First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Lloyd & Bridget - Spilled Mimosas, Earwax, and Ghosting?

Episode Date: November 14, 2025

When Lloyd’s charming brunch date takes a turn for the chaotic, he ends up soaked in mimosa—but it wasn’t the spill that got him ghosted. In this week’s First Day Follow-Up, we uncover the shocking reason behind Bridget’s silence… and it’s more personal than you’d expect. Expect laughs, awkward moments, and a brutally honest look at modern dating fails. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to next question with me, Katie Couric on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at Advocateslaw.com. Lloyd is on the phone. today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Bridget so in a minute we'll call her and see if she'll tell us

why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date but first Lloyd how long has it been since you heard from Bridget? Well hey guys so it's kind of been a little minute I think our first day would have been like a week or so ago something like that okay so have you been interacting or

trying to interact with her at all during that time yeah I mean I don't want to be too like pushy with it so I'm not like going crazy. I'm not like blowing her up or anything like that. Smart. It's been long enough that her not responding is definitely a thing. You know what I mean? Okay. Well, why don't you tell us about the date? All right. So I'm like, I'm fully, I'm fully into it with her, right? So Bridget, he's given like this kind of Sunday morning like goddess kind of

energy, right? You know what I mean? Like she's, he's like effortlessly cute. You know, like she clearly owns like linen pajamas and she's like journaling affirmation. And she's like, you know, by the window, you know what I mean? Like, that's the type of girl that Bridget is, right? Like, she's warm smiles. She's got dry, like, sort of confident kind of humor. You know what I mean? Like, she's kind of the kind of girl that, like,

orders chia pudding and somehow makes that look good. You know what I mean? That's because you like her. That's why it looks good. No, for sure. I mean, because she's got, like, that vibe, like, she's, like, yield or, like, knows where the healing crystals are. Like, that's the kind of vibe she's got.

He's got, like, earthbound, like, cute girl energy, you know? Okay. So what do you do with a girl like that? All right. So we go, we go, and we get some, like, some brunch at one of those spots where they got, like, the bottomless mimosas. You know what I'm talking about? Love the places. Yeah, they're, like, right, like, the endless mimosa's, there's, like, plants everywhere.

There's, like, indie covers of Beyonce in the background, like, one of those vibes. Okay. So we're doing, like, the mimosas thing, right? Like we're kind of drinking together and we're like, his bottomless mimoses, right? So I'm kind of inclined a little bit like personally to, you know, to drink some mimosa. That's like kind of my vibe.

You know what I mean? Like it's bottomless. So I'm trying to, I'm trying to see if there's a bottom to the bottom. She kind of tells me she's like, she's like, well, let's pace ourselves, right? So I'm like, let me be charming and I'm like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to show some restraint.

You know what I mean? Like I'm going to kind of be cool about that, right? Like no bottom list for me. She says, let's pace ourselves. So I'm kind of showing my restraint. The waiter comes up, right? and he's like more mimosa's. I put my hand like over the glass, right,

to kind of be like no. Like that's, you know, like the decline. Like, yeah, I put my hand over the back. But I knocked the entire flu onto my lap, like the whole thing. Oh, no. So you needed that pitcher. No, for sure. And I've got this like lap full of mimosa.

So I stand up, right, to like, kind of like wipe it off. Like, that's my like reaction. I like, and I stand up way too fast, the chair falls. like behind me like the chair falls back okay yeah so i i in my shock i'm a couple mimosas deep i kind of i said all right so i just responded i kind of yelled it a little bit like i kind of blurt this out i was like yo it looks like i peed brunch i mean that's kind of funny i thought that was kind of funny but like people kind of look a little bit and people aren't laughing that didn't kill so it's kind of just awkward

you know what I mean and she kind of so Bridget kind of does the like closed lips the like oh no but like trying to laugh kind of face so I'm like 18 napkins deep trying to fight like for dignity over here trying to soak up this mimosa

I mean it was embarrassing it was awkward you know what I mean I feel like other than that though like we kind of clicked like it was a pretty good time pretty good date except for the mimosa thing walked her to her car she hugged me and she told me it like that was really nice that's what she said

and so I'm kind of thinking that the mimosa thing with small potatoes that wasn't like a big part of the evening you know maybe we can move on from that but now she is ghosting so you think that's what it is yeah I mean I guess no one wants to date the guy who's got citrus marinated on

the sides you know what I mean that he screamed that he peed brunch yeah I guess the butt isn't like the attractive quality in men these days but we had a lot like connected in my Pants have been through worse. All right.

Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date, okay? All right. Thanks, guys. All right. We'll get your first day follow up right after this. Jenna World.

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All right. So my date, yeah, super cute girl and I'm super into her, right? We do the bottomless mimosa kind of date where we're doing like the endless mimosa thing, but I'm trying to be cool about my mimosa. The waiter comes up, asks if I want some more mimosa. I put my hand over the glass, accidentally knock over the mimosa. In all that, it kind of gets chaotic. I stand up.

I'm covered in mimosa. and I'm blurting weird stuff out and it kind of got a little awkward for a minute and that's kind of what I was worried about because we had a really good day we had a really good vibe but I'm kind of worried that the mimosa situation may have messed stuff up

because she is totally goes to me now. All right. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, let's do it. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, man, I speak to Bridgett, please This is Bridgett

Hey Bridget, how are you? This is a radio show It's called The Jubal Show Hi, Bridget, I'm Nina Hi, I'm Victoria And my name's Jubal, what's up? Oh, hi Have you listened to the show before?

