First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Riley & Michael - Food Poisoning
Episode Date: November 6, 2024➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get... roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/ Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/ Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/ Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Riley is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Michael.
So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date.
But first Riley,
how long has it been since you talked to Michael?
It's been about a week.
Have you reached out to him at all?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I've tried calling and texting,
but you don't want to do it too much,
you know,
but enough that I should get a response.
So he just be having a busy week. I can't help, but ask that whenever it's like a response. Could he just be having a busy week?
I can't help but ask that whenever it's like a week.
No, because before we were supposed to go out,
we talked quite a bit.
And then after we were scheduled to go out,
it was like he just was MIA.
Yeah, you can tell the difference for sure.
Why don't you tell us about how you met him
and how the
date went okay well uh we met on bumble and i noticed that he lives close to a pub you know
that i usually go to it's right near my work and so we messaged and we planned on you know uh you
know we talked a little bit it seemed really good i like jazz i grew up you know, uh, you know, we talked a little bit. It seemed really good. I like jazz. I grew
up, you know, my dad loved jazz, so I grew up that way. So he had this whole evening planned.
We were going to go to a jazz club. And, uh, that morning I got sick, like food poisoning. I ate
breakfast. Yeah, it was really bad. So I texted him and just said hey you know I'm sick can't make it and you know
I wasn't going to go into detail you don't want to know details and ever since then I mean no
response at all and this whole week you know I kind of hey how are you can we you know schedule
another date and nothing so well how did he react when you said you were sick though he just didn't respond to you
or was he like oh no didn't respond at all which was really weird because before that you know he
was so sweet we did talk a lot you know got to know each other through text you know how that
goes back and forth and i mean he's super hot and i'm not too shabby, I would say. But yeah, it was just really nice and great conversation.
And he seemed super sweet.
And then, I mean, I wasn't going to go, obviously.
You're not going to force yourself to go.
I'm just saying that it was very bad.
And, you know, I figured at least he would say, oh, I'm sorry.
How about we reschedule or text me when you feel better?
But absolutely nothing.
Like no response, no thumbs up.
I mean, I would have even taken an emoji.
But, you know, because at least they acknowledge that, you know,
whether good or bad, sometimes you just want to say, just answer.
Yeah, that's fair.
No matter what you say, just answer.
And nothing.
Is there anything that you can think of that would be a reason for him to ghost you?
I mean, other than being sick, you know?
I wonder if he like had other girls on the roster.
Oh, so whenever she said she was sick, he like picked out another one of you guys now?
Yeah.
I just wonder.
Because I mean, when you were playing the apps, you know, like not everybody is just
focused on one person. Is that what you think of when someone's sick, Nina? I don't know. Oh, I mean, when you were playing the apps, you know, like, not everybody is just focused on one person.
Is that what you think of when someone's sick, Nina?
I don't know.
Oh, he has a roster.
Yeah, well, you're talking to the girl that accused somebody of faking his illness not to see me.
So, yeah, I don't know.
I might jump to those conclusions.
I don't know that that's for sure what happened, but it's kind of bizarre just not to respond at all.
Since we met on Bumble, that might be actually a really good reason.
Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay?
Okay.
All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next.
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It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. This
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Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date but first riley why don't you catch us up on your situation well basically we met on bumble it was going great lots of conversation we were
supposed to meet for a date and i got sick that morning and like really bad food poisoning and so
i texted them told them i was sick and been ghosted ever since that's so weird well we'll
see what the deal is but yeah all right, are you ready for us to call him?
Oh, yeah.
Okay, here we go.
Okay.
Hello?
Hi, man. Speak to Michael, please?
Yeah, that's me.
Hey, man, how are you?
My name is Jubal.
I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Michael.
I'm Nina, also on The Jubal Show.
Hi, I'm Victoria.
Well, hey, how are you guys?
Good.
Sounds like you're listening to the show.
Yeah, here and there.
Okay, sweet.
Well, thank you.
Here and there is a great way to listen.
Yeah.
We're calling you today.
There's podcasting now.
Yes.
That's true.
Have you heard of a first date follow-up before?
Yeah.
Okay, cool.
Well, what would you say if I told you that you're currently the star of one?
How is that possible?
I haven't been on a date in a while.
Boop, boop, boop, boop. I just feel like I need a dose. You're a star. um how is that possible i haven't been on a date in a while i just like i needed those there is somebody that emailed us and told us that you're ghosting them and they want to know why
um oh i mean i wouldn't necessarily call it ghosting but um that's what this is about. Yeah, do you know who it is?
Riley?
Yes, it is Riley. She emailed us,
said that she really liked you, and you guys were all set to go out, and then she got
sick, and then you ghosted her.
Again, I wouldn't
necessarily characterize it as ghosting,
but, I mean, we talked for a while, and
we, you know, put together a date, and
you know, for whatever reason,
she either chose to not
want to go or she met somebody else or she had a better offer or I who knows but she decided not
to go and you know I'm not going to dwell on it I'm over it you know hey there's other people out
there and you know I really don't need this right now i don't play games so you receive a text that
says i'm sorry i can't make it i'm sick and you feel like you can't deal with that well it's your
first date sure so yeah but i was sick i mean i i was legitimately sick right right? Michael, that's Riley. She's actually on the phone listening.
Yeah.
Oh, Riley.
Hi.
I mean.
Yeah, hi.
Hi.
So you were sick.
I don't know.
I don't play games.
That's why I text you.
I'm like, I'm sick.
I'm not going to tell you what was going on physically.
That's not cool. That's not, I mean, no. So I just figured you would be,
oh, okay. That sucks. How about we reschedule and go out again? Cause we were hitting it off. I mean,
okay. So you assume that I was thinking something else. That's you, not me. Maybe I would have
wanted to know something so yeah i mean
listen so i would totally you know i mean that's you're assuming that's you so i would have been
open to it but maybe i would have wanted to know you know the details do you ever think that well
i don't think that you want to know that i've gone to the bathroom like every so often. That's not something that you know. I didn't need to know
that part.
You couldn't.
I haven't even gotten out of bed.
That's TMI.
No, I didn't need
to know that part.
What?
But it would have been nice
to just know, you know,
hey, you know,
it wouldn't be good.
Like, just a one-line text,
you know, it didn't,
you know,
it just didn't feel right.
I don't know.
I'd still be open to it,
you know,
if you're not going
to be sick this time.
Okay, cool. Well, then, Michael, would you like to it, you know, if you're not going to be sick this time. Okay, cool.
Then, Michael, would you like to go on another date with Riley?
We'll pay for it.
Oh, yeah, most definitely.
Cool.
Riley, congratulations.
You got another date.
All right.
Sweet.
Congratulations.
Thank you so much, guys.
So just don't get sick again, I guess.
I know, you respond to text messages
and you don't have that problem.
Jubal's First date follow-up.
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It's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in the homestretch,
right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question.
I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out,
like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.
But we're also going to have some fun,
thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.
We're going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
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That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
With a blend of humor, vulnerability and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships and engage in thought
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will resonate with your experiences.
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