First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Morgan & Ryan - Do I Have Something in my Teeth?
Episode Date: July 16, 2025In this episode of First Date Follow Up, Ryan wants to know why Morgan ghosted him after what he thought was a perfect night. They had chemistry, a kiss, and pasta—so what went wrong? We call Mo...rgan to uncover the unexpected dealbreaker that left Ryan stunned. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Ryan is on the phone today for our first date follow-up
and he's getting ghosted by Morgan.
So in a few minutes we'll call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him a second date.
But first, Ryan, how long has it been
since you heard from Morgan?
Um, not long, about six days,
but definitely like long enough to answer a text
that just says like, hey, I had fun with you, you know?
Yeah.
Yeah. Did you try to reach out to her a couple times or, I had fun with you. You know? Yeah.
Did you try to reach out to her a couple of times or was that the only one you left it
there?
Um, no, I just said like, Hey, I had a really good time and, uh, you know, let's get together
next week.
We had talked, we talked at the end of, you know, after dinner, uh, last week.
So I don't know, just kind of weird.
That's all.
Tell us about the date. That's all. Okay.
Tell us about the day.
Well, it was nice.
It was really nice.
It was actually like, um, it's like we kind of skipped over any kind of like an awkward
phase.
It just, we just sort of clicked.
We went to this little, uh, Italian restaurant, very, very classic, you know, holding the
wall, got the exposed brick, just a really nice, nice little spot.
It was, it was spot. It was cool.
It was chill.
I love those places.
Yeah.
It was kind of, kind of sleepy and uh, uh, split a bottle of red, ordered too much pasta
and um, it was nice, you know, at the end we kissed and it was like real.
It was like a real, it was a real kiss.
It wasn't like, you know, see you later. It was, it was like a real it was a real kiss it wasn't like you know see you later
it was it was like there's something here at least i thought there was okay walk us
in like walk us through how that happened did you lean in and grab her cheek did she
lean in and you just turned your head like how did it go down i walked her i walked her
back to her car and um you know it just we locked eyes and it just felt natural
Okay. Okay. Well, why do you think you're getting ghosted then?
I'm not sure. I mean
Like I said things things seems cool. I mean the only thing I can think is
Cool, I mean, the only thing I can think is this place, the Italian place, it's, they're like known for their bread.
And apparently she, she had been there before, was obsessed with the bread.
They bring it like hot and fresh right out of the oven.
And so she was telling me a story and it was kind of funny.
And I was taking a sip of my water and I like laughed and I kind of I hit the bread but
it was like it was whatever it's only a few drops or you know I it seemed like she had
looked past it but maybe it's the bread I don't know.
And you didn't get her new bread? Maybe that's why.
No we got we got we there was a lot there was more bread obviously but yeah I'm just
trying to think about anything
that could have gone wrong or anything that would have been weird or off or anything like
that.
Yeah.
Spitting on bread you're excited to eat is kind of like, oops.
Okay.
And that's the only thing you can think of?
Yeah.
Did she say she wanted to see you again?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Like I said, you know, there was a vibe.
It was, it was cool. Like, like I said, at the end there, there was, you know,
there was a real kiss.
Like I had to like lean against the parking meter afterward,
just to.
Was it bad?
Like I know that you, I don't know.
Like, you know that it was nice.
I'm just wondering like, if there was some kind of moment,
like did your teeth touch?
Are you, are you a little slobbery?
Nothing crazy like that, no.
Okay, just had to check the pulse.
Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date if you still want one, okay?
Okay, cool, thanks guys.
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Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date if he still wants one.
But before we do that, Ryan, why don't you break down your situation for us real quick?
I went out with this with this girl Morgan and took her to dinner.
We had a really good time.
I accidentally spit on her bread.
I hope that has nothing to do with this.
And I don't know, we got along really, really well.
And I walked her back to her car and we kissed and then nothing crickets,
you know, just
bread is not a euphemism.
All right, Ryan, are you ready for us to call her? Uh, yeah, yeah, let's,
let's get her on the line. I'm, I'm, I'm curious.
I want to see what's going on. Okay, here we go
Hello, hi, miss speak to Morgan, please
She hey Morgan. How are you? This is a radio show. It's called the Jubal show.. Hi Morgan. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria My name is Jubal. How are you?
Well, hi, there's a lot of you
Yeah, have you ever listened to the show before I?
Feel like I shouldn't say no
All right, well
Be honest. All right.
Well, you.
I listen to a lot of podcasts.
Okay.
We'll have one of those.
Yeah.
We'll check it out sometime.
Yeah.
But we're calling you today because we actually got an email about you.
Okay.
So we do a segment on the show.
It's called the first date follow up.
That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then you ghost them, that person
can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
Is there anybody that you're ghosting that you think would email us?
I...
Yeah, I think so.
