First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Mark & Sasha - Ghosted After a Parisian Cafe Date?

Episode Date: December 2, 2025

Mark thought his date with Sasha at a Parisian-themed cafe was going perfectly—but now he’s being ghosted. On this episode of First Date Follow Up, we call Sasha to uncover why she suddenly vanished after a seemingly sweet first date. From laughs and croissants to an unexpected “turn-off,” hear the shocking reason behind the ghosting—and whether a second date is even possible. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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But first, Mark, how long has it been since you heard from Sasha? Um, it's been about a couple weeks now. Okay. Okay. Have you been reaching out to her during that time? Yeah. I mean, I've called a couple times. I've texted and been no reply.

And that's why I'm calling you guys is trying to see if we can figure out what's going on. Well, why don't you tell us about how you met her and then the date and stuff? Yeah. So we, we met on Hinge. Um, and I just immediately found her to be so beautiful and classy. I mean, one of her photos, she was even wearing pearls. and I thought that was so sexy. I love pearls.

We started chatting and she told me how she always wanted to go to Paris. So I thought for a date, we could go to this Parisian cafe and get coffee and croissants, which I thought was perfect. Oh, that's cool. Did you wear a beret? No. Yeah, that's definitely why I was going to go. No, I'm just kidding. That's a cute idea, though.

Yeah. Thoughtful. I thought so, too. I thought so too. So we, you know, we had our croissants and our coffee and we're talking and laughing and, you know, she shared so much of her life stories for me. I just felt like she really wanted me to know her, which, you know, was just so sweet. And we were supposed to go on a bike ride, but then her roommate reached out that she needed to be taken care of. So I was okay with that because I love that she's good to her friends.

But after that, I never really heard from her again. So what did she say to you or like, what was the interaction like after her roommate calls? or like as you guys were going your separate ways well you know we were supposed to go on this bike ride and she kind of had to dodge out so i gave her a hug and and you know we she said she had a great time and um that was basically it i said oh you know i'll call you later and when i called i got no answer um i texted a couple times over the course of the last few days and no response Is her roommate okay? I hope so.

Not to freak you out, but you don't think it was one of those things where someone says, hey, I'll text you on the slide, and then you call me, and then I'll say I have to go if you're on a date you don't like. Do you think that could have been the thing? I don't think, I didn't get that vibe. I mean, she was opening up so much to me about, like, her life and her family and her friends. It just felt like she was having a really great time. I mean, the only thing I can think of is, like, I mean, there's, There's a bunch of people checking me out in the cafe,

which, you know, sometimes I'm a little awkward, but I do kind of look like a real-life Superman at times, so I was getting a lot of attention. What? Okay, you look like a real-life Superman? What does that mean? Like, are you, like, ripped? What does that mean?

You're hot? I've got this car tent kind of swirled in my hair, and I don't know how I've been prepared a lot to it. But my eyes were on her. I don't know if that was anything that she was nervous about, But, yeah, I don't think anything was wrong with a friend. I just genuinely thought she had to go help her. Did you tell her that you look like Superman at any point?

Because that also could have been there. No, no, I did not. Okay, okay. Lucky you, you're on a date with Superman. I know. All right, and you didn't get a kiss or anything, right, at the end of the date? No. I was going to, you know, I was going to try and go for it,

but there's a bunch of people outside the shop of the Parisian coffee shop. And I just felt like a warm hug was the right move. Okay. All right. Well, we'll figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Thank you.

I appreciate it. Play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, Mark is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Sasha. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. but before we do that mark why don't you catch us up on your situation yeah well i met this beautiful girl named sasha we met on hinge went on this great date to a parisian cafe um had a great time

and now i haven't heard from her and i want to know why well and you do think it's because you look like superman maybe and you were getting checked out a lot right i i'm just worried i'm just worried that she was aware of that people were looking at me that's all i don't know if that that can be kind I don't know if that was a reason. Like if you're with somebody that's super hot, that everybody's staring at, you do feel like, oh, like, you're judging me, you know, I get that. Well, we're ready for us to call her? Yeah. Yes, please.

