First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Remy & Terica - Froyo Beast
Episode Date: October 21, 2024➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get... roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/ Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/ Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/ Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Remy is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Terica.
So in a minute, we're going to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting and maybe get
him another date. But first, Remy, how long has it been since you heard from Terica?
It's been about two weeks now.
Okay.
Have you reached out to her?
I mean, at first I was reaching out, but no, I've kind of gotten the point and, you know,
held back recently.
Why don't you tell us about your date?
Yeah, sure.
So we went out to a steak place in town I really like. And then after that, we went out for a fro-yo.
And then we even went out to a little dive bar I really like after that.
So I don't know. It was a great night.
You know, we met up around 7 and, you know, by the time I dropped her off,
it was, you know, almost already night.
So great night, a lot of fun.
It's always weird to me when you go to three different locations and then you get ghosted because at that point you have a pretty good feeling that
like this person wants to spend time with you like you had an out two different times did you feel
like she was super nice yeah she was super nice i like uh you know we talked a while before even
our first date and like i don't know we were both vibing really good together and yeah just really
weird that she didn't tell me anything was wrong so could it be like work or family related that
she's not like something's going on in her personal life yeah i mean she she sounded like
she really had her stuff together but you know it's definitely possible she could just gotten
busy but you know like i said it's been a couple weeks so i figured if she wanted to go on another
date maybe she would have answered me but But I really want to know why.
During the date, Remy, did she give you feelings that she liked you?
Did she say that?
Or is there something that could have possibly happened that would have made the date kind of take a turn?
Yeah, I don't know.
So I guess the one thing is I was making like kind of some suggestive comments, like, you know, because so well like you know how much I like her and stuff and it seemed like those feelings were
kind of reciprocated but I don't know maybe I pushed too hard like that's the only thing I
really think of but like what did you say what direction were you pushing like oh I really like
you I can't wait till we get married or yeah yeah yeah no, nothing like that. But just like, oh, you know, oh, next time I'll have to do this.
And, you know, things like that.
Like, you know, kind of, you know, insinuating that, you know, this wouldn't be the only, you know, date.
I think that's a good thing.
Yeah.
Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or any reason that you'd be getting ghosted?
Yeah, I don't know.
Like, I don't know, Maybe I wasn't dressed right.
Like, I was wearing, like, corduroy pants or something.
Maybe she was judging me on that.
I don't know.
Corduroy pants.
I think corduroys are in now, so.
Ish.
Ish?
Okay, so maybe you were getting judged on that.
I like them.
I mean, I like them.
How tight were they?
They said just right, man.
Okay.
All right.
Well, we'll see if that is the issue.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you,
and then maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay?
All right.
Awesome.
Appreciate it.
So we'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next.
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Right in the middle of your first day of follow-up,
if you're just joining us,
Remy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Tarika.
So in a second, we're going to call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date.
But first, Remy,
why don't you catch everybody up
on your date with Tarika?
So, yeah, we went out to a steak place.
We had frozen yogurt.
You know, we went to a dive bar.
You know, all together, we were together probably for about five hours.
It was a great date.
You know, I texted her a few times after the date, but now it's been about two weeks.
Haven't heard from her.
Don't know if she was judging me on my corduroy pants or some of the comments i was making you
know you know hoping that we would you know it wouldn't be our only date or anything like that
and yeah i'd just really like to hear from her again or at least find out like why i haven't
heard from her okay cool you ready for us to call her hell yeah okay here we go Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Terica, please?
This is Sheik.
Hey, Terica, how are you?
My name is Jubal, and I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Terica.
I'm Nina.
I'm also on the show.
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Seriously?
Yeah, seriously.
That's cool. You listen to the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. Seriously? Yeah, seriously. That's cool.
You listen to the show ever?
Yeah, I have.
We do a segment on the show called the First Date Follow-Up, where if you go on a date
with somebody and ghost them, that person emails us to call you up and ask why you're
ghosting them.
Okay.
So.
She thinks that part's funny.
We got an email about you. Okay. So. She thinks that part's funny. We got an email about you.
Okay.
All right.
It's from a dude named Remy.
Oh, no.
Oh, yeah.
Yep.
Are you ghosting Remy?
Can I say yes or no?
Okay.
Yeah.
Do you mind explaining to us what that means though i get like i i definitely put off
uh messaging him back i'll put it that way i put off messaging him back so he's not totally
ghosted yet it's just delayed i should just mailed him a letter at this point. Yeah, it sounds funny. It wasn't anything, like, I literally just got thrown off.
That was it.
Like, it wasn't, like, anything.
I was just thrown off.
Okay, so I couldn't stop thinking about what happened when we went to get frozen yogurt.
Like, I don't know what happened, but, like, he, like, became, became like a monster in that pro-yogurts shop
like he added
everything that they had available
for toppings and stuff
and he just went
bonkers like he added
everything like cookies
and gummy bears and
sprinkles and the chocolate syrup
and the strawberry
yeah it sounds like he was having a good time at the frozen yogurt shop yeah it sounds like something I do and sprinkles and the chocolate syrup and the strawberry.
Yeah, it sounds like he was having a good time at the frozen yogurt shop.
I mean, yeah, it sounds like something I do, too.
I know he's spending 40 bucks at those places.
For real. Yeah, Nina.
40 bucks.
