First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ryan & Ella - Divorcees

Episode Date: December 3, 2024

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow UpWhat happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here… ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  ======Meet The Jubal Show Cast:====== Jubal Fresh - https://jubalshow.com/featured/jubal-fresh/  Nina - https://thejubalshow.com/featured/ninaontheair/ Victoria - https://jubalshow.com/featured/victoria-ramirez/  Brad Nolan - https://jubalshow.com/featured/brad-nolan/  Sharkey - https://jubalshow.com/featured/richard-sharkey/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast,

where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. is returning for another season. We've asked an entirely new set of guests our seven questions, including Jane Lynch, Delaney Rowe, and Cord Jefferson. Listen to mini questions on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Seven questions, limitless answers. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation.

Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First Date Follow-Up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Ryan is on the phone today for a First Date Follow follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Ella. So in a few minutes, we'll call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Ryan, how long has it been since you heard from Ella?

It's been, it's just been a few days. But, you know, it was such an instant connection. I'm really baffled. What was your last interaction like? Well, we, I mean, initially we were just, you know, texting over Bumble, the dating app. But we did go out. We went on a first date to a nice restaurant. And I don't think it could have gone any better, really.

Okay. Well, tell us about the date. Yeah. So we went to an Italian place. We were both pasta lovers, and we were just laughing, drinking. We bonded over the fact that we're both newly divorced and still new to the dating world. Everything's changed a lot. And she told me she wanted to start a family. And

I told her, I actually, I'm already a dad. And she took that, she was just like in, she was, she wanted to see pictures of my son and wanted to hear stories. It was an incredible conversation. After, you know, the check came and everything, and she didn't want it to, or we didn't want it to end, I guess. So we, we went to the bar to, um, you know, to have a little coffee and just keep chatting. And, uh, you know, we both had to get up the next morning and work. So we made plans to, to, uh, meet up again. I thought we could go on a bike ride. And she was into that idea and said, well, you know, I'd text her the next day. And I mean, I thought that second date was going to happen for sure.

So you guys basically made plans for a second date and it just never happened. Yeah. Yeah. I haven't. She didn't respond back ever. Did anything awkward at all happen on the date? Any reason you can think of that you're getting ghosted? I mean, like the one, there's one thing where I'm like, I guess I could have, this might

have been a dumb thing to say. We, when we switched from our, you know, our dinner table to the bar, the bartender came up to us and he asked if me and my wife, you know, wanted what we wanted to drink. And I, I didn't correct him. I, I said, Oh, you know, I thought it was kind of cute. I thought, uh, actually my wife and I were just going to have an espresso if that's okay. And she laughed too. And, you know, I, I, um, I thought, okay, sweet.

Like she gets my sense of humor and everything. And I went to the bathroom, I came back, but she was, if something happened, I don't know. She maybe had time to think about it or I offended her. You know, when I got back, she seemed kind of anxious to leave, a little antsy. And we just, you know, hugged goodbye, kissed her on the cheek. And I don't, I guess, i guess i put my foot in my mouth like there maybe if she laughed about it however i could see if you're somebody that's freshly divorced and not being a wife anymore and then even to be joke like even if it's just joking that's a title that you gave up and then to be like ha ha my wife maybe it just kind of

put her in her feels maybe had nothing to do with you at all it just kind of put her in her feels. Maybe it had nothing to do with you at all. It just kind of put her in her feels or something. I don't know. Yeah. That's tough. Have you reached out to her then since? Yeah. I mean, I, the next day I texted about, you know, the bike ride, I had found some different, you know, trails we could try out and see what would work for her. And, um, you know, I didn't hear anything back and I figured, you know, I don't know if she's busy or whatever. I just give it a little, little space. I texted, you know, again the next day. Um, and yeah, just nothing radio silence. Yeah. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay?

That'd be great, yeah. All right. We'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight.

I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days, fun and politics seems like Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that

thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just

trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. 2025 is bound to be a fascinating year. It's going to be filled with money challenges and opportunities. I'm Joel. Oh, and I am Matt. And we're the hosts of How To Money. We want to be with you every step of the way in your financial journey this year, offering the information and insights you need to thrive financially.

Yeah, whether you find yourself up to your eyeballs in student loan debt, or you've got a sky-high credit card balance because you went a little overboard with the holiday spending, or maybe you're looking to optimize your retirement accounts so you can retire early, well, How to Money will help you to change your relationship with money so you can stress less and grow your net worth. That's right. How to Money comes out three times a week, Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, for money advice without the judgment and jargon. Listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The more you listen to your kids, the closer you'll be. Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at SoundItOutTogether.org.

That's SoundItOutTogether.org. Brought to you by the Ad Council and Pivotal. Can you hear it? It's the whisper of two wolves inside you. One says, you're not enough. The other says, keep going. You can do this. They're always talking.

