First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Matthew likes to wine up in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: October 6, 2021

Matthew wants to know why his date Sharina wont call him back! Turns out someone likes to "wine up" in this hilarious First Date Follow Up!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. It's time for your first date follow-up, and on the phone right now is Matthew, and Matthew isn't getting a call back from a woman named Sharina. Sharina. And it's said just like

that, Sharina. I don't know why I said it that way, but Matthew, what's up? How are you? I mean, I've been better. I'm doing okay, though. All right. So you said that you went out with a girl named Sharina, and now she's not getting back to you.

Yeah. I mean, you know, typical COVID romance. We met on Tinder. You know, where else are you going to meet people these days? We chatted for a while and everything. One of the million other dating apps. That or Mumble. Anywhere.

Yeah, well, you know what I mean. Like going out and like actually meeting people like sort of randomly or just going to bars isn't quite back in swing of things yet. No. Yeah, for sure. So, you know, it's hit or miss on there, but like we hit it off and we were like

chatting back and forth and sort of kind of harkening back to like the, you know, virus. We couldn't really figure out where we wanted to go and like what we wanted to do. And so ultimately ended up

like deciding that she would come over, I'd make dinner and watch a movie. Wow. That's a very personable date. That's kind of what I've noticed since COVID. A lot of people are having their first dates just at each other's houses because there's

not many places to go, which could be a good thing or a bad thing. In my opinion, that's a better date. Yeah. How did the date at your house go? Well, I want to know what you made for dinner. Cacio e Pepe. It's just a black pepper pasta. That sounds made up.

I've never heard of that before it sounds like you made that name up oh well either way it's only like four or five ingredients it's not like trust me it sounds a lot fancier it sounds like you made lemon chicken and then you made up a name for it to sound fancy yeah well basically the italians made up the name but either way yeah it sounds fancier than it is, I think. Did that impress her? Well, I mean, it did seem to impress her, so. I mean, any man who's cooking cappuccino pepepepe, I don't even know how you say it. How do you say it?

Cacio Pepe? Your name's better, Alex. Sounds like a winner to me. Other than the food, how was the date, though? Well, I mean mean it went great like you know we watched a movie like had a bottle of wine chat a little bit cuddle a little bit like it seemed to really connect it was an easy conversation it just seemed you know real comfortable and natural okay and how did things end between you two uh we had a brief little kiss and talked about getting together again. That was the last I really heard from her.

She let me know she got home. Did you actually organize another date with her? We talked about making tentative plans. We didn't have set plans. Okay, and how long ago was that? I mean, now it's probably been about a week and a half. And I'm assuming you've reached out in that time. I reached out a couple of times, but then I didn't want to get...

Stalker-ish. Yeah, how did you reach out? By text or when she was walking down the street, reached out and grabbed her arm and was like, Hey, why aren't you calling me back? Because there's two differences. There's a big difference between the two. The safer of the two. I just texted her.

Okay, and you haven't heard anything? Nope. And you don't know why at all? No awkward part in the night? No, and I mean, she's not active on the app, so I don't know. She found her boyfriend. She found the love of her life. I hope not.

I mean, we had a great day, and I mean, I can really see myself falling for this girl. Do you think it's the fact that when the clock struck 1130, you said it's 1130 yoga time, and then you grabbed your yoga mat and started doing yoga in front of the TV? No, man. That didn't happen. Okay. You sound like the kind of guy that would do that.

Really? That's why I'm asking. All right, so it's none of that. Not at all. Any other possibilities? I don't know. I mean, I've been over it all in my head like a million times and like, I think it went pretty well, but like maybe it all went like terrible. And I just have no clue. I mean... Sometimes you think something went great and then you talk to the other person and they're like, no, that was one of the worst nights of my life. She might not have

just liked you. That's what I always say sometimes too. That's why people ghost. Alright, I'm going to play a song. Come back and then we'll call her and see if we can figure it out, okay? Alright, man. I appreciate it. Alright, hang on. We'll get your first date follow-up next. It's The Jubal Show. In the middle get your first date follow-up next. It's the Jubal Show. In the middle of your first date follow-up,

and if you're just joining us, Matthew is on the phone, and Matthew wants us to call a woman named Sharina. They met on Tinder, and for the first date, she came over to his house. He made some kind of fancy dinner that we still don't really know how to pronounce.

What was it called, Matthew? Cacio e Pepe. Yeah, right. It's good, and it's simple. Right. Some sort of made up dish. It sounds like Speedy Gonzalez or something. Cacio Pepe.

So he made that. And then they hung out for the evening. They kissed a little bit. She left, texted him when she got home. And that's the last he's heard from her. So we're going to get her on the phone now and see if we can find out what happened. Are you ready, Matthew? Yeah, man. As ready as I'll ever be.

Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Sharina, please? Yeah, this is her. Hello, Sharina. This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. Well, hello, everyone. Why are you calling me?

Calling you because we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up. It's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to call you and ask you why. So we got an email about you from Matthew. Oh, yeah. I remember him. Okay. Okay.

