First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Matt & Brea - Too Pretty

Episode Date: December 9, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com matt is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by somebody named bria so in a minute we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date first matt how long has it been since you heard from bria hey uh yeah you know it's been uh it's been about a week now. I've got to be honest, this is the first time I've ever been ghosted, so I'm not really sure if that's a long time or not. Ever.

Wow, congratulations. Thanks. I appreciate that. I try to be selective is the idea. A week is a long time. If you go out with somebody, usually if they like you, you know, maybe a couple days go by where they don't text you but they'll get back to you. Have you tried reaching out?

I'm hesitant about it just because I want it to be like a single, you know, thoughtful thing, like not exactly a grand gesture. I don't want to be like a dork about it, but I do want to make sure that it is memorable. I want to make it, you know, and that's the thing, that's why I'm calling it is because I want you guys to help me out with this. I really don't know what I'm doing.

This is totally new territory for me. Okay. So you want to get her attention with something more of a, hey, how you doing text? Exactly. I want to be, yeah, yeah, much more of a, um, cause she is dating with intention and I want to make sure that I am someone whose, you know, intention is worthwhile. Oh, that's cute. So a picture.

Okay, Jugal. Okay. How did you meet Bria, Matt? How did you meet her and how was the date? Yeah, we, so we met on Hinge and we were talking, you know, back and forth for a little bit and making sure that, you know, we really, you know, had a feel for one another. I saw on him her photos where she was hiking, and that showed me that she's really active and she appreciates nature, and that's all of me.

I love that. We went to a rooftop for drinks, you know, right at sunset, so it was going to have very, very beautiful views, and indeed we got treated to that. That was great. And it was really romantic. There were plants. It seemed kind of an intimate setting.

And then, so I'm glad we were there because we started just acting like we were on vacation, you know. So we made up stories for ourselves. We were looking around us at the different couples of different people, making up stories for them. You know, it was a lot of fun. And she was a lot of fun. One of the things that I really appreciate is just how she beams with everything, you know, just big smile, laughing, contagious laughter at that point. We started out, you know, what we want and goals and what our passions are,

what drives us, and it really, really seemed to fit. And this is why I'm concerned about the ghost thing because, you know, I hope she's all right. I hope that I didn't come across too strong. You know, we ended the day with a hug, like a nice, tight hug. It seemed promising. And so I want to make sure that everything is kind of how I thought it was in my head. And then I don't know know, maybe I messed up. I hope I didn't.

Well, it sounds like it went really great for the most part. Is there anything that happened that could be why? I mean, you know, I'm competitive. I'm maybe overly competitive. And I asked her if she was seeing other people, you know, just because she said she was dating with intention, but I wanted to know kind of how that went. And, yes, she did say that she was kind of dating.

It didn't sound like there was anything serious going on, but maybe I just came across as too intense with how I asked. How did you ask? Did you reach across the table and grab her hand and stare deep into her eye and said, are you seeing anybody else? Yikes. I might like that. What? Nina! I might like that. What? I can't quite remember, so maybe I was in

a bit of an altered state of mind. Maybe the drinks were falling that evening. Okay. So, yeah, that might have contributed to it. Were you crying? I don't remember any crying. You probably would have liked that, too. At least they'll be dating anybody else.

Oh, man, Matt. We'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and try to get you another date and find out where you're getting ghosted, okay? Thank you, guys. I appreciate that. All right, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

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or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Matt is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Bria. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

him another date. But first, Matt, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Yeah, Bria and I went on a date and beforehand we met on Hinge. I was very attracted to all of her photos. We met up. It seemed like it was going really great. We had a lot of fun just making up stories about ourselves when it came to this fun little game we were playing. But I feel like I really got to know her.

I was very, very attracted to her. And she was basically like just sunshine. And so I want to know what happened with it. Okay. And you think that the reason she might not be calling you back is because you asked if she was dating other people? Maybe. I honestly don't know. And I'm looking for you guys to help me out with this. Okay. Well, here we go. You ready to call her? Please. Let's see what's up. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Bria, please? This is she. Hey, Bria, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Bria. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

Oh, hi. There's a lot of people here. What's up, girl? Yes, there is. How are you? I'm Victoria. Oh, hi. There's a lot of people here. What's up, girl? Yes, there is. How are you? I'm okay. How are you? I'm good.

Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have. Well, we're calling because we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, they can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them. Uh-huh. So we got an email about you from somebody.

