I don't know like I can't imagine why he would go to me because like our chemistry was so great it made no sense to me why I never heard from him again I'm like really couldn't have been

a belly flop and a theory announcing my wax like I don't know well I hope not we'll see We'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date if you still want one, okay? Okay, thanks. All right, we'll get your first day follow-up next. All right, Wes West, Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcast. You already know our get-down.

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Listen on the iHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Layla is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Trent, so we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But before we do that, Layla, why don't you remind us about your situation again real quick? Okay, so I went on a first date with Trent. He took me to an indoor, like, trampoline dogs ball night. It was so much fun, but now he's ghosting me,

and I think it might be because of, like, when I belly flopped on the date, and then my phone said, like, wax at 3 p.m. So, you know. All right. Just complete chaos. I would think that would be a weird reason to ghost somebody, but you never know. I mean, some dudes are into that, too. That's the weird part to me.

Into the waxing? Yeah. They're always like who you are. You're getting wax today? Oh, like they dig. Really? Yeah. I just think, ow.

Yeah. But anyway, okay. Are you ready for us to call? Ready for us to call him? Yeah. All right. Here we go. Hello.

Hi, man. Speak to Trent, please. This is him? Hey, Trent, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Trent. I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. What's up? Hi. How are you guys? Good. Have you ever listened to the show before? I think I have, actually, yeah.

Oh, yay. Well, are you familiar with the first date follow-ups that we do? Kind of. I might have heard like the end of it one time, but no, not really. Okay. Well, it's a segment where if you go out on a date and you end up ghosting, somebody, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay.

And we got an email about you from somebody. Okay. You have any idea of your ghosting that would email us to call you and ask why? I ghosted this girl named Layla, but that was like a couple months ago. Oh, okay. Guess what? Lela hasn't forgotten because that's who email does. And she said that she liked you a lot.

and, yeah, hasn't heard from you and wants to know if you'll tell us why you're ghosting her. Do you remember? This is kind of awkward. I'm not going to lie. Yeah, we had a... The date was cool.

I don't know what you guys know and not know, but honestly... She told us you guys went to dodge ball and had a great time and she said she liked you a lot. That's pretty much what she told us. Yeah, the dodge ball was cool, but, um, yeah, I don't know. Honestly, it was, uh, it was the legs. A what?

Uh, her legs? Her legs. I don't, her legs, yeah. I don't know how much I can, uh, deal with all that hair down there. She had hairy legs. That's why you're not calling her back? Uh, yeah, kind of like, uh, over the top hairy legs. Like, hairier than my legs.

Okay. Do you shave your legs? Are you, who are you asking? How hairy are your legs? I'm trying to get a picture of my head, Trent. How hairy are you like? How hairy are my leg? Yeah.

Normal guy hairy, not like Italian Harry, but just normal guy hairy. Wow. Okay. Well, hair can be taken care of, but there are people that have different beliefs when it comes to hair. That's why you're ghosting. Right, right. What was it just an off day? Like maybe she just didn't shave that day because she wasn't expecting to take her pants off.

Well, I don't want to tell people how to handle their hygiene, but if she's the kind of girl that's, but, you know, like, a little bit hippy, like, and doesn't like the shape. That's cool. That's just not my back. You know what I mean? Okay. Well, thank you for being honest with us.

Yeah, for sure. Yeah, now I'll let you know that Layla is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Wait, she's here, like, right now? Mm-hmm. Hi, Trent. Hey, Layla. I just, like, I'm just, like, honestly, I'm just so shocked.

It's over here that you ghosted me over my head. hairy legs like come on yeah i mean i'm i'm sorry but that image is burned in the back of my skull for the rest of my life what day it's not that big of a deal like are your legs always hairy leila you know like the thing is like it was this is like it was a couple months ago it was cold out okay i was wearing chance by my legs were not shaved because switzerland like that's what that's for you're right i wasn't playing on taking my pants off that day so like who cares Also, like, that has nothing to do with hygiene, just by the way, like, just something you might want to research is, like, just because my legs are not shaved and smooth, doesn't mean my hygiene is bad. Also, like, let's not forget when my Siri phone went off and said that I had a wax.

Like, this man should have assumed I take care of my hair. Like, the hair that needs to be taken care of, I take care of it. Once every other month? Oh. Well, you have to let your hair grow before you get a wax so you can get all the hair. pulled out right in the winter like maybe once every other month i'm shaving my legs like and what you know like who cares i don't know it looked like a small woodland creature is being mad at nowhere uh that that's just it was surprising it was a little shocking when you jumped up

for dodge ball it was like scared me a little bit i'm not gonna lie i actually can't even believe that for like months i've been sitting here wondering what it is that i did wrong and you're going to tell me that I because I didn't shave my legs like that grossed you out so much that that's going to like be the deciding factor of you ghosting me like get a grip dude like I don't understand like to what every person has to be like perfect in your mind and the perfection list starts at shaving your legs like maybe you should think of other things that aren't so superficial that you're looking for in a partner because that's probably like at the end of my life like I don't think I'll be shaving my legs anymore so

look I get that everybody is different everybody's genes are different everybody's you know method and taking care of themselves I just don't want to date a girl that has hairier legs than me I mean like I saw his legs and from where I'm standing

my legs were not hairier than yours sir but if that's what you are thinking that they were hairier than yours then maybe you should go get your testosterone levels checked out and like worry about your own leg hair well Would you like another date with Layla won't pay for it? My testosterone's perfect.

I don't think we need to be looking at my testosterone. All right? We should look at your testosterone. I'm okay. I'm okay over here. I'm good on the no-shaves season or whatever excuse you want to give yourself. I'm okay on that. Girls shave all the time.

They do and they don't too just because it's a lot of work. Whatever. As far as me going on a second date, like huge pass. I do not need a person who is more interested in my life here than my personality. Take it easy, Sasquatch. Take it easy. Well, I mean, whatever. You're an Ool, so.

Oh, what? Okay. How the hell does that mean? Cool. Ool is cool without the tea because you have no testosterone. Oh. Juba's first date follow-up. All right, West West,

Prop here from Hood Politics with Prop Podcast. You know I get down. You come from the urban areas. You understand politics more than you giving credit for. Between Jerry out here, mandarin all over the place, hop-out boys snatching up family members and two wars that was supposed to be done in 24 hours. Not to mention Epstein. We had to reach out to the homie, Jamil Hill, because she's going to keep it a century.

The American public is used to being entertained. We're a consumption society. So what Trump figured out is entertain them, and they'll never question you. Listen to the hood politics with prop podcasts on the IHard Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Lauren came in hot. From viral performances to red carpet looks that had everyone talking. The podcast, The Latest with Lauren the Rosa, is your go-to for everything, BMA.

We'll be right here breaking it all down. I'm going to be giving you all the headlines, breaking down everything that is going down behind the scenes, and getting into what the people are saying. Like, what is the culture talking about? That's exactly what we'll be getting into here at the latest with Lauren the Rosa. Everything be amazed. To hear this and more, listen to the latest with Lauren the Rosa from the Black Effect Podcast Network or the iHeartRadio at Apple Podcasts or wherever.

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You got a hood of you. I'll take it off. I'm Manny. I'm Noah. This is Devin. And we're best friends and journalists with a new podcast called No Such Thing, where we get to the bottom of questions like that. Why are you screaming? I can't expect what to do. Now, if the rule was the same, go off on me.

I deserve it. You know, lock him up. Listen to No Such Thing on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. No such thing. This is an IHeart podcast.