First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Lyla & Aaron - Not a Rolodex

Episode Date: June 27, 2024

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First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Aaron is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Lila. So in a few minutes, we're going to call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another

date if he still wants one. Aaron, before we talk about your date, how long has it been since you heard from Lila? It's been like two weeks now. So what is it about Lila after two weeks that makes you want to get ahold of her now? Well, I mean, I've been thinking about her ever since our date. You know, we met on a dating app and I was excited to meet up with her because we both like adventure outdoors. You know, I saw her photos on the app and she was climbing. I like climbing. So on the first date, we decided to go on a hike with a gorgeous lookout at the top of this hike that I know. And it was kind of cute. On the date, we'd have little competitions to see who could race the other, who could climb faster.

And at the top, I had a bottle of Prosecco to share for both of us. Oh, that's cool. I don't know why this feels like a Jubal date. Race each other and then drink some Praseco. Sounds fun. That does sound really fun. You know, I just really enjoyed it. And we had the drinks.

We headed back to our cars. But then after that, I haven't heard from her. And so I've been thinking about her and I've texted her a couple of times. Nothing too, you know, repetitive or what have you. But yeah, I haven't heard from her. So I'm wondering what's up. Is there anything that might have happened on the date that could be the reason why she's not hitting you back? Not really.

Part of me, I'm a little bit nervous um that you know there was one point when i was hiking and you know trying to race up in front of her that uh it was a little bit difficult i had to stretch a little bit and i farted a little and then i was in front of her not not like it wasn't a big fart it wasn't loud i don't think it was it was that bad but yeah i i don't know if i could exactly smell it i don't know if she could uh but maybe that's kind of mortifying actually yeah that, you know, did she say anything about? Yeah, no. And that's like one of the things is that we, you know, we hit it off very well.

I thought it was really rare to find a woman that's, you know, just very authentic. She wasn't arrogant. She wasn't full of herself at all. She's a great listener. And she just great storytellers. It was amazing to listen to her tell all these all these tales of different adventures he's had.

And so, no, I don't think she would be the type to be that standoffish about it. If that was the case, I really don't know. And then you try to play it off at all. You know, like, whoa, there's a weird tree around here. It smells weird. I was just trying to be coy and just not say anything about it. Yeah, that was probably a good move. Probably.

Would you really ghost somebody if they tooted? No. I don't think I would either. Just for one toot? No. But if they were doing it repeatedly, you know, maybe. Yeah. That's just a little disrespectful.

Like, step out of the room. We were outdoors, so I'm hoping it was just the one toot. I don't exactly recall because I was so flustered by that first one. I don't know. Flustered by the first one. It could have been a rampage of tootsies. I don't know. Well, then I could see the ghosting.

All right, man. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you, okay? I appreciate it. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Thank you, guys. Yeah, man. Get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone.

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so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date because he definitely wants to see her again. Before we do that, though, Aaron, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Lila? Yeah, went up on a hike, a little bit of climbing, had Prosecco at the top of the hike, and I'm worried that maybe she's ghosting me because I might have tooted a little for being nice about it. Now you say a little, it makes it sound like you did it a bunch. You said it was just one time. I think it was just one time, but I'm trying

to be fair and I don't want to be overly conservative. That's not the case. But you weren't like throwing it in her face, not literally. I don't think so, but now you guys got me second guessing. Hopefully it's not a toot. Yeah.

Funny. All right. Well, let's see what it is. We're about to call her. Are you ready? Yep. Here we go. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Lila, please? This is Lila. Hey, Lila, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show that's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Lila. The radio show likes to be here, too, so my name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, wow.

Hey, guys, what's up? What's going on? Have you ever listened to the show before? Oh, yeah, of course. I love your show. Oh, sweet. Well, we love love your show. Oh, sweet. Well, we love you. So, hey, Lila, are you ghosting anybody?

