First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Let's see if we can get Britt a second date

Episode Date: April 8, 2025

Britt is getting ghosted by Sean, and she doesn't know why. Let's see if we can figure that out for her and get her a second date.  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Britt is on the phone today for a first date follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So in a few minutes, we're going to get him on the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she still wants one but Brit before we talk about your date how long has it been since you heard from Sean? Uh, for again, 12 days. You know we're not counting right? I'm sorry that sucks.

Where, how did you meet Sean? Um, online. Um, on an app or something else? Oh, um, and it's the only dating app I've ever really tried. And then I've heard good things. No, I have to. That makes sense. Yeah.

Let's go back to the date though. Can you tell us about that? Well, it was good at first because we like met at one of those like fun bars where there's like, you know, bar games and he was paying for stuff for stuff you know like he was getting our drinks and I was winning a pool so it was fun and it was like a flirty good time and you know we even like kissed okay well we made out at the bar. Was there any moment where something weird happened why you might be getting ghosted? Okay, so I didn't plan this or anything at all, but a group of my friends showed up

and they came and played a round of darts with us. And that's the only thing I can think of because I mean, he left shortly after, but he said he had to get up for work or whatever. How are the vibes when he left? He kind of just was like, oh, I realized the time it is I have to go So he like laughs kind of abruptly But like, you know, I was definitely like including him and then like it was I thought it was like going fine

So I didn't think that would have been it were your friends kind of monopolizing your time at that point Like I think like we were just all hanging out. Like the only reason it could have been awkward is just because they had never met before because it was like a first date, but I think it went fine. Like I even like texted him that night to apologize that they shut up, but I thanked him for like being cool

and said I couldn't like to see him again. Did he say anything back to that or was that the last time you heard from him? No, he texted me back the next morning. So that's why I was like, oh yeah, he must have gone home, gone to sleep early because he woke up, text me, he's like, yeah, I had fun and then go. Is it possible he's dated any of your friends? Uh, none of them said anything about that. So. I mean, it also could be just awkward. I mean, Victoria, remember when you had that date and

you ran into your friends? It almost feels like pressure in that moment, right? Like, yeah, you're already meeting their friends and you're just not ready to go that far. Well, so it's the very first date. So like you're meeting their friends and you're like, um, okay, this is weird, but hi. Like you're introducing yourself and yeah, it's kind of weird. Well, that's besides the point though. So if that's what happened and then he goes ghost, like something had to have happened in that interaction.

Were there guy friends there too? So it was like guys and girls? No, I used to go to girls. And what was the last thing he said to you? He said that he had fun. And I did like try texting him within those 12 days, like one or two more times. All right, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come

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Right in the middle of your first date follow up, if you're just joining us, Britt is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Sean. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Britt, why don't you remind everybody of the situation with Sean? Okay, guys, I went out on a date with Sean, who I met online and we were having a super fun first date

at a bar and then randomly ran into a group of my girlfriends, played some darts with them and then Sean left, briefly texted me back once and then ghosted me and I don't know why because it was a great first date. Well we're about to get him on the phone and find out why. You ready? I'm ready. Alright, here? Speaking. Who is this? Sean, how are you?

My name is Jubal and I'm on a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Sean. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this is a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Sean. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. So this is a radio show called The Jubal Show. How are you? I'm OK. I haven't talked to the radio.

What's this about? Do you ever listen to the show at all? I am not familiar with your guys with you guys this show now. All right. Well, now you will be, I guess. But we do a segment on the show and it's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody

and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay. We got an email about you from a girl named Britt. Oh, Britt. Okay, wow. Yeah, I can understand why she might wanna to, might want to get some answers.

Yeah. She said it's been 12 days since you guys went out and the last thing you texted her was had fun. So what's that? Yeah. Um, I, uh, definitely did have to, uh, take a step back, um, and just, uh, to give her some space after the last time we went out. Why is that?

It's not her. It's, uh, and I'm not sure if she told you this, but when we were out, we ran into some of her friends and, uh, she wasn't giving them more attention than she was giving me. She was making sure that she was being fair to both parties and being, you know, being on a date with me. She just happened running into her friends, but it is because of her friend, Sabrina. Okay. We used to, yeah, we used to hook up and Sabrina at one point in time. Yeah, no, this is like two years ago, but Sabrina at one point in time

cornered me and basically was like, Oh my God, I'm so good to see you. I'm so happy that you got a date and all of that good stuff. And then, yeah. Oh. Asked me if I wanted to have a threesome. Whoa, what? With her friend or?

