First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Macy & Kent - Not Looking for Gold

Episode Date: December 16, 2024

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I'm Tomer Cohen, LinkedIn's Chief Product Officer. If you're just as curious as I am about the way things are built, then tune in to my podcast, Building One. I speak with some of the best product builders out there. I've always been inspired by frustration. It came back to my own personal pinpoint. Building One. Apple, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Kent is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Macy that he went out with.

So in a few minutes, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date. But first, Kent, how long has it been since you heard from Macy? Dude, it's been like five days. And I know I'm getting ghosted like absolutely no i'm i am what makes you say it like that i knew that when she showed up to the place where i took her out like she just wasn't impressed she wasn't having it and i just i don't really quite 100 understand but like i do know that she is avoiding me okay what is it about her though that makes you want to get a hold of her if you're being avoided then why are you running towards the avoidee oh no she's like she's great she's

professional she's you know just like you know we really like i wanted to really hit it off but like it's like i don't know like i gave her an opportunity to choose a place and um she she didn't choose a place so i took her to this like old like kind of haunted like scott like some character you know what she called it must be because I don't know like I love like things like that like I don't necessarily go for I I don't know I gave her the opportunity to choose so do you feel like the experience that you gave her wasn't normal for you or what do you want to tell her well I just want to tell her that you know like I could tell that she was like getting quote work calls through the whole date and stuff and it's like you know I'm just there going like

dude if you're really not having a great time she finally said she had to leave after like five or six calls like all I'm trying to say is like, I'm not that bad of a guy. I don't know what it is exactly that I did. The plan was for her to, we were going to meet after she got off work. It just seemed weird. Like, it doesn't take much for me to pick up on it. So you could tell there was like a vibe,

vibe that she wasn't into it? Yeah. I'm just like like i just kind of want to like get her to like i want to figure out the real reason why she was ghosting me because i know it wasn't work and i don't know what i did wrong you know what i mean like she's a great she's a great girl you know that's really what i'm trying to to figure out okay cool we'll play a song come back and then call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,

and hopefully get you another date then. All right, cool. All right, man. We'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,

and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days, fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions

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and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But before we do that, Kent, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Yeah, well, you know, like I went out with this girl. We gave her an opportunity to choose anywhere to go in the world, and, you know, she let me choose. She said my place was musty. And I know for sure I'm getting ghosted, but I don't know why.

But I just don't feel like I deserve that. I want to know. I want to know why she won't talk to me anymore. Okay. And you really liked her, huh? No, she's fantastic. All right, man. Well, here you go.

You ready for us to call her? I'm ready as I can be, I guess. Okay. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Macy, please? This is Macy. How can I help you? Macy, hi, how are you?

My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Macy. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, my name's Victoria. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you? My name is Jubal and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Macy. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, my name's Victoria. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you?

Great. Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened to the show before? No, I'm so sorry. So we do a segment on the show. It's called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and they end up ghosting you, you can have us get them on the phone and ask them why they're ghosting you.

So we got an email about you. Oh, you got it? Oh, I thought you were offering. Oh, gosh. No, no, no. We got an email about you and his name is Kent. What? Do you know who he is?

Sorry. No, thank you. No, I don't want... The first date was terrible. I don't really want to relive that. No. Okay, well, could you tell. I don't really want to relive that. Oh. No. Okay, well, could you tell us why? He just wants to know.

He said he really liked you and he doesn't know, you know, why you're ghosting him. Oh, he should know. Okay. Well, we'll put it very simply. He took me to ****. Have you guys ever been there? No, because you're normal people. Okay.

It isn't a place that you take a first date. It is a place that you will take a future murder victim. It's scary. Is that bad? It was. I thought it was going to be a cute little bar. You know, cute, nice, happy hour. I walked in.

I got scared. I almost walked right out, but he had already seen me. And so I was like, oh, well, this will be my life for the next two hours. Yay. It was terrible. From the beginning, it wasn't good. And so, you know, after like 15 minutes, I went to the bathroom and I called my friends and I was like, hey, I need you to call me like every 10 minutes until I can get out of here and be like, oh, work emergency. It was so bad. Like, I come in.

