First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Nicole & Kyle - Dating a Blogger

Episode Date: February 6, 2024

Not all jobs are created equal... and not all dates are good for social media. Find out why Kyle is upsetty-pants in this First Date Follow Up ➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Nicole is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. She's getting ghosted by a date she went on with a dude named Kyle. Nicole, thanks for coming on

the show and agreeing to do this. Before we get into your date and stuff, how long has it been since you heard from Kyle? It's been about a week. I haven't heard from him. I'm thinking, I don't know if maybe he lost my number or maybe it was something that like I said during the date but I'm afraid that I am getting ghosted so let's go backwards and can you tell us about your date yeah it was um this really nice dinner it was an Italian place it was like up on a rooftop it was really neat and like there's a great view um the food was really yummy I felt like the conversation was good and um we even talked about like how we might go on like a second date to this like speakeasy that i know of and um like he's really interested and now it's just like i i didn't hear anything back tell us more about the

date was there anything awkward that happened or something and that could have made him not want to go on another date with you? I mean, he seemed a little just quiet at times. I mean, maybe I was just talking too much or taking too many pictures or something. You're on a rooftop. That's a pass. Right. I just don't understand. Like, I just, I thought we had a good time. I mean, he was a little shy, but it seemed like we were, we had setting up plans for to see each other again. Was he involved in the setting up of the plans or was it kind of more just a like a, okay,

yeah, kind of a thing? Well, now that I think about it, maybe it was more like an okay, yeah. Did you guys kiss or have any type of physical interaction? Yeah. I mean, like he, he kissed me tonight. It was like a brief little like peck on the lips. It wasn't anything like super intimate, but the conversation flowed pretty good. Like I found out that he's also like the youngest child in his family.

So we bonded over that. We bonded over that we bonded over that and the the fact that we both were the babies and kind of got our our own way he he enjoyed his beer and his lasagna that they made and I had chicken parm and and some wine it was like just like the food was flowing the conversation was flowing we like the same music uh it just it just really seemed like we were vibing together and then it's just like an awful feeling to get ghosted you know after having such a good time i forget did you say where you met him we met on a tinder and on tinder on tinder okay so you think maybe he was just trying to hook up and you didn't hook up so that's why that that could be i mean i i don't like to put out on the first date so i

just i wanted to keep it simple i thought it was nice that it was just like a cute little peck on the cheek and there of course there was like flirty banter back and forth like i'd like brush brush his arm and like you know like he was just like the vibes were there so it's just I don't get it. Did he try to hook up with you other than the kiss? No that was it it was like he even was the one that kind of like ended the kiss like I was

like kind of just like standing there still like kind of wanting more but also at the same time wanting to play hard to get. Sure sure. Okay. So what was the last thing he said to you then? Like right before you guys were like, bye. He said that he'd be in touch and that I'd hear from him. So that's rude. All right.

Yeah. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and ask him why he's ghosting you. And then maybe get you another date if you want another one. Okay. Okay, great. Thank you. Yep.

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So we're about to call him, see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her, and maybe get her another date. Nicole, before we give him a phone call, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Kyle? So Kyle and I went to this Italian restaurant on top of a rooftop with a great view. We had really good food, good drinks, great conversation. And then he told me he'd be in touch with me and he never got in touch. All right. Well, are you ready to give him a call and see if we can figure it out? Yeah, absolutely. All right. Here we go. I'm going to dial his number right now.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Kyle, please? This is Kyle. Kyle! This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. I'm not sure if you've heard of it. It's going to get weirder because there's a lot of people

on the phone right now. I'm Nina on the show also. Hi, and I'm Victoria. So there's three of us on the phone with you right now. We're talking to Kyle. What's up, Kyle? This is the radio. Yep. I've heard of the show, but okay.

Did I win a contest? What happened? So we do a segment called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go on a date with someone and you ghost them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why. You recently went out with a girl named Nicole. I'm assuming it's because I didn't call her back. Is that why you guys are calling me? Yeah, she really liked you and she thought the date was great and she wants to know why you're ghosting her. I'm surprised she even knows what i look like uh yeah she she spent the whole time on her

phone uh you know it didn't keep her from talking she still talked but she was just always looking down at her phone and taking pictures of of where we were and taking pictures of the view and taking pictures of her food and you know oh i'm this is so great i'm gonna post in this and look at that oh man this is so well you know and i tried to talk to her about things like you know oh i'm this is so great i'm gonna post in this and look at that oh man this is so well you know and i tried to talk to her about things like you know uh found out that you know she's an only child i tried to or not that not the old only child but the youngest like me and and uh and and tried to talk to her about stuff but it always went back to that phone and whatever the heck she was posting everywhere you felt like she wasn't interested at all