Can you tell us about Matthew? What do you think about Matthew? I mean, yeah. Well, how much do you guys know about the date? I know that he made you some kind of dish with a fancy name, steak carrapepe. Yeah, it was like a pasta dish. It was pretty good. I mean, I enjoyed it. Okay, yeah.

So he said he made you that, and then you guys watched a movie. There was a little bit of light snuggling. Yeah, yeah. He said that he got up at 1130 and did yoga in front of the TV, which you thought was kind of weird. Did that happen? I must have been in the bathroom during that part. I don't remember that. I made that up. That didn't happen.

Oh, okay. He says that you guys had like a little kiss at the end of the evening. You text him when you got home, and that's the last he heard from you. So he's wondering why, because I guess he really liked you. Oh, yeah. I mean, it was a it was a fine date and everything um we did like share a bottle of wine and like it was there's just sort of a weird red flag with it where i you know had one glass of wine and then i went to go

get another one and the bottle was already gone. And so he drank it when you were gone. Yeah. He like drank the whole bottle of wine by himself. Wait, are you sure that it was the same bottle? I'm pretty sure. Yeah. Was he drunk?

I mean, yeah, but I mean, we were watching a movie, so we weren't really able to talk a lot during the movie. So you couldn't tell if he was like slurring his words? Yeah, exactly. He's like, oh, great movie. So did it just turn you off that he drank a whole bottle of wine himself? Yeah, it was just sort of like a red flag. You must be like some sort of heavy drinker. And, you know, I just, I'm not into that.

So when you say you went to go get another bottle, like you left to go to the store to get another bottle of wine? No, I just like went to the kitchen to grab another. And he was like pounded it. Yeah, basically. Oh my God. That's impressive. Who pounds wine? That sounds like it would hurt.

Yeah, I mean, I'm sure someone can get pretty buzzed off of like one bottle of wine. So you think that he just drinks a little too much for you then? Yeah, basically. He had like one of those bar carts and it was filled with alcohol and you could tell that he definitely drinks pretty often and just has a lot of drinks. Well, we should probably ask him if he drinks a lot. Yeah, no, I'm okay. There's a reason I'm not calling him back.

All right, well, the good thing is you don't even have to call him back right now because we kind of did that for you. He's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. Wait, what? Yeah. Hey, yeah, no, I'm here. Oh, yeah, you sound hammered.

What happened? You do sound hammered. Did you drink a bottle of wine in the time we got her on the phone? Oh, no, man. No happened? You did sound hammered. Did you drink a bottle of wine in the time we got her on the phone? Oh, no. I just feel terrible. No, I'm not even a big drinker. I'm a nervous drinker. I was super nervous, and I didn't get to realize I drank as much wine as I did.

Everybody sounds drunk to me right now. I'm not drunk at all. I'm not drunk at all. I'm sorry. Like, you know, when I, when I get nervous, I guess I drink a little bit quicker and faster just out of nerves. And those bottles on my bar, those are for like people brought over for parties like a year ago. And it just been sitting there. Like, I guess I didn't realize I pounded the bottle of wine. I mean, I guess I noticed when I got up to use the bathroom that like I was a little tipsy, but I mean, you would know if you drank that much, right? So I just had a lot of like bad issues with people who

drink a lot and like continue to drink a lot. So, you know, I'm just really not interested in that. Sure, I guess I downed the first one, but we got that second bottle, and I hardly touched that. Once I realized I was tipsy, I cut back immediately. I mean, did you not notice that I barely had any of the other bottle we opened? No, I mean, I was pretty shocked

by the first bottle being gone. So you were just sitting there the whole time like, oh great, this guy's about to get hammered and pee on his coffee table. Yeah, something like that. I mean, the reality of it was the only reason I was

nervously drinking is because super attracted to you. I mean, you walked in the door, you looked better than your photos, of it was like the only reason I was like nervously drinking is because you know super attracted to you and I mean you walked in the door you looked better than your photos like we were having a great conversation and I mean everything about you and was just awesome and I guess I was so nervous that I was going to screw it up that I ended up just pounding wine but you were so nervous you're going to screw it up that you screwed it up. That's what it sounds like. Aw, I mean, that's really sweet.

I guess I never really thought of it like that. Well, now that you're thinking of it like that, would you like to go on another date with Matthew? We'll pay for it. Hey, just give me another chance. Let me show you that i'm not an alcoholic and i don't have a drinking problem the fun we had before the first bottle of wine was gone like that's the real me and just let let me at least just give me one more chance i. What do you think, Sharina? One more chance. Yeah, sure, okay. Oh, good. Nice. Congratulations, Matthew. Congrats.

Thanks, guys. Thank you. I promise you we'll have a great time and I won't get drunk. Well, I mean, I've heard that before, so let's not get crazy now. Alright, well, let us know how it goes. Enjoy your date and Matthew,

go have a drink to celebrate, all right? I'm not going to have any drinks, I promise. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new

season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new

season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines exclusive extended interviews and more now this is a second term we can all get behind listen to the daily show ears edition on the iheart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts welcome to decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.

With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections.

Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.