First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ryan & Chelsea - He’s Always Watching

Episode Date: September 24, 2024

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Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Ryan is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea, so in a few minutes we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But before we do that, Ryan, what's up? How long has it been since you heard from Chelsea? It's been, I'd say, probably about a week or so.

How many times have you tried to reach out to her in that time? Probably about three or four times. You know, I didn't want to seem like I was a stalking, you know, type. So after the last time, I just, you know, left it alone and got in contact with you guys to see if I could try

and figure something out because I don't know what I did wrong. I thought it was a great first date. I thought we hit it off and I've just know what I did wrong. I thought it was a great first date. I thought we hit it off. And I've just been ghosted ever since. Why don't you start by telling us about the date? Okay, so we went out, dinner, drinks, conversation. Everything was pretty good. And this came about after, you know, us connecting on Hinge.

Had some friends tell me some good things about him so i figured i'd try it out so you know we went on our date and then we went to a nearby park after that and how to go at the park the park went good but i guess there were there was something that was pretty questionable that happened at dinner you know we were hanging out having a good time chatting it up and so she got a phone call and she said she needed to take the call and she excused herself from the table and went out for this call and the call was probably about she was gone for about 15 to 20 minutes oh i thought it was pretty important because she stepped outside of the restaurant, but she walked all the way to the corner or like, you know, up the street a little bit. And I could see from the restaurant that she was in a heated exchange, like her hands were flying and I could see like the veins popping out of her forehead.

And she was like yelling and screaming into the phone. And so I was in by this time, like, you know, the food came, her food was cold. I didn't want to start eating without her. And so, you know, she comes back inside and she's like really cool, calm and collected. And I said, is everything okay? And she said, yeah, I'm just dealing with some family stuff. You know, my sister called me and, you know, a little sibling quals or whatever so I just said okay I said well do you want me to order you something else you know I can have them send this back and we can order you a

fresh one so that way it's hot and you know she didn't want to eat at that place she said no I'm fine we can just wrap up you know if you want to eat and you know we can go to no, I'm fine. We can just wrap up, you know, if you want to eat and, you know, we can go to the park. So, yeah, that's kind of how that portion of the date went. That's the only hiccup that I could think of that happened. That's a pretty big hiccup. But then she went with you to the park, which is a good sign. Because to continue after dinner, like she kept it going. Yeah, that's what I don't understand.

We went to the park. You know, we had, you know, great convo. And I even got a, you know, pecking on the cheek at the end of the day, which I thought was great. And I just don't know what else happened. It's really weird. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you. And then maybe get you another date. All right. Thanks. Sounds good. Let's do it. We'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and then maybe get you another date all right thanks sounds good let's do it we'll

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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Ryan is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Chelsea and doesn't know why so. In just a second, we're going to call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Ryan, why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? Yeah, so I had a really, what I thought was a great date with Chelsea. The only hiccup that happened during the date was she had to take a phone call from an important phone call

to deal with a situation, family situation, I guess. But other than that, we hit it off. Great conversation, great energy, great vibes, even got a peck on the cheek at the end of the night. After that, just ghost, nothing. Gone.

Crickets. Alright, you ready for us to call her? I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Chelsea, please? This is Chelsea. Chelsea, hi, how are you? My name is Jubal and this is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Chelsea. Chelsea, hi, how are you? My name is Jubal and this is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Chelsea.

I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. Hello. Have you ever listened to the show before? I actually have, yeah. Oh, sweet. This is pretty surprising. How cool. Really cool. Do you know why we were calling you?

Did I win something? I hope I did. It's possible. It depends how much you like Ryan. You remember going on a date with Ryan? Oh my gosh. So this is a first date follow up. The segment where we, if you've been ghosted, you can email us.

So we get that person on the phone and ask why you're being ghosted. And Ryan emailed us about you. So can you tell us why you're ghosting him? The reason why I'm ghosting him is because I'm trying to dodge my ex. And I honestly didn't want to scare Ryan away. So my ex texted me while I was on the date with Ryan and he texted, I need to see you. And then he continued like, I tracked your phone. I'm coming to see you.

