First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Raquel & Jake - Cakes & Cocktails

Episode Date: March 20, 2024

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Raquel is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jake. Why is it always a Jake, though? I don't know. I'm not sure if it's the State Farm guy or not. If he had a red polo, that's probably him, and probably because he's very busy. Raquel, how long has it been since you heard from Jake?

Oh, gosh. It's been like a couple weeks. Okay. Let's get into it. Tell us about the date. How did you guys meet? So, we met at a bar that's also kind of known for their desserts. So, my idea was like cocktail and cake, which I thought was really cute.

Yeah. Yeah. I thought it was like a really fun way to get to know each other. And, I mean, truth be told, we met online. But, like, even even online our banter was really great and so i was like super super happy to when i met him in person like he was so funny he was so so so so so funny so was he funny online too yeah like exactly like he was funny online but he was even funnier in person.

That's good. I feel like that doesn't happen that often. I feel like some people are hilarious over text, but then they kind of get nervous when they're in person, you know? It really sucks. It is a big letdown because you show up and you're ready for a show. I'm like, dinner and a show. Yeah.

Make me laugh. And then it's like, they don't do that. Can you just text with me then? Because you were hilarious when you were texting. I'm glad he was good in person. Just keep bringing this back. It was like a real pleasant surprise for sure.

And the date was good? Yeah, and we decided to share a slice of the triple chocolate cake. Or it was like triple chocolate truffle cake or something. But it was so good and we each had martinis. So like, you know, it was really nice this is a

great date idea i'm loving this date idea i thought it was cute how did the date end um you know it ended pretty well like we were he walked me to my car he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he was like yeah i'll get in touch with you so you got a kiss on the cheek okay and then never got in touch with you. So you got a kiss on the cheek. Okay. And then never got in touch with you? I mean, I basically texted him like a couple of days later. Like there was just one thing that happened on the date that was like a little strange. Okay. So basically he, okay, we're talking, I'm like asking him some cool questions, right? Like I'm getting to know him. I'm asking him like, what's your astrological sign?

You know, like, I'm really into that stuff. Like, are you close with your parents? Like, blah, blah, blah. So, like, the usual stuff. And I did kind of notice that he was on his phone a lot, like, towards the end of the date. So, like, that kind of was a little concerning to me. And then, like, at one point, he excused himself,

like, after we have our martini and he said he had to go like all of a sudden. So it was like, oh, okay. Weird. I mean, everything was going great until then. And it honestly happened so fast. So he was like, oh, I have to go. And I was like, oh, okay.

So like we paid the bill and I'm like, okay. So we walk out to my car, you know, he, he kisses me on the cheek. He's like, you know, I had fun, but I have to go. And I was like, OK, so we walk out to my car, you know, he he kisses me on the cheek. He's like, you know, I had fun, but I have to go. And I was like, I hope everything's OK. And he just kind of like left. It was it was very kind of strange. The ending was strange. Well, yeah, I mean, it makes you feel like did something happen?

What's the deal? Yeah. So like after that, I did text him and I was just like, hey, I hope everything's OK. And nothing. And it's been like, I don't know, it's just like, hey, I hope everything's OK. And nothing. And it's been like, I don't know, it's been like 10 days or something, like almost two weeks. Well, I mean, I would just wonder if you have some I would be kind of nervous. Like, is this person all right? Exactly.

Yeah. It's like a family emergency. Maybe that's what I'm thinking. Or I was like, maybe he just didn't like the idea of like the cocktail and cake. Like I thought it was really cute, but I was like the only thing like maybe he just didn't like my judgment and like the place that I picked. I think that that might not be it. That sounds like a fine date unless he's really against cake or cocktails.

I mean, you know, in that case, that's a red flag for you. Or like maybe I ate too much of the cake. I don't know. And then that's also a red flag for you or like maybe i ate too much of the cake i don't know and then that's also a red flag for you yeah because if he's caring about how much cake you eat but we'll figure it out we'll play a song come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one okay yeah because i really want one okay get your first day follow-up next hey Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.

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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Raquel is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jake. So we're about to see if we can get him on the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she's still

interested after she hears why. But before we call him, Raquel, why don't you catch everybody up on the situation with Jake? Okay, so basically we met online and we decided to go to this really cute place. It was like a cocktail and dessert type place like get

some cake get some cocktails and everything was going great really great conversation and then you know kind of halfway through the date he was like kind of got a little strange like he basically said that he had to go to the bathroom and when he came back he was like oh I have to leave like kind of all of a sudden and I was like oh, oh, okay. Um, that's strange. Cause the banter was really good. And then he walked me to my car. He kissed me on the cheek and then, you know, kind of just like rushed out. And I texted him being like, I hope everything's okay.