Yeah. Okay. Who are you ghosting, Bria? Well, I'm guessing, is this Matt? Yes, it is. So Matt emailed us and we talked to him a little bit about your date. He really liked you and he is wondering why you're not calling him back. I mean, it feels kind of weird to say, but I just think he's too pretty.

You think he's too pretty? Yeah, I think he's too pretty and I think he knows he's a handsome lad. And that was a little bit of a turnoff for me. Was it confidence or arrogance? Well, so like it started off, he just kind of seemed to talk a lot about himself. And he seemed to just always be catching his reflection in a mirror or a window. So just like seemed very taken with it um and he also was kind of talking about his internet presence and how many followers he has and just like repeated that a few times and I just kind

of felt like I was wasn't really being paid attention you know it's a first date so I expected some questions about me and he just kind of seemed to be talking about how fit he is and like how he's going to start a fitness page. You know, like I know that he we talked about hiking and like being outdoors and being fit and like I'm definitely about that. But like, I'm also a person and I felt that, yeah, we got to talk about things bigger than Internet presence. It sounds like he was trying to impress you. Oh. Doesn't it? Like he showed up with all of his toys and was like,

look, this is what I have. Do you like it? I could see that. I could see that. And, you know, I was trying to ask him about things that he was interested in, but I kind of expected him to ask me about some stuff. Sure. You've got to make a connection on your date,

and I feel like you actually have to, you know, like ask questions and sort of be interested. Can I ask a question? Sorry. Wait, what was that? Maria, that's Matt. Matt is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, I thought it was just you guys. No.

Oh, sorry. Matt's here too. Yeah. And I guess he has a question now. I wanted to ask, did you have a fun time on our date otherwise? Okay. Valid. It's a question about you. It was a question about us.

So, I'm going to say 50-50. I mean, we did have fun like it was fun pretending like we were on vacation and coming up with all kinds of stories for the people around us but you know it was a date where i was trying to get to know you and i thought you would be trying to get to know me so anytime i felt like i brought up you know bigger topics you you know i bigger topics, you, you know, I thought it, you just kind of always steered it back to you. So I'm looking, yeah. There are a couple of, uh, I hope they don't come across as just excuses here. Um, first off, I, I kind of had maybe a couple shots before the date to calm my nerves because I was, uh, definitely really getting, uh getting looking forward to getting to know you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course you did.

And I feel like I honestly I do genuinely feel like I, you know, I feel like I did actually get to know you, you know, like you're you're a great listener. And I mean, the work you do with animals is brilliant. Um, what? I don't work with animals I'm not quite sure what that is Matt what were you drinking

I might have had way too much I like animals I had two shots that might have quadrupled I genuinely though I mean I really appreciated her energy and i think that she was she's just sunshine she's just sunshine in human form and i i understand that i am totally totally overly concerned about my looks and everything and that shouldn't be something

that i'm worrying about on a first date. With my business, I kind of have to be on all times and I should have unwinded. That was one of the reasons I had those shots as well. But humbly, I would love a second date. Could you just tell me what color my

eyes are? Your beautiful green eyes. Well, they're blue. Brita, would you like to go on a first date with Matt? We'll pay for it. We'll pay for it if you want to try to give him another shot. We're in the same place.

Did this happen? It sounds like we need another first date for sure. I need to remember it this time. Well, if you can promise that, you know, maybe we do an afternoon thing. Maybe we have some coffee. Coffee sounds good. If we talk about some things a little bit bigger than Internet presence, I think maybe, you know. I can agree to that.

You said you drive a hard bargain, but those are agreeable terms. You're gonna go? Drea, I am so sorry that clearly I was in a different place in my mind and I was not listening to a single word you said. And I really appreciate, yep, you know what, this next one, I'm going to listen to everything.

I'm gonna let you do the talking. Let's go with that. Well, I do like a person who can own their mistakes. And, you know, we're not always going to be perfect every time. So, yeah. Cool. Well, congratulations, Matt. You got a date with Bria for the first time ever.

Yeah. Bria with the first time ever. I'm impressed with who you guys are over there. Bria with the blue eyes. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take

on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, you guys. I'm Katherine Legg. Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Dr. Laurie Santos, and to welcome the new year, my podcast, The Happiness Lab, is releasing a series of happiness how-to guides to help you in 2025. I'll distill the wisdom of world-class experts into easy-to-digest, actionable tips. Struggling with tough emotions? We have a how-to guide. Worried that you're not enough? We got you. Self-obsessed and want to get over yourself?

There's a guide for that, too. The Happiness Lab's how-to season starts January 1st. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general.

You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.