Well, Sabrina and Brittany, both at the same time. Oh, wow. I wonder if she knows that. Yeah, she wanted a little bit of space. It was a little weird. Wait, I wonder if she knows that. Yeah. So you want to need a little bit of space? It's a little weird. Wait, so you think Britt knows about that? I would, I would guess that she does because you know, girl talk.

Um, I feel like that came up in the conversation at some point in time. I don't really know what to say about that. It's like, I mean, you know, it wasn't, it just, you know, made me a little uncomfortable around the group dynamic. So you don't get down like that or I, I, I, I get competitive during, uh, during those types of things. And, uh, yeah, I'm not good at food projects. I like folks. I can see that. Yeah. You know, Hey, thank you for being honest.

I appreciate it. Also see that coming. No, not at all. And I want to let you know that Britt is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Uh, what? Okay. Uh, Hey Britt. Hey, I wish someone would have told me that. I had no idea.

You had no idea that he used to hook up with your friend Sabrina or that she asked him to have a threesome? Neither. I'm not that good at friends with Sabrina. She is like a friend of a friend. So I don't know. I only really see her in group settings. I don't know why she said that. And also I don't know why she would want to include me in that. I've never even hung out with her. This is like, of course everybody's going gonna have a threesome with me. She's like, I'm not gonna technically steal her date if I include her in the hookup process.

I'll ask him first, cause guys will be down and then I'll approach her. Wow. Yeah, the only thing we've ever done together is like go to a Taylor Swift concert. Cause they were like, it's none of us. But, yeah. That's a little different than a reason.

So you didn't know anything about that at all? No, I didn't hear that from our mutual friend. I didn't hear anything from her. Like if anything, I feel like I would have heard from her on Instagram. But no, nothing. And really, like I said, she's not that close of a friend. So that's like whatever you guys have. I don't care.

I'd still love a second chance with you. Sean, are you like, gonna hook up with Sabrina? I've done that already. I didn't wanna keep doing that. Would like to join a second date. Just the two of us though. No, no, no sir. So Sean, you would like to go out with Britt again? Yeah. That would be awesome. Especially after the holidays. But if that, if that could be a thing, you guys, the whole thing

about it, just, you know, and her type intimate setting versus the group aspect of it. I think that would be. Britt, you don't care that he's hooked up with Sabrina? No, he's had it with him in the past. You want another date, Britt? Yeah, maybe we could do dinner or something where there's only room for two of us in the booth.

We're from threesomes of this wholesome dinner conversation. They're going to be the only person going on a second date in the booth. We went from threesomes to this wholesome dinner conversation. They're going to be the only person going on a second date in the restaurant who's demanding that they just make sure it's a table for two. That's it. Nobody else at this table. When the waitress comes up, they're like, no. Yeah, no. We know what you're after. No. We're trying to go out with each other.

Well, congratulations. You guys got another date. Excellent. Thanks, guys. Thanks, bro. Thank you so much. Jubal's first date follow-up. We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices, not from the extremes, but from the vast middle into the national conversation.

Each week, we hear from ordinary Americans from all over the country. And when you subscribe to the middle, you also get an episode each week called One Thing Trump Did that focuses on just one item from the avalanche of news. Listen to The Middle with Jeremy Hobson on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. Are your ears bored? Yeah. Are you looking for a new podcast that will make you laugh, learn, and say que? Yeah! Then tune in to Locatora Radio Season 10 today. OKAY! Now that's what I call a podcast.

I'm Tioza. I'm Mala. The host of Locatora Radio, a radiophonic novela. Which is just a very extra way of saying… A podcast. Listen to Locatora Radio Season 10 on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

From the producers who brought you Princess of South Beach comes a new podcast, The Set Up. The Set Up follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life... Well, I guess I'm saying I like you. You like me? follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life. Well, I guess I'm saying I like you. You like me? He actually is too good to be true.

This is a con. I'm conning you to get the Dilama painting. We can do this together. Listen to The Set Up on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You have to be very careful with tradition because sometimes tradition is just dead people's baggage. I'm Jemele Hill hosted the sports and politics podcast Spolitics on this

week's episode I talked with comedian Roy Wood junior about the lack of African Americans star power in Major League baseball. Baseball needs and Anthony Edwards and I don't know who that could be. Mookie Betts is Steph Curry. He's exceptional and likeable, million dollar smile, but you also need Chaos Negro.