And no response. And that was like 10 days ago. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can help you out. We're going to call him right now and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and see if you want another date. Okay, ready? Yes, thank you. All right, here we go.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jake, please? This is Jake. Jake, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show, and it's named The Jubal Show. Hi, Jake. I'm jumping right in. Jubal's not by himself.

My name's Nina. I'm also on the show. Yes, she is. And I'm Victoria. She's also on the show. Okay. What's up, Jake? How's it going? How's it going?

Oh. I'm doing fine. Why are you guys calling from a radio station? We do a segment on our show called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why. And we got an email

about you from someone, Jake. Uh-huh. And would you like to take a guess at who that person is? Yeah, I'm pretty sure I know who it is. Who? It's Raquel. It is Raquel, yes.

So Raquel told us about your date. She said she really liked you, but she can't figure out why you're ghosting her, so that's why we're here. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, look, look you know um look first of all raquel is super hot uh i thought the cake and cocktails idea was like super cute but um like it felt like a job interview you know like it felt like she was asking all these questions

and like sometimes like before you wouldn't have a chance to finish the answer it was like it just felt like she was trying to see if i fit her template of like the perfect guy template you know and it was like it literally felt like a job interview it was like you know what are your strengths and weaknesses uh asking about my family she like she asked about the relationship with my mom like i was like, I just met you 20 minutes ago. So I just, I get that girls want to know that stuff, but on the first date, and then, I mean, asking about my astrological sign, that's fine,

but it just felt like it was coming on too strong. I was just kind of like, you know, in my mind, I was like, have more game, you know, have more game. Damn. I was just trying to get to know you. Jake, that's Raquel. She was on the phone listening. She's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Oh, hey, Raquel. Sorry, I didn't realize you were on the phone. That part. No, that's okay. I'm just like, you know, I was disappointed because I really, I felt like we had such great banter and I'm like, I'm just like interested in you. And I just, I was interested in those things. And I just think, you know, it was a good conversation. They're like, they're like conversation starters, you know? And I mean, I'm so sorry that it turned you off. I can certainly, you know, tone it down a notch next time. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, um, no, I get like dating is awkward. It's like an awkward thing to do. It's kind of weird. So, I mean, I, I feel that, um, but yeah, I mean, I, I'm sorry that I didn't respond. I just was kind of like,

honestly, I didn't think I was really interested again, but, um, you know, I mean, yeah, that's kind of how I was feeling that's why i didn't respond jake can i ask you what types of questions make you feel comfortable because i don't know about you guys but i don't like to waste my time with like oh look at the chandelier it's so beautiful i'd rather know about you yeah although i probably would talk about it but deeper conversations are more meaningful than the surface level like how's the weather like so what kind of questions i totally agree yeah i totally agree i think it's i think it's less maybe it's less the questions i mean some of the questions were a little bit

much but like it's more like the style and the like it just felt like she was reciting a list it was like okay so that's about your job so tell me about your mom okay well then tell me about like what's your sign it was like as if that's what i mean like it wasn't so much like those are those are totally valid questions to ask it just was like it felt like i was like a candidate to be her husband huh technically isn't everybody until you're not. I'm sorry, that's just how I view the world. Okay. Raquel, were you nervous? I mean, yeah, I was nervous and excited, you know,

and I think when I get excited, I just like, you know, kind of like get a little bit fiery. And so I definitely need to work on my delivery, which I am really willing to do, Jake, because I think we really hit it off and I would really love to see you again. Yeah. I mean, I,

I'm open to it. Like I, I feel like, again, like it's honestly, it's my bad. Like I, I should have communicated that to you perhaps,

but you know how dating is. Like sometimes it's just easier just to like move on. But I, but you know, I, you seem like a nice person and I, I'm glad that we had this opportunity to clear this up

Jake since you seem since you think Raquel seems like a nice person would you like to try again and go out another day with Raquel we'll pay for it I would I would I'm down I'm down congratulations Raquel yay thank you so much

I'm excited but I'm keeping it cool. Good luck. Don't be self-conscious. You can still do whatever you need to do on this date. Be yourself. Thank you, guys. Jake, you be yourself as well. I think you do.

I will. Yes, I will. And I'm going to be somebody different. I'll see you on your date, though. I'm going to be somebody weird. Look behind the bushes. Yeah, that'll be me. Jubal's first date follow-up.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and

Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups,

this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You are cordially invited to the hottest party in professional sports.

I'm Tisha Allen, former golf professional and the host of Welcome to the Party, your newest obsession about the wonderful world that is women's golf. Featuring interviews with top players on tour, tips to help improve your swing, and the craziest stories to come out of your friendly neighborhood country club. Welcome to the Party with Tisha Allen is an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Welcome to the Party, that's P-A-R-T-E-E, on the iHeart Radio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.