The one you listen to shapes your life. I'm Eric Zimmer, host of The One You Feed. On my podcast, we explore how to hear the voice that matters. The one that leads you to courage, wisdom, and love. It's not about perfection. It's about direction. Millions of listeners have fed their good wolf. Now it's your turn. Listen to The One You Feed on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast.

Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Right in the middle of the first date follow-up and if you're just joining us ryan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by ella so we're about to call her see if she tells why she's ghosting

him and maybe get him another date but before we do that ryan why don't you refresh our memory on your date with ella yeah um We went out to dinner, Italian restaurant. We had a great time. She loved the fact that I'm a dad and she's, she's divorced too. And, you know, but still wants to have a family.

We, we had coffee at the bar after dinner and I referred to it as my wife as a joke. And then I don't, the vibe changed. I was going to sacrifice. That's kind of psychopathic. It's tough when something like that happens, or you're on a date and someone calls them your girlfriend

because you don't want to be like, yeah, they are, but you also don't want to be like, whoa, no way. Don't even think of that. That's worse. Don't go far the other way. I would never. All right.

That would be weird. You ready for us to call her? Yeah, please. Okay, here we go. All right. Well, that would be way. You ready for us to call her? Yeah, please. OK, here we go. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Ella, please? This is her.

Ella, hi, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Ella. I'm Nina. I'm here, too. Hi. How are you?

I'm okay. How are you? Good. Do you ever listen to the show at all? Not really. Okay. Well, maybe do that from time to time. That'd be cool. Also, if you haven't, we do that from time to time. That'd be cool.

But also. No pressure. If you haven't, we do a segment on our show. It's called the first date follow up. That's wherever you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them. That person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So. Oh my gosh.

We got an email about you. You're kidding. No, I'm not. Do you know who would email us? I have an idea. You want to take a guess? Is it Ryan? Yes, it is.

Ryan emailed us. We talked to him. He told us about your date. He said he really liked you a lot, but he doesn't know why you're ghosting him. Would you mind telling us? I feel really awkward about this. I'm not going to lie. Okay. This is the same space, though.

I swear. Okay. I mean, I thought he was great. We had a great time. It was very sparky. I mean, I don't know how much he told you but so i'm recently divorced and um we were having a great night and i guess i'm honest like i got on instagram while he was in the bathroom and i saw a picture of my ex with his new girlfriend. Oh. And I guess I just got kind

of in my feels about it. And I feel like maybe my mood kind of wrecked the night. It kind of just made me realize like, Ooh, maybe I'm not as ready as I thought I was. I should have handled those very differently, but I don't know. I'm kind of new at this and thought, run away. Your instincts were to run. I mean, yeah, that's hard. That's a lot to process all at the same time. Yeah, and I feel bad.

He seems like a nice guy. I mean, we really did hit it off. So you're ghosting him because you saw a picture of your ex with somebody? Yeah, I'm ghosting because I think I'm like, oh God, am I actually ready to be jumping back out there if this silly picture threw me off so hard?

I don't know. I mean, whether you're ready or not, I think those types of pictures throw anybody off their game. Like, even if you were already moved on in another relationship, seeing it for the first time, I would imagine, is still kind of shocking no like jubile don't you feel that way no i never care okay i'm glad usually okay i'm like good they've moved on well i understand and i feel the same way but but what i'm saying is maybe that doesn't mean you're not ready it's just that you needed to rip the bandaid off. I mean,

yeah, maybe. I mean, the photo was taken by a friend of ours who, so like she's meeting our, our old friends. Like, I don't know.

It just threw me. Okay. It wasn't fair to Ryan. Well, you can say that to Ryan if you want to, because he's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, God. Hey, Ella.

Embarrassing, sure. Hey, Ella, I don't care. I mean, I totally get it that you were caught off guard, and I don't think it ruined the night at all. I'm relieved, frankly. I'm sorry. That was not the most mature way to handle that. I did not mean to make you worry or feel bad. I know you're kind of in the same position. Yeah, exactly. I mean, I, I totally, I understand where you're coming from and, you know, I mean, if we, if we were able to like hang out again, like you, I again, you'd be welcome to talk about this type of stuff.

We can totally talk it out. Really? Well, Ella, would you like to go out with Ryan again on another date? We'll pay for it. I mean, yeah, I'd love to. Amazing. Congratulations, Ryan. You got another date. Yay!

We can still do the bike ride and then we'll go to another restaurant. Swap pictures of your exes? Or not. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors.

And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective.

I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What if you asked two different people the same set of questions? or wherever you get your podcasts. Asked an entirely new set of guests our seven questions, including Jane Lynch, Delaney Rowe, and Cord Jefferson. Listen to mini questions on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Seven questions, limitless answers. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid.

Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network,

iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.