First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Madison & Jake: He Didn’t Ghost Her for the Reason She Thinks… 🐀😳
Episode Date: April 27, 2026In this wild First Date Follow-Up, Madison is convinced her date ghosted her because he couldn’t handle her massive social media following… but the truth Jake reveals is something NO ONE ...saw coming. What started as a promising date quickly took a bizarre turn, leaving everyone questioning what really crossed the line. Was it jealousy, intimidation, or something way more unexpected? You have to hear this unbelievable dating story to find out why things went south so fast. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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First date follow up.
Madison is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by
guy named Jake.
So in a second,
we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.
But first,
Madison,
why do you think you're getting ghosted?
I think Jake's intimidated by my social media following.
Oh,
really?
Why?
How many followers you got,
girl?
I'm just kidding.
I don't know,
like a couple hundred thousand.
Oh,
not like that much.
That's a big following.
That's a big following.
And you think that he's ghosting you because he's intimidated by your,
your social media numbers.
I just don't think he can handle the fact that I'm successful and have a large following.
Okay.
Why do you,
why do you think he feels that way?
I don't know.
He just got really awkward,
like halfway through the day.
And then after,
I immediately followed him on my Instagram because I kind of take it pretty seriously.
But then he never followed me back.
Okay.
Oh, all right.
And you're an influencer.
That's what you do for a job.
Like,
that's how you make your money.
I mean, I have some side gigs, but yeah, that's my main source of income.
I don't understand why he's pooing.
He just has a boring, like, nine to five job, you know, like nothing special.
Okay.
It's a normal job.
Yeah.
It has a job.
Right.
I feel like maybe that made him insecure.
And then on top of that, I just started showing him a few videos about my page.
And I think that's where he got really intimidated.
Just by seeing, like, how many.
like the number of people that follow you and like how popular you are.
I mean, you said several hundred thousand.
That's a good following.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I honestly, I feel like he's low-key jealous.
Okay.
Well, would you want another date with him if he was jealous of your social media following
since yours is so much bigger than his?
I mean, maybe I could make it work, you know?
Like, I'm not opposed.
Did he say he also, like, wants to be an influencer or he's happy with his boring normal job?
No, I mean, he seemed pretty happy with his boring job.
Okay.
Do you think he's jealous or insecure?
Yeah, I mean, it's not like this is the first time this has happened.
Guys see me on my, like, my spiritual Instagram journey,
and they get pretty jealous or intimidated.
Okay.
Well, Madison is on the phone, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jake,
so we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.
But before we do that, Madison, why don't you remind us why you think you're getting ghosted again?
Hello everybody. I think I'm getting ghosted because he's intimidated by my social numbers.
Okay. And you said you have like a couple hundred thousand people that follow you.
Yeah. I just feel like he's jealous that he didn't get to have a cool job and he's got to go to work every day.
It's boring nine to five.
And did he see somebody like you? And he's like, I don't know if I could handle her because, you know, she's like in demand basically. Like that's kind of what I'm saying.
I think maybe he's going to freak out if people on the streets like know who I am.
Right. Okay.
That would be hard.
Not everything's made for that.
But you liked him and you would like a second date if it's, if.
Yeah, I mean, like the vibe was pretty good during the first, like half of it until I showed him my following.
All right.
Well, here we go.
I'm going to dial this one over right now, okay?
Okay.
Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Jake, please?
This is it.
Hey, Jake, how are you?
This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Jake.
I'm Nina.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
And my name is Jubal.
Have you listened to the show before?
Okay.
Yeah, no, I've heard you guys
Oh, sweet, okay, well thank you for checking it out
We're calling you today because, I don't know if you've heard
The first date follow-ups or not, but that's where if you go on a date with somebody
And you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone
And ask why you're ghosting them, and we got an email about you from somebody
Okay
Any idea who will email us?
I don't know, I don't think I want to guess on the radio
Oh, are there that many options?
I'll just tell you then.
Her name is Madison, and you guys went out a few weeks ago, and you have not talked to her since your date.
And she liked you.
Yeah.
Okay.
And she liked you.
And she's wondering why you haven't gotten back to her.
Can you tell us why you're ghosting her?
Would you mind?
Very simply.
Mm-hmm.
I don't want to be a rat daddy.
A what?
You don't want to be a rat daddy?
Does that what is?
A rat daddy.
Like a daddy of rats.