I had just gotten off of work. He's wearing jeans and a T-shirt. I thought we were both coming from work. And then he tells me that he quit his job a few weeks ago. That's a big deal breaker for me because I want someone that I can work with and we can grow together. I do not want to be the sole breadwinner. Well, did he

explain why he quit his job? What his plan is for the future? No, no, it didn't get that far. I was already so turned off. I was like, can I cut her in here? Yo. Yes, you can. Macy who's that that's kent he's been actually listening and wants to talk to you okay what's up um first of all whoa wait you're

what you've been listening yeah yeah i'm listening because i was trying to figure out why you were ghosting me but like now that i'm listening to you, I'm like, dude, like, what the, like, what the hell? Ken, you like the place that we went? Okay, well, first of all, that bar is disgusting. In the future, never take any woman there. They will

call the police on you. Yeah. No. You emailed them and f***ed up a secret phone call so that you could listen to me talk. You understand that's weirdo behavior tent,

right? No. You f***ed up a place of like, I know everybody's there. It's just like a really chill place. It's a good vibe. And I gave you the opportunity to choose anywhere you want. We could have gone anywhere. I like if you were so I knew that you didn't like it, but you could have said something. We could have gone elsewhere.

Ken, if I had known that you were going to say, let's go to I would have been like, oh, let's just meet in the alleyway behind the Arby's and we can just forage in there. It would have been a better time. It was not. It is not that bad. Like, come on, man. Like that.

Seriously. There was a man who had thrown off all of his own shirt in the corner of the bar. Ew. Is that normal? Is he just one of the regulars? Is he one of those characters we always hear about at... Ew!

Ken, I'm confused why you even want another date. I don't know. I don't want any date with any man after this. If I go on a date with another man and he says, where do you want to go?

I'm going to say, I have strong objections to... in case you wanted to take me there. Other than that, everywhere else is acceptable. Then why didn't you have a suggestion? Now you're just like you're just hating on my people. Macy, I have a question for you. Would you like to go out on another date with Kent? We'll pay for it.

Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. I'm going to be washing my hair that night. Whatever night it's supposed to be, I'll be washing my hair that night. I'm so sorry. Whatever. Kent, you had them call me up so that you could listen in and be sneaky peaty about this and want to know why I didn't want to go out on a date with you.

You should have known the way that you were dressed. You don't care. be peaty about this and want to want to know why I didn't want to go out on a date with you you should have known the way that you were dressed you don't care like you quit your job I was like you just don't care about life you're gonna bum around for a little bit I quit my job oh my god dude when I told you I quit my job I mean like I sold my company for like 600k and i'm moving on i like you didn't even take a second to even like ask anything about me yeah that's true okay i apologize but also congratulations doesn't matter you're still not working you're still just bumming around no i'm not bumming around man when I told you that I would take you anywhere, I meant it. I could take you

anywhere. You didn't have... If I had said, oh, I want to go to Mississippi and I want to ride on a steamboat and have dinner, you would have done that on a first date. You know what? That sounds cool. Why not? I've got

the resources to do that, but like, I don't brag about my money. Like you obviously are really, really matters to you to be like a princess everywhere you go. Like I'm just really, are you sure you guys don't want to go out again? Jubal.

It could be a great, let me tell you something. If you really want to dig some gold, I got some numbers for you. I got some dudes that'll like like, knock your socks off. Go ahead. But, like, I don't think that... Oh, no, I'm not going to have a girl for you.

I don't know. Wow, wow. I'm so upset. Maybe I need to be a worse person. Do you want me to get in some alley fights? What? So that I can be more of a woman for you? Ew, gross.

Get out of here. I don't know if you could be a worse person. Give it a shot. Oh, my God. You are such a weirdo. Weirdo behavior. Kent, I'm sorry. You didn't get another date.

No, it's not your fault. Thank you. Damn. Shocker. Shocker there's no second date. Come on. All right, I guess we're done. This is too much.

I'm just really glad that you guys called me. Thank you for reminding me why my standards are so high. I love you. I'm going to start listening to you now. Oh, well, if your standards are high, don't do that. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

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