First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Nicholas & Loren - Clumsy or Gummy?

Episode Date: November 25, 2024

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and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lauren. So we're going to call her in a little bit and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Nicholas, how long has it been since you heard from Lauren? Hey, guys. Probably like five days or so. But how often did you guys communicate leading up to that? What do you mean?

Like leading up to being ghosted? I guess I mean leading up to the date. Was it like you matched somewhere and you decided to go directly on a date or were you talking for a little while before that so we met at a like a wine charity event we were both there for work and um you know we bumped into each other um we're looking at some of the items that were going for like a silent auction and there were just like some crazy stuff that were coming for options so So we just, you know, went through, made fun of some of the items together

and stuff like that, weird items. So that's how you met. That sounds fun though. Yeah. Yeah, it was pretty cool, you know? I mean, we, you know, we exchanged numbers and just decided to go to dinner for our first real date together.

So I took her to like a fancy pizza place, got something to eat. We laughed, you know, we talked about our jobs, pets, you know, where we want to go, like our dream vacations, you know, and what we're looking for in a partner. It was really easy. Did your wants and stuff line up? Yeah, I mean, it sounded like we were on the same page. I mean, she spent the

entire time laughing. We had a really good date. So, I mean, I was a little bit nervous, actually, on the date, so I was a little bit fidgety. I spilled water on myself. When the first pizza came, I knocked on the floor.

Oh, really? I was mortified. You didn't pick up the pizza and eat it after fall. Ew. No, no, but, but, you know, she, she left and, you know, she left and it was, um, so it didn't seem like it was that big of a deal. Um, you know, we got another bottle of wine and I could like, none of it happened. So, um, it seemed like everything went well.

That's a nice way to recover from that honestly been there i've definitely spilled all over myself more than once so it's okay how did everything end i think it went it ended well i mean um you know when when she was leaving we kissed each other in the cheek and she said she had a great time and um you know i put her in an uber and she had a big smile on her face so i felt like it went really well and did you guys talk at all after the date no that's it not all i've i've called her twice texted her nothing why do you think she's ghosting you i have no clue maybe the pizza thing maybe she thought I was like a nervous person.

Okay. But other than that, you can't think of anything? No. I mean, to me, everything went well. The only thing to think of is like I said, I was really nervous and I came off a little bit fidgety and stuff, but I don't think anything else. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. OK? Awesome. Thanks, guys. All right. Play a song. Come back. Get your first day follow up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight.

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I went over how we met at a wine charity event. But after that, we went on our first real date, went to this really fancy pizza place. Everything went well. I mean, I was a little bit nervous. I spilled the first pizza, but everything ended really well. Put her in an Uber and, you know, we gave each other a kiss on the cheek and she had a really big smile on her face. So I assume everything went well. Put her in an Uber with a big smile on her face.

Sounds like a great way to end the day. Yeah, it does. All right. Well, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, please. Okay, it does. All right. Well, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, please. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak

to Lauren, please? This is her. Hello, Lauren. My name is Jubal and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Lauren. Whole show's here. My name's Nina. Hi, and I speak to Lauren, please? This is her. Hello, Lauren. My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Lauren. Whole show's here.

My name's Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you? Hi. Good, good. How are you guys? Good. Do you listen to the show?

Of course. Oh, I guess I should have doubted. Thank you. Thanks. Well, have you ever heard a first-day follow-up before then? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. What if I told you you were about to be the star of one? Okay.

Yay. We got an email about you from someone that you're ghosting. I'm not ghosting anyone. Is there anybody that you went out on a date with that you're not calling back or not talking to? Well, I mean, I'm on the apps and stuff like that. So I have gone on a couple of dates recently, yes. Have you gone on a date with a dude named Nicholas? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Well, Nicholas emailed us because he says you're ghosting him. Well, I'm not ghosting him. I mean, it was one date. So it's not like serious commitment or anything like that. It was literally one date. Okay, but you are not talking to him on purpose. Yeah, kind of, but it's not quite like that because there just wasn't really anything

that would warrant us for a second date, you know? That's not what he thinks. Well, I mean, he's a really sweet guy. Don't get me wrong. I mean, we went to an's a really sweet guy. Don't get me wrong. I mean, we, we went to an event, we had a good time. Um, but that's like, that's not really, first of all, that was not a date. That was something that we both just happened to be at. So let's correct that as being a date. We did go to a pizza place and yes, that was a date, but honestly, I mean, it was one day, it was fun. It it was fine but i wasn't like oh my gosh i

