First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Lucy & Brandon - Sneaky Lucy

Episode Date: December 31, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Lucy is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Brandon. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Lucy, how long has it been since you heard from Brandon?

It's been two weeks. Two weeks. Okay. Have you reached out to him? Did you try? Yeah, I did. I invited him to a game of skee-ball, but he didn't respond. Oh, no.

Okay. Well, let's see if we can figure it out. Want to tell us about the date and how you guys met? Yeah. Well, you know how it goes. I met Brendan on the app. We talked briefly back and forth, good chemistry, before deciding to meet up at a local bar by us. We both like to play pool

or both good at it so yeah it was kind of fun it was like a hot challenge to build some flirty chemistry and we definitely did um we turned it into this drinking game and anytime one of us missed a shot we would drink um you said you guys are good, so did you end up drinking a lot? For people who aren't good at it, like me, I would get hammered. Same. Yeah, you could say that. We got a little handsy, not in a gross way, but we played a few games. We danced around, talked, we kissed

each other. We shared an Uber home. It was a good time. It was definitely a good time. You shared an Uber home? So you went home together? He made sure that I got home first. He's definitely a gentleman.

Yeah, he took good care of me. He's not like the other guys I've dated. Did he try? No, he didn't. He was such a gentleman. I mean, we had a great kiss in the car, but then when it was time to go home, he said goodnight and didn't even try.

That's refreshing. Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, as you can imagine, I was pretty excited to see him again. Yeah. So, I mean, as you can imagine, I was pretty excited to see him again. So, yeah. Why do you think you're getting ghosted then? I don't know. I did have this one moment where I kind of freaked out a little bit.

Not on him, but we were like having a little moment in the corner and this drunk girl walked by and bumped into me and she made me spill my beer all over my brand new top okay um i kind of freaked out a little bit on her i snapped um but i like dialed it back before i went too far i apologized to brandon describe snap like start throwing chairs or like hey girl do you know you just did that or was it like you know snapping yeah i like made like a verbal like what the you know and just kind of, I don't know. I have been more becoming in the past, but I don't know. I didn't think it was that big of a deal. And I totally apologize to Brandon for doing it.

That girl was definitely a mess. Like she was not innocent, you know? So, yeah, i don't know i'm afraid that he was just like being polite in the moment and saying it was fine and maybe i might have turned him off from it it's not normal for me to do that but when someone deserves it you know okay i'm only human but i want him to know that I'm not going to just freak out on him randomly like that would that turn you off Jubal? it depends how it was yeah I think it might

turn me off now but past me would have loved it what? especially if you turned around and freaked out on me I'd be like whoa she's hot thankfully I've learned my lesson with that though it might be a little bit much so we'll see Yeah, especially if you turn around and freaked out on me, I'd be like, whoa, she's hot. Thankfully, I've learned my lesson with that, though. But it might be a little bit much.

So we'll see. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if it tells why he's ghosting you. Maybe get you another date. OK? OK. Thank you. All right. Play a song, come back.

Get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Thank you. me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me,

Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. phone and see if it tells us why he's ghosting her but first lucy why don't you catch us up on your situation so basically i went out with this guy he was super hot super cool we had a good time great chemistry um i may have snapped when a girl dropped her beer on me and i'm just worried that maybe i might have scared him off from that but i I want him to know that that's not who I am. Like, I would not just randomly do that to him. Right. Okay. That sucks. Are you ready for us to call him?

Yeah, let's do it. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Brandon, please? Yeah, this is brandon brandon how are you my name is jubel i'm calling from a radio show it's called the jubel show hi brandon this is nina i'm also on the show hi and i'm victoria what's up how are you what it's a radio show yes and we're calling you because we do a segment that's called the first day follow-up that's where if you go on a date with somebody and you ghost them that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.

So we got an email about you from somebody. OK. OK. Do you know? Yeah, we think so, too. Who do you think would email us and say that you're ghosting them? I don't know. You tell me.

It could be a couple of people. Oh, all right. Okay. Well, this is about to get really good then, Brandon. Her name is Lucy. Oh, yeah, Lucy. I remember her. Okay.

Do you remember liking Lucy? Do you remember going on a date with her? Oh, yeah. Man, we had a great time. That girl was hot. Smoking her? Oh, yeah. Man, we had a great time, man. That girl was hot. Smoking. I mean, yeah. Okay.

I remember. Okay. So then what's the deal? She was so bomb. Why are you gone? She's sneaky, man. She's sneaky. What?

She's sneaky? Nah, she's sneaky. She pulled some stuff on a date, man, that was just not cool. Like what? Well, we went out. We had a great time. And, you know, it ended up where we were in a bar having a good time. We staked out our little corner.

