First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Martina & Lucas - Ghosted for being a virgin??

Episode Date: April 3, 2026

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First date of follow-up, powered by the advocates injury attorney. online at advocateslaw.com. Martina is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Lucas, so in a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Martina, how long has it been since you heard from Lucas?

Um, nine days. It's been nine days. Okay. Okay. Not too bad. How many times have you reached out to them? Nine days is a long time, Victoria. Yeah.

A day. A day is a long time. when you like had some chemistry with a person. So I'm trying to make yourself. All right. Well, nine days I think is a long time. It is. And I'm really sorry that you're experiencing that.

Why don't you tell us about this guy? How is the date? Why do you want to get a hold of him so bad? Well, it was a great date. We went out to dinner, which was just amazing. It was this little Asian fusion spot. It was his idea. You know, I just thought it was really intentional.

Like it's not your basic Paco Tuesday type of thing. You know what I mean? Like it was, he remembered. Yeah. So he's listening to you. It wasn't basic. Yeah. Okay.

So what else? Well, he, like, he really thought about it. He brought a deck of those question cards. You know those cards? Like, it's just to get to know someone. Yeah. Oh, that's cute. I have one of those.

My friend created it. And it was so handy. Yeah. It was cute questions. It was like, like, when was the last time you were embarrassed? And when are you most at peace? And it wasn't like, we didn't go. like crazy deep. It just felt like something was building. Like I was really

need, I was just really excited to see where it could go. Oh, well, it didn't end there. It actually kept going. Oh, good. Yeah, yeah. He wanted me to go back to his place to try this tequila that his uncle made that you can't get anywhere. It was just special. Like we had the tequila, which was great. We had some wine. We chatted more and then I ubered home. Okay. Can you think of any reason that you're getting ghosted? I don't know. I can maybe one thing.

I was a little bit anxious in the car because I did decide to tell him something personal. I guess I will tell you. Okay. I'm a virgin. Okay. I just felt like I needed to tell him because we had kissed a few times. And I felt like, you know, there was chemistry and thought, okay, things could go further. and I don't want to get there and have it be a whole thing.

I just wanted him to know that. How did he respond to that? He thanked me. He was quiet for a minute and then he thanked me and he said he appreciated me being honest and then I felt so relieved, obviously, and then it was like normal again. Okay. But do you think maybe that's the reason why though? Because maybe...

I don't know. That's what throwing me off is like he seemed so into me. He was like into me, you know? And I thought we were viving. And now I'm here like overthinking. Okay. Like some people aren't ready to take on that responsibility. So it could be that.

Maybe he does like you. It just maybe he's processing. I don't know. Yeah. Well, let's figure it out. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you. And maybe get you a second date if you still want one, okay? Okay.

Thank you so much. Get your first day follow up right after this. If you're just joining us for today's first day, follow up, Martina is on the phone and we're about to call Lucas. He's been ghosting her for nine days and she doesn't know why. And we'll see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Martina, why don't you tell us about your situation again real quick? Yeah.

Well, we had a wonderful date. It was so great. We just connected and it didn't end after dinner. The only thing that I'm thinking maybe scare him a little bit was that I did tell him that I've never slept. with anyone before and I don't know if that was the thing that freaked him out. It didn't seem like it, which is why I'm so confused. Like, we kept hanging out. We had a great time after that, so I don't really know why.

Okay. Are you ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lucas, please? Yeah, this is him.

Hey, Lucas, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Yeah, hi, Lucas. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubil. How are you? Hi. Hi, Nina. Victoria and who? Jubal. Jubal. Hi. Hi. Hi. How are you?

I'm okay. This is weird. I know. You got a minute for us to talk to you about something? Okay. So we do a segment on our show. It's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from somebody.

Is it Martina? Oh, you knew that quick. Yes, it is. It's Martina. She said it's been nine days since her date, and she thought that you guys had a really great time, and she's confused. Would you mind telling us why you're ghosting her?

I mean, well, I mean, yeah, I could. I mean, when it comes down to it, she ruined something really important to me. What? She spilled, a full glass of wine on a signed autograph photo of 50 cent that I have, and it's really personal to me. She just destroyed it. I was in college, and, you know, he was a big deal at the time, but I used to have a signed photo. Okay. And it actually, you don't even understand. It wasn't

just a signed photo of 5010. It was me and him and the photo together, and then he signed it. Yeah, it was really important to me. My uncle had it framed and everything, and I just took it out for like one second to show it to her. We were talking about knowing celebrities and stuff. And I showed her this picture and I sat it down. And then she just spilled her wine glass all over it. And like, she didn't even care. She wasn't like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.