can't wait to go on another date with nicholas like i have to have him in my life type thing okay okay anything happen well no i mean like i said he was really sweet he definitely was super nervous and it was cute it was definitely cute but he, and I don't even care. Like he did spill some stuff. Like he spilled his drink. He spilled the pizza. I was like, okay, that's like kind of cute and funny, but it wasn't somebody that was like knocking it out of the park for me or anything like that. And we had wine. So that's all, you know, that makes it super fun too. But other than that, I mean, yeah yeah we had some good conversations but there are conversations you have on a first date with everyone right like okay where do you want to

go on vacation i want to go to ireland yes do you have any pets yes my dog is named junior bored by him oh i wouldn't say bored but he wasn't um up to my level i guess that makes me sound really snotty that That sounds worse than bored. I was just going to say there's no spark, but if you want to say not on your level, that's your choice. Well, no, he's just like, I don't think that him and I would have like a fun time together all the time. Okay. Just no chemistry. Do you guys see what I'm saying?

Yes. Okay. Well. That sounds way better, by the way. Thanks for telling us. Appreciate that. Yeah, absolutely.

And Nicholas is on the phone and has been listening and wants to talk to you. I should tell you that. Hey Lauren. That's fine. Hey, how are you? I'm good. I was just,

I don't know. To me, it just seemed like you had a really good time on the date. I mean, you were smiling the whole time and everything seemed like it was going really well. Well, yeah, I mean, I was smiling. First of all, I'm a smiley person anyway. And the other thing is like we were drinking wine.

I had a couple gummies. So I was just, I was being me. You know, I was just, I was living my best life. That always helps a little bit, I would imagine. So why did you say that we should do it again then well that's just what people say it's like the polite thing like it's like the same thing when i run into an acquaintance acquaintance oh we should hang out sometime yeah i'm probably not gonna hang out with them we're just acquaintances it's just something you say oh yeah we should go

out again yeah okay sure whatever i get it you guys feel like you're judging me i'm not i'm just listening you guys talk yeah i mean well like when you go on a date you know how like when i go on a date i like to have a little bit of something to make the date fun and kind of get me through it because you know when you're on these apps and you're going on so many dates you just need to like you know chill so that's why i might have seemed a little extra flirty or a little extra smiley because I just had a little courage, you know, a little, little gummy courage, you know, and I wanted to be myself as much as possible and not be super nervous, which he obviously was. Honestly, you should probably take a gummy or two before going on dates.

Okay. Am I right? Am I right? I get it. I mean mean it doesn't really feel like you're being yourself if you got to take something you know to switch you out of the mental phase of your so it doesn't sound like you're being yourself if you're taking a gummy but it's cool i get it you know you you do whatever you want but i'm not into drugs so it's not drugs it's a gummy it's like chill pill have you eaten some of them right now? She's going to watch you after this phone call. I wish. Oh, my gosh.

I probably would be a lot cooler at work if I did. Lauren, would you like to go out with Nicholas on another date? We'll pay for it. No, not really. Okay. Sorry, Nicholas. To be honest with you, he's a little too uptight. Like, he's super sweet, but he's just different.

His world is different than my world. That's probably a good thing for you then, Nicholas, to know that your worlds are different so you can find somebody in your world. Sure, that's fine. I don't want to go with a drug addict anyway. I'm not a freaking drug addict. Okay, so I like to have some gummies whenever I'm going on dates. Like, that's not that big of a deal. Alright, cool. I mean,

that's your thing. Whatever. It is my thing. See, that's what I'm saying, you guys. He's just kind of boring. It's cool. It just sounds like you guys are different. Yeah. It's alright. It's very different. But, thank you guys are different. Yeah. It's all right. It's very different. But thank you for taking the time to explain that to us.

And Nicholas, thank you for doing the first day follow-up. Best of luck on your next date. Appreciate it, guys. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha B

and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines exclusive extended interviews and more now this is a second

term we can all get behind listen to the daily show ears edition on the iheart radio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts. new set of guests are seven questions, including Jane Lynch, Delaney Rowe, and Cord Jefferson. Listen to mini questions on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Seven questions, limitless answers. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships

and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, And join in the conversation. to figure out how artificial intelligence is changing the business world and our lives. So each week on Big Technology, I bring on key actors from companies building AI tech, asking where this is all going. They come from places like NVIDIA, Microsoft, Amazon, and plenty more. So if you want to be smart with your wallet, your career choices,

and at dinner parties, listen to Big Technology Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.