Like a father of rats, that is not me.
me. I'm not into that.
Why would you be that?
What do you? How does that? How does, you got to explain that.
Did she not, she's, she, she's, uh, the queen rat lady, right? She's like a rat mama.
She called herself, I think, right? She has like this Instagram and she's like obsessed with rats.
It's all these, they're crawling all over her.
Oh. And I asked her, I was like, do you ever like put out mouse traps for like mice that aren't yours?
and she
she thought it was a joke
and I was like
oh this is not
the vibe
she thought you might be ghosting her
because she has
like a big social media following
and you were intimidated by that
oh
intimidated
I mean
no
I
I barely am on
Instagram in that way
she kept taking
she's like
she's one of those people
that are obsessed with it
you know
It's like a big part of her life.
And the rats, dude, I can't.
I'm not a rodent guy.
She calls herself a rat mama.
That's her content?
A rat mama.
Not even like a, like that's undignified.
I'm not going to date somebody, a rat mama.
She showed me one of her videos that she had just made.
And it was like one of those getting ready with view videos, except for her, there's like a bunch of rats on her.
She's doing eyeliner and you can see it crawling.
And, like, it's impressive that she's not smearing.
But, like, I...
Wow.
But what is, like, what germs are getting in your eye?
Do you know what I mean?
Okay.
I don't want bed.
I don't want rats on my bed sheet.
She had them, like, on her pillow.
You know what I mean?
And Matton's sleeping on a pillow after seeing a rat on it.
Well, they're not sewer rats, right?
They're like her pets.
Well, if you see a tiger in the zoo or in the wild, it's still a tiger.
And that's a rat is a rat.
All right.
Well, thank you for telling us, Jake.
And I do have to remind you that Madison is on the phone and does want to talk to you.
Jake, those are my children.
She's what.
Yikes.
This is Matt.
Oh, I didn't, you guys didn't tell you.
This is how I make an honest living.
Madison, they're rats.
That's not an honest living.
A rat means like dishonest.
Like you're very clean animals.
They're clean and they well-broomed and like I even bathe them.
It's, this is my job.
I am a rat mama and I'm very proud of it.
And you should be proud also and want to be a rat daddy.
All right.
So that's what you do on social media.
That's why you're like that's how you're an influencer is like a rat.
Yeah, it's a very niche market.
Yeah.
I even have like an only fan's part.
Wow.
Wow.
Jake, you're just insecure that I'm a rat mama and I'm more followers than you.
It's definitely not the followers.
I just don't want like bubonic plague, you know?
All right.
The plague was from please not rat.
Jake, would you like another date with Madison?
The rat mama will pay for it.
Um.
I think I'm good.
Maybe she can go out with her rats.
Yeah, I honestly, I'm good.
I don't need another date with you.
I trust my rats more than I trust most men.
What?
Madison, you are racket.
It's spelled R-A-T.
2%.
That's the number of people who take the stairs
when there is also an escalator available.
I'm Michael Easter.
I'm on my podcast, 2%.
I break down the signs of mental toughness, fitness, and building resilience in our strange modern world.
Put yourself through some hardships, and you will come out on the other side a happier, more fulfilled, healthier person.
Listen to 2%. That's T.W.O.% on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins. But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax.
You doctored this particular test twice, Ms. Owens, correct?
I doctored the test ones.
It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern.
Two more men who'd been through the same thing.
Greg Gillespie and Michael Mancini.
My mind was blown.
I'm Stephanie Young.
This is Love Trapped.
Laura, Scottsdale Police.
As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences.
Listen to Love Trapped podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get
your podcasts.
When a group of women discover they've all dated the same prolific con artist, they take matters into
their own hands.
I vowed, I will be his last target.
He is not going to get away with this.
He's going to get what he deserves.
We always say that trust your girlfriends.
Listen to the girlfriends.
Trust me, babe.
On the IHart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
you. What's up, everyone? I'm Ego Wodom. My next guest, it's Will Ferrell. My dad gave me the best
advice ever. He goes, just give it a shot. But if you ever reach a point where you're banging
your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit. If you saw it written
down, it would not be an inspiration. It would not be on a calendar of, you know, the cat. Just hang in there.
Yeah, it would not be.
Right, it wouldn't be that.
There's a lot of luck.
Listen to thanks, Dad, on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Guaranteed human.