Yeah, I'm listening to you guys, yeah, you guys are awesome All right, sweet Have you heard a first date follow-up before? Yeah Well, guess what, Bridget, you're now the star of a first date follow-up Hey! Oh, man, I don't know

You know Oh, that's awesome. That's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you. Do you know who would email us? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I have a feeling. Who do you think it is?

Lloyd. It is definitely Lloyd, yeah. Okay. Lloyd told us a little bit about your date. He said he really liked you, and he's wondering why you're ghosting him. Would you mind telling us? Okay, listen. Lloyd was sweet, you know, brunch was cute.

and he had big, like, I voice your eyes and believe in therapy, energy. But, you know, it kind of just, like, went out the door when the mimosa incident happened. He spilled his mimosa, and then he freaked out over his pants looking like they got backsized in orange juice. Okay. And it was a little dramatic, but that wasn't really why I ghosted him. Basically, it was his ears. You're gussing because of his ears? What's wrong with his ears?

Yeah, so he was ranting about, you know, the pea brunch pants or whatever, and I saw inside his ears. And guys, there was wax, like a lot, like layers. Like, it looked like a candle that had feelings. It was a miracle. He could even hear me. I swear one sneeze and a whole earbud might have popped out. Oh.

I'm serious. Dead serious. Yeah. And, you know, Like, look, I'm all for self-care, but, you know, you can groom your beer. You can steam your shirts, but, you know, like, you don't have a jukept? Like, I can't unsee that. Okay, so his ears just gave you the ick.

Yeah, yeah. I mean, like, what am I going to do, hand him, a conswab, and be like, be free. Like, you know, I just want to be free. All right. Well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him. Yeah, I mean, yeah, no problem. I don't know if you forgot or not, but Lloyd is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Oh, oh, yeah, okay, I forgot about that part. Okay, hi. Okay, hi, Lloyd. Hi, so, wait, so what, my ears? Yeah, I mean, I'm sorry, babe, but, you know, you had ear storage solutions happening. I saw layers, like maybe generations. Oh.

Look, that's not, that's not a, normal thing i don't walk around with ear overstock i like that's that was like a one-off like really so you normally clean your ears yeah i mean it it was like this was like one day like i i can't believe that you noticed it like i i i mean maybe so like paul and flew in or something like i i i'm not like the ira guy that's not i'm not Myers, Lloyd. It's like, all right, look, you ghosted me because of one biological moment. Like, you're telling me brunch pants humiliation, that wasn't the one.

It wasn't the mimosa pants. It was, it was like you attacking my internal ear landscape. That's what the ghosting. Like, that's what this is. I just can't unsee it. I just like, okay. I mean, like, cool. All right, you know what?

You weren't so perfect either, though. Oh, oh. Oh, yeah, okay. Help me, tell me. All right, I mean, we're here, right? So it's like you didn't help me at brunch, right? Like, I was, I'm drowning in citrus and you just watched. Like, so excuse me if I assume that you'd also just, you know,

lie there in other situations, you know what I mean? Oh, my God. I said it. We're here. Like, we're here. So I'm saying it. Oh, wow. Babe, if you can't handle brunch, you definitely can't handle me.

All right. Bridget, would you like another date with Lloyd? We'll pay for it. Absolutely not. You sure? You bring Q-Sips. All right, fine. Look, fine.

Your wife's natural, Bridget. I mean, unlike your boobs. What? You won't be seeing my boots. They are natural. So bad. Jeeble's first date follow-up. The show was ahead of its time

to represent a black family in ways the television hadn't shown before. Exactly. It's Telma Hopkins, also known as Aunt Rachel. And I'm Kelly Williams or Laura Winslow. On our podcast, Welcome to the Family with Telma and Kelly,

we're re-watching every episode of Family Matters. We'll share behind-the-scenes stories about making the show. Yeah, we'll even bring in some special guests to spill some tea. Listen to Welcome to the Family with Telma and Kelly on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Hey, I'm Kyle McLaughlin. You might know me as that guy from Twin Peaks, Sex and the City, or just the Internet stand. I have a new podcast called What Are We Even Doing, where I embark on a noble quest to understand the brilliant chaos of youth culture. Each week, I invite someone fascinating to join me to talk about navigating this high-speed rollercoaster we call reality. Join me and my delightful guests every Thursday And let's get weird together in a good way Listen to what are we even doing

On the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts Or wherever you get your podcasts Hey, I'm Nora Jones And I love playing music with people so much That my podcast called Playing Along is back I sit down with musicians from all musical styles To play songs together in an intimate setting Over the past two seasons,

I've had special guests like Dave Grohl, Lave, Rufus Wainwright, Mavis Staples, really too many to name. And there's still so much more to come in this new season. Listen to Nora Jones is playing along on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Rich Russians Falling Out of Windows podcast is back. Sad Olegark Season 2. Since we left you in 2023 after season one, many politically motivated Russian millionaires have continued to die in suspicious circumstances.

Season two gets very weird. Listen to Sad Oligarch on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. On the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, my guest, Senator John Federman of Pennsylvania, opens up about his 22 stroke, his battle with depression, and his remarkable recovery. Stay in the game.

and keep it as simple as you can because the lie of depression is that the best solution is to take yourself out. And that is the awful choice you can't ever come back from. Listen to next question with me, Katie Couric on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an IHeart podcast.