First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Pheobe & Thomas: The Lingerie Setup 😳🛍️

Episode Date: March 23, 2026

She thought it was a flirty, chemistry-filled first date… but something felt off after he suddenly disappeared 👀 In this wild First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, one woman fears she may have been judged for the wrong reason—but the truth behind the ghosting is way more shocking than she ever expected 😬💔 What started as a casual mall date quickly turned into a situation no one saw coming… including us 😳 Was it all just a misunderstanding—or was there a hidden motive the entire time? Get ready for one of the most unexpected twists yet 🎧🔥 Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date follow-up, powered by the advocates injury attorneys, online at advocateslaw.com. Evie is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Thomas. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. if she still wants one. But, Evie, why do you think that Thomas is ghosting you? You know, I'm not sure, but I'm thinking that he may think that I'm a gold digger. Okay. Why would he think that?

Okay. Well, so we had, like, what I thought. I thought it was a really fun day. Like, we met for coffee and wandered around. We ended up just like walking through the mall. And like, I don't know. I thought it was so good. Like it was really flirty.

And we like, I don't know, we even kind of had a little makeout session. And, yeah, like, which was fun. There was a lot of chemistry. And then we, you know, like we stopped in a Victoria's Secret. And like I got on some lingerie. Oh, no, right. This is your first date? Wow.

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. But we were just like, oh my God. Like, what if we go do this thing? Like, that'd be fun. Okay. And, like, he like came in to like, you know, help make sure it looked okay and fit, right?

Wink, wink, wink. And, like, we had a little makeout session in, like, the dressing room. Like, it was really cute, right? Okay. Yeah. That's definitely a memorable first date. Yeah. I mean, that's kind of hot.

Yeah. Well, like, okay. So I was like, okay, this is, like, going so well. But the reason why I think that maybe he's, you. He thinks I'm trying to be a gold digger and isn't, like, interested is because I know he has a really good job. He makes good money. And I was, so, like, I picked out this laundry set that was really cute that I wanted.

And I was totally going to buy it, but I completely, like, I left. I actually did leave my credit card at home. And so he paid for me for it for me. Oh, you're thinking maybe he thought you were acting like you left him home, just trying to get free stuff. Yeah. Yeah. And so I like, I want to, you know, be honest and, like, clear the air and, like, make sure he doesn't think that. Because I really liked him and really liked our date.

Evie is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Thomas. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But first, Evie, remind us again why you think you might be getting ghosted. I think I might be getting ghosted because I think Thomas thinks I'm trying to be a gold digger, even though I'm not. I promise. We went to the mall, we walked around. I tried all lingerie, and he ended up buying it for me because I left my credit card at home. Okay.

And you think that he might think that was just an excuse for you to get free stuff? Correct. All right. Well, are you ready for us to call him? I am, yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, man, speak to Thomas, please.

Yeah, this is him. Hey, Thomas, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Thomas. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal.

How are you? Hey. Okay. Yeah, what's up, Gus? Why are you calling me? Have you ever heard of the show before? I'm sorry. No, I haven't.

All right. That's cool. That's fine. You can check out our podcast if you want to wherever we get your podcast. It's fine. Just type in the Juble show. That's all you got to do. But anyway, we're calling you today because we do a segment on the show.

It's called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them, and we got an email about you from somebody. Okay, that's awkward, but... Do you know who would email us? Like, are you ghosting somebody that you know? I mean, are we on the radio right now?

Yes. I don't know, man. I don't... It's weird to just call me. up. Yeah. I mean, well, you know, somebody really wants to know why you won't call him back. They liked you a lot.

Her name is Evie. And she called you? Yes. She emailed us. We talked to her a little bit about your date. She said it was about three weeks ago. You haven't talked to her since. And she's wondering if you will tell us.

All right. Yeah, sure. Yeah, I know, Evie. Okay, cool. So what happened? Yeah. So, you know, we went to. to mall. We were flirting back and forth.

And, you know, we went to the Victoria's Secret and she tried on some lingerie. I bought it for her, you know? Yeah, she told us about that. She thinks that you might be ghosting her because she had you pay for it. And you might think she's a gold digger. You know, I, honestly, guys, I didn't care about buying the lingerie. I'm embarrassed to say, yeah, I am kind of ghosting her, but buying the lingerie, that was kind of part of the plan.