Oh, what? Yeah. And so I went to call him to kind of diffuse the situation. Because like we've been broken up for about six months, but he's really having a hard time accepting the breakup and so he drives by my house constantly he like sends me still flowers to work oh my gosh wow and so I honestly I took the call and after that I just had a hard time because I just don't want I really feel like I need to get a handle on him before I bring anybody into my life and bring this drama into anybody's life. And I honestly feel bad for Ryan. Like, I just don't want to bring that to him.

And so I just haven't really responded much to Ryan. You liked him though? Yeah, I liked Ryan a lot lot actually it's actually kind of respectful like think about how many people have like x drama and they don't even care about the person they bring into their life and now this new person is like collateral damage i think that that's really cool of you but i also think that's something you could probably tell him i guess i could have told him i honestly felt like I just it's not fair it's not fair to bring anybody with he my ex is pretty persistent you see yeah and I just don't want to put him in

any dangerous situation oh wow you think he's like dangerous well I mean I don't know about how he will be confrontational okay if he sees me with another guy. And so that hasn't happened yet. So I don't know. Well, if you think about it this way, though, your ex is still controlling you because you're not dating people you want to date. Pretty much. Yeah, that's true. I didn't even think about that.

In my opinion, that's pretty unacceptable. But like, how do you handle that? How do you handle that? I don't know i am really trying hard to just be civilized and talk to him and just try to calm him down and just let him know that i'm not interested anymore and it's just been really hard well i have a couple ideas for you but i'll get to those in a second first i want to let you know that ryan is actually on the other line and has been listening and wants to talk to you. Yes. Hi, Ryan. Hey, Chelsea, how are you? I'm good. I'm so sorry. I honestly did not mean to go through. I just it's just been really stressful. I mean, I'm so

happy to hear your voice. I'm sorry to put you on the radio and put you on the spot like this, but I didn't know what else to do. And I needed some closure. I needed to know. I just really thought there was a connection there. And so, yeah, I'm happy to hear that it wasn't me. No, you didn't do anything wrong. You were so sweet.

I felt like we really had a connection and it's been so hard for me it's been really heavy because i just honestly don't want to put you in any weird situation you know i don't think it will be fair a couple of questions are you completely are you still attached emotionally like know, do you still have feelings for him? No, I don't have feelings for him. And it's been six months. Um, yeah, absolutely not. Chelsea, I have a question for you. Why do you still talk to him? I don't know. I'm just, did you feel bad? I'm like, God, I feel bad for him. I know he's suffering. Care about yourself. You're done with the relationship with him. I know he's suffering. Care about yourself.

You're done with the relationship with him. You don't need to talk to him unless you have a kid or something and you have to talk to him. You don't need to feel bad for him. Feel bad for yourself. You're not able to date Ryan and you want to date Ryan. And you're letting your ex control how that issue goes because you're worried about your ex. Worry about yourself. Get it, girl.

You should get it girl you should get it girl you should also make sure that your man like has some type of restraining order if he really does keep popping out in random places because that is not okay yeah if it's super bad you should do that for real yeah i mean i haven't really stopped fully the communication that i could definitely block him. I just felt so bad for him because I thought he's just really suffering and I just don't, I mean, I hated having to break up the relationship but I really don't have any feelings

for him. Believe me, it's hard to not talk to somebody who's persistent but you ghosted Ryan, you can ghost again. This life coaching right now is just, you know, accurate. It's true. It's so mean.

I'm sorry, Ryan. You can tell she's so empathetic too, which is a great quality, Chelsea, but Jubal's right. Would you like to go on another date with Ryan? We'll pay for it. I would love to. I really like Ryan. What else you got, life coach? Just get just get it girl that's all i'm saying that's my only advice thank you i really want to say

thank you guys um so much for getting us back together here and so that we can continue on and chelsea don't worry i you know i'm i'm a big boy I can hold my own I can hold you down and you know protect you and myself no worries about the crazy ex and um come get it girl consider this is a daily news podcast and, the news is about a big question. How much can one guy change? They want change. What will change look like for energy? Drill, baby, drill.

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