and she was just hanging out on her phone the whole time? Yeah, like, you know, I tried to talk to her about normal things, about music and, you know, family and stuff, but it always went right back to, oh, the view is amazing. Let me get a picture of this. Oh, I've got to post it here and so on. And then she starts ordering like all the expensive drinks and she ordered more than one appetizer which is fine i've got a job i don't

mind spending money i have no problem spending money but i felt like she was just ordering it to take pictures of it and post it on social media you know like she had like two bites of each appetizer but just made sure to take pictures of it first and post it and i'm like then she's telling me about oh i've got this other place i like to go to and and you know some little place and we could go there next and i'm like yeah okay sure i'm not saying you're lying kyle but like are you sure you're not being overly dramatic and sensitive to like a couple pictures you know how some people do that like my mom does that like if i take a picture somewhere she's like oh you're on the phone the whole time like it was two minutes so there's the difference between just taking some pictures and then posting them later and still looking at the person you're dining with and

engaging in conversation with them versus taking pictures and then looking down at your phone and doing you know whatever she's doing and posting it wherever she's you want to take some pictures and stuff and then do it later? That's great. But she didn't engage with me at all. And I just eventually just kind of turned off at the end. That would be a turnoff for me if someone wouldn't look away from their phone the whole time during a date.

Me too, I'd probably have a hard time not saying anything at all. Well, thanks for being honest with us, man. Appreciate that. Yeah, no problem. And now I need to being honest with us man appreciate that yeah no problem and now I need to be honest with you because Nicole is actually on the phone

this time on it like to talk on it listening and she wants to talk to you I definitely didn't want to contact her

oh well hi Kyle hello I mean like I'm a really great multi-pastmaster I was listening to like everything you said I don't understand why you thought I was being excessive on the phone I just like to blog like my daily life I like to have conversations with people that I take out to dinner and look them in the face and be in the moment and connect and not, you know, sit and watch them blog, I guess. I mean, I just, I feel like I like to be in touch with like the internet, like, and like

show them like how great of a time I'm having. Like, I thought you were having a great time too. We, I mean, we were still talking even though my phone was involved. Right. Even though you weren't looking at me, you were looking at the phone. I like to actually engage with other human beings. I mean, i get the internet i get social media i get blogging i get all that but we're on a first date let's talk to each other that's kind of a fair request yeah like i mean you took me to this amazing rooftop dinner with like a beautiful view how

could you not expect me to want to take pictures and post them and share them with my friends and stuff like i it's like it was an awesome view all right noted note to self take her to burger king next time right on no no sweat we'll hit the drive-thru and eat in the car in the parking lot there you go and then we can talk to each other that sounds like a plan then you're really gonna make the car in the parking lot. There you go. And then we can talk to each other. That sounds like a plan. Then you're really going to make the blog for the worst date ever. My bad. Yeah, actually, you know what? I might just blog about this. I'm shocked you're not

doing it right now. I can't believe that you're not doing it as we speak. Because you did it the whole time we were together. You don't even know how many followers I have i a lot do and i'm gonna blow this up like this is gonna go viral oh can't can't wait looking forward to it yep why not make another date go viral kyle would you like to go on another date with nicole we'll pay for it uh you know it wouldn't be a whole lot because i'd apparently

take her to burger King so but I'm gonna pass I appreciate the offer it's apparently I'm gonna blow up now I'm gonna go viral and put me on blast or whatever the hell she's gonna do but what if she promises not to put you in the blog I really don't care whoever all these followers are I'm not one of them so I'm not too concerned about it. All right. Well, you're missing out. You have no idea how much popularity I have over the Internet. You're just missing out, basically.

I'm pretty sure I'm not missing out. I got enough to see what it was. I'll pass. Thanks. Sure. Go tell all the other girls that I take you out to a super beautiful, wonderful, high-end restaurant with great views. Yeah. Go right ahead. It's not a problem.

Feel free to put that out there. You should be concerned because after I post about you and it goes viral, you're never going to get another date again. Well, yeah. Okay, we'll see how that goes. I think I'll be just fine. So I guess there's no second date then? No, there really wasn't a first date to be honest with you.

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