First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Meg & James - Must Love Dogs

Episode Date: December 17, 2024

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First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Meg is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named James. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Meg, how long has it been since you heard from James? Here's the deal. We live in the same building.

So I actually saw him. Yeah, I know. So I see him in the elevator all the time. So I actually saw him like this morning and it's a little bit awkward just because of all of this so but i haven't heard like he hasn't kind of followed up by a text or phone which is what i was kind of waiting for you know what i mean yeah so did you reach out to him other than seeing him in the elevator no well here's so at the end of our date which went really well by the way so that's yeah so i i was sort of expecting a call um and then this morning when i saw him i just kind of was like i have to say something because i haven't heard from him

so i just said like hey you know do you want to go for dinner sometime and he basically said i'll get back to you which i feel like is a bad sign yeah probably not the best yeah yeah exactly right but it was so great. Like we went to this trivia night that he had been telling me about because, you know, I had seen him in the elevator. We'd make small chat all the time. I actually have a tiny confession that I would kind of plan to be in the elevator when he was there. OK. Been there.

I was like, oh oh if I keep running into this guy so yeah so I keep like running into him and we were chatting and he had told me about this trivia night and then finally he asked me out which I was really psyched about and we just like had this great night we even went back to his place

afterwards and we had a great nightcap and I don't want to be not PG-13 but we had a pretty greatcap and um i i don't want to be not pg-13 but we had a pretty great kiss at the end of it so so anyway i that's why i was totally expecting to hear from him so i i don't know i don't know well did something happen did anything actually go down on the date that may have made it a little bit awkward or that you felt like was a turning point well here's obviously I have been analyzing this for days because it's all I can think of sure so yeah so the only thing so I

started to go okay maybe it was this because like my sister um she's going through a bit of a bad kind of breakup right now um she's a single mom so she's having a hard time she did call me a couple of times oh it might have been like three or four times when we were on the date. And I did answer because I just knew, you know, and at the time I wasn't thinking I was like, oh, I've got to answer. It's my sister. You know, she needs me. But I'm kind of wondering, did that kill the vibe? And does he think I'm rude, you know, for answering the phone so much?

And then I'm like, if he did that to me, yeah, would I be a little pissed? So I'm wondering if that's it. Did he say anything about it or did he seem annoyed by that? Okay, full disclosure. One of them may have come when we were kind of making out a little bit. So I guess he seemed a little annoyed when that got cut off, but he didn't say anything. It was just kind of, I kind of feel like, I guess, yeah,

that was kind of the end of the night sort of thing. So, but he didn't say anything. It was just kind of I kind of feel like I guess, yeah, that was kind of the end of the night sort of thing. So but he didn't say anything about it. Like he just was like, OK, you know, good night. Did he know who you were talking to? Like, did he know that was your sister that was calling? I mean, I told him it was. But now I'm thinking, like, did he believe me? Does he think that, you know, I was, you know, screwing away to talk to some other guy? Like, does he think I'm in a relationship or something something like now i'm not sure because that's what i told him but i don't know would i be suspicious probably to be honest so what was the last thing you texted him the last thing oh the last so the last thing i texted him was had a great time

you know thanks thanks for the thanks for the night because of course he paid for dinner and you know everything so i said thank you i hope to see you again and then that was after i left and then i didn't hear anything back from that and then saw him in the elevator this morning so that's where we're at that's awkward that's an awkward elevator ride all right we'll see if we can figure it out for you then we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay? Okay. All right. Thanks, guys. Okay. We'll play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted,

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basically said i'll get back to you which doesn't feel positive yeah all right and the reason you think you might be getting ghosted is because you kept answering your phone right i did my sister kept calling during the date and she's having a tough time so i I did keep answering my phone. Well, yeah, to be honest. All right. Well, are you ready for us to call him and see if I tell us why? Oh, God. Yeah, I think I'm ready. I'm nervous, but I'm ready. Here we go. Hello. Hi, may I speak to james please um yeah this is james james how you doing man my name is jubal i'm calling from a radio show it's called the jubal show hi james the show's here too i'm nina hi and i'm victoria how are you hey i'm good up? Not much. Have you heard the show before? Ever?

Does this have something to do with like first dates or something? Yes, actually it does. We do a segment on the show. It's called the first date follow up to where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. So we got an email about you from somebody. That's why we're calling. Oh my God. I actually have.

Oh my God. Thank you. You got an email about me? Oh my God. Yes. We got an email about you. Okay. Are you ghosting somebody?

Yeah. You have any idea who? Yeah. Honestly, I'm pretty sure I know who you're talking about. Yeah. Okay. Who do you think it is? Uh, is it Meg?