And we were actually relating to each other pretty well. Touchy-feely, kissy-sissy. I was into her. She was into me. I saw it. And then some random dude walks up to her out of nowhere and uh it's like uh what's up lucy i'm like who is this clown and she's like having small talk with him she turns her back to me and like almost starts arguing with this guy doesn't introduce me doesn't

tell me what's going on and um i'm like what is what is the deal here what is she hiding something she's smiling and flirting and all this stuff with this guy i'm like, what is the deal here? What is she hiding something? She's smiling and flirting and all this stuff with this guy. I'm like, wait a minute. Wasn't she just kissing me? Then it gets worse. We start playing pool. All of a sudden she sees a group of people, I guess,

over the other side of the room with this guy. She walks over to him and just starts hanging out with him like she came to the bar with them. I'm like, we just got done kissing, petting in the corner and now you're over here with a whole another group what the hell is going on did you ask her yeah and she apologized and she's like uh oh it's just somebody i used to hang out with you know it's no big deal but it just sounded weird you know the whole thing just it just didn't feel right she was way too mysterious and you know i was waiting for her to even take me over there and introduce me to these people but it didn't happen i wasn't even upset about that i mean you know things happen but she was gone like 15 20 minutes oh that's a good oh that's a long time yeah she's hugging

and laughing with these people with her back turned. Like, she's trying to block me out. I'm like, sounds sneaky, reminded me of an ex. I checked out. Well, okay. Thank you for telling us. And now I'll let you know that Lucy is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, thanks, guys.

Appreciate it. Yeah. That's okay. Just clear some stuff up for both of you guys, you know? Lucy? Hey. Yeah. That's okay. Just clear some stuff up for both of you guys, you know? Lucy? Hey. Yeah. Hi, Brandon.

What's up, L-Dog? Did he call you L-Dog? Oh, my God. Yeah. I cannot believe you let me stay here. Okay. One, I don't think I was gone for that long. And two, that was so unbelievably awkward for me.

I did not think that these people were going to show up there. These are people that I like know and I'm trying to kind of like fizzle out. And so it was super awkward for me. And I did not want to introduce you to these people. Like I didn't want to mix you to these people like I didn't want to mix that you know I understand what you're saying it's just that the only true part about what you just said is you didn't think because you didn't take me into consideration at all you left me hanging and I mean I just watched you have a beer poured all over you

obviously I'm kind of into you if I'm still sticking around. Okay. I mean, I definitely did not think it was a big deal. We were just talking. I mean, if you hadn't seen some people that you knew and you were talking to them, I wouldn't be so sensitive about it. Well, let's flip the script. Let's say that I take you out and I leave you somewhere and I go to talk to a bunch of girls that I know.

And then I come back and say, hey, it's no big deal. These are just some girls that I know and then I come back and say, Hey, it's no big deal. These are just some, some girls that I know. How would you feel about that? If I'm being like completely transparent and honest with you, that guy was my ex and I really don't think that there was any world where you two needed to be like talking and meeting each other and whatever and so like with all of our old friends there it was like weird for me and awkward and so I wanted to just kind of like be like what's up but also not mix y'all together you know I'm trying to

fizzle that out I'm trying to get away from that. I think that you're a great guy. I really like you, and I did not at all want you involved in that. It just sounds sneaky, and you want to talk about being uncomfortable? I'm on the radio! She's telling you the truth, or her truth. Oh my God! I'm on the radio!

What if your guy's listening to this? He's going to kind of have an idea. Well, I guess he knows that I'm not interested anymore then. I'm just saying the whole thing sounded shady to me. That was why I ghosted you. I don't even know what to say at this point. I'm just kind of confused. Where do we go from here?

Well, let's flip it again, Brandon. What if your ex-girlfriend showed up and you were with Lucy? What do you do? Introduce them. Do you? You would introduce them? Yeah. I don't know if I would.

Yeah. It's my ex-girlfriend. The way Lucy looks, if you met my ex-girlfriend, oh, I would definitely introduce them. I would definitely introduce them. I don't know, man. I definitely used to be a different person. I did not want those stories coming to you. I would much rather just ease into this thing with you.

Brandon, would you like to go on another date with Lucy? We'll pay for it. I mean, it's just funny that you think I couldn't handle that. So in a public situation, you just decided that, nah, I couldn't handle that. So in a public situation, you just decided that now I couldn't handle it. I'm going to ease into it. Um, I don't know.

You know what? I, every, anybody can make a mistake. Let's do it. Okay. Great. Okay.

You got another day, Lucy. All right, let's go. I'll probably go somewhere and not bump into your ex. You know what? That sounds like a plan to me. Please.

Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're

going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. You don't need another podcast. You've got too many already. But if you're looking for one that

actually changes something, a way to take control of the chaos and find meaning, well, then maybe the one you feed is for you. I'm Eric Zimmer, and I bring real conversations with real people to help you feed the best part of yourself. No hype, no fluff, just wisdom that works. Listen to The One You Feed on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers. So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of

this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove. Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season. But, you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations we've had so far. I mean, we talked to A. Marie, Johnny Marr, E, Jonathan Schechter, Billy Porter, and so many more. Look, if you haven't heard these episodes yet, hey, now's your chance. You gotta check them out. Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.