First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Mya & Eddie - Superman

Episode Date: December 6, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Damon is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Hazel. So we're going to call her in a few minutes and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting her, and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But first, Damon, what's up, man? How long has it been since you heard from Hazel?

It's been a week. It's been almost like six days since I heard from her. Okay. Man, Hazel, we met on Instagram. One of her paintings came up on my For You page and I slid in her DMs. Good for you, David. You know, I saw the paintings

and that one on her page saw her. She's a very beautiful woman, so I slid in her DMs and acquired about a few paintings for an event that I was going to have.

You sent her DMs, but you didn't tell her straight up it was because you thought she was pretty. Nah, you know, I wanted to see if she would respond first. So, you know, I kind of just asked for a couple of pictures, some paintings to hold at my event, you know, just for some aesthetics. But unfortunately, the event never happened. But that didn't stop me. You know, it didn't stop me from asking her out. You had a legit event, though. You didn't make up an event just to talk to her?

Yeah, no, it just didn't happen. It wasn't able to happen because of scheduling a conflict with the building. Okay. So I had to cancel it. After canceling it, you you know i still reached out to hazel and see if she wanted to go out and she agreed so we went to she mentioned something about a painting step she wanted to like she said she wanted to see how how i could handle a paintbrush. Ow. But we ended up going to get pizza next door through the painting set, and there it was a great evening.

We was touching, laughing, joking, and I think towards the end the pizza was making us sick. So I called up Uber to get her home. We kissed. We, you know, laughed. She said she had a great time with me. I text her. And I haven't heard nothing back in six days, man.

So I'm kind of just like, wow. And I was just trying to see why she ghosted me, though. Yeah. I think it might have been because, you know, I got a little anger issue. And the young man at the pizza shop, I kind of had to yell at him. Why? Because, you know, he just couldn't get the order right. And so I got a little frustrated and kind of yelled at him.

I hope that Hazel didn't see that. When you say kind of yelled at him, like how big was the yelling? I popped off a little bit. I popped off a little bit. I popped off a little bit on him. I told him to get his act together. It was only pizza that he was taking the order for. So, you know, but, you know, I kind of lost. And I feel like that might be the reason because I kind of lost my last relationship because of that.

That's kind of alarming, especially on a first date. I think he was high. You know, lazy eyes, eyes was red, you know, looked sleepy. So I'm like, you know, I get the benefit of the doubt, though, because I'm like, okay, it's 10 o'clock at night. Probably was tired, but

I don't know, you know, but he probably was high. Okay. I mean, how did she react after you, you know, opt off? Yeah. Well, I don't, I don't know if she really seen it because we sat down right after and ate. Like I say, the night ended great. We kissed after she, before she got her Uber, she said she had a great time.

And like I said, I texted her and I haven't heard nothing for six days now. Okay. Definitely not something that I would think that not heard from a person for six days after a night like that i mean she could have been i really thought this was the one i mean she could have been buzzed she could have needed the pizza to absorb it she could have just wanted to get out of there i hope not for your sake but yeah i mean well we'll see man we'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us and maybe get you another date okay okay man great all right man play a song come back get your first date follow up next hey everyone it's katie cour Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted, but turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people

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season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Damon is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Hazel. He said that he had a great date with her and he doesn't know why. So we're about to call her in a second, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Damon, why don't you catch us up on your date with Hazel? Yeah, man. So the date was great.

I met Hazel on Instagram. I saw my For You page, reached out to her about some paint-ins for an event that never really happened for me. But we still ended up going out to a paint-in ship and went and got some pizza. The night was going great. You know, I had to pop off a little bit, got a little angry at the waiter for, you know, he seemed, you know, inebriated. So, you know, it was really frustrating. But like I say, the date ended very well.

We embraced. We gave each other a kiss and, you know, ordered an Uber and made sure she got home safely. But I just haven't heard from her in six days. Okay, man. Well, we're going to call her right now. See if she'll tell us. Okay. You ready?

Yes, sir. All right. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Hazel, please? Yeah, this is she. Hey, Hazel, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show.

It's called The Jubal Show. Gang's all here, Hazel. My name's Neazel. What? My name's Nina, also on this show. And I'm Victoria. What's going on? Well, we do a thing on our show.

It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from a dude named Damon. Oh, yeah. This is like my worst nightmare right now, you guys. I swear I've been thinking about this for days and days. The date is your worst nightmare talking to us.