What do you mean? This is so, okay, so I set up the date in the whole situation because my ex works across from that Victoria's secret. And I thought if she saw me with another woman buying her lingerie, and might make her jealous and we'd start talking again. Wow. That's worse. You set the whole situation up just to see if your ex would see you guys there.

I mean, you know, it works and me and my ex are back together. Oh. What? Hey, Thomas, that's Evie. She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Okay, well, I assume there was some kind of scheme going on here because the radio called me. I don't know if it's a scheme, but. I mean, it sounds like I'm being trapped for something.

People can't. You're being trapped. for lying to me and using me as a pawn and you're not going to get your ex. I don't know why you're talking to the radio. I haven't got back to you. I don't know why you would bring these people in that I don't know. Why is he being so defensive? This is insane.

Did you guys hear what he just said? Yeah, because I'm kind of surprised, man. You buy a woman lingerie. That's an intimate thing. And then just to disappear after you got to experience the lingerie in a dressing room, I think at the very, very least, you can be like, sorry, I'm back together with my ex now that I just saw you in lingerie and bought it for you. Like, that's an intimate thing.

Or I can just do what I'm doing. You want a radio station call me for no reason. You want me to buy you some lingerie too? God, no, I'll buy my own. Thank you. What? Okay, well, now I realize that you're actually a horrible person. And, you know what?

Are you crazy one calling the radio to talk to somebody who didn't even try to talk back to you? What are you talking about a horrible person? You're the crazy one that tried to set up your ex. What in the world? Okay, yeah. little boys on there too what in the world you guys are all together doing this little scheme and i don't know you i'm the only person i know is evie and i got four people talking to me about somebody i wasn't trying to talk to all right evie you take the four uh i mean i'm like

i'm frankly so shocked by list that like that is insane i thought we had a really good time and we had chemistry and i'm now learning that this entire thing was just a scheme to get your ex back Like, that is so messed up to do that to me and to do that to her. Like, somebody needs to save this girl from you. Somebody needs to save you. What? Somebody needs to save you. A guy didn't call you back.

And here we are. Wow. Even you did get saved without having to deal with this fool. Yeah. I mean, I definitely got my answer. You are a school. and I'm so glad that I never have to speak to you again after this. So actually, thank you for doing that.

I really helped. Whoa, I have to ask. Thomas, would you like another date with Evie? We'll pay for it. I don't need, I don't know. I don't need any connection to you guys. I don't need any connection to her. I don't need your money.

I could buy her lingerie. I could pay for a date. I could buy all your crew lingerie. I don't know why you guys are doing this. You know, you guys call me all this, and I know this didn't work out the way you guys planning, and I was trying to be 90. and I didn't want to talk about doing all this.

But the only one whose plan worked out was mine. That's what I did what I had to do to get my ex back. We're back together. We're happy now. I'm sorry that your butt hurt about that. And I'm sorry that we're wasting these people's time. You know what, Thomas? You haven't heard the last of me.

From this moment on, for the rest of your life, you better look over your shoulder when you're sleeping. You've got to have one eye open. When you got to work, you better look in the rearview mirror. When you're making sweet, sweet love to your precious girlfriend, you never know when I'm going to pop up. And trust me, Thomas, I will pop up. You f*** the wrong girl.

Yoikes. Hey, Thomas, she hung up. So I guess she's not going anywhere. Ready for a different take on Formula One? no further than No Grip, a new podcast tackling the culture of motor racing's most coveted series. Join me, Lily Herman, as we dive into the under-explored pockets of F-1, including the story of the woman who last participated in a Formula One race weekend, the recent uptick in F1 romance novels, and plenty of mishap scandals and sagas that have made Formula One a delightful,

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Listen to It Girl with Bailey Taylor on the Iheart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. In 2023, Bachelor star Clayton Eckerd was accused of fathering twins. But the pregnancy appeared to be a hoax. You doctored this particular test twice, Ms. Owens, correct? I doctored the test ones. It took an army of internet detectives to uncover a disturbing pattern. Two more men who'd been through the same thing. Greg, a lesbian.

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