First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Oliver & Sara - On a Break

Episode Date: June 28, 2024

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and he's getting ghosted by Sarah and has no idea why, so we're going to call her in a few minutes and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first, Oliver, how long has it been since you heard from Sarah? It's been about a week. How many times have you tried to get a hold of her in that week? Well, I was texting her for the first couple days, three days. And I had sent a text text message and, and see like replied like really

short. And then like the next day I didn't hear anything. And then the next day I didn't hear anything either. So then I tried to call her. And then after that, I just, I was like, you know, I don't want to seem too much like a stalker. So let me just, let me just back off a little bit. So I haven't personally reached out to her in like two days now all right so we gave her a little break for a couple days let's go back to your date can you tell us about that yeah so we we met up at a bar and um we were going to get a drink or two because i had made reservations so we were just kind of waiting for those to get um to get

like get the table ready and uh but there was this really dope band that was playing in the bar area and me and her were just really enjoying the music and we kind of talked about it like you know what we can order food at the bar let's you know let's just chill here so I went in and canceled uh the reservation and we just had some food there at the bar, let's just chill here. So I went and canceled the reservation and we just had some food there at the bar, had some drinks and really enjoyed this cool band. And that, yeah, that was the date. And then after that I drove her home

and left her there, said goodnight. And yeah, so it was really weird. I feel like we had an awesome time. So you just said goodnight, no kiss, no handshake, no hug. Was there any kind of interaction other than just bye, I guess I'm saying? Yeah, yeah. Like, I didn't feel like I should go in for the kiss, but I definitely hugged her and said, hey, I would love to hang out again, see you again. Okay.

I'm not too forward of a guy like that, but I definitely wanted to. Okay. Of course. Did you feel like she wanted to? I don't know. That's, that's the thing. Like she, she seemed excited in her response about going on another date and it wasn't like a quick little hug.

Like it was, it was a nice little embrace. Like just, you know, you know, when someone really enjoys hugging and it's kind of, there's a little squeeze and. Yeah. So then what about like on the date was there anything that was awkward that would make her not want to call you back or is there anything really great that happened well could she have also have wanted to go to the dinner reservation and like not wanting to stay and listen to the music like do you think she

could have been mad about that no i mean she she's actually the one that kind of first suggested it but you know there was one thing when when I walked back to the bar after canceling the reservation, she was like, kind of talking to this guy. And it was, it sounded like it was a little heated. Like maybe they were arguing about something. I mean, it seemed like she knew him, like could have been an ex or friend or something else. I'm not too sure.

But like when I asked her about it, she was just like, oh, he was like trying to hit on like could have been an ex or friend or something else. I'm not too sure. But like when I asked her about it, she was just like, oh, he was like trying to hit on me. And, uh, you know,

kind of think of it now. She did seem a little off after that interaction. Okay. Maybe it was an ex. Maybe it was a, you know, a friendship gone wrong or you didn't ask her like, she just kind of... She was like, oh, you know, he's just hitting on me.

Was she sitting next to you when she was getting hit on? I saw it. I wasn't, like, physically there, but I could see it as I was walking up. By the time I got there, the guy had already gone. But it looked like it was heated? She didn't seem amused by it. Okay.

We'll try to figure it out. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her, get her on the phone and ask her why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date, okay? Yeah, that'd be perfect. All right, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone.

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He doesn't know why, so we're about to call her in just a second and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date but first Oliver why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Sarah yeah we went to a bar and we were we're gonna have dinner at a restaurant and uh but we had a great time at the bar because it was live music so we decided to stay there and we had a great time and it seemed like a pleasant evening. We went off and off, but now I can't get a hold of her. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out.

Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Sarah, please? This is her. Hey, Sarah, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Sarah. I'm Nina, also on the show.

Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, hey. Hi. What's up? You listen to the show? Yes. Okay. Aw, thank you.

Sweet. I love it. Why are you guys calling me? Because somebody else listens to the show, too. Well, I think a lot of people listen to you guys. This is a person that you know. Oh, okay. And they wanted us to call you because you went out on a date with them, and now you're ghosting them.

Oh, okay, okay. I think I know who you're talking about. This is a first date follow-up and Oliver is the guy who emailed us and said he went on a date with you and he doesn't know why you're ghosting him. He thought everything was cool. Oh, Oliver. Yeah, that guy.

Yeah, Oliver. He's actually a really good person. He's a good guy. Well, he told us about your date. If he's a good guy, why don't you want to go out with him again? You know, it's not, I know it sounds funny, it's not him, it's me. I just don't know what I want. I'm getting out of a relationship and I don't know for sure if I'm going to get out of it or not. My ex keeps blowing up my phone.

I was in a two-year relationship. So it's just really hard because I just don't know exactly what I want I don't know if I want to move on and date other people or just be single for a while or get back together with my ex so I'm just really confused I get that why did you go on a date in the first place, though? Because I didn't know what I wanted. I wanted to go out and see. I still don't know what I want. Well, who was that guy? What?

Oh, that was Oliver, Sarah. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I mean, like, who was he? That was my ex. What? Your ex? I didn't want to say anything to you because I didn't know how you would take the situation.

I just went through a breakup of going through a breakup. My ex wasn't happy. He still wants me back. I don't know what I want. And so I just didn't say anything. It was awkward. And so I just didn't say anything it was awkward and so I just went on to the date my ex left he didn't stay there did he show up to your date so yeah he saw he saw that I was on a date he got it on my friend's app and he couldn't stand that I was

with another guy so he showed up and he was you know wanting to ask questions and all that stuff i mean like why couldn't you just tell me that like are you are you are you back with him like what's what's the deal like i'm completely lost i'm not back with him i just don't know what i want i don't wanted to go out on a date with you to see if that's what I want and then he showed up and so now I'm thinking I'm just confused because he's bringing back all the good things that we have and like why we should break up and why we should be back together again so I just don't know what I want like I don't know if I want to get back together with him or if I just want to be single and have a good time or go out with you Sarah Sarah, you did tell us that you're talking to him, though.

I am talking to my ex. Yeah, of course. I mean, it was two years. I don't know exactly what. I mean, I can't just end it. I feel like that's fair, but then why go on a date with Oliver and, like, ghost him? Yeah.

Because, I mean, that's what dating dating you go out and you date someone and you just get to know them like i mean it's not it's a date it's not like her boyfriend girlfriend but you don't usually go on a date with someone when you're still in a relationship with someone else like like how does that make me feel like are, are you just trying to hook? Am I like a booty call? Like, are you trying to hook up with me? Well, what's wrong with a booty call? Maybe it takes another guy to get over the other guy. Well, I'm not that guy. Like, I'm trying to find, like, a relationship, you know?

Like, I'm trying to be that guy. I'm not trying to just be hooking up with whoever. Yeah, but you don't know me until you hook up with me maybe i'm a little old-fashioned i don't think that's i don't think that's true but even still like like what if i was there like would your ex have like punched me in the face like no he's not violent he might well he sure followed he's not violent he probably might. Well, he sure followed you. No, he's not violent. He probably would just stare at you or say some words. I don't know. But he left.

So he left. He didn't say. Nobody asked for my advice, but whenever a third party, like as in an ex, shows up on a date, it's never a good sign. Usually not. They continue to pop up and even sometimes break into the house and look at you in bed with that person while you're sleeping. And break into the house and look at you while you're. That was specific're sleeping. And break into the house and look at you while you're... That was specific. Very specific. That's why I said nobody asked my advice, but I have experience

in this department, and just so you know, when the ex pops up on a date, run. Yeah. That would have been good to know. Oliver would have ran. Yeah. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone.

It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears

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