No, this, no. First of all, I feel terrible. I really didn't mean to, like, let it go on for so long. I guess it has been almost a week now. I guess it is ghosting. I was going to say, like, that seems like too strong of a term. But honestly, all I've been trying to do is kind of like work my own feelings out about this, I guess. Okay.

I'm getting nervous. Like, what happened? Yeah. Okay, so I have a thing. It's called misophonia. Do you guys know? It's called what? Misophonia.

It's the sensitivity to sounds. Okay. And like auditory stimuli um and it is a lot of times triggered by things that most people would consider normal like chewing i did have a wonderful wonderful time with with damon and we have definitely a lot of chemistry. I was so excited to meet him and find out that he was so much everything I had sort of hoped he was. And then also things I didn't even think to hope for. And when it became time to actually, you know, sit down and have dinner. Oh, my God, the chewing.

Like, I have a pretty good handle on, you know, getting ready to expect, like, okay, there's going to be human chewing sounds. I'm going to be okay. But, oh, you guys, it was next level. His chewing is too loud for you? Is it next level for you or for anybody? No, it's for anybody. Because I understand my predisposition to feel like oh my god this is terrible but it was like it became not just auditory and also visual because there was so much

like open and and down chomping like uh I could not I didn't even know how to tell him he's like taking tiny bites and then just chewing them so big and so much and it's so splashy i couldn't i could not even like focus anymore and it ruined the whole thing for me and i felt so embarrassed i was like by the time it had gone on for so long i'm like i can't tell him this now i usually don't tell people about this like right away because I don't want them to feel self-conscious. And it's something that I have a pretty good hold on. Usually I'll bring it up after a few dates or whatever.

But I just I've never had like such an intense problem like this. And it just felt too late to tell him. Oh, I feel awful. And I've been trying to figure out, like, how do I address this with him? How do you talk to somebody about this after it's already happened? I feel awful. And I've been trying to figure out, like, how do I address this with him? How do you talk to somebody about this after it's already happened? I regret it. I feel I have, like, a problem with, I don't know, confrontation or, and it didn't have to be confrontation, right? I just needed to be direct.

But I, it's just like, I don't know what happened so fast. And I couldn't think of a way. I was having a reaction. And I was afraid that in the middle of a reaction, I wasn't going to be able to say it in a way that was thoughtful disposed to having a reaction and I was afraid that in the middle of a reaction I wasn't going to be able to say it in a way that was thoughtful enough or kind enough and also just how do you tell someone that? Yeah I don't I don't know how

you would tell somebody that especially in a thoughtful way because it's just like bro shoot with your mouth closed. What are you doing with your tiny little mouth? This sounds so stupid and I can't I feel so embarrassed that you guys are like even involved in it now and that i haven't just dealt with this like an adult on my own but i honestly this has just never happened to me before damon do you know that you chew that loud wow wow uh i i you know my mom used to yell at me all the time about the way I ate. I just thought she was picking on me. No one else ever said anything to me about it.

Okay, wait. He's on the phone. You have him on the phone. Yes, that's Damon. He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Okay, wow. I'm really sorry, Damon. Hi. I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to talk to you about this. How you doing, Hazel? In my defense, the pizza was really good, wasn't it?

It was really good. It was worth chewing loud for. Wow. I do. I do. However, I feel very embarrassed. It's something I should have listened to my mom tell me a long time ago. Learn how to chew with your mouth closed.

But, you know, but I would really love a second chance with you. You know, just to be able to go out with you and show you that, you know, I'm not this obnoxious, you know, chomping cookie monster, eating with his mouth open, you know, letting food run everywhere. That's something that, you know, I definitely will work on

because it's, you know, I want my friend back. You know, I want to be able to see how you're doing. Hazel, would you like to go on another date with Damon? We'll pay for it. Guys, I feel so bad. But also, thank you. I really needed to just say this.

I can't even tell you, like, how sick I felt to realize what was going on. And then now just to be like, I can't believe it could have been over this easily. Yeah, I definitely want to go on a second date. I had such a great time. I really, really did. And in the future, well, now that I know, Damon, that you can

be so open to this feedback, I guess I just feel so much more comfortable and I won't let it get to this point anymore. It's going to get picked up. Good. Well, you know what? Thank you.

Thank you, Hayley. Can't wait to go out with you again. I'm actually about to go get on YouTube right now and look at a couple of videos of mice eating and see how those guys do it. That's why. You're like a mouse. I definitely don't want this to happen to me.

All right. So congratulations. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears

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The Happiness Lab's how-to season starts January 1st. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer. If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast.

Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.