Yes, it is Meg. She also told us she saw you this morning in the elevator. That's awkward. Oh man. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yep.

We did. We're in each other in the elevator. We live in the same building, so it's kind of hard not to sometimes. Can you tell us why you're ghosting her? She said she really liked you a lot, and she's confused. Yeah, all right, here's the story. So, I mean, yeah, honestly, we did have a great date. I had a good time, and, you know, she's super nice, beautiful.

I think we did have some chemistry, but the real deal-breaker for me, and this might sound like a small thing, but it's big to me. She let it slip that she doesn't like dogs. And that is a huge deal breaker for me. Do you have a dog? No, I don't have a dog right now. We're not allowed to have dogs in our buildings, but I'm planning on buying a house someday, and I definitely am getting a dog. When I have my house, I grew up with dogs. I love dogs. It's just something I can't live without having in my life. Aw.

I wonder what she would say, though, if you were like, I need to have dogs. But what did she say? Did she say she absolutely hated dogs? She just didn't like them? She's allergic to them? Well, she was complaining about one of her friend friends dogs and just kind of complaining about the smell and the mess that it makes all the time and just kind of like was like you know complaining about this one dog but then like let it get to the point of like and that's because of

that i don't like dogs at all and that for me was like you're gonna judge all dogs based off this one dog that is not for me that's just not for me, man. So that's it, just that she doesn't like dogs? Honestly, yeah. It's a huge deal breaker for me. Sure, you could tolerate dogs, but I gotta have a dog and I can't foresee myself having a future with somebody who just can't live with a dog in their life.

I mean, everybody's got their thing. I've never met anybody that doesn't like dogs. Yeah, I haven't either. But also, I do want to say, like, devil's advocate. Like, it could be maybe her friend just really is bad, like, not great at taking care of her dog. Is that, like, bad to say? I can see that. But, you know, then you, like, you got to feel some pity for that dog and not just complain about it. You talk to your friend, right?

It was just a total deal breaker for me. You had to hear i don't know it's tough to tough to say the things that she was saying because it was it was a gut punch to me maybe we should just ask her because she is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh yeah hi jane hey yeah hey i forgot about this part. I can't believe this. Like, my God, if I had like 100 guesses, I would never guess this is why you're ghosting me. Listen, it's just like, this is why I didn't want to bring it up. It feels like a little thing to a lot of people, but it's a big thing to me. It's a big part of my life.

And, you know, I really did feel like we had some chemistry and, you know, but just it's a big part of my life and you know i really did feel like we had some chemistry and you know and but but just it's a hard no for me that it's a real deal breaker but oh my god we did i listen i agree i think we had like amazing chemistry including on that night like the build-up to our first date all that stuff and i i guess i'm just like okay what if it was like i'm okay i could learn to be okay around dogs like I just wouldn't like pet them if if I was around a dog I could be okay with dogs not that I think they're evil I just don't like them they're like they I do think they're messy and there's always dog hair everywhere and like whatever but I mean does that change this is

what I'm talking about this This is a no from me. Absolutely not. You can't even get through a sentence without saying something negative. I mean, I guess, but it could be worse. I just feel like there's so many worse things. It's not like I'm a murderer or a stalker. Those are real reasons to not be with somebody. I just feel like...

I don't know. Someone who doesn't like dogs could be a murderer um okay so i just feel like this is such i mean is that a thing like where you like don't trust people who don't like people say that and i'm like what does that even mean like you don't trust people who don't like dogs like or you absolutely don't trust people who don't like dogs that is a hard line absolutely don't try you know don't like dogs. That is a hard line. Absolutely don't. I, you know, I was thinking it might've been fun for a one night stand, which is why I let it get as far as it did, but I'm kind of done at this point.

It's a hard no for me. Wow. Okay. And now knowing that you were just like hanging on for one night stand starts to make it feel like a no for me too. So that was a little, a little much to much to hear so what do i and now if this is great we live in like what am i supposed to do when i see you in the elevator we can ignore all of this and well i don't know you know what time i ride the elevator every day maybe you can avoid

getting in the elevator with me james would you like to go on another day with meg we'll pay for it no thank you. Okay. I mean, I thought, yeah, if, I mean, we could get together and talk it out in person and not like this. No, thanks. I do not want to be murdered. What? Well. All right.

Well. This took a turn. I guess you got your answer, Meg. And James, thank you. Thank you for telling us. Yeah. Thanks. Thanks a lot, guys.

I really do like the show. Thanks. Thank you. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, thanks. Thanks a lot, guys. I really do like the show. Thanks. Thank you. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

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