I mean, I'm shocked that it would be so important that they would call into radio stations.
I can think of them.
That's flattering, Morgan.
Thank you.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I'm talking about Ryan.
Okay. Morgan. Thank you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm talking about Ryan.
Mm.
Okay. Mm-hmm. Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting Ryan?
Yeah, uh, sure, why not? Um, okay, so Ryan and I went on a date. It was good. It was a good date. We had a great time and I decided I didn't want to see him again and I don't feel bad
about it.
So that's like, I can tell you why if you want.
Yeah, that's what we want to know.
Got it.
Got it.
Got it.
Got it.
Sorry.
Okay.
So I got home, I looked in the mirror and I realized I had a huge piece of lettuce in
my face, teeth, like fully in the front
of my teeth and he said nothing.
And that's the deal breaker for me.
Okay.
So why is that a deal breaker?
I mean, I can see how it's kind of embarrassing and it's not awesome to see when you get home
from a date, but why is that something that you're just calling it good on?
Oh, can you imagine like we're talking for hours, we're flirting.
I'm smiling at him and telling him stories or gazing into each other's eyes
across a candlelit table and the whole time I have lettuce in my teeth and he
didn't tell me like, like to me that's just like not the kind of person I hang
out with. I want to hang out with someone who's going to tell me I have
lettuce in my teeth.
What if he didn't see it?
Then he's blind.
That's not possible.
And if and if he really, really didn't, then he's not a servant.
And I still don't want to deal with someone like that.
But I find it really hard to believe he didn't see it.
I know it sounds silly, but I get you, girl.
I get like that in the studio sometimes when I notice I have food in my teeth
and Jubal and Victoria didn't tell me. Hey, man, we didn't see that a lot of times. I get like that in the studio sometimes when I notice I have food in my teeth in jubilant Victoria didn't tell me
Hey Morgan, that's right. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you by the way. Hey
I'm sorry. This is about
lettuce in your teeth
Yeah Well, so but hold on This is about lettuce in your teeth? Yeah.
Oh my, well, so, but hold on.
You're telling me your life story.
I want to be really clear.
It's not a random flip up,
that's a violation of my trust.
It indicates who you are as a person.
Okay, but you're like,
bearing your soul to me.
I'm supposed to stop you and be like,
hey, your mouth looks like a compost bin.
Oh gosh. So good. Yes, because one, your mouth looks like a compost bin. Oh, gosh.
Yes, because one, if you're not grossed out by that problem,
and two, yes, you're supposed to have someone's back
so they don't make a fool of themselves.
What else would you not tell me?
I barely know that it's okay.
I go, what else are you keeping from me?
I don't want to move forward.
This is like some sort of a test or something
Yeah
No, yeah
Are you saying you're saying you knew you had food in your teeth and and waiting for me to say something?
That's a perfect test. The real ones will say something. They care enough to say something. They're not trying to be nice
I don't want them to be nice to me. I want them to be real with me. You put the food in your teeth on purpose
Yeah, yeah
That is first of all that is so manipulative I don't really even know what to say. That's, you know what?
I think it's perfect.
Look, let me just remind you,
we're talking about this on the radio show.
So I feel like my assessment of you is correct.
I cannot believe this is happening.
Second of all, I do this on every date
and it hasn't failed me.
You know what?
I put a little bit of, like a little bit of something, deliberately leave it there. If they call it hasn't failed me. You know what? I put a little bit of like a leaf, a little bit of something.
Deliberately leave it there.
If they call it out, they pass.
And if you let me walk around, you can like, hey, Morgan,
your teeth look like a salad bar.
We'd be going out.
Yeah, I feel like we'd be planning we can get away and say,
Wow, I think you really seriously need therapy and a toothpick.
I feel like it's a reflection of your character so you can say that I'm insane.
But knowing that you left me like that for hours, it feels like the whole thing was fake
and it's very embarrassing for me.
Cool. Well next time I'll carry dental floss
and one of those little bibs they give you when you're getting your teeth cleaned.
Yeah there's not going to be a next time because you didn't it's not about carrying dental floss
it's about being honest to my face. Are you sure Morgan do you want another day with Ryan? We'll pay for it. No, no.
Honestly, I think, I think I'm good because you're telling me you're running
psychological experiments on the menu. Go to dinner with,
uh, your, I'm good. This is, but thanks. I'm glad we got to the bottom of this.
It's a new kind of test.
I would never do that to you. I would have your back so you can see it as a manipulation, but it's, it's sort of like
a, it's a rite of passage.
It tells me what I need to know.
I'm not a manipulative person in general, so you can tell you whatever you want.
You're fake.
You're fake with me.
Oh.
All right.
Well, good luck, guys.
Sorry, Ryan and Morgan, thank you very much.
Thank you.
Thanks a lot.
Thank you.
Ha ha ha.
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