Here we go. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Sasha, please? Uh, this, sir. Sasha, hi, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Hi, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, wow. Hi. Do you listen to the show ever? Sometimes, yeah. You guys agree. This is so crazy.

Thank you. You know why we're calling you? I have a suspicion. And I'm going to get this about it. That's a suspicion being true. What do you think it is? What's your suspicion? Is it the second date follow-up?

The first day follow-up, yes. Oh, first-day follow-up, yeah. You are ghosting somebody. But she knows. I have a sneaking suspicion that it's Mark. And you're correct. She knows the answer to all of our questions today. Well, because I don't really ghost that often, but this was a unique experience.

Really? Okay. Would you mind telling us why you're ghosting him? He was just so gross. I'm sorry. That was like the plainest, most easiest way to say it. He just, he was burping throughout the entire date. And like the first time was just kind of, because it was loud and he didn't say excuse me or anything like that.

But then it kind of just kept happening. And so like I felt like I had to keep talking so that I didn't have to engage with him. And it was, oh, it was just so uncomfortable. thoroughly grossed out. Was it just really loud or was it kind of under his breath? I mean, I don't know. That's the thing. I get that burping is natural,

but there are ways that you can kind of minimize the damage. Like you can kind of put it under your breath. You can cover your mouth. You can say, excuse me. But like, since none of that was happening, but the burping in itself kept happening over and over, it just felt like super disrespectful. and just, I was so turned off and grossed out.

Really? Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't love that either. Like, in the place you were at, he was just burping loudly? Yes, constantly. It was just, it was so frequent and so loud. Like, it almost got to the point where, you know, like Homer Simpson when he belches, like, his lip kind of ripple. Like, that's what I felt like, maybe he wasn't that bad, but, like, that's what kind of I started to feel like was happening. Like, I was just, ugh.

I can't even Okay Well, he didn't tell us that No It sounded like a very pleasant day Yeah Maybe you forgot Or maybe you haven't heard enough

First Day follow-ups to know That he's actually on the phone listening And wants to burpick To talk to you Mark Well, yeah Hi, Sasha Hi, sorry

I don't I honestly don't know what you're talking about I mean I I burped a couple of times because I've been dealing with some, like, stress-related acid reflux. I'm sorry to hear that. I'm like, why did we go to coffee? Like, that's not going to help the situation.

And, you know? Well, because I wanted to take you to a Parisian cafe. I mean, is the real reason that, because I look like Superman? What? Sorry, sorry, sorry, that's not nice. I'm sorry. No, no, that's not the reason. Yes, you are an objectively attractive man,

but if you're wondering about why people were looking at you, it was because you were burping so much that people were concerned that you were going to be sick. Are you sure that people weren't just looking at me because of how I look? No, I'm sorry. I, like, it was not attractive. They were not looking at you because you were attracted.

They were looking at you because they were disgusted. I'm so sorry. I can't even help but ask, like, Mark, are you okay? Because to be burping that much, I don't know if that's normal. Yeah, I've been on a different medication to try and deal with my reflux. It's just been a struggle bus, but I'm doing much better things. Okay. You know, like, Tasha, you say you want to go to France,

but you really probably shouldn't go to France. Because in other countries, it's actually considered polite to burp. Oh, what? Is it? It's a compliment to the same. Well, even if that's true, here in the States, I like it when if someone burbs that they at least say, excuse me or cover their mouth or something along those lines. Maybe I'm reaching for the stars here, but that is something that I am looking for.

Blighton respect. Well, I usually say, excuse me. I usually say excuse me. But I just, I was, you were telling these beautiful stories. I didn't want to interrupt you. I was trying to respect you. Sasha, would you like to go on another date with Mark? We'll pay for it.

You know what? I didn't know that she was so close-minded, so I honestly don't know if this is going to work out. Closed-minded? What do you mean? I mean, if you can't just be present and accept a person for how they are. I mean, burping happens. Yeah, I get that. It's just how you handle it that, you know, really changes things.

And how you handled it was just not it for me. That's fine. I mean, if somebody's going to accept me and accept me for my burps too. All right. Well, sorry, no second date, Mark, but it sounds like you're fine with that. Yeah. I think it's for the best. Jubile's first date follow-up.

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