I feel like anybody would be mortified. That's kind of what it was. She was like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. But I'm sure you can get another one, right? And like, started laughing about it. Like, what am I supposed to do? Like, he doesn't perform anymore. I can't like just get another one, you know,

which is kind of what you could always just show up at his house and ask him. Telling the story. Yeah, that's, that's fine. Okay, not going to work. So that's the reason that your ghost singer is because she spilled wine on your 50-cent photo. And then she didn't even apologize. Aw. Okay.

I'd be frustrated. Thank you for telling us. Appreciate that, Lucas. And Lucas, now I'll let you know that Martina is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Ah, okay. That makes sense. Wait, seriously? That's why.

I over a stupid photo? Stupid? No. Baby girl, no. This is not stupid. This is my signed photo of 50 cent in me. You turned it into a Merlo murder scene. Like, do you see the problem?

Sorry. I did say sorry. Well, that's not going to bring 50 back, is it? Actually, what you said was, and I quote, I'm sure your uncle can get you another one. I don't know, I guess not. I really loves 50 cents. I don't know what it worked.

Yeah, you got me through a couple of semesters in college. I mean, like, who doesn't like 50 cent? Are you being for real right now? I like 50 cent. I mean, I think Nina likes 50 cent too. I mean, I really watch the show power. You can you work as a radio, right? Yeah, yes, you do.

Everybody does. Oh, I didn't say I didn't like 50 cent. It's okay, Lucas. It's going to be okay. Okay, well, I'm sure we can get you another one. And he isn't dead, you know, like, it's possible to just get you another one. I can get one on eBay. Like, I don't, I don't know why that's the reason.

You can get a picture of me with City on eBay? I'm, okay, what if I get us tickets? I can get us 50-cent tickets. We'll go to the show. Man, you know what? I don't even want to deal with this. You know, you're just like, you're just a virgin who doesn't know how to apologize. and I really, I don't want to deal with this.

Oh, so it is because I'm, I knew it. I knew it. And don't ask like you're okay with something when you're not. We actually could have talked about this. I would have wanted to talk about that. I think of anything. You ruined my prize for that we were here. Well, Lucas, would you like to go on another day with Martina?

We'll pay for it. No, Martina. You don't get to go to the candy shop. Oh, Martina, I'm sorry. I don't even know what that means, but okay. Oh my God, you don't even know candy shop? How old are you? Where are you from?

Lucas, thank you for telling us why you're a ghosting or appreciate that, and I hope someday you get a new 50-cent photo. I'm really sorry about that. Can you, like, hook up another photo or something? I have some friends that know him, but, you know, we'll see. I'll take you out, Nina. I mean, if you're good to that, you can go out some time. I'm just saying.

I think we're good. And Martina, I'm sorry you, you know, didn't get another date. I mean, I am so glad I didn't lose my virginity to you. Joubles first date follow-up. I'm Lori Siegel, and on my new podcast, Mostly Human, I'll take you to some wild corners of the tech world. I'm about to go on a date with an AI companion at a real-world cafe right here in New York City. There's no playbook for what to do when an AI model hallucinates a story about you.

Mostly Human is your playbook for how tech can work for you. Anyone can now be an entrepreneur. Anyone can build an app. And it's very empowering. Listen to Mostly Human on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins. But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax. You doctored this particular test twice.

someone's, correct? I doctored the test ones. It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern. Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg Gillespie and. Michael Rancini. My mind was blown. I'm Stephanie Young. This is Love Trapped. Laura, Scottsdale Police. As the season continues, Laura Owens finally faces consequences. Listen to Love Trapped podcast on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Ready for a different take on Formula One? Look no further than No Grip, a new podcast tackling the culture of motor racing's most

coveted series. Join me, Lily Herman, as we dive into the under-explored pockets of F1, including the story of the woman who last participated in a Formula One race weekend, the recent uptick in F1 romance novels, and plenty of mishap scandals and sagas that have made Formula One a delightful, decadent dumpster fire for more than 75 years. Listen to No Grip on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get. your podcast. It's Financial Literacy Month, and the podcast, Eating While Broke, is bringing real conversations

about money, growth, and building your future. This month, hear from top streamer Zoe Spencer and venture capitalist Lakeisha Landrum Pierre as they share their journeys from starting out to leveling up. There's an economic component to communities thriving. If there's not enough money and entrepreneurship happening in communities, they failed. Listen to Eating While Broke from the Black Effect Podcast. podcast network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.