First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Lilah & Kai: She Called Him a “Pervert”… Then It Somehow Got Even Worse 😳

Episode Date: April 17, 2026

In this chaotic episode of First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, Lilah can’t figure out why her perfect first date with Kai suddenly turned into total silence. Was it an innocent texting mistake… or something way more unexpected? Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date of follow-up, powered by the advocates injury attorneys, online at advocateslaw.com. Lila is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Kai, so in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Lila, why do you think you're getting ghosted?

I think it's because I called him a pervert. Was that being playful or? You called him a pervert. Yeah, but I didn't, like, I didn't mean to. We actually, like, went out on a first date and it was so great. I like we got along so well it was like the best first date I ever had and then at the end no yeah he was he was so sweet he walked me to my car and everything at the end of the night like before that like we did go to his car and like mess around a little bit we didn't like hook up but like you know

it got close and we're like okay okay next time okay so you stopped and you didn't do a all the stuff. Yeah, yeah. Okay. And then like, you know, later that night, he texted me and he was like, hey, you know, I hope, you know, I wasn't like too forward and, you know, I'm glad that like we waited because I really like you and I want this to like continue and I want to make sure that I'm like respecting you and your boundaries. So I texted him back, you were perfect and I haven't heard from him anymore. I went to check my text and there's nothing. And then I looked at my last text and I see that like my phone auto-corrected perfect to pervert. Oh, well. Oh yeah, that could have done it then. Yeah. And I didn't notice at all.

He said, I hope I wasn't pushing any boundaries and you responded, you were a pervert instead of you were perfect. Well, no. Yeah. But you see, I was so excited when I was, like, testing him that, like, I didn't notice at all. Yeah. And a few days went by, and now, and I saw that. And, like, you know. If you tried to reach out to him to be like, hey, I didn't mean to call you a pervert.

I was actually saying you were perfect, not you're a pervert. No, because I don't know if he's going to be, believe me, you know, I'm, like, a little embarrassed. Okay. Lila is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Kai, so we're about to call him and see if I'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Lila, why don't you refresh our memory on why you think you're getting ghosted again? Because I accidentally called him a pervert.

But it wasn't intentional. It was like autocorrected and I didn't notice. Yeah. And I haven't heard from him. A legit accident. Yeah, because you guys mess around a little bit, and he sent you a text being respectful saying he hope he wasn't pushing any boundaries. And you meant to say you were perfect, but you said you were a pervert. Yeah.

So that means we can tell him that there's a chance you could get a second date. Yeah. Yeah, I hope. All right. Well, here we go. I'm going to dial this phone number right now, okay? Okay. Okay.

Hello? Hi, man. speak to Kai please. Yes, speaking. Hey, Kai, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Kai.

I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. What's up? Hey. How are you? Have you ever heard of the Jubal show before? Yeah, you guys are the ones that catch, like, cheaters and stuff, right?

Yeah. Me. We do. Okay. You're not cheating on anybody, I don't think, are you? I know, you started to sound scared. Yeah. Yeah, what's up?

Okay, cool. We're calling you today because we also do a segment on the show called your first date follow-up. So that's where if you go out with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you, Kai. Okay. From Lila? Yes, it is Lila. She told us a little bit about your date, said that she actually thought it was one of the best dates of her life.

She just wants to know if she did something wrong. Okay. Yeah, I'm ghosting here for two reasons, actually. One, she called me a pervert. About that. Yeah, two, her mom is a crazy. Her mom is a crazy? Yeah, yeah, like nuts. Okay. She told us about the pervert thing. Just to let you know, that was an autocorrect. She told us that you texted or something about, like, you hope you weren't pushing any boundaries. She meant to text you back to say you were perfect. and auto-corrected to you were pervert. So, yeah, all I got was that. I was just trying to be respectful. You were.

Yeah. But her mom's crazy? What does that mean? Yeah, that's the thing. Like the pervert thing, it's like, okay, sure, auto-correct. I don't know, maybe she was, at the time, I was like, oh, are you serious? I thought she might have been joking, but I just left it alone. But I don't know.

So I decided to go snooping on her Instagram a little bit. And, yeah, I saw a picture of her mom. And I recognized her, the mom from a parking lot, you know, recently. A woman got out of her car and just started, like, cursing me out and, like, kicking my tires. She thought I stole her parking space. I didn't. I was there first. And it's the same woman.

It was her mom. Oh, no. Her mom road raged on you. Like, total caring behavior, like, absolute, like uncalled. It was embarrassing. Are you sure it was her mom? I'm positive. Yeah.

Okay. They have like crazy eyes and everything. Oh, shoot. Oh, my God. You don't forget someone like that. No, no, no. Don't, don't. What did you say about my mom?

Hey, Kai, that's Lila. She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Crazy eyes? Yeah. Are you kidding me? Yeah, no. Your mom totally cursed me out in public, and I, listen, I'm not trying to date. Okay, tell the whole story.

Tell the whole story Because she told me You knew this Lila No no I didn't know it was him But like she told me about this guy Well like she She went up

Went to park This guy like cut And like took her Park parking spot And then You're not gonna believe what happened He got out of the car And like farted

Like He let out like a large A loud fart. What? Like at your mom? Ew. At my mom.

This is disgusting. Insane. Like, who does that? And now he's saying that she has crazy eyes when he's doing something like that. Come on. Is that a song? Listen, I did not start with the fart. All right.

It was a whole situation where she was yelling at me. I wanted to get away from this woman. She kept coming towards me. What else am I going to do? All right, so I, yeah, you know what? Be a normal human being. Listen, I did what I had to do. I farted in her general direction and I'd do it again.

What? Are you listening to yourself? This is all the crazy. This is insane. Like, I'm not going to hit her. I'm not going to punch her. I'm going to, I'm going to solve the situation. And that's what you do.

That's disgusting. I mean, I kind of get the logic. That's disgusting. No, listen, I don't, I don't date someone who's crazy. I don't date. And listen, women turn into their mothers, right? So it's clear that you're going to become crazy if you're not already. Honestly, you're kind of sounding like that.

Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. You haven't seen crazy yet. No, no, no. That's so disrespectful. Like, you don't talk about my mother like that. Well, Kai, would you like another date with Lila? We'll pay for it. No, I think I'm good.

Yeah. Yeah. Cool. Lila? No. And like, how dare you fart? Am I mom? You pervert.

Joubles's first date follow-up. When a group of women discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist, they take matters into their own hands. I vowed. I will be his last target. He is not. not going to get away with this. He's going to get what he deserves. We always say that trust your girlfriends. Listen to the girlfriends. Trust me, babe, on the IHartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What's up, everyone? I'm Ego Vodom. My next guest, it's Will Ferrell.

My dad gave me the best advice ever. He goes, just give it a shot. But if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat. Just hang in there. Yeah, it would not be. Right, it wouldn't be that. There's a lot of luck.

Listen to Thanks, Dad, on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins. But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax. You doctored this particular test twice, Ms. Owens, correct? I doctored the test once. It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern. Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg, lesbian.

Michael Marantini. My mind was blown. I'm Stephanie Young. This is Love Trapped. Laura, Scottsdale Police. As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences. Listen to Love Trapped podcast on the IHeart Radio, app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm Lori Siegel, and this is Mostly Human, a tech podcast through a human lens. This week, an interview with OpenAI CEO, Sam Altman. I think society is going to decide that creators of AI products bear a tremendous amount of responsibility to the products we put out in the world. An in-depth conversation with a man who's shaping our future. My highest order bit is to not destroy the world with AI. Listen to Mostly Human on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you you listen to your favorite shows.

This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.