Yeah. Yeah. So, you know how we do the segment, the first day of follow-up, where if you're ghosting someone, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask you about it. Yeah. His name is Aaron. Yeah. Okay. Aaron aaron yep yep aaron aaron's nice aaron's cool um i said it's been um about uh two weeks you said two weeks about two weeks since you guys went on your date i guess i guess since we're here we have to talk about it huh um because aaron's

a good guy and because i like aaron i will be honest here all right aaron and i got along great we had such a wonderful time it was really awesome um so we went on a hike and we drank some prosecco and had a lot of good talks okay beyond that like he kept talking about all these adventures that he would go on with all these hot, amazing women that would go on adventures with him. So there was Michelle, there was Sheila, there was Joanna. He was talking about all of these women. And I just don't know where to fit into that. Does he have a ton of hot girlfriends?

He was talking about other women, going out with other women on your date? Well, how they would go hiking and stuff. Like he would go on adventures with women. I feel like you could easily say all the adventures you've been on and not mention any other girls. But at the same time, you got to be thankful that he did mention

all of these women's names because what does that mean? Like, are you just another adventure? So, yeah, that's why i haven't called it back um i just you know i felt like i was just on the rolodex at that point yeah how did that come up did he say if they were somebody that he was dating no no i mean like he seemed like he was totally into me and like that's what was kind of confusing like i just thought that he was into me but why would you be name-dropping

a ton of other women on our adventure? So I just kind of thought that he was, I don't know, one of those. I think he may be a boy, I guess. Yeah. All right. That is those vibes. A lot of the time, those F-boys, though,

that's their insecurity coming out, and they want you to think that they're so cool because all of these women have spent time. That's my feels on it. Maybe I'm wrong, but as somebody who spent a lot of time with F-boys, that's kind of the vibe that I get. Yeah, there are guys that will talk about other women on dates because

they think it's going to make you want them more. Right, and it just doesn't. F-boys aren't in anymore, P.S., at all. Yeah. Okay, I-boys aren't in anymore, P.S., like, at all. Yeah. Okay, I'll speak for myself. Lila, thank you for telling us about, thank you for being honest with us about why you're ghosting him. And I don't know if you remember or not,

but Aaron has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. I was going to say he farted, too, but I didn't. You know he farted. You knew? Aaron, she knows you farted. knew she heard that i knew it that's funny wait but are you an f-boy i'm no no okay so i do have a good explanation for all the women honestly they are all friends and i mean that sincerely uh most of the the women that I go on these you know hikes with it just reminded me of them and that's why I brought it up is because

you know kind of situational memory kind of thing most of the women are all in relationships already so and and that's the thing that's why I was mentioning those names is because they don't mean anything all right so they're just friends and i guess like you're just friends that's cool like i don't know you kind of you kind of made me think that you were an f-boy though do you not believe him i'm not i'm not i and i did kind of like i do look out for those types myself because i try not to be that i look, I was raised by a single mom. I have two sisters, like an older sister, younger sister. So I really, I strive not to be that guy. And I don't want to be that guy ever. Well, that's cool. I've got, I don't want to be just a girl that anybody calls.

I definitely want somebody that's serious about me, and I really enjoyed our time together. I just never want to feel like I'm one of 100 or any, you know, I don't want competition. So, Aaron, just let me know. Like, you talked really fondly about Michelle. So it kind of sounded like you and her had a thing, like, maybe over the summer. So did I misread that? Sorry. Okay, so Michelle and I had a thing over the summer in high school. She is a friend from high school.

Like, yeah, I've just known her a long time, and that's why we just go way back. High school summer? Last summer or high school summer? No, high school summer. And she has been married and has kids. Yeah, no, she's just a friend. Okay. All right. All all right that's cool oh yeah do you have any like guys that are your friends do you hang out with guys yeah no of course i okay not only do i know all of the husbands all the significant others of all

these uh women but no i got my i got back there's's Caleb, there's Derek, there's a couple guys from work and we hang out, you know, getting drinks every week after work. Alright, that's reassuring. Alright, so, do you believe him then, Lila? You know what, I don't think he's lying.

Okay, well, would you like to go on another date with Aaron? We'll pay for it. Hmm. I'm going to talk about a bunch of guys on our date, but sure. I'll go. Just don't fire it. Yeah. Congratulations, Aaron. I thank you guys. I appreciate it. I'm glad that, uh, cleared the air. Lila, thank you for, um, I'm excited for a date and yep. You are welcome to talk about as many guys you want.

I'll even throw in a free fart for you. All right. For you. OK. Congratulations. Then. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone.

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