The toppings are so good.
I don't understand the problem.
It's hard to choose just one.
Right.
Well, it was my thought process, but I was like, I was like weirded out.
I was like, okay, this thing is going to weigh 40 pounds.
And I was just like, has he never been to one of these places?
Like is this first time out of the house?
Like I was very confused.
So I just, I guess I thought about it like way too much.
And then I was like, well, I'll get back to him.
You know, I was still in my head.
And then I completely forgot to get back to him.
Okay.
You just forgot?
That sounds like something Victoria would do.
Yeah, 100%.
Obviously, you're judging him on having so many toppings.
Does that tell you something about his character,
or you're just really not sure how somebody can mix cookies and gummy bears together?
I'm not really understanding how this was, like, an ick for you.
It's just, just like a lot.
Like, I think I was just stunned.
It was kind of like a train wreck kind of thing.
I was just watching it and I'm like, I just can't stop thinking about it.
I know.
Okay, let me ask you this, Terica.
This will help me understand.
What do you put on your frozen yogurt?
Oh, well, like the flavors co-ordinate.
Like, I'll do like, like you know two three flavors that like
all make sense together but no toppings i'll do some toppings but i'll do like oh like let's do
like a strawberry and a chocolate with like some fresh strawberries on it or something like that
that makes sense like i do a couple things yeah no no i get it now her closet is like
it's color coordinated 100 it is actually yeah see is like, it's color coordinated. 100%. It is actually.
Yeah, see?
That's okay.
It just needed to understand.
Ah, okay.
Why the chaos was throwing her off.
Chaos is a good word for it, yes.
That's the reason that you're ghosting him is because of the toppings on his fro-yo.
I was just kind of picturing, you know, how like there's those people at the like soda
fountains that they get like a splash of every single flavor in the cup.
Like that always.
Okay, I do that too.
What?
Yeah.
Are you serious?
It's a great little concoction.
It's called the Nina.
I understand.
You called it your name?
It's like Nina-ade, you know, like lemonade.
But it's like, anyways.
Terica, thank you for telling us.
I should also let you know that Remy is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
I'm sorry.
So, yeah,
I guess I kind of like, you could say
a fruit punch of frozen yogurt.
Like, you've heard of
the kid in the candy store? Well, I'm like the man
in the fro-yo place. Like, I just
can't make up my mind, so
I guess maybe I didn't want to hold on to dates, so, instead of deciding, I just added a little bit of everything, sorry
about that.
I don't think you need to apologize for that.
I don't know, you sounded pretty offended, so.
I wasn't, okay, so, clarification, I'm so sorry I was not offended I was just
blown away like my mind is just blown like I don't think I had the power to think after that
you know maybe uh sometime I could go out for pizza or something but you know I like to order
a lot of toppings on those too so I was gonna say like how many toppings go on your pizza like are
you one of those people that puts like sardines and peanut butter or something?
No, but maybe some
sausage and pineapple
and green pepper and onion and
Canadian bacon and taco
and, you know, pepperoni
and black olives, green olives.
So not too many. Mushrooms,
but not too many toppings.
I like it that way, too.
I don't know.
Remy sounds a lot like me.
Well, at least with pizzas, you can usually order half and half.
But yeah, so it was just a pro-yo, huh?
I was really kind of disappointed to hear from you.
Well, I wasn't really ghosting you because of it.
I just got in my head
about it
and then
I honestly,
I meant to get back to you
and then I just,
I didn't.
Like,
that's it.
Like,
I wish I had a better excuse.
I wish I had a clever excuse
and I have nothing.
It was just.
Would you like to go out
with Remy again?
We'll pay for it.
I mean,
we'll pay for most of it.
I don't know how much
his Froyo costs if you guys get Froyo, but we'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay for most of it. I don't know how much his Froyo costs if you guys get Froyo,
but we'll pay for it.
I mean,
I guess the bigger question
is like,
is he willing to go out
with me again?
That's fair.
Yeah,
you know that pizza
with the 20 toppings
is sounding pretty good now,
so that'd be awesome.
Well,
I mean,
if you want a third date,
just don't get the 20 topping pizza
and we should be good.
Thank you.
Jubal's first date follow up.
We're so done with new year, new you.
This year, it's more you on Bumble.
More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.
More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.
More of you dating with intention because you know what you want.
And you know what? We love that for you.
Someone else will, too.
Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.
The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you.
And we're guessing most days, that's money.
Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of
living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big
changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts.
Welcome to My Legacy.
I'm Martin of the Kingdom Third.
And together with my wife, Andrea Waters King, and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilberger,
we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives.
Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David Oyelowo, Mel Robbins, Martin Sheen, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, and Billy Porter.
Listen to My Legacy on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
This is My Legacy.
This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be
here personally to come give y'all
flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing
job. I love the outlet. I love
how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I love
how y'all speak to the realization of
R&B music and R&B money.
Snoop Dogg on R&B
Money. Listen to this episode on the
iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you get your
podcasts. Calling all Yellowstone fans. Let's go to work. Join Bobby Bones on the official
Yellowstone podcast for exclusive cast interviews, behind the scenes insights, and a deep dive into
the themes that have made Yellowstone a cultural phenomenon. Our family legacy is this ranch.
And I'll protect it with my life.
Listen to the official Yellowstone podcast now on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.